Comments by "Conservative observer" (@divestedkonservativekarame4269) on "" video.

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  13.  @penmaster003  no I'm attracted to feminine people while being of the male sex the person in the video is male I'm female that's heterosexuality not all straight women are feminine. Therefore if we are masculine. If you understand yin and yang. What is compatible to me is yin. Heterosexuality is based on reproduction. What is compatible for me reproductively. Is a male person. I cannot impregnate a female. I can only get pregnant. So therefore I am attracted to people who can impregnate others. Including myself. If you understand the science behind heterosexuality you'll see that's how heterosexuality works it's based on being attracted to those who are reproductively viable for you. So yes I'm heterosexual. In fact if you actually think of it I'm very heterosexual. Because I'm even attracted to those who are opposite of me in the spiritual sense. Femininity. I guess you don't realize that not all straight women are feminine. Some of us are masculine too. Just like there's some straight men who are feminine as well. And also trans women are usually actually attracted to women not men. Those who are actually monosexual are usually what they think are lesbians. So no I'm not attracted to females. I'm only attracted to males. I am a female. My opposite sex is a male. So that includes trans women. Especially since they are of the feminine expression. Which is what I prefer I prefer feminine people. Regardless of also how they dress feminine men naturally behave very differently than masculine men do. And this is even one feminine men try to act masculine. They still think and behave and act very differently than a masculine man does. And usually I can get along with them. As long as they are not going to hard against their feminine energy. But yeah. Not every straight person is the traditional kind where you're thinking that they're supposed to be feminine. Not every straight woman is feminine no. Many of us are masculine. You do do not every lesbian is masculine right many lesbians are very feminine. And they're attracted to masculine lesbians. It's the same thing with straight women. Many of us are masculine straight women. And this goes down back to my biology. And if you actually pay attention to studies that have been done on heterosexual women and lesbian women. You can see there is a common thread here. It was always assume that are lesbians were the ones who had prominent ring fingers. But this was not actually true. It was specifically masculine lesbians. That specifically have the prominent ring finger. But also feminine lesbians have prominent index fingers. And you can find this with straight woman as well masculine straight women have prominent ring fingers. So yes we do exist. I mean like if you didn't have to find this out by biology. Now you did. Just like with men with prominent ring fingers. Man was prominent ring fingers tend to be more likely to be dominant and the insertive partner. Even when they're gay. That's just how it is. Having a prominent ring finger for mail people. Does not make them specifically strait. It just makes them beer more towards typical masculine traits. People with prominent ring fingers tend to have the same behavior. Regardless of sexuality. So yeah. There are three people who are masculine and female. And maybe attracted to the male sex that veers more feminine. I find female so disgusting. Sorry not sorry. Because to me either week looking. And it's ugly. And also their genitals are ugly. And yes I know I have female genitalia. But I don't have to see them from that angle. Looking at females and their angle. Like what is up with the double sets of things down there. That's just weird. And then is nasty. Is just yucky. Is a trans woman is intact. Well obviously male genitalia is beautiful. And I'm not the type that only likes that part of trans women. And I have always liked a person who is male and all of their male parts. I prefer to be the answer to partner anyway. So I mean like that's not a problem to me. As I said when you have a prominent ring finger in the way you go about sex maybe different than someone who has a prominent index. Trans women for me to have the bone structure I like. When I say that I mean like their shoulders. The hipbones. The rib cage and what's so important to me. Is the leg. They have very long legs. In proportion to their torsos. Male people generally have very long legs in comparison to their tOrsosAs well as longer fingers. I like how male fingers look. The and when I say that it's not just the length. It's the structures thing. Females don't usually have the same structure of fingers as males to do. And when they kind of have stunted fingers. They're usually not that long. It makes reproductive sense if you think of viability. It's looking for testosterone to affect the body structure. Bone structure so forth. And is that makes sense to me. Why it contributes to my preference in the opposite sex. The officer Tatum actually pointed out that bone structure was specifically a telltale sign with trans women itself. Because it is. For heterosexuals that's what we pay attention to. Many men are attracted to women on their waist to hip many other characteristics that define feminine bone structure.
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  24.  @remiadore7921  but yeah it's not a hater anger. That someone is trying to find trans women attractive. It is just nature. If you have male bone structure. And you find male bone structure to be attractive. Then that person may find a person with male bone structure as attractive. The outfit someone is wearing it's not what determines whether someone is attracted to someone if you are mono sexual the reason why is because a man in a dress is just as capable of impregnating me as a man in pants. And if you were really dealing with heterosexuality and what it's motivated by. It's actually motivated by reproduction. You can look this up in many studies it's based off of reproduction there for a biological man who is biological email. Will not find someone attractive who is biologically a male. Because of reproduction. They do not have the reproductive organs that attract them. This honestly applies to actual straight men. Actual straight men are not the ones complaining about trans women. Because they just naturally are not attracted to them. That's the same as you won't find me complaining about transmission. Because I'm just not attracted to them. No matter how many people whine about it. It's not going to make me attracted to them all of a sudden. I have nothing to work on. I have no attraction to work on with transmen and straight men don't have any attraction to work on with trans women so they can't make themselves attracted to trans women cuz they don't have anything to work with on their sexual attraction to trans women because they are not attracted to them. That's how I view it. There's a lot of trans women attracted people. Who are men. Who are struggling with it. And complaining about it because that's what they're attracted to. And they think it's something so special to be straight and I feel like that label is going to be taken from them if they give in to their attractions to trans women. To me I don't see being straight as something so special. In fact when I was younger I saw it as a bad thing. As a straight woman. Nowadays I don't see it as a prize and I don't see it as a good thing or a bad thing it is just a thing it's just my nature. And it is just who I am. I can't help it I can't change it. If I could change it I probably would though. Because it's so much easier being a masculine lesbian then being a masculine straight woman. But that's a whole different story.my whole point is it's got to do with some things in people's heads that's making them have fits over this. When it's not that extreme and it's not that big of an issue. If it's not your issue. If you don't have any demons in your closet if you're not a repressed individual as far as your sexuality. You don't have anything to worry about.
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  26.  @penmaster003  for me I personally like the hand pattern. Not Just a hand pattern but the length and the way the hands are. On Male people. It's very telling to their physical structure. Usually. Well with females. Their fingers are very narrow very small and very delicate in a week. I don't like weak features. Then there's a concept of the vertical concept of males. And if you think of it and it descends of the old days. There's probably a biological reason when it comes to you know survival purpose is why I prefer certain structures. But anyway I will tend to prefer very long legs. When I say longlegs I don't mean tall. I mean specifically in comparison to the body. The legs are longer than the torso. By a lot. Trans women generally from my experience have very long legs compared to their torso in a way where it's impossible for you to see them in the same lense with their proportion to be at all similar to females. Because of the leg proportion. Even if they're passing. The proportions of their vertical lengths are not quite the same as females. No course people who aren't attracted to these characteristics and male people do not notice this. Because you guys don't have a preference for this. I do. I personally like very long legs. In combination with a broad shoulder line and a narrow waist. And a longer and more broad but also just pretty much stronger hand grip/structure. It's just because I find the male bone structure to be attractive. And this goes down to the face as well. For example nikkietutorials before she came out. I would look at her face. And I don't find her attractive by the way. But this is just someone I would see. And I would look at her chin. And I don't know her chin was not female. When I saw her I was like well maybe she has androgen insensitivity syndrome. That's why I saw male bone structure is there. Either way I knew looking at her face that her bones and her face were specifically male. This isn't to be mean to her. It's just something I saw automatically the first time I saw her. Females don't have chins like that. males have chins like that. Whether fat or skinny. You can see the chin usually. Now you can't always see the chin when they're fat. But many of the time you can see the chin. Maybe it's a specific ethnicity now that I think of it. But not really sure about that. No I think it's specifically a height thing. Honestly because like I remember there was just one person who is pretty much the same ethnicity is her. And I would look at them and I wouldn't really pay attention to the fact that they were male. Mostly because they were overweight when I say she was overweight I mean on an extreme level. So yes when I cannot determine that someone is male. And they are overweight. I do not find them attractive. But if I do recognize that their male. Then I do sometimes find them attractive. It's not just the chin either it's also other characteristics in the face like you can see the jawline the brownridge it can also be the hairline. Can be the cheekbones it can be a lot of different characteristics in the face signify a masculine face. A male face. It all comes down to the bone structures. Because the bone structures are very telling if someone is male or female. It's still telling that even if you have androgen insensitivity syndrome. Your mouth and your teeth structure are larger than any female. And those are people who are at birth undetectable a female. They still have the bone structure of a male because they are genetically male. Oh by the way I'm not attracted to those people either. I was just pointing out that transgender people will never have bone structure as like females. Because even people who are intersex don't even have bone structure like females. Just pointing that out. So it's impossible for someone who is male to actually look like a female in the sense of the female sex. Female sex individuals look at a particular way. It's hard to miss it in my opinion. This is why transmen to me are never appealing. Because they have so many female traits. Because they are female people. It's hard to not notice that their female. Actually harder to not miss. Then a trans woman who's fat. To meet trans women who are fat. Can pass sometimes on me. If they're fat enough. And even then. It really depends. On the individual. Especially if they're taller. It's easier to recognize it in their bone structure. Because their bones are bigger still and even with that you're still going to see their structure. Like in the case of Nicki..
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  34. You noticed it too. You probably have the same concept that I have. But in reverse. LOL when I look at transmen. I noticed the same thing. Where you see the softness in the jaw. And of course it turns me off. It probably would turn you on cuz you're a man. But like you do you start to see your own features in them. And when you're attracted to someone. You're attracted to what he has your opposite features. Not Josie or opposite features. But also this isn't really an opposite energy. I don't know what my energy is I do know that I don't have the most feminine energy. I assume I have a female energy because I am a female. So I would assume I'm still someone was female energy.if you think of it masculine women generally don't have the same energy as men. We just don't. We may be masculine but we don't have really the male energy. Well anyway my whole point is is that when you see trans women in real life and to me when you see them online. Even when they look pretty you can still feel the male energy coming off of them. Which is super sexy. I mean it's super hot. For me as a heterosexual woman I'm attracted to that. But my whole point is that of course if you're feeling kind of energy like that off of someone and your email. And you're attracted to your opposite sex. Of course that's not going to work for you. It's like the magnets aren't working. Is the same thing for me was transmitting the magnets and never work. It doesn't matter if they do whatever they do to look like anyting. It's more so in energy that's the first thing for me. It's just not the thing that give off and males in general have this energy. More than females do. On some level. But I would say of course the ones that are attractive have it very strongly because hey there attractive you know there's that whole concept to them. But they always have it more than females do. So I can only imagine for a straight man. Of course trans women would for them structurally be the same as them. Physically they're the same. Also it's not just that is the energy that they give off is going to be the same as theirs so it's not going to track them. It's not going to be a magnetic force that brings them in.
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  43.  @Scifi4life  I would never be into a transman. Because for me I'm attracted to mail people. I'm literally attracted to the body. A lot of women are emotional. I'm not emotional. I've always said they're two holes probably for me. One is really hard to get into. That is the physical hole for me. And then the emotional hole. Is pretty much impossible. I've never been emotionally attracted to anyone. I suppose it's there. And I'm probably you know emotionally attracted to men. Specifically ones that are feminine. Reason I think this. Is because when it comes to interactions with men. The feminine ones. The ones who are specifically not even thinking they're men for that matter. I do very well with. On that basis. It's almost like the personalities complement each other. I can do this with females too. The only thing is I'm just not attracted to the body. So that's the key to it basically as well I have to be attracted to the body of course. And so that's why men. I'm attracted to physically. Male people I'm talking about. Not to disrespect anyone's identity. Do trans men are trying to attract People based off of their masculinity. I'm not attracted to masculinity I'm actually attracted to just the body. I like feminine people. And I like male body individuals. So I have like that combination feminine while also being of the male sex. It makes sense because if you pay attention heterosexuality is based on reproduction. For me reproductively. The viable partner is someone who has a male. Someone who produces sperm. But as far as personality and emotionally. I I click a lot better with feminine people. I don't do well with masculine people. They expect a feminine submissive person. I'm not feminine and I'm not submissive. I'm masculine and dominant. Obviously this is not compatible. It's not even compatible for just doing the thing. Because usually with masculine dominant men. When they have sex they behaved very dominant. When I have sex I am the dominant partner. I am the one who is more you know doing stuff. So I can't even get down to the basis of you know just doing it. So even if I was like finding a masculine man attractive I still wouldn't have sex with him because even on the basis of sex your personality is in it too. And we're just not compatible even on that level
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  57.  @Scifi4life  has a straight woman. I can tell you there is nothing masculine about Chaz Bono. He doesn't look like a man. I'm supposed to be attracted to a Kathy Bates? I'm sorry no. Not attracted to his genitals not attracted to his body. And definitely not attracted to his face. He has no influence of testosterone long-term and when I say long-term I mean since his conception. You have to remember you can say that he had just tossed him in his system for a while. But it's not as long as men have testosterone in their system. Or male people for that matter. They have testosterone since they are conceived. Basically they're exposed to it in the womb. Shapes how their bones are structured. How their teeth are structured how their draw is structure and how the brow ridges structured how the shoulders are structured these are very important when it comes to reproduction that is why I say that heterosexuals ality is built on reproduction. Not your little sexual fantasy. Of somebody being feminine and submissive to you. That is just a niche of your sexuality. But it is not heterosexual. People who are heterosexual or either attracted to people who can impregnate them or people who they can impregnate. It is not that we just run around looking for this. Consciously or subconsciously that's what's going on. These are why these signifying factors of the sex characteristics. Down to the bone. Is very important for heterosexuals. Because without it. They're not viable. Like Chaz Bono. He can act as masculine as he wants. But he can never impregnate me. Therefore I'm not attracted to him by nature. A man would be attracted to him. Because he ovulates. He has feminine female bones and structure. It goes even down to his face and that's why he looks like Kathy Bates. He doesn't have any masculine bone structure. He may be acting masculine he made sound masculine. But if that was the case then wouldn't it be gay to be with someone with for example PCOS? Wouldn't it be gay to be attracted to women who sound like men? No it is not. He is just not a very pretty female. But he is not this thing sucks Ismail people. Therefore for mail people who are heterosexual. They can still be attracted to him because he still has the female parts. A male can still impregnate him or could when he was younger
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  68.  @nbanks9489  this is why transmen don't attract me. Because generally they are completely the opposite of everything I want. Their masculine like me. So they mirror me a lot. I understand them they understand me. Is pretty much a common thing going on here. Even down to wanting male genitalia. Why would I want something that is literally pretty much the same as me. The only thing is different they take hormones I don't. I've accepted how things are. They haven't. That's the only difference. As far as me biologically. I was saying more masculine than them. So they don't definitely don't have the physical masculinity that I want because they're even more feminine. Wider hips. More squeaky voice. Weaker body. Annoying features. Let's just be honest. And building muscle doesn't change this. I don't even like muscles. Like I said I like men who are like 130 lb 140 lbs. They don't have any muscle. Basically. They have the male strengthen maleshave. And more muscle to fat ratio than a woman. But they're still not very bulky obviously they're very skinny. So for me transmen don't do it for me. Physically there more feminine than me sometimes even emotionally and mentally they can be more feminine to me but at the same time trying to be more masculine or more on the masculine side so they're not even you know I deal in the mental sense. For me in the mental sense femininity is ideal. It's just the physical side of that the sexual side. I prefer male people. As I said before heterosexuality is based on your reproductive system. It's based on whose reproductively viable for you. And it kind of makes sense that it would also include those who are viable for you emotionally. So if I am more of a masculine person. Wouldn't I prefer someone who is more feminine. Reproductively this would be more ideal for me. Because in the family role of society. It would benefit me in a partnership. That's why yin and yang is a part of it.
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  72.  @belladolce85  think of it this way there are men who are gay who are tops they call it. They are the insertive partner. Do you think these people are somehow straight because they don't actually need to be penetrated by a man? Because that's not what that is. It's not what make someone attracted to someone is their genitals it's actually the person. You don't seem to understand this. Because whatever is going on with you or you can just be attracted to anything. Which is kind of dangerous and scary but as a whole different issue. Why I say that's dangerous it's because I'm saying like on a basis of if you can be attracted to anything. What else are you attracted to that you're not telling us about. That's how I've always felt about people like that. You kind of act like you're just attracted to anything. Pickles like for example Amber Rose. Amber Rose specifically said she's not attracted to animals. And that was basically it she didn't include the fact that hey are you attracted to children that's really sick I mean that would be more concerning than if she's attracted to a sage animals or not. I mean that is pretty bad. But I mean for the safety of our children that's more important. And she didn't even include the fact that she's not attracted to children because she most likely is.that's why I'm saying people who don't have a distinction and who they're attracted to usually our kind of dangerous people. Because they could literally hurt people who are not supposed to be people people find attractive at all. I don't blame this on homosexuals like some homophobes will blame like attraction to the same sex to mean that you are pedophilic battle believe that. I mean to me in my opinion it's like well if you are to say that gay men are more likely to her children or whatever wouldn't women be more likely to hurt children to? We're attracted to the same thing. So to me that in itself kind of tells you that homosexuals are automatically you know problematic. But people who don't have a distinction and who they're attracted to. Yes they are definitely dangerous. If you look at sex offenders. They're more likely to identify as something outside of straight or gay.they're more likely to identify in the realm of what you're saying you are. Basically because they don't have a distinction and who they're attracted to. And it me having this conversation with you. It's almost like you don't even pay attention to the differentiations and people's sexual expressions or lack thereof. That to me means that you don't have a distinction. Which implies you can be attracted to a whole lot of things. That are off-limits. Like that are crimes.
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  73.  @belladolce85  but anyway going back to what I was saying. It's not specifically the way the genitalia looks on a male or female. That makes heterosexuals are homosexuals attracted to whatever sex or attracted too. But they're actually attracted to the person. Like we can't see each other's genitalia when we're all closed up. But we can still feel the energy and see the person before us and detect what sets they are. And confirm whether they're of the sex we prefer or not. It is detection is what makes a heterosexual or homosexual attracted to a specific sex. And in the case of heterosexuals. I feel like it like I said it has to do with reproduction that's tied into heterosexuality. Since that's tied into it. It precludes you from being attracted to people of your saying sex someone can look like an attractive man but there is more to just looking like an attractive man. That's what I'm trying to explain to you. There is the component of magnetically attracted to that person basically. Drawn into that person. And that happens with your opposite sex. If you're heterosexual. I honestly thinkIf this is not how your sexuality words you should be how you are naturally. You should follow your instincts. Now I don't think you should follow your instincts if you are one of those people who do not have any distinction. Because you might go with people who are vulnerable and not able to make decisions because their children or something. You know of course not in those cases. But I'm saying everyone who is. Attracted to adults. I'm not telling you how to live your life. I'm just saying how it works for me and it works for many heterosexual people
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  80.  @nbanks9489  mine's sexual attraction doesn't change easily. It's kind of concrete basically. Let me explain to you. Way worse than anyone being trans or feminine or anyting. When a person specifically is on heroin. And he's a handsome good-looking man. And he hasn't had his testosterone depleted. He is definitely attracted to me. Even though he's addicted to heroin. Even if I know it. That's why I said in the past. I easily been attracted to many different crackheads. And drug addicts. I even wants was watching forensic files. And there is his hot guy. Who specifically did some terrible things to children his own kids. And I still thought he was hot and attractive. This doesn't mean I would have sex with him by the way. It just means that I still thought he was attractive. I thought he needed to probably be put to sleep too. But I still thought he was attractive.so for me I don't really change. It's kind of like it's stuck. I am either attracted to someone or not. It's not really going to change to put something they did. So obviously makeup isn't going to change whether I'm attracted to someone or not. If obviously someone could be so maniacal and crazy towards their own kids. And I still would think they're attractive. Someone could be hooked on crack. And I still would find them attractive. You get what's going on here. My physical attraction to someone is still there. I can choose not to be with them. But on the basis of if I'm attracted to them or not it's not really going to change. If I'm hooked I'm hooked. A man transitioning to live as a woman. Isn't going to unhook me. I'm still attracted to her. I was attracted to her before she transition. And most likely will be after. Unless they get like really fat. Get old etc..... As long as they look healthy and their mail. I'm going to be attracted to them. If they're an attractive male person to me. I guess I'm aware enough that it's me sexual attraction is either there or not. And it doesn't change or fade because someone did something. That I don't like. They did something I don't like means I'm not going to be with them. And the scenarios are depicted. I don't think that was really an option. Or anyting I was considering. What's trans women. It's something that I would consider though. Because it's not like a crime or anyting. It's just a different expression. My thing is usually they don't like me. Because they don't like my sexuality. They want you to identify with the sexuality that you don't identify with. That you're not a part of. To me I had a sexual sex involves people who potentially could have sex and cause pregnancy. Homosexual sex never results in a pregnancy. This is not a dig at homosexuality it's simply a fact
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  84.  @max.8941  I frankly think that when you guys get obsessed like this. The only one who is LGBT is you. Because why are you fixated on trans women? As a man it shouldn't matter to you. You should already have the same mentality as I have towards transmen. I don't fight over oh how I shouldn't be attracted to a transman. It just doesn't occur. Literally I don't even understand why would be attracted to a transman I am a masculine woman. Why the heck would I ever want a Transman? I mean we have more in common on a mental level than we do on a romantic level. We're pretty much the same thing. I don't fight with people over why I'm not attracted to trans men. If anything I'll explain why I'm not. Like for example I want it they turn around I see an hourglass. I see more of a feminine shape than I even have. And I'm like wow how the heck do you expect me to find someone attractive that has more of a female shape than I do? Reproductively this doesn't make any sense. I am a female therefore I am a female who has the ability to get pregnant. hetero sexual female. Hetero sexual females have the desire to be with people who can impregnate them. Well a transman cannot do that. So by nature I'm just not attracted to transmen I'm not trying to fight anything. You seem like you're trying to fight something. That is a bisexual trying to fight bisexuality. I don't fight bisexuality. Because I'm not bisexual. I was never bisexual I never have had any desire to be bisexual.as a teen I remember thinking that it was unlucky that I was straight. Because I am a masculine woman. Masculine straight women are usually really ridiculed. Because they are expected to be feminine women. People try and bend & break to try to get a straight masculine woman to be a feminine woman. When it's like that's just not my nature. So there's that whole problem. It would be way easier to be a lesbian. Because lesbians can be masculine and nobody cares. But when you're straight. People are all up in your business about being feminine. Like that had anything to do with being straight. But I've never had to fight being bisexual. What you're talkin about is fighting being bisexual. Not actual nature. Straight being straight is nature. Not putting a label on yourself and sticking to it. That's just a choice that you make as a bisexual.
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  90.  @max.8941  and one more thing. I'm tired of straight or bisexual or whatever if you are sexuality individual. Then let's just say Amen. You guys have an obsession over the transsexuals. When if you actually look up the statistics on it. You'll find that trans women are specifically more attracted statistically to females than males. So you having this weird obsession I think it goes back to that heteronormative idea. But when we talked about trans women. Trans women generally aren't attracted to men only. If they are mono sexual though. The majority of trans women are specifically attracted to women. Only. But the majority are bisexual Of those who are bisexual. The majority of them still have a preference towards women. So to me to stress over this to me is internal. You have a hard time being able to tell the difference between biological women and trans women it distresses you because you find yourself often more attracted to trans women. I've seen this with some men where they get really mad because they're more attracted to a trans woman than a biological woman. I've heard that plenty of times I've had friends say that they specifically have had guys say they're more attracted to trans women than they were to biological women. I don't see anything wrong with it. I understand why men are gay. To me and my opinion if you ask me I have always thought it'd make more sense to be gay then not to be gay. But I come from a perspective of someone who likes men. Even as a female I can still understand that I don't find women attractive. So why would I think men should find one attractive if I don't find women attractive to me it doesn't make any sense. How can you ask someone to do something that you can't do yourself? So I never thought like if a man was gay that's something that's wrong with him. It made more sense to me. I never understood how men like going down on a woman for example. That just seems very odd. I don't understand what goes through someone's head that wants to do such a thing with that in mind it's crazy. Because of my sexual life. Generally that's what I have done. Which is honestly hypocritical how do you ask someone to do something that you can do yourself. But most of the time I haven't had to ask anyone to do that in the first place they wanted to do it so that was how it was going to go.but my point is is that I'm not going to judge anyone poorly for being attracted to men or trans women or I find trans women attractive I think they're beautiful. I honestly do. They have all the prettiness but still that male energy. That attracts me. It's a perfect world. In my opinion. But of course you can't really say all that because they don't like the fact their male and also problematic. How do you talk honestly with someone you have to role Play 24/7 hours with? It does seem a bit tedious and almost like you know something you wouldn't want to put up with for long-term. Especially with what may be making them trans in the first place. Maybe a host of mental issues. But on the physicality basis of it. I don't blame men for being attracted to trans women. I don't blame them for being attracted to men. Like to me it makes sense because I'm attracted to men Never made sense to me why someone would be attracted to a woman. I'm not attracted to women. To me women are to me kind of like children. It to me for my perspective. But worse almost.the reason why they have such weird things down there. If we weren't paying attention to woman's genitalia. The weakness of females is annoying to me and on top of it I think of it this way children are innocent and they're innocent. You know what I mean there's something positive about that being innocent you know women are not innocent. So they're not even that. They're inept adults that are overly emotional and annoying. On top of it there rounder and they're like broken down. And expecting you to be broken down too. You to be on there level or have their same mentality. Which is another whole can of worms that are opened on another level that's annoying. As a woman myself. I find it annoying. Like feminine men don't really expect you to do the same all the time because they understand that they are feminine. And they understand how it is to be assumed to be masculine and then to be feminine. So they don't really put their femininity on other women all the timewhen they realize you're a masculine woman they understand that you're basically in the same shoes as they are. So there's an understanding. Feminine women don't have that understanding. Because society tells them that this is how they're supposed to be. They assume all women are the same way. And then this is where the problem comes for other women who are not that way. Anyway my whole point in this was I don't think anything is wrong with anyone being gay or attracted to trans women. But I'm just saying that it's not wrong for straight women to be attracted to transwomen either. And you have no right to be labeling people as other sexualities. Simply because you are uncomfortable with the fact that you are a man who's attracted to trans women and uncomfortable that straight women can also find the same type of person attractive. Because your problem ends up being what does that make you. Well you shouldn't define yourself off of how I define my sexuality.
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  97.  @max.8941  also you can agree that its gay to be with trans women whether your man or woman. Because that implies you don't really understand how sex works. If it's gay to be with a trans woman as a man than it would be straight to be with a trans woman as a woman. You can't have it both ways. You're more so I think distressed that some people are attracted to femininity. You have to understand not every straight woman is feminine. Some of us are masculine. If someone has a masculine straight woman why would they be attracted to a masculine man? Does that make any logical sense to you? I don't need anything from a masculine man. Because I have all the Traits he has. This is why actually I'm attracted to softer more feminine men. People who identify as men but are softer and more feminine. Just the same as feminine straight women are attracted to masculine straight men. So you make no logical sense. And you know that. You're just upset. That you're gay. And you're upset that you are attracted to trans women. That's why your obsessed with men and trans women. Because trans women are clearly not obsessed with you. Because they don't even prefer you. They prefer women over men largely statistically. You can look it up. The sexuality of trans women has always veered much closer to women than men. That's why there are more trans women that identify as lesbian then straight. And all of the bisexual ones they still have more of a tendency to prefer women. It is just what it is sweetie. Go to therapy about your whole issue with your sexuality. Because I don't really feel it's my issue. It's not this at forums issue. And it's definitely not trans woman's issue. When most of them don't even want you.
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  112.  @penmaster003  I already proved that obviously for straight women it is straight. Kris Jenner is not a lesbian nor is she bisexual. You have just further and proven over and over again that you're gay. You thought that liking breast meant that you were straight. You remind me of this guy who had a fixation with big boobs. But he liked men giving him oral.... Quite clearly a gay. Statistically. Men have been actually shown when heterosexual to actually prefer the waist to hip ratio. Not pertaining to the breast size. Because there are plenty of women who don't have breast. Annoying I want to say. For females it is quite the same in it is actually statistically proven that we have the same connection when it comes to the shoulder-to-hip ratio. Which trans women have. This is why for me I'm attracted to trans women. Because they still had the same structures is males have. Like proportions for example legs to torso. Also shoulder two ways. These have to do with compatibility and viability when reproducing. Obviously. Men's physique when he is well influence to testosterone or any person for that matter who is mail. Will have these dimensions. Regardless of if they identify as a male or a female. Reproductively they are viable. And that's how heterosexuality works. It doesn't work on whether you are mentally feeling like a woman or not. I know you're offended. And angry because you are trans. And want people to be attracted to you based on being transgender. But I can't help why I'm attracted to someone.
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  114.  @penmaster003  it's ignorant to say no one attracted to trans women are straight. Because you're not really understanding that with sex. You're never a Middlesex. You don't change your sex. You are the sexiest bar. Either your male or female or you can be both. But trans women are not both sexes their sex is now. This is why long ago they never identified people who were both as to having gender dysphoria. So you can want people not to be gay or straight. When they're attracted to trans women or transgender people. But it doesn't change the fact of what they are. Their biological sex is their biological sex who they can reproduce with is who they can reproduce with. And no matter how much you wish that wasn't the case that is the case. And so because of that. Anyone with a transgender person with the same reproductive system. Would be considered gay.anyone with a transgender person who has reproductive organs that are opposite to that transgender person and can produce a pregnancy with that transgender person would not be homosexual and heterosexual. It is a good consensus that that is the case from what I've heard from other straight people. You a boob obsessed gay man can't understand heterosexuality because you aren't heterosexual honestly I would say this. I can't understand bisexuals either. I don't understand how can you be attracted to both types of people that just seems different to me. I can understand a gay man more because at least they are model sexual and they're attracted to men. And I'm attracted to men so we understand each other on that level. So there's nothing wrong with you that you can understand that it's just that you're speaking on us an issue that you'll never understand. Just like I speaking on bisexuals would be speaking on an issue I just don't understand.
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  139.  @max.8941  it all goes back to the fact that you can't tell trans women from actual real women. You can't do that right. It's because you're not actually attracted to real woman. And to me it for my perspective as a real woman. I would never want a man who can't tell trans women from real woman. Because to me you're not a real straight man. You're a bisexual man who hasn't accepted his sexuality and I don't want anyone who isn't the same sexuality as me. Like I wouldn't mind a man who was attracted to specifically transmen or people who were born female who may have a non-binary Identity or so forth I don't really mind that. Because for me I'm attracted to people who are male or a non-binary identity themselves. See I can accept what I give out. But I can't accept what I don't give out. One thing I don't do is I'm not attracted to trans men. And I've never had that situation where do I find out someone's a transman and I was attracted to them. This is never happened to me. So for those reasons I could never accept a man who was attracted to trans womenbefore he knows that the person is trans or whatever. To me you're still attracted to a trans woman. And you can't even tell trans women apart from real women. You're out here literally calling trans women in the comments real women and real women you're trying to call LGBT or trans. That's how you do. Because that's how you are. And I never thought that anything was wrong with people like you. I just think that you should know what you are and follow what you are go for what you are. Don't go after people that you are obviously not into you're not into real women. Or biological women or whatever term you want to call it. So then don't pretend with people that you are. Cuz this is what it results in.
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  152.  @jc7111  Like I am that way with females I am very much more submissive. With men I am very dominant. The reason why is because I don't have any sexual energy for females. So because I don't have any sexual energy towards females. I don't have any dominance toward them basically. Like I am that way with females I am very much more submissive. With men I am very dominant. The reason why is because I don't have any sexual energy for females. So because I don't have any sexual energy towards females. I don't have any dominance toward them so I can just basically be a matt and they could just run right over me several times. And I'll hardly feel it. But men. I do have a sexual energy. And that means that Im going to have a bit more of a dominant and on edge. Now it can be more with feminine bottom men can get away with a lot more. Than other men. The reason why that is is because I feel lacking. To pleasing them. My nature and my desire is to please men who are feminine and bottoms in the sense that men please bottoms that are very feminine. That's how my sexuality naturally came about. So they can get away with a lot more. I'm thinking of different job situation where there were gay feminine bottom men. And they could run over me a lot better more then other men. When I say that I just need criticism. By the way. But I haven't urgency to please in other ways. Because I can't please in that special way. With those type of men so my complacency occurs more often. You have to understand with other men. This is regardless of who they are. I don't feel a lacking with masculine men. I only feel like I got to defend my own. With them. So it's a very different deal with them. I don't have that sense of like many women are drawn into masculine men I am not drawn into masculine men. I'm like I got to defend my fortress basically kind of type I feel competitive with masculine men. And I feel that way because one. I know physically I am less strong. But I am not mentally. And therefore that's why I like to break them down. They're a challenge to me. Because we're on the same mental level. And I can basically take them down. As much as they can try to take me down. We're on equal footing. They're a challenge. Also on my physical lacking. I always make up for it by staying strapped. To me personally know man. Is stronger than bullets. Therefore it no man is really strong now is he? So he can never have physical Authority over me. You can't pretend men are stronger than women. When they can die just as fast as bullets like any woman can. But on attraction. It makes sense. Because I never would naturally be attracted to masculine men. I was always naturally attracted to feminine men. And when I say this I don't even mean feminine men. I mean feminine boys. Because when I first started off at being attracted to people I was a girl. I was a little twelve-year-old girl. And I prefer the feminine boys. Masculinity was weird to me. And of course I still felt that a sense of rejection to masculine men. And their authority over me. Especially when I was a teen and a tween
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  154.  @jc7111  Because my dad is dead. And I have never and will never try to find a replacement. Because my father is my father and I am very respectful of his place as my father. So yes I've been rejecting male authority since I was two years old. And I was welcomed and encouraged to do so by my mother because she never married in the first place. So anyone trying to take dominance over me that was a man she was against anyway since she was the only one in authority. Because men can be abusive. So she would encourage that. Its just when I was a tween and a teen and even got even more extreme. Because I never got the sexual energy towards men that are masculine. Masculinity is homie. But it is not attractive. It is in my nature. I don't even notice that it's masculine in me. But in other people it's unattractive. It goes down to that yin and yang thing. I love you in. I don't like Yang. If people who had Yang energy to shut the hell up. And just open their legs it would be a lot better. So then the whole thing anything for me I always prefer taking the stronger/protector/independent role. Men never asked protective over me that would be very odd and salting and I would prove them a bit wrong there. I just don't give off that energy with men. At all. In the sense of a relationship. This is why with masculine men they usually found it very quickly unless they're just looking at shut up and hook up. They need to move along. The think it was masculine men I don't think they can really do that. Because even when they have sex their dominant. I don't like to be dominated and sex. You kind of figured that out didn't you. I prefer being a top. No I mean like I don't mind traditional sex. But even then I still like to use the guy as a toy. I think masculine dominant men usually don't like that. Even the way I talk to men who I am sexually attracted to. It would be a turn-off to a masculine dominant man. Sometimes men don't like women who take charge. And feel like the woman controls the situation even in the sexual sense. So like for me it's just not really compatible with people like that. I like prefer people with more of a versatile switching side to them. At least. There's a reason why feminine submissive men. Will sometimes have a preference towards me. Because I'm not the type that is submissive and it's not like it's an act. People will sometimes who are masculine will think is this an act? Is this a brat? And to me it's like no it's not about any of that I don't even know what you're talkin about. This is just life for me.
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  155.  @jc7111  also when I was a child. There are many things for me. When we talked about father-child relationships for me I never saw the father-daughter a relationship as ideal. And this is I think that why for me it affects me very differently than typical female who is feminine when they don't have fathers they usually act a certain way. They usually look for father figures and so am I old situation you can see correlates with one situation in this basically shows everything. So when I was see my cousins who were female with their father. Who he wasn't in their life that often. Because they were from two houses instead of one because their mother didn't get married. But he was a lie. But I would see how they interact with each other he would be affectionate to them right. You would think seeing that type of affection for a father to a daughter you would think that would be something that maybe another female may want. But for me personally I felt nothing. If anything I felt eewww.but where's my male cousins. Their interaction with their father. Which I saw very often. Their father son relationship. And it to me that was way more ideal. Now it might have to do with the type of child I was too. When I was a child. I related more to my male relatives. And my male peer like when I went to school I hung around mostly the male population. And I would get beat up for it too. Because I was a girl. But not specifically did not get along with the females. Because sometimes I would try and play with some. And I would end up making them cry. And it would be a whole mess. Because I played very differently than female children. And I'm talking about as young as four or five. So this is why my relation to the male sex and the female sex is always been the same. I relate way more to the male sex. My mother does this too. It's just the way it is. The way I was explained woman who it was kind of like you're stuck that way that's life. Let's try and find the positivities and being a woman. Because we don't really like being women. That's how my mother explained womanhood to me. And I've always had that mentality like oh well it is just a matter of what it is. It's not like I could grow penis one day. I mean if I could I would. But I mean like they don't have that out there. In this world. It is what it is. You have to accept it eventually. That's the thing. Some people are able to understand that they are not feminine. But you still have a female body. Therefore you just have to come up with the acceptance of your female body. Now it's easier to do that when you are a skinnier person. Which is what I was taught was a skinny supremacy. Information Kinney supremacy was always a good thing. Because I was skinny. And so you learn to love what he had because everybody likes that anyway.this may be why I relate my body very differently than other females do. Some people are like they see it in a whole different way than I see if you're like I see it as like oh what what are the benefits to having this type of body. I'll make money off of it I'll do this or do that. Just like how men make money off of their bodies for example. Something I do. And I don't mean like anything to do with illegal activity I didn't like modeling and all that stuff. I've always thought where you use what you have. You don't go looking for something you don't have. That's just stupid. This is why do me I would talk to transgender people very often. Because when I was 12 I understood I was like oh I am like the boys. I just have a female body. And when I learn more about those people. I was like oh we're very similar. But the only thing different was when I was 14 I learned what you know you can't really actually do the change. So then I was like what what is with the plane around pretending with yourself that you're the other sex. If you're not? When I talk socially two people usually I talk as a guy. When I say that I mean like online and stuff. So forth. Because when you interact with people as a man. And you have more of a masculine personality. They're more okay or comfortable with the way you communicate. It's just easier. But in the sense of trying to change your dang body parts that's just I mean it did not going to work. And you're still going to go to the bathroom and you got to sit when you pee. Like come on now. But yeah I am very masculine. And there's a biological reason for that. My ring finger is much longer than my index. In fact my racial is point 88 and 9. My dominant hand is .88. And my right hand is .9. Yes my dominant hand is my left hand which is also a more common occurrence among people who are masculine brained. This ratio is actually lower than most men. Most men have a ratio of.92 to .94. With that all said I don't really pay attention to the difference in clothing. For myself or others. I don't even pay attention to when someone is cross-dressing. Like somebody was saying there are several crossdressers in that Sam Smith video music video. I didn't even notice anyone was cross-dressing. Timmy atcherson is a person weather is in a wig or in a dress or in pants. There it's either a male or female or someone who's both. So I mean like that's when I'm going to see you. I don't really pay attention to it they have makeup on or not. This could also have to do with I'm a millennial. Now I'm not a strong millennial I'm closer or what they really call the millennials. That's what I really am. Is a zillenial. Which starts from 92 to 97. I'm in my 20s. Late twenties most people in my age range came up upon a time when our male peer We're literally wearing makeup full on makeup long hair you get it. And nobody was saying that those were females by the way. We were really thinking they were mail some of us was thinking that they were attractive. I know I was. So that's probably why I don't pay attention to when people cross dresser or not. Because someone could wear longer hair and makeup. And that's not really cross-dressing. Unless you're wearing a flowing dress. And if I'm not really paying attention to the fact that you're wearing a dress or down. Because they're men who wear gowns and other tribes and other places. This is why I don't pay attention to why or if someone is cross-dressing or not.. Which is why for me. When you talk about cross-dressing and transgender and all that stuff. To me like those things to me I didn't never put any importance on that. And that's why I can go feminine I can go masculine I don't really care. To me they don't really even have an important in life. Other than socialisation. The expectation of a man being masculine it's really hard on feminine men who don't socialize like masculine men and it's very hard on masculine women who do not socialize like feminine woman. And the thing is about all of this. Out of everything feminine women know that masculine women are not like them. They ostracize us. They do not include us in their female prides. They don't socialize with us. Because they understand they're femne and we're masculine. Ask the most they may find some sexual attraction because they like masculine people. Which for me personally I'm just like well that's too bad. Because I do not like females. I think females are ugly.
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  165.  @megalopagus777  no but when it comes to partnership. Some people can become submissive overtime. Some people can't. Did I already share the story? I didn't. That was actually over on Reddit. But basically there was a time when I wanted to pretend to a guy I was attracted to that I was missive. I literally lied and told the guy that I was very submissive. Because he was giving all the message that he was very dominant guy. Like some of the stuff he was saying was like super dominant. I mean I'm not super I mean submissive. But I tried to lie to this guy. To basically match him. Let me see some people can choose to be submissive or choose to be dominant. Other people cannot. Like for me it is just a part of nature. When it comes to intimate relations just that I'm dominant. And there's nothing that I can do about it. Literally so when the time came. Of course it didn't work out. And I did not even end up having sex. I never had sex with that guy. Because I went about it all wrong. I lied to him. And then he found out I was lying.for me when I see dominance is not something I like. I mean simple subtle stuff like I don't like a guy picking me up. I don't like him doing anything to me that I feel is he's more the one who's active. I have to be active I have to use him. Is more than mentality. This is just how it is. Even on the sexual sense I cannot in any way have any capacity to be with a man who is dominant in that regard. Now masculine. Is more so the interaction the emotional reaction. Like when it comes to emotionally. Like it regarding that individual. I would say that person was feminine. But they just were more dominant. When it came to sexual stuff. But they were definitely. I always thought like it wouldn't be a surprise if they were one of these people. But last I heard I think he was supposed to be a he that was like maybe six months ago maybe eight months ago I don't know. But yeah at some point in life I wouldn't be surprised if he was like the trans women. And I wouldn't have anything against it. I like feminine people. So that would just be his choice at that point. But my point in this post. Is specifically that I cannot be submissive. Like I don't know how to pretend to be a submissive person. I don't know how to be a submissive person when I'm talking on the phone and I'm trying to get paid to be submissive. I don't know how to be submissive if I'm in a bed with a guy that I'm attracted to who's a dominant guy. I don't know how to be submissive. Like in anywhere card that's just me. And like I said before. Even like women would know I'm the dominant female. When it comes to those kind of things. Like with women I'm submissive. But that's just simply because there is no sexual energy with women. But my sexual energy in itself is dominant. So like I said some people can be submissive in some people have that switch to them where they can be dominant or they can be submissive. And that's why some people need like super masculine or hyper-masculine people because those are the people they'll be submissive for. But many types of men they will not be because I guess the energy or however that works for you guys you need someone who's super super dominant I don't know. For me though when it comes to dominance. My Norm is me being dominant me being in control me being in the driver seat. Me leading basically. Like I said the way I grew up with with a female head of household. And my mother actually grew up with pretty much a female head of household to. In her own way. Like she did not look to her father for authority it was her mother. That's just the type of household we come from. And I think I'm major reason this might be is our heritage. We are tuaregs and Tuareg people originally in their own tribe are led by females. Not males. And they have a matriarch society. If you think of that beer the type of females that we are. Mirror our ancestors. So it may be some kind of genetic trait that passes down I don't know.
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  169.  @megalopagus777  Sol cantina some big rain. I kind of just don't care. I don't get emotional about those things. It's just like whatever. At the same time I don't get into physical fights with men either. Because I don't have the physical strength to do so. So for me I don't really do any of that. Also one other thing. Look on here. Specifically just interacting with me. Look at how many people thought I was a guy. That's what I mean. Interacting with mail people. Many of the time they feel my only certain people feel certain way only certain people act a certain way. And they don't realize people act more appropriately to how they are exposed to testosterone or not for that matter. So a female who is exposed to testosterone will have a prominent ring finger. So the behavior and the socialisation that we most likely will have. Is more so in line with other men who specifically have a prominent ring finger and have exposure to testosterone. It's got nothing to do with having a whole or a pole and has to do with whether you're exposed testosterone him or not. Now some people do not understand reality. Because they don't want to live in reality. They'd rather live in another world. And that's how you have transgenders. They don't like interacting and socializing with people very similarly to the majority of the opposite sex. Because society treats some poorly for tonight grease society does treat people poorly when they don't act the way they think they should act. Why not change society why change yourself to please society? It just doesn't make any sense that's the whole point of passing you know.
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  171.  @megalopagus777  no not at all. Not my kind of thing. Because I don't like females. When I say I don't like females. It's not just the genitalia like you just said. With female appendages. Is particularly the whole body. Understand that mail people have bigger bones. I'm major problem and issue and angst I have with females is that they are too small to week and groan. It makes no sense in my head. How are you this grown. But a weak ass mother truckerIt just doesn't make much sense to me. Added to how female faces look. The faces are weak as hell. Just saw throne is running through the system. Quite clearly this is why men can wake up any day with short hair be completely bald. And look handsome as fck because they have enough testosterone that their faces are strong enough to be attractive on its own. Well women have to do all this stuff. Just to be manageable to go outside. Women bodies are weird as hell. Looks like a damn snake who ate too much. So I don't like female traits at all. I don't like female sex traits. They bother the hell out of me. I'm a big fan of broad shoulders. And narrow hips. Women shelters are the most disgusting things to look at in my opinion. Because their shoulders are humped like weirdos. And sunken in. Like what the buck is wrong with you. That's why I don't like females. And this is why for me I actually am going to do a video on this. Did you see Kendra gees video. Where this lesbian woman was trying to talk it's Kendra into why she would actually be a lesbian. And can't seem like she didn't want to be homophobic. For me it's like this you don't have to be homophobic. To tell people why you don't like women. Usually by the end of the whole conversation for me. Anytime I've ever had a conversation with a lesbian or bisexual on this. They end up feeling gross. Because they can tell how disgusted I am with females. I do not like females. And any regard any shape. Or any away. We talked about femininity. To me femininity isn't womanhood. Femininity is femininity. Is a behavior. Some women behave them and some women behave masculine. That's their choice. Or their nature whatever. I don't really care. I can think of Jamie. I can think Willow I can think of Andrea. I can think of Ashley. I can think of Jimmy. I can think of Jake. I can think of octive. These are all different types of people. I name to transsexual another transsexual who seemed like they were living as a transsexual for a couple years. An agender person I think that person was a gender. And lesbian or bisexual at the time she was not sure if she was lesbian or bisexual. Not really sure what's going on with her. I think she ended up with a girl. Well I don't know what what what who she's with today. I haven't looked on Facebook nor do I really care. A name to gay guy. I named the guy hooked up with and dated for a while. I named another guy who was kind of bisexual so I mean they're plenty of people who have attractive feminine energy feminine behavior feminine personality and you get along with them just perfectly fine peaches and cream. That is something that occurs at times. And I don't really care. To me it's more the physical attraction that's more the interest to me. Femininity in itself is not a man and it's not a woman. It is just a personality. So to me I don't think defines womanhood. And every shape own every form. It's always that masculinity is my home in my nature. And I don't think that's going to change me bleeding every month. If I have children they will come out of my vagina. Most likely hopefully if it's a good delivery. If not somebody could have cut him out of my stomach. But not it's definitely not going to come from a penis I don't have originating from my balls draining. That I don't have. So clearly no matter how masculine I act I'm never going to be a man. And as long as I live I'm going to bleed every month. So that to me defines me as a woman. In reality that's how I will ever reproduce if I do reproduce. Is ovulation fertilization of.my eggs pregnancy and hopefully a successful vaginal delivery. So that is just simply reality. And the purpose of my sex is specifically that. Not the purpose of acting feminine or anything of that nature. Feminine is just a behavior. Some people got that personality some people don't I don't. And I'm happy not being feminine.
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  174. Do you think people with androgen insensitivity syndrome are men? I don't like to say that there that. I tend to say that they're just people. Who rather say that they don't know? I don't feel testicles define whether you're a male or female. I feel like chromosomes do. No it's not because of those people. It's an uncomfortable thing to me. I don't want to tell someone who was told that they were females at birth. And then got a switch at 16 and now they have to cope with what's going on with them. So I don't like to tell them that I think there are male. I kind of just want them to like basically maybe they will find that out on their own? Especially you know how open everybody is these days. I kind of feel like this is a perfect environment for people like that to do the switch. Because I feel like they would benefit from switching. I heard that they can actually reproduce and father children possibly if they're given testosterone. And not forced to live as females. So I think they're being much more productive in the male role. It's just that a lot of people get confused and uncomfortable with their condition. but the major reason why I don't think testicles define whether you're a male or female. Is because of x x male syndrome. Some people call these people mail people. They're not mail. To me because they don't have the chromosomes. That are that's xy. And I would have been less staunch on this. Until I actually saw someone with XX male syndrome. When I saw someone with that condition. It literally look like my roommate Danielle. And then I had others confirming. That I lived with at the time saying isn't that Danielle? Like literally these people look like actual females. They just have male genitalia. And they're genetically female. For those reasons that's why I don't think testicles to find your sex I feel like your chromosomes define your sex. Because if you think of it with fetal development. You start out with your chromosomes. You don't start out with testicles. So technically male fetuses are basically XY first and foremost. So to me a person who was a male is a person with only XY chromosomes. If you're a mosaic of XX and XY then you're just both.I don't care what that person didn't reproduce with or whatever else. Because I know plenty of people will say somebody got pregnant so they must be female. I don't think that. I think if you were genetically both sexes. Genetically both sexes. And then I think that if you're genetically one sex thing you're genetically one sex. I don't care what else is happening. You have a condition in my opinion. If you look at the original definition of how doctors used to define this. That used to use the term pseudohermaphroditism. Now I know a lot of people don't like that term. But if you understand that. The people who were chromosomally male or female. Were called pseudohermaphrodite. SoTo me I don't think testicles make you a male. I feel like the y chromosome makes someone a male if they only have one x chromosome. I don't think also that xxy Ismail. Now the reason I don't think that. It's because you got a whole bunch of testosterone in them to make them a male. What why should you have to put to get someone to make them an? A man is a man naturally. Not with testosterone. Pumped in him. On a biological standing I'm saying. I'm not trying to invalidate transsexuals. I'm not trying to be transphobic in this comment. What I'm trying to say is that specifically I don't feel people with xxy chromosomes actually develop into looking like a male person without testosterone. So I don't see the point of calling someone a male. If they don't even develop into a full grown male without testosterone. This is why there's several reasons why I don't believe in the fact that if someone is born with testicles that they are mail. But I do believe that if you have y-chromosome then you are male.and I know some people will think this is twisted. Because I will even say people who have the capability of being able to be implanted with somebody else's egg can become pregnant. And I will consider that person still mail. Because they're XY chromosomes like with swyer syndrome. So that's my perspective on this. I definitely stay on those chromosomes. The reason why is because I'm pro-life. So I believe Life starts at conception. So I can't say that you are defined by your development I have to say you're defined by the beginning of your life. Which is conception. So what an unborn baby has it conception. It's specifically just their chromosomes. So if that's all they have. Genetically. Defining what their sexes. To me that would mean that XX has to be female. That's why has to be mail. And anything in-between is basically both. Regardless of how they develop or feel for that matter. But this is really interesting. A lot of pseudohermaphroditism. And other conditions. Kohl's people to transition. Thinking that they are the sex that they are not. And then transitioning to the other sex. This is why they say that there's a good portion of people who are labeled transsexuals. But then they are found out to actually be intersex. Because many people don't find out that they're intersex until they're adults until they die or they never find out. I always leave those people as the people who really tell you the truth about something. Regardless of the hell you develop. You still know what you are at the end of the day. You see this with a lot of x x male syndrome people. There was a group on Reddit. Where these XX males were specifically saying they specifically always knew they weren't mail people. But they were confused because there were male genitals. But they clearly looked exactly like females. Even in their own family they look like they're female parent siblings so forth. These people to me or not deluded or crazy or anyting. They're doing with the situation in my opinion that implies reality. When people say that someone up a specific sex could be specifically change and identify as another sex or whatever. Or think they're another sex. Even people who aren't told their that biological sex and up transitional to the biological sense that they actually are. Sometimes with pseudohermaphroditism. And then many people may not transition. But they actually still know what they are. But societal pressures will make them live as something they think they're not. So to me it's really interesting how these people are. Tells you that you know it it's comes down to genetics. Most people know what sex they are even without getting a karyotype test. Even without being told what their biological sex is.
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