Comments by "Bo McGillacutty" (@Mrbfgray) on "" video.

  1. I found myself at 21, few years of college, gained some confidence by taking challenging classes, started own business which forced me to deal with all sorts of people and face my fears, everything from heights to financial risk, these things help immensely with my confidence in general, it must be earned. As well as becoming prosperous eventually. But I was still terrified of girls, especially those who showed intense interest in me . This may sound wrong to many but it worked wonders for ME. After having missed out on a couple fantastic opportunities with wonderful girls in college, simply out of FEAR....I was so pissed off at myself that I decided I knew exactly what to do--DO every girl who wanted me (I was a virgin up to then) and after my first few more came around, I guess word got out. I didn't carry on this way indefinitely, maybe a couple yr.s until I found a girl I fell in love with. It was the experience with the others that got me past the tragic, self destructive fear of what I wanted MOST. I deliberately murdered my shy side, it was the best thing I ever accomplished and I had fun doing it! :D Some cherished memories even with some ordinary girls. I can't simply talk to myself in the shower, I have to 'climb the mountain', PROVE by doing the calculus, physics, rebuild an engine, take on contracts that I don't fully see my way through in the beginning and finish them to the customers satisfaction, satisfy some women before I know I can.
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  2. Cannaman Obviously I know nothing about you but if you become someone YOU are proud to be then everything else will probably fall into place. I'm not say'n your going to attract the hottest girls out there necessarily, that's just a stupid expectation unless you happen to be one of the very few, but good options will likely present themselves. You have to earn authentic confidence IMO, it can't be contrived or fake and I don't think you can just 'talk yourself into it'....unless you are fine with dumb girls who don't know the difference.
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