Comments by "Bo McGillacutty" (@Mrbfgray) on "My Life As A Loser" video.

  1. Starting with vigorous exercise out in the sun, a jog, run, swim, bicycle.... Drugs should be last resort.
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  2.  @CestTenderness  Good GRIEF that's a self defeating attitude. I LOVE life, it's not easy but that would be boring, it's just too short.
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  3.  @iexist7408  I'd think being a waitress would be facing and overcoming your anxiety, at least some of it. Plus opportunity to meet ppl, get dates if that's what you wanted. U seem plenty attractive enough. "Beautiful?" That's high bar for yourself but also not far from accurate. Attitude, presences, mentality, femininity, energy, curiosity....many factors crucial to real beauty, not just photogenic. Most quality men will take a sweet attentive nice looking girl over an entitled hottie any day.
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  4. Both should start by setting sights lower to gain experience and confidence. I paid high price for being terrified of the girls I most liked and who liked me... became outraged at myself, cured it by flipping and becoming promiscuous for a few yrs, worked like a charm and was fun for all involved. No need to be dishonest or lacking empathy along the way as many guys do.
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  5.  @Koroar  IDK your situation obviously, and my story was prior to online dating. Mind U not all the girls I indulged in were high quality or even attractive, but somehow the word got around that I was good at servicing them (or something) and they sort of snowballed, kept coming around. They all treated me well as I did them, a few even thanked me which is really sweet, made me feel good about it. Coming back for more is communication enough. :D Almost no one here wants advice, let alone from me, but...anyone who wants to escape solitude and get laid sometimes::::: Get the heck offline and out and about. I just now met a sexy single neighbor, also lives alone, we did some shopping at antique/thrift stores, traded numbers w tentative plans to get together. My odds for getting physical w her are good. Start by mixing it up with girls who you mainly like the personality of but that aren't attractive enough to be in demand, even fat chicks, hopefully grateful to have the attention. Be surprised how much quality FUN practice and education a wanting, less attractive girl can offer. The experience may set you free to advance from there. . Can lead to a relationship or just a pleasant FB situation, it's up to YOU. As soon as you are getting satisfied, no longer blatantly thirsty, others will become available.
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  6. Social media is mostly a waste.
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  7.  @sydnayallen6762  Because it works. Have 'they' tried it? Vitamin D effects everything including mental, mood, immune, skeletal...and most Americans are way low on it. Sunlight also crucial for mental state in itself, UV exposure not required. Since vigorous exercise is a requirement of a healthy life regardless, and it's certainly only going to help, do it. For many it seems to be the doorway to a total cure. I get it that if one is consumed by depression it's very difficult to get motivated to do that first step, whatever that step may be. It can become a habit--having a bad day? Workout, rev up the heart for 30 minutes and everything begins to get better. Consume the stress the way it was intended.
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  8.  @BelgradeArch  They help Big Pharma. Why is "everyone" medicated today? Wasn't that way a few decades ago, with rare exceptions we all did fine without that crap. I knew NO ONE on meds growing up, with one exception for asthma.
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  9.  @BelgradeArch  30 yrs ago virtually no one was on such drugs, today it seems the norm. WHY?
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  10.  @rompeorkos222  Not sure if that's sarcasm and I'm not claiming it's a panacea for everyone, but it's MY go to and works for most folks. Part of problem is half even youth are so sedentary it's difficult to even walk far. Start from where U are, just like investing your first $100 in the stock market say.
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  11.  @sydnayallen6762  Working out IS for everyone. Will it cure everything? NO but will HELP with everything.
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  12.  @johnfisher8401  Get them doped up and damaged enough on pharmaceuticals and they DO have all those problems.
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  13.  @johnfisher8401  After many yrs doped up and damaged by pharmaceuticals, they probably DO have all those conditions.
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  14.  @johnfisher8401  After many yrs doped up and damaged by pharmaceuticals, they probably DO have all those conditions.
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  15.  @johnfisher8401  After many yrs doped up and damaged by pharmaceuticals, they probably DO have all those conditions.
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