Comments by "Vanessa Ruiz" (@vanessaruiz4705) on "Dr. Phil" channel.

Well, some parents are very good at acting. I talk from experience. It's not always what it looks like. A child that has been abused repeteadly will turn into a very twisted teenager and he did make a claim that he had been sexually abused at age 11 and nobody believed him. We do not know if that's true though; but i am just saying, things are not always what they look like.
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My mother absolutely tortured me in my child and teenage years in ways people wouldnt believe. She told me , for years, things like "I wish you werent born". That's actually one of the nicest things she used to say. Yet people still to this day believe she is a good person and mother because she never, ever showed that evil side to others and of course she'd always pretend to be nice when texting, she'd never leave any evidence. Things are not always what they look like. I hated her and took me many years to forgive her and she didnt deserve my forgiveness at all. I wouldnt have done what this boy did but his case was much worse than mine if it's true that he was raped at age 11 as he claimed on his first interrogation. Who knows, i am just saying that it's possible, these things happen and it's not always as obvious as it looks.
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well if you watch videos of anorexic girls in youtube, and there are plenty, all of them recovered because one day they decided to change. They decided it was enough suffering already and they accepted help and they started to eat little by little. So yeah, it might not be fully a choice, but the way you get better is by making a choice. Of course it doesnt mean they will be completely healed, probably not but they can get better.
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but anorexic girls recover when they choose to accept help and start changing their habits little by little. That's what all girls who have recovered from anorexia say.
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i wouldnt say stupid. People in love certainly tend to do stupid things, but it doesnt mean the person is actually stupid. How many people have been with the wrong guy, or a guy that didnt really love them back... you know, it happens. People in love are usually not very rational, especially on the "first stages" of the relationship. If you blame her is because you have never been in that situation? good for you.
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you might not choose to have a ED but you however choose to recover from it, by finally accepting help and starting to eat, and that's how anorexic girls recover. So yeah, i would say it is partially a disease, and partially a choice, because if it was not a choice girls would not recover just by deciding doing so. And i am not implying it's easy, or implying that they will 100 % recover, or anything like that. BUt that's what they themselves say. JUst by searching "anorexia story" on youtube you get hundreds of similar stories and all of them recover by making a choice.
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@bloombloom4245 actually it was never revealed who he was referring to, but it would just make sense if it was the brother. It'd explain it all. And the brother, if you watch his parts on their first interrogation after the murder, was not behaving exactly like a normal person either.
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well i think he mostly disliked the fact that some of these are making money out of this, so maybe he doesnt trust the true intentions behind this hunting passion. This guy has a paypal account and all that, so it could be that, in the end, money is a great motivator. I personally dont think so, but dr phil might.
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@ska66i6al ... excuse me but josh talked about the bullying in their first interrogation, it's on video. There was also an alledged rape.
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however, anorexic girls start recovering when they make the choice of wanting to get better, accepting help from others and starting to eat. That's how they recover and i know because i have watched at least a hundred of anorexia cases here on youtube and at another sources. There is a choice to it. Of course just by gaining some weight they are not really healed, the obsession will remain in their heads but they can somehow control it. That's what they say, it's not even my personal opinion.
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i am sorry to say but she will probably end up in Mcdonalds or somewhere similar. She has no talent; but this said, she could make it because there are so many totally untalented rappers and autotune singers out there so who knows.
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@DaDarkGuy maybe but you also need to have some talent. Well, not sure of that anymore, as there are many untalented successful "artists" out ther.e
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well, maybe they would know him if they had encouraged the encounter. I understand their concern but so many couples start at a very young age, my mother met my father when she was 17, and well sometimes it doesnt have to be an issue. if the problem is that they dont trust this guy, maybe make some efforts to meet him, to get to know him, instead of trying to prohibit the encounter because this will only result in her fleeing as soon as she turns 18.
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why would someone, willingly, want to be known as a jerk nationwide, and have video evidence on the internet forever, unless paid a huge amount of money which i dont think it's the case?
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she is absolutely addicted to food and probably doesnt have any hobbies so her only hobby and goal in life is to eat, and she doesnt know what else to do.
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i am sorry to say but whatever he is trying to do to look good is not working, he doesnt look good at all, also he doesnt have a body for twerking. i mean yeah anybody can do it but normally it doesnt look good unless you have a fit body.
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oh my god, I thought Dr Phil was a good man but he is going along this genocide. F.k him.
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because people with bad parents know that there can be a reason. Actually, even for murder, sometimes there is a justfiication , it's called self-defense. Im not saying it's the case here though but he did claim to have been sexually abused by a family member at age 11 and his mother not believing him and if that is true it can really turn a child into a very twisted person. You DONT KNOW anything at all of what may or may not have happened in that family's privacy and what this person might have gone through. People with good parents simply go around assuming all parents are good; I envy you. I honestyly envy you because I know from experience that parents can be evil and pretend to be good in front of other people and you as a child just dont know how to escape from that.
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so just based on your own experience, ok. My mother was 17 when she started dating my father and have been together for 45 years. I know you are talking for yourself, but you cant go around assuming that the relationship didnt work due to their age. It was due to this particular guy being an idiot.
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me at 34, have 6 stuffies. What's wrong with that? i find them cute :D
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if you are 2 people in the household, why not one you just stay awake and take turns? anyway it will be for about 6 months, not forever. However, this is terribly hard for single mothers if they dont have anyone helping out. If it was me, i would be scared to death that something might happen while i sleep.
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speak for yourself. I know couples with nearly 20 year gap that have been happily married for 15 years.
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ok i can tell you totally different stories. You can't put everyone on the same page.
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you also need to allow your kids to make mistakes based on their own decisions. My mother got married at 17 and is still married to my father 40 years later. Go and tell her she shouldnt have done it, or her 17 year old self didnt know how to run her life. Each person is different.
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... i actually expected to see people roasting dr phil but apparently there are only ignorant, gullible people in this particular comment section. I am done here.
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