Comments by "Bo McGillacutty" (@Mrbfgray) on "" video.

Zantana It's silly (even stupid) to stick rigidly to a list, that's one of my BIG red flags for her. Each 'date' stands on it's own merits, everyone is different. That said--if we have a great multi-hour sex session the first time that's an excellent start, if she doesn't at least accept moves in that direction by the 2nd I'm probably not coming around for the 3rd...she's probably not my type for several reasons. It will take time to sort out the rest of it, no hurry.
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@vessessa Yes but it's the type of limits that works for me. Exceptions are always possible but it's generally going no where otherwise, I know from experience and my preference, usually it happens on the first date or not at all. Her and I both know if we want it right away there's little point in playing by some externally imposed or random rules. There are occasions when the first date won't allow for that but we both indicate it's likely on the second, that's OK, but I'm not likely to invest more time than that, if either of us are hesitant than it wasn't meant to be, simply not enough conviction for me and/or she's too conventional or lacking in sexual motivation.
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