Comments by "Conservative observer" (@divestedkonservativekarame4269) on "" video.

Yes it needs to be because when it's not it shows that race is so important to people even if they say that race doesn't matter it really does. And those people are obviously prejudice we need to get rid of prejudice people on the basis of race because race doesn't matter.
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@vincentalakija5515 congrats and I wish you the best. Don't ever let a bitter people like this get you down
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@chidebrown4420 it's just making you insecure that he is a better person than you. It always makes you guys unsecure that black men and women are better quality of people dependent on who they are and not skin tone but it says more about the type of person you are that you put so much importance on your whiteness because you don't feel you are that good of a quality of of a person people who need to be valued on their race aren't that valuable as people because you'd feel comfortable with the person you are regardless of your skin tone
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Why would you think that black men wouldn't be attracted to white women though? I think what the real situation is they are. But there's been so much shame shaming for black men and black women on their attraction to white people because of our history. And it becomes masked by different things. But the end bottom line is the whole issue of WS
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I honestly think black men aren't generally attracted to white women because most of the women that black men see in America are white women because the majority of women are white. So it only makes sense for them to be attracted to white women and it only makes sense for black women to be attracted to White men. And from what I've seen in life it always seems like both sides have an attraction towards white people they just stifle it as much as they can because this is what they were conditioned to do because of the history of segregation and the issues that other people have had other than black people on this. No I'm not saying that this is something we need to hold against other races. This is just a situation that is having its own growing pains. And moving into a place where people can just be honest with themselves.
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You should look at some people who really literally do stay with their own personal race and you can see then constantly complaining about black men being angry at black men and they still stuck with them like stupid to me because it's like I think it's exactly what you're saying there where they're like they're staying with what looks like them and then they're angry I think that's exactly what it is and it's like so weird and stupid cuz it's like why would you stay with something that is not working for you whatever your reason for being angry at these people you shouldn't be trying to get with someone in a relationship that you freaking hate. So I really agree with this part.
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He's talking about those hood ones. One could say the same thing about black men. But he's not dating black men. I mean literally the first thing I saw from this guy was specifically him talking about how he didn't like Lil Nas so yeah.
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That's weird you do understand that a black American doesn't have the same culture as a Nigerian right? We have no clue about their culture matter of fact it seems like you are ignorant on black American people. So why don't you go educate yourself and then come back. Because right now you just seem very ignorant.
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@chidebrown4420 no Nigerians actually have a light brownish complexion sometimes the light skin complexion. You're just pissed off that they do. But that's just how they are. If you also look at many Central Africans they also have that as well. It's weird people always act like East Africans can have it I guess cuz they have narrower features? But if you look at Nigerians actually they actually do have narrower features than say ghanaians many at the time. No not all. You can have the Igbo people. Some of them can have pretty broad features. But if you look the further you get East the more they look more similar to East africans. Which isn't that odd I mean if you think of it when you think of Northern Europe and southern Europe The More Southern you get the more they look more like Mediterranean people. No one starts saying that people in the Mid-Atlantic area are wearing fake tans just because they're darker than the people up north. You get my point here.?
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@chidebrown4420 and have you ever done a DNA test and it say that your light skin? And your heritage is nigerian? No so I think it's actually you who doesn't understand anything. Next
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@chidebrown4420 let's just be real the reason you are commenting is because of you so that's why I'm talking about you
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@chidebrown4420 okay maybe I shouldn't assume maybe you just don't understand what it's like to be in his position.
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@chidebrown4420 no you don't get that the majority of men and women in the country are white and therefore most of our options are white men and white women. Black people shouldn't be forced to only consider 10 percent of the population simply because you're mad they are better than you. Like I said you don't have to lead with race unless that's all you got and I'm sorry if that's it
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@chidebrown4420 no you don't understand what it's like to be the minority race in your culture.
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@chidebrown4420 black and white Americans have the same culture just different skin tones
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@chidebrown4420 so limiting just because you view blacknss negatively doesn't change black people should do what's best for our personal love lives
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@chidebrown4420 also Brandon Tatum isn't even D's and you see his child looks like very white passing I am willing to guess his baby doesn't look that difference from how he looked as a baby. This let's you know that his image isn't going to be the same as many black people anyway and beings similar hue myself we're usually taught our image doesn't even matter and to create children that look like many Ds black people. When you have this disposition who looks like you doesn't really matter because everyone overlooks it anyway so if doesn't matter with black people why would it with white people? You get me? That's just another aspect of it
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@chidebrown4420 no it's usually liberals who talk about color all the time that's why they're the party of the kkk
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@chidebrown4420 and euginicks
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@chidebrown4420 anyhow as I said before for black Americans the majority of our choices is white men and white women. So it only makes sense to prefer what is mostly in your environment and in your culture.
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@chidebrown4420 yet East Indians have a specific culture. While black Americans and white Americans have the same culture so obviously you got color struck and stuck in the idea of race rather than actually what people look for in relationships it's not a color. They look for people that are similar to them and are compatible to them so the amount of people that they have as an option for black men and black women are white women and white men. That's just what it is.
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Did you realize Trump's second wife had African ancestry? Yeah I know you guys like to hide that. But she did. She wasn't pure white. Specifically I believe it's her grandmother who was of Lumbee descent and that is a black white and native American ancestry. She's literally related to Locklear so obviously he doesn't really care who has African ancestry since he made a child with someone who has African ancestry so much for you guys calling him racist
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Yeah that this is definitely me. Here. I definitely pretty much only am attracted to White men. Okay there are some Hispanic men I'm attracted to. I'm never attracted to black men. But I think that's got to do with environment. Like I said in the past post that I think black people are largely attracted to white people. But they try to stifle it and suppress it. And then it comes out very negatively and so many different ways because that's what they really want because that's mostly what they see because most people that we see in America are going to be white or hispanic. Because black people are only 1/8 of the population so that's why to me I kind of just feel like you know that's really why a black man and black women choose white people because they are actually honest with themselves. I do think that there's some black people who have some obsession with their own rays. Sometimes but most of the time I think you know I think the internal ratio interest is mostly overplayed. And boosted up by other races because they don't want to see black people interracially dating on a large level. Male or female.
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Why do you think race defines a person so much more than culture does? Don't you understand that's where racism was born?
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@AuntieCi that just means that you a basically see people for what their skin tone looks like more than the people that they actually are as a human being. That means that you put so much importance in race just because you think a person that looks a certain way is going to be a certain way and that's where racism was born
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Why is it not realistic to stop looking at race? Are you saying that it's hard for you to not judge people based on the color of their skin? Do you know what that makes you really sound like? Like I think that should be easy for anyone who isn't prejudiced to people based off of their skin tone.
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Okay that's enough conspiracy thinking
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I think that honestly if you look at the numbers shouldn't black men choose White women? I don't mean that in a mean way either I mean well aren't most of your choices white women.? The only reason you would choose black women is if you purposely exclude white women. Which is stupid why would you limit your options? I say this for black women as well why would we limit our options to only black people when it's only 10% of the population. Most of the population is white black people should largely be with white people. The problem is is racism and that's why black people have been discouraged. And I think that we need to get out of that you know a lot of liberals try to be race conscious. Instead of embracing the culture that we both come from. Black and white. So I just think you know we should not be so focused on race. But likelihood I think for black people is most of the people that are going to match with us and be compatible with us are white people because most of America is white.
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But many of the women like Candace are with white men. So I would think they are pretty similar. The point he made would apply to black men and black women. But obviously he can't talk about how it is to find a potential partner as a black woman because he's not a black woman but he is using his perspective in the life he lives and many black women live the same lifestyle as he does. And they would come across the same issue.
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@chidebrown4420 yeah he never said that. You said that. I guess you're angry at black woman. But I don't think anyone cares. Point of what I was saying was he specifically was talking about how many people like him married black women and many married white women. But he also was saying that it's a cultural thing and I relate to this very well but it is a cultural thing and I do understand he does come from a subculture that I don't really think has to do with the race but I think it has to do with a class but moving from that even if that's his past he understands that in the current culture that he embraces that he has more commonality with more white people than black people and if you think of it in this country the majority is white so it only makes sense to me. Like I have said in the past I think that it's a perfectly normal for black men and black women to prefer white women and white men that's just my perspective and the reason why is because white people are the majority in our society and in our culture.
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@chidebrown4420 that's not self-hate. That's being real with oneself. The thing is what is self-hate it's the fact that black people only relegate themselves to 10% of the population because white people have impressed the segregation onto them and then they internalize that hate into self-hate. So if anyone it's the black people who are limiting their options because they don't think they're worthy enough of actually looking at all of their options.
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@chidebrown4420 like I said the main people it bothers with interracial relationships are the people who are not black. Because they think of the black racing the negative view. And this is the main reason why I would never understand as a black person why I would ever not support that black person choosing whatever person that is right for them no matter the race because so many times people have been trying to bar black men and black women from finding the right one because they think they're not good enough for most of the people in this country because they're another race other than black. And I obviously as a black person do not think that the black race is less than. I think we are equal and I am very proud and happy to be black myself and I think black people are great people and he is a very good black man and you know he is worthy of the right woman for him.
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Exactly that's what I only say culturally if you look at Black Americans and white Americans are very similar. And so there's reason for it and I know people cry about it all day long it's the past we have to accept who we are as we are today. But that's a major thing I've noticed too is to me I think white and black people have a lot in common in those regards it would be different with people from other countries say their European Asian African even Hispanic like not Hispanic in America I mean Hispanic like in Latin america. It's going to be different because it's a different cultural experience between them white people are different though because white Americans and black Americans come from the same culture. So the commonality is just right there. All we're focused on what the only thing that keeps you apart black and white people is the fact that we have the segregation thing in our past and we've basically tried to move past that in the past like 50 years or so. But it takes time. And I think the liberals really make it prominent and try to make it more exaggerated. To make sure that there's that difference. But like I said it's always going to be easier for us and you can see statistically this is true black and white people generally interracially day Mary and so forth because of the commonality between the two you can see that many white people are more prone to black people as opposed to other races and many black people are prone to white people outside of other races because of the cultural similarity. We're just used to each other I think. But anyway yeah I totally agree with the first part of what you're saying. That is not really about race it's about culture. And that's what I always try to explain. I love that you are saying this right now because it's another person with obviously a very huge platform who is actually expressing similar thoughts that I just hardly ever see. And so many people acting crazy out here. I really appreciate when someone is finally normal. And I'll try and cash app you in a few days. Because I really really love this video.
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I honestly think black people in general. And the reason why is because of the connotation of the black race two other races. And those old beliefs.
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But oh yeah that other part on single mothers and all that stuff for me for my personal experience the only ones I've ever experienced I've not grown up in low class black neighborhoods mostly if anything that was low class it was specifically Hispanic and white. Some places were mostly white but some places were mostly hispanic. Either way you know you are right about the lower class not having fathers in the house and things of that nature it does seem like that's more prominent. You could look in social service office or whatever a major thing you'll notice as there's a lot of females. And depending on the state in the city you'll understand what race. It depends sometimes I've seen mostly Hispanic mostly white probably mostly black in some places I wouldn't know I've only worked in two offices so. But you're right I get what you're saying there if you are looking for a certain thing and a lot of people don't fit that it is understandable. But to me I think that in general if you want anything most of the things that you want are going to be white that's just how I see it. I mean I think most people that we see in America are white. So that means most of our choices for whatever we want in our personal relationships is going to be white. It's not white people's fault for procreating and creating so many white people in America it's not our fault for being minorities. It's just how it is. I don't think anyone should be angry at anyone for this dynamic. It is what it is and it's not like it's something that is actually disenfranchising black people. We are living in a country where we have equal rights at this time you know and I do agree that I think that when you're talking about relationships and things of that nature I think that people should focus on you know love and compatibility. More than anything I always think compatibility and you know things of that nature I think you're saying basically the same thing gets me on that. But yeah I do definitely think that.
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