Comments by "Maro Cat" (@marocat4749) on "Part One: Is Oprah Winfrey a Bastard? | BEHIND THE BASTARDS" video.

  1. True, people are different shaped by different experinces and to know other people percieve different than you is really important to actually be an advocate. Like experience can good to connect, but also knowing people arent you is important to like see people as what they are, not what you project on them. And trauma messes usually wit hpeople and if good you grow from dealing with it, or not. Trauma isnt makin people better, working on yourself and reflecting and growiing is. And thats personal. But its pretty easy to get too obsessed with your own pain too. Not a healthy as coping mecjhanism, no you forget you arent other eople and it should be about them ultimately and could get into performative over empathic doing so. But yes knowing you get all trauma is jst hybris, like most yiou can do most sure is to just gie room to listen, not that you get everything. Thats like why even psychologists specialize. And its really hard to not let your own trauma not let get you biased, thinking you get everythingis just, hybris. Often advocates either give more or less a platform or are kinds specialized. i think. Like allys are good and maybe not nessesary, as advocate you need to know your stuff.
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  2. Honestly most showbiz people probably have been aware of sastradness? Which , onot everyone knows of bad going on direct , but there is a shut up or we ruin your career shadow to a degree. And yes sometimes a good person becomes that , but also, its incredible easy to become veeery mishuided at least, do or support shadystuff or abuse power or enable in in that enviroment, and thats still wher she got people. I refuse to thing that most people are bad people but yeah its easy to abuse power or bepart of that?! Its like inherently, oh no , damn i liked them and hoped they were a genuinly not harmful person, but i guess. That reminds me, Robert neds to do a gaiman ne once enough sources are aviable, he even grew allegently up in scientology which, explains th weird and, he is definitly interesting enogh :( That said, ther are good people and people who didnt know the dark stuff ok, you cant take trry pratchet from me :( its hard to think a friend could do that peobably :(
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