Comments by "Widdekuu91" (@Widdekuu91) on "여의도 육퇴클럽" channel.

@kingrobotnik6950 You don't just 'get married to someone in a good situation' like love and commitment is for fairytales, Nik. Your questions are weird.
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@aeraiseu She does have a good point. Ask anyone on the street about single dads taking care of kids. Words like 'brave, responsible, tough, strong and good parent' will come up. Now ask the same about a single mom, taking care of kids. Words like irresponsible, stupid, weak, dependent, leech and bad parent' will be said.
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@y.a.p8951 I am fairly sure you did not read my comment right. SIngle fathers can apply for the same thing that single mothers can apply for. Maybe not breastcompresses or gymnastics to make sure your pelvis is working properly again...if that is what you meant? Have you taken into account that the birthgiving is generally done by the mother that then has to heal from that ánd care for the babies alone? Have you read my comment and understood it, might be a better question to start with?
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@y.a.p8951 Okay, let me reply to this, bit by bit. A single parent is not a divorced parent, a single parent is a single parent. That means they are alone and the only parent to the baby. If the dads have a job and have not been sentenced for misconduct in the past...there shouldn't be a problem for the kids to stay with them. My country is the Netherlands.
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Youknow, you mentioned killing them after giving birth, so I'm assuming you weren't dissing abortions, you were talking about infanticide, right?
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@vimbaimupesa4670 Abortons are a very painful medical procedure. Removing an appendix is also not very pleasant, but it doesn't make it bad. Sometimes you either have an abortion or you die.
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@DianaDeZuniga My niece had a horrific birth and all she wanted was to cry and sleep. The nurses kindof forced the child on her chest, saying she was 'mean' for not letting him drink and saying things like; 'Don't you love him?!" She was in her early 30's and absolutely devastated after she was told (by her christian relatives) that birthgiving would be a piece of cake and it wasn't. She did get over it, in a few months time, but another girl I know (that got the baby through r@pe) is now 7 years further and she can barely look at the (now child)baby without vomiting. That story was heartbreaking, she was 13 when she was impregnated and her (christian, also) parents made her keep the baby, even though she didn't want it. They only visited her in the insane-asylum wíth the baby, otherwise they wouldn't come, they wanted her to hold him and kiss him. She would just vomit, cry and then pass out.
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