Comments by "Andy Dee" (@AndyViant) on "When Women Finally Realize That Friend-Zoned Guys Are Happier Being Single | Men Only" video.

  1. 9:05 "Oh you're that type" Guy knew straight away to walk when she started the attitude that she was doing more than her fair share of the work by agreeing to meet. She's more than a red flag.
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  2. 14:59, as always the words that follow "A real man" are all 100% manipulation and gaslighting to try and make a man do something for their benefit. Anything that follows those words is only useful to show how toxic and entitled they are. Wouldn't this apply both ways and a woman investing in him is an investment in herself? Or can she not make that leap and clean the house or make a sandwich? She doesn't list a single thing she should do to help him. Nope, it's about him providing resources for her, and her opening her maw wide to swallow all he can give to her like a blue whale straining the ocean for krill. This is the "sponsor/daddy" relationship women want.
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  3. 11:55 So you're all girlboss energy until you decide to try and do stuff "on the cheap" but then expect men to have the resources (eg the truck for you to put things in) and do all this free labor for you. You expect men to be willing to invest in the equipment, invest their time in you, invest their energy into your wants and needs for nothing in return. Sounds pretty much the stock feminist lie of being "strong and independent" until you're confronted with reality, and then playing helpless female victim card to get your own needs fulfilled by men, with no reward to them. Be that independent adult and pay a moving man to move it for you. A dresser isn't that heavy. Unless it's like solid oak it should be a 2 man lift, usually just one man with the drawers removed, which means you could get you and 3 other girlies and pick it up. Go hire a truck, a van, or a trailer, and get your girlies together. Or a simple trolley from home depot. Actually doing this adult task by yourself, as an adult, for once. Paying the full costs of it will make you realize how much it really costs for each of those "simple favours" you keep asking men for, and why you shouldn't be expecting people to drop everything to help you. Or, if all that's too hard, work some longer hours at work, pick up some overtime, and pay for a new dresser from a store that does delivery. Or buy a flatpack one and the tools to assemble it, and watch some how to videos. Then think about when you're going to move out of that apartment in 12 months time, and start saving thousands of dollars for movers. This is why men don't spend all their money going out to restaurants and clubs and holidays, and don't live paycheck to paycheck. It's men doing adult thinking. Yet, you're what, near 30 and still living like you're in the moving out from home the first time mentality like you're 18. Grow up girl.
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