Comments by "Widdekuu91" (@Widdekuu91) on "Shocking people with autism, behavioral disorders stirs controversy" video.

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  3. There's a few things to keep in mind here. 1.They're not necessarily disciplining them for bad behaviour, like shouting or screaming. They are disciplining for tics/stimming. Stimming is waving with your hands, tapping your feet, etc. It's a signal that someone is overstimulated. "Normalo's" do that too, just look at a woman waiting for a breast-scan at the hospital. She sure will be pacing or tapping her feet. But autistic people cannot controll that behaviour, it's like blinking when the air is dry. What those 'supervisors' are trying to do, is trying to 'bully' the behaviours away. The only way that can happen is if you basically let the whole brainsystem shut down, until nothing comes out anymore. Like..smashing an unstable and beautifully made vase, until it is one, flat shard of porcelain that is laying still on the windowsill. 2. "Disciplining' a child with autism depends on the child and the behaviour and the severity of it. If a child keeps hitting themselves in the face (overstimulation-stimming) then take the child out of that situation, calmly, and give them a soft helmet and/or soft gloves, so they will not hurt themselves. If the kid is raging and screaming, calm them down by removing them from the room or the situation and let them lay down, calmly, without touching them. It can help, sometimes, to put a child outside on the lawn or grass. Give them a pillow to hold onto. Meltdowns are worsened by loud words, pain or shock. Some people say; 'Oh just put a bucket of cold water on them" which can end up in very severe situations. In which, the most positive outcome, is a fainted child/adult and in the least positive, death. 3. Discipline and understanding discipline depends on the person themselves, also the age, the development, any additional disorders, etc. Disciplining a child for pulling someone's hair, can be done calmly and clearly. "Hey there! Do not pull her hair! That is not nice!" There is nothing wrong with communicating that to an autistic kid or adult, if they happen to pull someone's hair. Obviously the autism might be the reason (no bad intentions) but it does not mean it is a reason not to correct the behaviour. However, if I were to put a leafblower on your face, your eyes dry out and you blink, and I slap you in the face and yell; 'Stop that blinking!' and you scream out in pain and I hit you again... and you try to walk off and I slap you again and restrain you, with the leafblower still there, well, I think you get the point. You're not the problem in that case.
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