Comments by "coreycox2345" (@coreycox2345) on "Einzelgänger" channel.

  1.  @JorshusPrime  It becomes extra complicated if you put yourself on higher moral ground because you don't share the beliefs of people who do that type of thing.
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  2. Yikes. The person I am thinking of's absence bothers me. I hope I would not be a joy to lose. I have said many awful things. I did it first. Oh, how I wish I had not been traumatized in some way that I can't remember when I was a small child and had these horrible impulses in the first place. At least I have learned and changed into a kinder person.
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  3.  @danielsaenz1325  Excellent comment.
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  4. @Iliyan Nedev A few years in, I was thinking of it as ideal and permanent. I have realized that I miss being happily married because two people working together are stronger than one. There are different kinds of bliss.
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  5. What about people who challenge me in a way that has caused me to grow? Walking away would have caused me peace at one time. I have changed, and now I would hate walking away. A world where people had no will would be quite peaceful, but would there be a point to it?
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  6.  @Jcastro9444  Say what you will. I have had beloved narcissists in my family of origin. Whatever it is that they are doing, it would be a mistake to paint them as one thing or another. I have felt this way at different times myself. Somehow not lately. The human condition for some. It doesn't necessarily define them (us). They were much more.
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  7. @Iliyan Nedev I haven't been on a date in six years. There have been some minor enlightening observations on relationships and what they mean to me, but I can think of more life-changing things. You should talk to the MGTOW movement, as they seem like they would be more relaxed if they thought of it as a religion.
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  8. In my case, Tiffany Moore, I wonder if I were a different person, maybe the person would be right for me. He has taught me many life-improving things.
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  9. Some of the people I love the most are a challenge at times. I agree if you mean this in the global sense with all things considered. If I spent enough time with anyone, there would be times when their absence brought me peace. An example of loving someone as one should and finding peace in their absence is when my sons were beginning violin players.
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  10.  Venturing into the Brine  It's the law of diminishing returns, Venturing into the Brine. That's why I only put out twice a year.
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  11.  @charmekiawhite3633  Boom
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  12.  @sunnycheba I suspect that I do it regardless of how much I would rather not. It seems unlikely that I will ever know the truth of it. Maybe I am not repressing memories. If you are intending to tell me that my past was even more brutal than I imagine, what purpose does it serve? I already laugh at realities that most people would find shocking, I think. What does it say about people's lives that we were commonly envied?
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  13. @Iliyan Nedev I will. You would fit right in here in Alberta, where we have many conservatives. I don't think it would be easy to be any of those things, so I believe "Live and Let Live."
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  14.  @freetobememe4358  Or make you leave by being awful. Peace would be instant, but what if you then miss them? That is a different kind of not being at peace. Except what if it happens over and over? It would be too stupid to endure. If they kept doing it, it would be better to escape such a purgatory.
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  15.  @anaparada7219 , AT LEAST SCREAMING AT SOMEONE IS SOMETIMES AN HONEST RESPONSE. THERE ARE WORSE THINGS.
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  16.  @urbaneriksson9781  The problem is that it can make one reluctant to form bonds and walk away from what could be functional, happy relationships out of fear. Sometimes there is power in not walking away.
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  17.  @sunnycheba  That might be a reason not to explore the realms of the inner kingdom.
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  18.  @sunnycheba I am not sure if complete understanding that leads to suicide is worth it. Some people probably repress these traumatic memories, and that can also lead to death.
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  19.  @Thobeian  "The paradox at the heart of ego." Well put.
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  20.  @scottwilkins886  Reminds me of that tragedy.
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  21. @Iliyan Nedev Gnothi seauton. Peace.
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  22. @Harry Munker If he regards you as a "new supply," it might be better to run away and not look back. In fact, he has expressed that sentiment many times and every time you have told him to fuck off and leave you alone because you never want to be with him, but then he didn't. I honestly do not want to be romantically involved with a man like that. So I love him as a friend, but then there is "romance creep," which he appears to have engineered only to quickly turn back into the man you never want to be involved with as a lover. I have begged him to think of me as something other than a woman many times. To please be a friend because I find him essential. It would then be irrelevant what an Asswang he is.
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  23.  @anaparada7219 , YEAH. AND WHAT IF THEY RESEARCH EVERY DETAIL ABOUT YOU AND INSTALL SPY CAMERAS IN YOUR BEDROOM AND BATHROOM, THEN USE THE INFORMATION TO MANIPULATE YOUR BEHAVIOUR IN WAYS THAT YOU HAVE NOT CHOSEN. YOU SHOULD PROBABLY CALL THE POLICE AND GO SEE A PSYCHIATRIST. BEFORE YOU MURDER THEM. YOU COULD SURE NEVER TRUST SOMEONE LIKE THAT EVEN IF THEY DID TEACH YOU TO PLAY THE PIANO.
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  24. @Harry Munker He spoke of us both changing, but that seems like it was a trick to get me to change.
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  25.  @thismyjam4212  Maybe the best solution would be to leave the unpleasant parts without throwing away the person if they agree to change their offensive behaviour. Except they seemed to agree but were knowingly lying, it turns out time and time again.
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  26.  @martymcfly7314  What if the friendship works and the other part doesn't? Be friends then.
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  27.  @ChuckNorris36999  I bet you never miss her.
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  28.  @jude9876  Perhaps you should run along and stop talking about it unless we are friends and or colleagues. I have apologized for my part. You never have for yours. It may have been retaliation, but you were much worse than me. I wasn't playing a manipulative emotional game in the beginning. You were all along. I genuinely did want you to go away. It looks like I lost you around the time we never met.
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  29.  @jimmascaro2456 It is excellent. If it brings you peace, you did not lose them. As an experiment, be careful of it, though. I tried walking away from someone many times, and that used to bring me peace. I thought of us as friends or colleagues for years. Now, walking away and coming back has made me realize I love him. I might have lost him from all my previous walking away. I hope not.
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  30.  @makhnig3150  I am not sure what you mean? I have grown up, which is not trivial. Going through a dark time and having difficulties with it is not the same thing as being immature. I feel myself emerging. I have had mysterious help, for which I am grateful. What would be the point of acknowledging someone as a wife and not telling her? She is, in fact, not your wife. Is that love? It might feel believable to her if you told her how you felt. Then it would be something real.
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  31. @Harry Munker If they opt not to change, that is their choice.
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  32.  @Ray2311us  Do you mean that you are creating a harmonious balance in your home decor?
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  33.  @jude9876  If that is what happened, I am sorry I did not realize my feelings until too late if it would have made a difference. There was too much dissonance for me to be reasonable.
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  34. Did I write this three months ago? It is not like me to use all caps.
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  35. @Iliyan NedevI went on a scavenger hunt and still don't understand your comment. I have never played Dragonball. What is Pang lai, and what is your suggestion?
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  36.  @jonnuanez2843  It is an excellent way to find out how you feel about someone if you are not sure, I think. I found it illuminating.
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  37. I didn't think I was lonely until I met someone who made me feel that I wasn't.
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