Comments by "Andy Dee" (@AndyViant) on "Leftover Women Learn The Hard Way As More Men Are Walking Away From Marriage And Dating" video.
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8:01 Keep waiting for that right fit. Keep waiting forever...
The reality is there is never a "right fit". Relationships are ALWAYS work to create and then to keep them afloat. But you didn't want to put that work in because you live in a magical fairytale land taught to you by feminism, where you are entitled to be a princess and have a perfect 10 Prince drop into your lap and fall hopelessly in love with you and give you everything you desire.
Well, this ain't Disney, honey. That stuff doesn't happen. The princess isn't found at the Walmart cashier or the drive through of Taco Bell. There's no rescue. The cashier marries someone else lower middle class, and that's honestly a step up for their socio-economic status. Maybe a truck driver, maybe a uber driver or amazon delivery worker, maybe a street sweeper or a garbage collector. The administrative officer or the lab assistant marries someone from the same middle class too, maybe a call centre worker or maybe a construction worker. Your delusion of making it big as a content creator won't happen either, so you'll never be important enough or rich enough to snag the top tier guy. You're not pretty enough, smart enough, young enough or on point enough. On your current path, your future holds mid jobs, loneliness, and cats.
What's wrong with you is simple. Unrealistic standards. Entitlement. A false idea of your own market value. You do still have time to change, but not much by the look of it, what with all your friends getting married. The wall is coming for you.
You know all this, but you'd rather face the future alone than admit you were wrong with all those guys you rejected, all those years you wasted. You'd rather be self satisfied as the victim than put in the effort to change your ways and give up your fairytale dreams for the hard work that reality demands.
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