Comments by "Widdekuu91" (@Widdekuu91) on "Casually Explained: Break-Ups" video.

I just want to highlight here that, for everyone that is reading this... it'd be só nice if people in this world stop taking revenge on their exes. I don't care how toxic they were and how often they cheated. Mine cheated and was toxic and destroyed my stuff after he dumped me and talked shit about me. And sure, I'm traumadumping about him here (don't have friends to talk to about it) but other than that, I did not take revenge or lower myself to his level. Please, if you can bring yourself to it...don't destroy their stuff and be toxic. Especially if the breakup was natural and calm. Show them what they lost; A mature, friendly adult that was worth more than this.
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@Samrtfirdeg I had an ex that couldn't stand the thought of me 'moving on from him' so he decided to burn my art. He said that he was missing me and would never get me back, but since I did not miss him, he knew I could care about my art the most. I told him I'd given him permission to keep my art, or sell it and send me the ones he did not find a good home for. OR send it to me alltogether. He said that he was going to burn it, since he knew I hated fire (I'd cried once, when he suggested he wanted to be cremated) and because he knew that losing my art would feel like losing a person and that way, he was satisfied, because I'd be suffering like he was. I would've had so many ways to destroy his mental health if I wanted to, I know exactly what his worst fears are, but I don't want to. I want him to go to therapy, become nicer and not harm the next lady he goes for.
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