Comments by "Widdekuu91" (@Widdekuu91) on "Casually Explained: Is She Into You?" video.
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I'm a girl (to be fair, I'm not very adventurous and don't just hand out numbers) but from my experience, these 4 types of guys exist:
1. Guys that see me walking into a bar, walk over, immediately look me up and down and throw the most vulgar, insulting pickup-lines my way, like; 'Oh, you're a heterosexual? If only you'd been a lesbian, you could've kissed that girl in the corner and I could've wanked to it." (I literally walked across the doorstep 5 seconds ago.)
2. Guys that are fantastic and spontanious and into art and treat me like a human being (with politeness, a few compliments, but no awkward staring or 'are you a lesbian'-interrogations) and then I get their number or email and it turns out they are gay and in a relationship with a boy (been the case about 8 times, which says a lot, because as I said, I don't give out numbers.)
3. Guys that treat you a lot like the number two, but then, once the alcohol kicks in, the nice-guy-filter wears off and they straightup demand your phone-number for their effort and the time they 'put into this' and once you deny the phone-number, they threaten to throw themselves in front of a train (while standing near said-station.)
4. Guys that seem amazing and great and friendly and nice and are not gay and they don't overly sexualize you and seem to be fully able to deal with a human relationship and not a fling and then after a nice conversation with them, it turns out they are either together, engaged, married or otherwise unable to be with you.
Anyone but these, I haven't seen yet, if we're talking potential people to date.
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@Edelweysss Men should maybe try not to chase women, but pursue them and let the female pick them. Youknow, consensual.
If you want children (which funnily enough, a lot of harassing guys are not interested in. They want to blow their load, not necessarily get some children. A sock is just less fun than a cunt) then you can ask if someone wants to have them. With you. Youknow, rip their genitals in half and bleed out, for your offspring. Ask politely.
You can bring it down to; 'Well, the mamal species do-' etc. but in that case, rape and incest would also be fine. And mothers would lick the butts of their babies clean. And we would be tearing eachother apart for food. Let's not praise animalistic behaviour that much, because not only have we evolved from that, we have evolved FURTHER.
Amongst those evolutions, one of those is that we can talk. We can speak to eachother and we can ask for things.
Women are not necessarily interested in reproducing either. Some just want to sit at home, have a book to read and a nice dog or cat to live with.
They should be able to walk into a bar, without being harassed for their uterus, because of genetics and the urge to blow your load 'procreate.'
The reason that the reply to most female accountability is about getting therapy for the man, is because most men immediately start talking from a point of view that includes 'you owe me-' or 'women owe me-' and 'women owe men-' and 'you can't blame us for-' and that is not how human behaviour works.
You cannot expect the busdriver to park the bus on time (and get upset when he doesn't) but then fully accept that the busdriver has urges and will start mishandling females at a bar, because he has been dumped and wants to blow his load procreate.
I am a single woman and I would like to date a man in the future. I will not be grabbing at asses, yelling about their discosticks and/or telling them that I have the right to take their sperm, because my uterus is empty and I am not as fertile after 40.
In fact, women that want children early, for that reason, seem to scare the living life out of men, whereas females WOULD have a legit reason to plan it that way, since after 40, you are more likely to have severe complications. And yet, females that want a baby, are being seen as creepy, and usually go and have a baby on their own, as not to deal with that shit.
Youknow, it reminds me a bit of ChadChad's stories, she is someone on Youtube that gives funny commentary on Reddit Niceguys stories and youknow, that stuff.
If you ever find yourself bored, give it a try. Or Annamarie Forcino, she made a video on "Nice Girls" and compared the two. You might like that video.
It is called "Nice Girls" Are a Menace to Society. It is a bit of a clickbaity title ofcourse, but hey, good luck.
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