Comments by "Widdekuu91" (@Widdekuu91) on "My descent into America’s neo-Nazi movement -- and how I got out | Christian Picciolini" video.

  1. +J.Temple I once gave compassion to someone that did not deserve it. When he least deserved it. It made him feel guilty, so he resented me for loving him and would trigger fights, so he didn't have to deal with the complicated unconditional love that wrecked him with guilt for not loving me back. Those are the kindof people that you shouldn't give the 'treatment' to, you should save yourself and leave.
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  2. +Alaska I agree to a certain point with your statement, but it also reminded me of someone toxic that I'm very happy to have let go of. Loving and accepting people with severe problems and issues or people that turn against you, is important, but as soon as they start damaging you, you drop them. Ofcourse, it might be different if you're a therapist or a parent...but people that turn their anger towards their loved ones and justify this with; 'I need your support, I'm being like this because I am having a hard time' are scary people. Especially in a combination with another someone that is forgiving, listens, accepts and keeps on loving, it can be catastrophic. Depending on the behaviour, circumstances and relationships ofcourse.
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