Comments by "Andy Dee" (@AndyViant) on "Men Only "
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2:46 You just explained women's approach to dating, not men's. That's pure projection. At 3:14 though, you do nicely explain why the woman who has dated a lot of guys will never be satisfied with ANY man they date and will be perpetually single and miserable - they're searching for a frankenstein's monster of Josh's height, Luca's charm, Daniel's Porsche, Justin's house, Brendan's face, Steven's wallet and David's romance. So, they'd be great insights, but you've got the genders switched up completely lady.
4:25 Women are not socialized to "let men down kindly". Right now women believe they can attain clout within their friend groups or on social media by humiliating men by calling them creeps. They may let men down kindly when they perceive they have no backup, or where there are no cameras rolling, but if there's anyone in earshot that "kindness" goes straight out the window.
11:47 In any environment, where women discuss dating, even with a supposedly moral and Christian viewpoint, it always comes down to money and status. Not kindness, or devotion, or acts of service to each other, or community... but greed and extracting resources from the man. It wasn't the two men at that event that turned the conversation in that direction, it was women.
You keep doing it to yourself ladies, then keep being frustrated about your own selfish and superficial natures. Yet even talking about it, and complaining about it, you cannot see how it was women who took the conversation in that direction and accept the accountability for that, then take the actions to change.
Admit it, you ladies are the problem and until you recognize that rather than blameshift everything to men you won't fix the dating market.
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11:55 So you're all girlboss energy until you decide to try and do stuff "on the cheap" but then expect men to have the resources (eg the truck for you to put things in) and do all this free labor for you. You expect men to be willing to invest in the equipment, invest their time in you, invest their energy into your wants and needs for nothing in return.
Sounds pretty much the stock feminist lie of being "strong and independent" until you're confronted with reality, and then playing helpless female victim card to get your own needs fulfilled by men, with no reward to them. Be that independent adult and pay a moving man to move it for you.
A dresser isn't that heavy. Unless it's like solid oak it should be a 2 man lift, usually just one man with the drawers removed, which means you could get you and 3 other girlies and pick it up. Go hire a truck, a van, or a trailer, and get your girlies together. Or a simple trolley from home depot. Actually doing this adult task by yourself, as an adult, for once. Paying the full costs of it will make you realize how much it really costs for each of those "simple favours" you keep asking men for, and why you shouldn't be expecting people to drop everything to help you.
Or, if all that's too hard, work some longer hours at work, pick up some overtime, and pay for a new dresser from a store that does delivery. Or buy a flatpack one and the tools to assemble it, and watch some how to videos. Then think about when you're going to move out of that apartment in 12 months time, and start saving thousands of dollars for movers.
This is why men don't spend all their money going out to restaurants and clubs and holidays, and don't live paycheck to paycheck. It's men doing adult thinking.
Yet, you're what, near 30 and still living like you're in the moving out from home the first time mentality like you're 18. Grow up girl.
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8:01 Keep waiting for that right fit. Keep waiting forever...
The reality is there is never a "right fit". Relationships are ALWAYS work to create and then to keep them afloat. But you didn't want to put that work in because you live in a magical fairytale land taught to you by feminism, where you are entitled to be a princess and have a perfect 10 Prince drop into your lap and fall hopelessly in love with you and give you everything you desire.
Well, this ain't Disney, honey. That stuff doesn't happen. The princess isn't found at the Walmart cashier or the drive through of Taco Bell. There's no rescue. The cashier marries someone else lower middle class, and that's honestly a step up for their socio-economic status. Maybe a truck driver, maybe a uber driver or amazon delivery worker, maybe a street sweeper or a garbage collector. The administrative officer or the lab assistant marries someone from the same middle class too, maybe a call centre worker or maybe a construction worker. Your delusion of making it big as a content creator won't happen either, so you'll never be important enough or rich enough to snag the top tier guy. You're not pretty enough, smart enough, young enough or on point enough. On your current path, your future holds mid jobs, loneliness, and cats.
What's wrong with you is simple. Unrealistic standards. Entitlement. A false idea of your own market value. You do still have time to change, but not much by the look of it, what with all your friends getting married. The wall is coming for you.
You know all this, but you'd rather face the future alone than admit you were wrong with all those guys you rejected, all those years you wasted. You'd rather be self satisfied as the victim than put in the effort to change your ways and give up your fairytale dreams for the hard work that reality demands.
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