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  5. You’re also right. Ok so my bf/fiancé soon to be husband, but not yet is White Mexican and he told me he was poor before, but I think it wasn’t that hard for him. His dad family was rich like all came from good schools and have good jobs(Medical, law, architect, business etc, but they treated his mom like crap because she was poor from a ranch. Yes she was White Mexican and had more French and Spanish ancestry then his Dad, but like you said Classism. Eventually he told me he don’t hardly ever see his dad family side as they only talk to the dad when they need something and that’s fucking sad, but knowing how they treated his mom they would treat me a whole lot worst because I’m not rich or Mexican and my skin is brown, Anyways eventually his parents married and of course his mom got her phd in her career and they could send there kids to private schools which he attended since a young age and got into the top university to be in medical and his life is set he said in Mexico. He told me he got a better car then me, already own a house that is his and is not his parents that live in a gated community, as they own a few houses now etc but my point is I don’t actually think he actually had a harder life. He is fair skin and that’s his advantage,as if he was brown or his mom was brown or more indigenous I doubt it be that easy to marry up and have the husband help u become successful to moving up the class as it the truth. Mexico stay in there own class. Now for me or us it different we live in a different society and the young population is more open to interracial dating and other cultures regardless of I say class. I would count myself lucky to meet my White Mexican, as not because of his race or anything, but because I want people to know change is possible and people probably questioning why he with me? Actually another White Mexican and this time more Spain White in USA that I thought was just white my bf at the time told me he from Mexico 🇲🇽 and he ask him am I with you? As it was shocking I guess to him because he told me awhile back our relationship is very rare especially with a well off Mexican that came to USA to be with me that have a tourist visa to eventually to finish his medical career here. His mom at first was upset because she wanted him to date someone in his private school and not struggle like she did and threatened to disinherited off the will but changed and OMG his parents are 100% like family and help me way more then my own set of parents so I’m blessed for that as well that his family or his mom and dad is not racist or Classism anymore.
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  13. You’re also right. Ok so my bf/fiancé soon to be husband, but not yet is White Mexican and he told me he was poor before, but I think it wasn’t that hard for him. His dad family was rich like all came from good schools and have good jobs(Medical, law, architect, business etc, but they treated his mom like crap because she was poor from a ranch. Yes she was White Mexican and had more French and Spanish ancestry then his Dad, but like you said Classism. Eventually he told me he don’t hardly ever see his dad family side as they only talk to the dad when they need something and that’s fucking sad, but knowing how they treated his mom they would treat me a whole lot worst because I’m not rich or Mexican and my skin is brown, Anyways eventually his parents married and of course his mom got her phd in her career and they could send there kids to private schools which he attended since a young age and got into the top university to be in medical and his life is set he said in Mexico. He told me he got a better car then me, already own a house that is his and is not his parents that live in a gated community, as they own a few houses now etc but my point is I don’t actually think he actually had a harder life. He is fair skin and that’s his advantage,as if he was brown or his mom was brown or more indigenous I doubt it be that easy to marry up and have the husband help u become successful to moving up the class as it the truth. Mexico stay in there own class. Now for me or us it different we live in a different society and the young population is more open to interracial dating and other cultures regardless of I say class. I would count myself lucky to meet my White Mexican, as not because of his race or anything, but because I want people to know change is possible and people probably questioning why he with me? Actually another White Mexican and this time more Spain White in USA that I thought was just white my bf at the time told me he from Mexico 🇲🇽 and he ask him am I with you? As it was shocking even though most interracial happening in USA against whites and minorities so I guess to him since he from Mexico and not use to it because my bf he told me awhile back our relationship is very rare down in Mexico especially with a well off Mexican that came to USA to be with me that have a tourist visa to eventually try to finish his medical career here. The dude knew my bf was smart as I don’t know maybe by his skin tone. Also in His mom at first was upset because she wanted him to date someone in his private school and not struggle like she did and threatened to disinherited off the will, but changed her mind after she met me and saw my baby pictures and now want us to have mixed girls or kids that look more like her son she said but have some exotic features from me a bit of everything lol but yeah and OMG his parents are 100% like family and help me way more then my own set of parents so I’m blessed for that as well that his family or his mom and dad is not racist or Classism and opened up. Knowing they are real Mexicans and not Mexicans Americans.
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  15.  @trace3254  This is true.. Why i know this.. My husband parents gated community in Mexico.. Imagine being the only minority that is an American. That also have brown skin that is none Mexican inside the gates lol. Ignorance, curiosity etc.. I remember once we was walking at night this security guard car was driving in the back 100 feet just probably watching us walk.. My husband like.. i live here like all defensive and clueless, but in my mind I’m like it probably me lol 😂They arent use to seeing other skin colors besides light skin, especially someone thats is none-Mexican so it’s “How did this happen ?” “Do she belong here?” Yeah someone going to sneak in and get through a guarded private community with high walls that is brown skin lol. Ignorance i tell u. Oh yes the guards change every so often so it new ignorance’s and shockness. The only brown skin people inside during the day is the workers that leave at a certain time a day.. I’m use to it lol.. People stare out of curiosity, hate, intimidation etc. You have to get use to it and have a thick skin because people are cruel and hate anyone different.. It sucks because people say Mexico love tourist. Of course they do, but like u say if u stay in an area u don’t belong u become the “What the hell this brown girl is doing in this area?” Regardless if u are an American lol 😂 I think tourist don’t see it, especially black because everyone knows ok they are tourist, but u start noticing when u with someone that is Mexican and u no longer a tourist in their eyes. It more of “a wtf is this type of thing?” Or how did this happen?” 😂😂😂 You get use to it.. I like being the change in something better. Also we are the 1 in a million couple. My husband also is getting use to it because he seem clueless of racism/classism because he never had to experience it until he with me. He still don’t because i get the most looks lol and now he doing what i do.. pretend u don’t care or notice and keep having your conversation.
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  20. You’re also right. Ok so my bf/fiancé soon to be husband, but not yet. He is White Mexican and he told me he was poor before, but I think it wasn’t that hard for him. His dad family was rich like all came from good schools and have good jobs(Medical, law, architect, business etc, but they treated his mom like crap because she was poor from a ranch. Yes she was White Mexican and had more French and Spanish ancestry then his Dad, but like you said Classism. Eventually he told me he don’t hardly ever see his dad family side, as they only talk to the dad when they need something and that’s fucking sad, but knowing how they treated his mom they would treat me a whole lot worst. Why? Well I’m not rich or a Mexican and my skin is brown. Anyways, eventually his parents married and of course his mom got her PHD in her career. They could finally send there kids to private schools. Which he did attended since a young age and got into the top university. Which to be in medicine. Which his life is set he said in Mexico. He told me. He got a better car then me, already own a house that is his and his parents live in a gated community, as they own a few houses, but my point is. I don’t think he actually had a hard life. He is fair skin and that’s his advantage. If he was brown or if his mom was brown or more indigenous I doubt it would be that easy to marry up and have the husband help u become successful by moving up the class. As it’s the truth. Mexico stay in there own class(poor vs rich) Now for me. Or us. Its alot different. We live in a different society and the young population is more open to interracial dating and other cultures regardless of I say class. I would count myself lucky. For meeting my White Mexican, as not because of his race or anything, but because I want people to know change is possible. People are probably questioning “why is he with me?” Actually another White Mexican. This time more Spain looking White. That was in the USA that I thought was just white. My bf at the time told me he was from Mexico 🇲🇽 and he ask him. “Am I with you?” As it was shocking. I guess to him because he not use to it. He told me awhile back our relationship is very rare,especially with a well off Mexican that came to the USA to be with me. That also have a tourist visa to eventually finish his medical career here. His mom at first was upset because she wanted him to date someone in his private school and not struggle like she did and threatened to disinherited off the will, but changed and OMG his parents are 100% like family and help me way more then my own set of parents. So I’m blessed for that, as well that his family. Well his mom and dad is not racist. Like if they was our relationship would’ve probably never happened..
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  27.  @checolate9680 Well not my Mexican lol 😂 He White-Mexican and he met me in America and we got married and he loved me every sense. It nice because we are that 1 in a million and i can always tell my kids mommy is 1 in a million in daddy eyes lol like the lottery. Thats how i know I’m special and lucky 😂 Why he a rich Mexican. Well at least his parents is. Now his gated community My husband parents gated community in Mexico.. Imagine being the only minority that is an American. That also have brown skin that is none Mexican inside the gates lol. Ignorance, curiosity etc.. I remember once we was walking at night this security guard car was driving in the back 100 feet just probably watching us walk.. My husband like.. i live here like all defensive and clueless, but in my mind I’m like it probably me lol 😂They arent use to seeing other skin colors besides light skin, especially someone thats is none-Mexican so it’s “How did this happen ?” “Do she belong here?” Yeah someone going to sneak in and get through a guarded private community with high walls that is brown skin lol. Ignorance i tell u. Oh yes the guards change every so often so it new ignorance’s and shockness. The only brown skin people inside during the day is the workers that leave at a certain time a day.. I’m use to it lol.. People stare out of curiosity, hate, intimidation etc. You have to get use to it and have a thick skin because people are cruel and hate anyone different.. It sucks because people say Mexico love tourist. Of course they do, but like u say if u stay in an area u don’t belong u become the “What the hell this brown girl is doing in this area?” Regardless if u are an American lol 😂 I think tourist don’t see it, especially black because everyone knows ok they are tourist, but u start noticing when u with someone that is Mexican and u no longer a tourist in their eyes. It more of “a wtf is this type of thing?” Or how did this happen?” 😂😂😂 You get use to it.. I like being the change in something better. Also we are the 1 in a million couple. My husband also is getting use to it because he seem clueless of racism/classism because he never had to experience it until he with me and now he doing what i do.. pretend u don’t care or notice and keep having your conversation.
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  30. They are tourist… Why i know this.. My husband parents gated community in Mexico.. Imagine being the only minority that is an American. That also have brown skin that is none Mexican inside the gates lol. Ignorance, curiosity etc.. I remember once we was walking at night this security guard car was driving in the back 100 feet just probably watching us walk.. My husband like.. i live here like all defensive and clueless, but in my mind I’m like it probably me lol 😂They arent use to seeing other skin colors besides light skin, especially someone thats is none-Mexican so it’s “How did this happen ?” “Do she belong here?” Yeah someone going to sneak in and get through a guarded private community with high walls that is brown skin lol. Ignorance i tell u. Oh yes the guards change every so often so it new ignorance’s and shockness. The only brown skin people inside during the day is the workers that leave at a certain time a day.. I’m use to it lol.. People stare out of curiosity, hate, intimidation etc. You have to get use to it and have a thick skin because people are cruel and hate anyone different.. It sucks because people say Mexico love tourist. Of course they do, but like u say if u stay in an area u don’t belong u become the “What the hell this brown girl is doing in this area?” Regardless if u are an American lol 😂 I think tourist don’t see it, especially black because everyone knows ok they are tourist, but u start noticing when u with someone that is Mexican and u no longer a tourist in their eyes. It more of “a wtf is this type of thing?” Or how did this happen?” 😂😂😂 You get use to it.. I like being the change in something better. Also we are the 1 in a million couple. My husband also is getting use to it because he seem clueless of racism/classism because he never had to experience it until he with me and now he doing what i do.. pretend u don’t care or notice and keep having your conversation.
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  35.  @fergomez3817  You’re also right. Ok so my bf/fiancé soon to be husband, but not yet is White Mexican and he told me he was poor before, but I think it wasn’t that hard for him. His dad family was rich like all came from good schools and have good jobs(Medical, law, architect, business etc, but they treated his mom like crap because she was poor from a ranch. Yes she was White Mexican and had more French and Spanish ancestry then his Dad, but like you said Classism. Eventually he told me he don’t hardly ever see his dad family side as they only talk to the dad when they need something and that’s fucking sad, but knowing how they treated his mom they would treat me a whole lot worst because I’m not rich or Mexican and my skin is brown, Anyways eventually his parents married and of course his mom got her phd in her career and they could send there kids to private schools which he attended since a young age and got into the top university to be in medical and his life is set he said in Mexico. He told me he got a better car then me, already own a house that is his and is not his parents that live in a gated community, as they own a few houses now etc but my point is I don’t actually think he actually had a harder life. He is fair skin and that’s his advantage,as if he was brown or his mom was brown or more indigenous I doubt it be that easy to marry up and have the husband help u become successful to moving up the class as it the truth. Mexico stay in there own class. Now for me or us it different we live in a different society and the young population is more open to interracial dating and other cultures regardless of I say class. I would count myself lucky to meet my White Mexican, as not because of his race or anything, but because I want people to know change is possible and people probably questioning why he with me? Actually another White Mexican and this time more Spain White in USA that I thought was just white my bf at the time told me he from Mexico 🇲🇽 and he ask him am I with you? As it was shocking I guess to him because he told me awhile back our relationship is very rare especially with a well off Mexican that came to USA to be with me that have a tourist visa to eventually to finish his medical career here. His mom at first was upset because she wanted him to date someone in his private school and not struggle like she did and threatened to disinherited off the will but changed and OMG his parents are 100% like family and help me way more then my own set of parents so I’m blessed for that as well that his family or his mom and dad is not racist or Classism anymore
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  42. This is so true! Sadly I was silent when I witnessed my White Mexican that actually is from Mexico as he consider himself high class due to attending a lot of private school since a young age and living in a gated community and this wasn’t always his life his mom was poor and his dad he don’t talk or seen them because they was rich and looked down on his mom for being poor not because of how she looked. She is white Mexican and come from Spanish and French ancestors and base on her skin tone. Anyways one day he was saying most original Mexicans or short, ugly and they are the original Mexicans not mixed and at first I didn’t know he was talking to the entire group until I look at comments like yours and others people how people talk about indigo people. I then realized he was technically racist and I don’t know if he meant just the height and wanna asked why he think they are ugly? Is it there skin tone or how they look short because apparently he light skin and look like a mixed Mexican. Btw he did comment how I had a soft voice and didn’t sound like most blacks or I look lighter then most blacks even though I see myself brown. I really don’t understand, but at this point I know he don’t think he racist and it not his fault he really good with all cultures but because he just use to see different features or people that around him and when u see someone different and the media don’t do a good job don’t represent you it affects how people grow up to think that. I’m surprised he open to date other cultures because he tried to date Indians, Nigerian, Dubai, American etc so he not racist at least not to me.
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  45. Haha not anymore or are you talking about only in Mexico. A lot of whites and anyone now marry anyone from Hispanics, blacks or Asian even mixed. I mean look at the census it says every race mixing increased by a lot with mixed kids. Also people need to understand the eye of beauty is different for every person. I so happened to find alot of guys from white to Hispanic that hit up my in box. I think with women they don’t care because all kids will look mostly like there fathers and all women have low income compare to men lol the real people that need to worry is other men with color skin there options are limited if they don’t have a high income or a big dick what most girls go after. I say this because I got lucky to find another good guy that this time around I hit the jackpot and will be marrying him. Why am I lucky? Well he is White hispanic, his parents are supportive and help out alot and not even my own parents do this. How? ( paid for all my new tires when there income is in Mexico pesos and offered it, the mom is planning to sell one of there houses to help us get a house down in USA, told me there home is my home now in Mexico , they told me they have a smart son that they give me to marry to improve my life, my kids will be rich. This is what the mother said to me, private healthcare discounts, and free medication and goodies to bring me etc. They live in a gated community, there son went to all private schools, he have a tourist visa which is hard to obtain in USA, he got into the top medical university UAG, He already own a house, he have a better car then me and his income is in pesos so these are the perks of having a partner that is well off or his parents. He even told me it rare for us because he well off and girls can’t find a successful guy,but he love my qualities and I was unique as all the Mexicans girls he witnessed are fake and the same standard as he want something new and fresh regardless of race. I guess he don’t care because he light skin male, but also a true Mexican, he smart and is in medical school. Usually the most exotic looking babies are mixed with everything and not just one race so I guess he need some color to his mixed babies he be having in the future. His bloodline have Spanish, French etc and he now need his children to have a bit of everything to take all qualities from each race and make a exotic baby lol I think the problem is people are opening up because they are see all these beautiful mixed babies forming that have good features from all race mixed in. Anyways he does love me truly because I see it and know base on how he treat me and treat to cook for me and spoil me and we been going strong 💪 That’s the perks of online dating and being from USA you can dress to impress and then show your killer personality.
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