Comments by "TotalRookie_LV" (@TotalRookie_LV) on ""Self-Love Isn't the Answer"" video.
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Then the world crushes.
On the bright side - that has happened only once, and now I know, that "the end of the world" only lasts around 2-3 years, then it gets better. But it would be much harder now, when I'm handicapped (and that breakup may be partly to blame for my failing health).
Besides, this is not an issue for most people, it's just that I'm neurodivergent (inattentive ADHD, maybe ASD too, but it's not diagnosed yet) with rejection sensitivity, which means my feelings are extremely intense (which may scare some people) and don't really fade with time, at least not to the degree it happens to so called "normal people", to me eternal love and friendship are not a fairytale, but a daily reality, and I don't need regular reminders about them, those feeling just linger somewhere in my brain, which may sound nice, but it also means a breakup, that happened in the past millennia, still hurts sometimes. Maybe it would not, maybe it would be gone, but a grief fired up those emotions anew - I found out about the death of my first girlfriend a few years ago, turns out that isn't all that unusual - there are A LOT of stories on how news about the death of the first love can be really devastating.
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