Comments by "R K." (@DarkAngel2512) on "Do White People Experience Racism? | Middle Ground" video.

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  19.  @tesiatalks  its funny you mention how you felt you didnt fit in and werent "black enough" by others standards and tried to fit in by changing yourself. I'm white and grew up with black people so naturally acted like those I hung out with and the media Inwas influenced by. Then a couple of my black friends made digs that I "thought I was black" because I "listened to black music and could do the dance steps". And calling me "wigga". Ironcially the dance step comment was a compliment but it gave me a complex to this day. 30 years later. When I was 17 I wanted to be black as I thought my life would be easier and I would be allowed to be myself without judgement. That I could speak, style and dance how I wanted without my race being used as a disqualifier. So to this day I censor myself like you did to be accepted. I had to "act more white" to be accepted by my black friends. But that's not me being me. In my head I speak way more Jamaican patois. I did dance class as a child so dancing is my everything and my self-expression. I'm a female who loves to play with my hair and can canerow my own hair and would love to wear wigs like black girls wear but feel I cant as that's a "black thing" ironcially though that the wigs are "white-looking". Its mad because it comes from a place of admiration or simply who I am yet its demonized and people cant just be themselves because racist individuals expect you to fit in your box as if your race should define you. Race is nothing. Culture is everything. I am what I grew with and was influenced by. I feel suffocated not being able to just be who I am because narrow minded, uneducated people think you act according to your race. Which is pretty racist.
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