Comments by "Widdekuu91" (@Widdekuu91) on "Young Fashion 'Bully' Forced to Wear Thrift Shop Clothes By Mom: Punishment Stirs 'Shaming' Debate" video.

  1. Stupid OR they got a diploma after studying 3 years of Pedagogic Work. Like I did. I think it would've been better not to raise her as a fashionista in the first place, there's no need to 'shame' her with thriftclothing, that way you put her in the exact 'lower' spot she was scared to be in. She might get bullied for it and then what? She's stuck. She's feeling like she needs to compensate for something, so you take away anóther thing. That's dumb. Thriftshopclothes are fíne, but not if you introduce them as a punishment. I buy everything from the thriftstore, and buying it from there doesn't mean you're 'not a fashionista anymore'
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  2. Youknow...I'm not even going to look at the other comments on here. I studied Pedagogic Work, for three years. I know the cognitive behaviour, the reason this girl bullied is obvious. By putting her down (by introducing the awesome Thriftshop as a punishment) you're A. ruining the thriftshop-option for her and B. you risk for her to get bullied, not because of the clothes, but because she's being bossed around by her mom. If you, instead of making her even more insecure, HADN"T raised her as a fashionista in the first place, she wouldn't be a bully. If you get her help for the problem she's compensating, than everything will be solved. Thriftshops have awesome clothes, it won't solve her 'fashionista'-problem there. Also, don't introduce it as a punishment, rather as a good solution for spending too much money on clothes. THAT is my advice as a licensed Pedagogic Worker. Whether you think this works or not, this would've worked better.
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