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I'm personally not in that minset anymore, it started to change around the times I hit 38yo I think.
Now with wmen I do what the hell I want when I want, if I want to cry I do it, if I want to show my emotions I do it, if I want to play the cold bad boy I do it and you know why? Because I give absolutely zero crap about her respect, what she thinks about me and wether she could dump me, none.
Now, I am 41, between my engineer main job and my side business, I'm over £100k a year. I speak 3 languages fluently and getting quite decent at Mandarin. I can play two instruments and sing. I am 6"2 and perfectly fit.
I have two houses maybe a third one in a few years.
Fck do I care about the respect of these straggle daggles living paycheck to paycheck still single at 30 with only miles of d*ck to show for? I respect myself it all that matters.
The funny thing is, the less I care the more they stalk me and the more they stalk me the less I care, in fact I only do short flings now, couple of months max.
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One thing to understand and accept is that these wmen are broken, beyond repair. They do not have the ability to bond in a healthy relationship, at all, the only ability they have is to be in a toxic interaction with a toxic dude, that's all.
Many men still have no idea of that in 2024, which is very unfortunate, and they think they will be the one to save m'lady, out of desperation, scarcity, I don't know but it is what it is.
a wman like thar, in China for instance, a wman like that one is literally a non-existent entity. In the West, she still has options and dude who want to commit to her. Draw your own conclusions. At some point men also have to take accountability for the crap we are in.
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One has to understand how wmen work. A wmen is attracted to the things you can bring to her, especially in this day and age.
So, there are essentially two things: Money and tingles.
Money, they already have it (like the first one in the video), so you would have to bring a lot more, most dudes don't have that.
Tingles. Here it's very simple, it's either you're attractive and other wmen want you or not. Your values, honor, personality etc., I'm sorry to tell you but they don't give a single fck about that. So here again, the average dude cannot bring that.
And that's why dudes who are not rich and/or attractive are invisible, because they bring zero to them, it's very simple.
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If you managed to keep that stage (I call it the love-bombing phase, when they say stuff like "where were you all this time, you're the man of my life, I'll never leave you" and buy you plenty of gifts) for one entire year you really did a good job... Especially nowadays where they get bored of you after about two weeks and pretty much immediately look for a brand new fantasy in their dude rooster that's inside their smartphones.
And yeah after that phase you'll meet the real her, usually it's not an improvement, especially if she hid her mental issues, that can be shocking when you are unaware, usually the first time you deal with it.
Something else to be aware too, the more intense this initial stage is, the more it will be the complete opposite, negatively speaking, when it's over. A healthy long term relationship does not starts like that, it starts slow. Do not take her words seriously in that phase, they are worth nothing and will change like wind.
Last but not least, when that happens, when you get knocked off your pedestal, don't take it personally and don't think it defines you as a man, you were her hero now she has another one, it's all cool, the same will happen to that dude, and the one after and after again until cat lady days.
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@DanteWesker612 I think it is not but it's not what most people think it is nowadays. True love is a choice, it's a mutual respect and acceptance of each other flaws and it was possible before social media.
I am 41, I personally met it once, yes only once, with my ex wife (I met her 15 years ago). We didn't divorce because it was not working but because I wanted to move to the UK and she wanted to remain in Italy.
That being said, she could have taken half of my sh*t when we divorced but she asked nothing, that's when you know they really love you for who you are and not ehat you provide. Today, we are still in contact and in good terms.
That's true love.
Now, after the divorce in 2015, I started dating again, a lot, all ages and god... Trash, trash and trash, that's about it. That RP stuff, it's all true and I experienced all of it, crazy things, wmen have completely lost their mind. So nowadays, true love? Nah, not anymore. Now relationships between m and w is just pstitution with a different name and it's definitely not weighted in our favour, at all. I am not trying anymore, totally done. When it comes to sx, I use escorts (legal here), as I have a shitton of money it's not a problem.
I would really want to experience what I experienced with my ex wife again and I really tried, I gave them chance after change but nothing, it's just utter garbage out there guys.
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Nowadays, absolutely, they don't give a single fck. Before, when they didn't have 350 dudes waiting in line in their smartphone, because there was no smartphone, they would pay attention to these things.
But, yeah, nowadays the goal is getting the dude who will provide more, resources and validation (the latter being correlated with how attractive he is), as fast as possible, that's about it.
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For the little story, I met a girl once, the first I met after I moved to UK actually, who used to make jokes about girls who wanted guys with money, stuff like that, like she was a unicorn you know, and I believed it (I was still blue pilled).
After a couple of weeks I brought her to my place and she discovered that I had a nice car (Mercedes SLK 250), she said nothing about it, none at all.
A bit after that, she had some party at her work which I was invited and I had to join her at that location, it was friday, I was tired and I didn't want to drive so I took a Taxi.
Well, just after the party she made a HUGE drama about the fact that I didn't come with the car. Initially I couldn't understand what the hell was going on, why it was such a big deal, it was like she was a totally different person. Then, I realised that she wanted her colleagues to see that her dude had money and status, it's all about that eventually.
After that event she started to show me more and more who she really was, how important it was to her how she appeared in society.
Guys, you do not want to trust what she shows you in the beginning.
They don't love you for you, they love what you bring to them, stop, period. Forget all the Disney BS, I'll say it again: No matter what she says, she does not love you for you, it's 100% transactional. Especially after 27 years old. Keep that in mind.
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@bishoprod33 A weakness or manipulation (which is nothing less than reflection for the later).
To give a concrete example, I had an ex who would get pissed when I would take care of her, example when I was offering my jacket when she was shivering or listening to her work day stories, she would say "it's not normal, my ex did not do that, you are a cunning one" as if all these things were me trying to manipulate her.
The problem is that, they never saw that in their childhood, consequently they repeated the cycle with bad boys. Then, at 30 something, when by chance they end up with a good guy, they have absolutely no clue, not even the trace of what a caring and loving man is. I mean, their brain cannot even process it. It took me a lot of time to understand that and at the end of the day, you can do nothing for these people, they are damaged beyond repair. The best thing you can do is walk away and put yourself first, men have to understand that their purpose in life is not to fix damaged people especially because, nowadays they are pretty much everywhere.
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thearknight I've always been treated like a king from my escorts. Well, actually I only had a bad experience once with a Romanian, but there's always a risk with the "new tries". Now I have my limited selection of favourites, a call, they come dressed as I like, they do, they go, no drama, no jumping through hoops, no BS and contrary to common belief, less STD risk... Also in UK it's legal so what's not to like?
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@awestruck9075 Yeah bro. You said it well, etched in stone. I am 41 now, I can tell you that it's always the same story, always, there is no "maybe", "if I", ", "we will work that out"...
No, you walk away as soon as you see the red flags period.
Young guys have to understand one thing, these damage chicks (most of them nowadays) see themselves as absolute garbage. If you treat them well, it will clash with that vision and to correct that cognitive dissonance they will paint you as the manipulator/abuser, and this, even if you are the nicest and most honest dude in the world.
Again, you just get the f away, no questions asked.
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@backwatersandbackroads Definitely but there is a difference though. Personally, I've been in both sides, I've never been totally invisible because I am decent looking and tall (6"3) but it's only been a few years ago that I started to go to the gym everyday and simultaneously my career and investments took of, I am now making between £6000 and £8000 a month, house completely paid off and will be a millionaire in a couple of years if not sooner.
I saw the difference between before and now and, without claiming to be anything near a Chad, I can see how having a lot of options change all your perspectives and standards and it's a huge thing, I even surprised myself with my own behaviour and thoughts sometimes.
Now I said there's a difference, honestly I'd really like to have a loyal, cute feminine partner in life, to be honest at 41yo I couldn't care less about smashing at this point. So when I get in a relationship I don't put any efforts into it because it's worthless unless proven otherwise and it's never proven otherwise, nowadays it's a wrap and I'm not delving into the why because you are as aware as me. There is no reason, as man with options to commit, it's a lose-lose situation and again, at 41yo, when you "met" a lot of them, you know what they will say, how they will say it and why before it even happens. So yeah, eventually, you just enjoy the moment and get rid of them once the BS starts, makes you look like a Chad even if you are not at all.
It's what these broads, because of all the simps kissing their ass h24 don't understand, the quality men, it's not that they are all bad by default, it's just that they know what they are dealing with, the cat is out of the bag at this point, there is zero return on investment.
Personally, I am not even dating, it's such a waste of time and energy for nothing and I have so many things to do and whenever I want to you know, I have a selection my fev escorts to call (legal in UK) when I want, they come dressed like I like and do what I like without me even asking, and that costs me like £200 which for me is basically pocket money.
Why the hell should I jump through hoop, and put up with all the BS? No way, not worth it.
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@nhvanonerz8244 I never mentioned sex, you can enjoy the company of a wman without having sex. You said you had very good relationships but that's from your point of view. If you girls left you for another dude (which is pretty much always the case) it means their relationship with you were not good enough eventually, that's what I tried to tell you, it is all temporary now.
You are talking about loyalty, wmen are as loyal as their options are, back then they didn't have the smartphone so their options were very limited, it's not like that anymore, that's what I meant when I said "they adapted" and we didn't.
Understand it's not about you, there will always be a dude more attractive and/or richer than you in their dms eventually, always.
I think you are still hurting and in the red pill rage phase and that's perfectly fine, the next phase will be acceptance, acceptance of the knowledge you acquired and adaptation to this knowledge, that's when you will be ready to date again (or decide you're better off without), but if you date it will be with a completely different mindset, an abundance one. You won't give a crap because wmen won't be relevant anymore to you.
When they say "she's not yours it's just your turn" it's how it really is.
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@Drenov No, they never do, I am 41 too. In fact your story reminded me of what happened to me 5 years ago, when I arrived in England, at that time I was still blue pilled because I was getting out of a 14 years marriage (in good term and from a good wman which is rare nowadays) so I was basically still living in fantasyland, it was also the first time I dated in the social media era.
So I met that 36yo Italian in a pub, a real stunner and for like a couple of months she was basically the unicorn, cooked for me, crazy sx, loads of love-bombing (where were you all this time, you're the man of my life and similar crap), obviously back then I bought everything and ignored the red flags which in retrospective were quite obvious, in fact the love-bombing is probably the biggest red flag there is.
Well, long story short, she started to change, asking for "stuff", telling me that I was not doing enough for her, that she wanted actions and not words. Once she had a dinner with her work colleagues and she blamed me because I didn't come to take her with my car (which is nice), basically she wanted to use me for narcissistic validation in front of her colleagues. Then drama after drama, throwing tantrums for no reason, crazy stuff, yelling a lot, telling me that men with more money and bigger house were hitting on her. At some point she was the exact opposite of what she was in the beginning, she was not even talking in the same way.
So basically, that chick was going from job to job (waitress to working on a call center to waitress again) and she managed to screw the only cool job she landed at the Hilton hotels. She was also sharing a flat because she obviously couldn't afford anything else... And yeah, like you, what I was offering was not enough despite her life was a total disaster from beginning to the end, that was my welcome to the red pill world and I discovered Coach Greg Addams who was basically talking about everything I experienced.
At the end of the day bro, it's very simple, over 25 of age, good looking and "single", there is reason for it, you are dealing with crazy and that's exactly why she is single. At 35 of age, they are in survival mode, they are not looking for love or even a relationship (that chick even admitted it in the end), they are looking for a fool to be their retirement insurance.
It's crazy all the suff I've learnt in these 5 years i've lived in the UK. Now I just give zero sht and have zero tolerance whatsoever for the BS and disrespect, I even ghosted for the first time a real hottie, 26yo, a mix between Spanish and Italian because she had started her sh*t-tests (they all do eventually), told her to kick rocks and she begged like a POS. No more sympathy for these broads, the nice guy saviour I once was is dead.
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@HouseMusicNinja Yeah, personally I can't really blame them because, now, at 41yo, I don't see things the way I saw them at 31yo, not even talking about when I was 21yo which was basically living in Fantasyland.
Also, 15 years ago, I would wake up thinking about p* and go to bed thinking about p*.
Today, I essentially give a crap. Last time a smashed, while I was doing it I was thinking about how to imrpove my base's air lock system in Space Engineers... Yeah, essentially, with age, money and experience, all your perspective about pretty much everything change.
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For the later, if they do that you can ve sure they are toxic as well. Eventually, if they say that, there's only one thing, they are toxic no matter what.
You hear that in the beginning of a relationship "my ex was abusive, he was toxic, he did this or that" you just run, there's no maybe here, run and that's all because, no matter what you do or say, you can kiss goodbye to your peace and tranquility and say hi to chaos and drama.
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@backwatersandbackroads I agree. And yeah, young guys, the same way we were once, think with their little brain and that's why they can be so easily manipulated. We cannot blame them, been them done that, although we had to learn everything the hard way because there was no internet back then.
I remember an old dude I met when I was in my 20s, he told me these words: "Son, if they didn't have a fanny, you would be throwing stones at them". Back then, I couldn't understand what he meant, now that makes perfect sense.
Peace.
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@W T I think it also depends of dude, if you have options you won't tolerate anything and if you do, she has to be a stunner to compensate. The fact is that, wmen nowadays have options (to get smashed at least) even the ugly ones.
For the rest, they do that to save the face. Not so long ago, being a 304 was really seen in a negative way, I am talking about the 80s/90s then it degenerated. The other reason is that, when they find a dude they like, they don't want to risk him to bail because she's a 304, so they have to BS all the time, even themselves. We all heard the sentence "I usually don't do that that fast", RP men will now it's exactly what they usually do. It's all a clownery, they have to do that, we don't, because what's good with being a man, is that when you have money you so what the f you want and get pretty much who you want.
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It's not just hot girls bro. If one is single in her 30s, no matter how she looks, you will have to carry all the craziness, trauma, BS and baggage she accumulated in her 20s. If in addition she had a bad parenting, just forget it, you will deal with BPD, NPD, daddy issues... Hell on earth.
The rule is quite simple actually. As soon as she shows sign of disrespect, testing you, changing personality, being jealous or controlling, you must be out of there because it's not gonna get better NO MATTER the personality she showed you in the beginning or the past love-bombing. In fact, love-bombing is already a gigantic red flag.
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@daviedood2503 For sure, the sooner you learn your definitive lesson (when you finally stop that hope strategy "there are good ones" BS, the better.
At 40 years old as a men, if you have your sht together, you're just getting started. I am 41 and on the rise, feel like 30 in not younger, I see wmen my age, they're laughable.
And yeah, they're all the same, the moment they find better in their eyes and they have access to it, you're gone, instantly, they give absolutely zero crap, and it's all of them.
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@techn0screamer No it's absolutely not what I said. It's perfectly fair for wmen to have standards but the thing is that they are not realistic and when reality knocks to their door they are whining on social media, that's what Taylor is basically saying and that is maybe what you didn't really get.
Of course a beautiful and young wman has to look for a handsome and/or wealthy dude, she's in her prime and it's the best thing she can do, to find the best mate, but when a middle aged average looking wmen is doing the same thing and get pissed because it doesn't work for her, it's where we have a problem because it doesn't make any sense.
They can perfectly have a body count of one thousands if they want to, but then they can't come and cry that no men of value want them anymore. It's called taking accountability. You f*ck around you lose value, you get older, you lose value as well, they are so entitled they don't even understand these basic concepts anymore.
I am 41yo and make 6 figs as a principal engineer in a successful startup in UK, plus I am 6"2, fit and speak four languages fluently, do you think I am wasting my time with some wmen the same age as me with a body count of who know how many and a ton of baggage? And still I get solicited all the time by these very wmen, like I am supposed to chase them or something, that's ridiculous, they have no idea of their worth.
And sorry bro, but that one who wants her ticket paid, she looks like a trans, I wouldn't shag that even if they paid me.
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@HouseMusicNinja Yes. Unfortunately, we had to learn all that stuff the hard way because there was no internet and unless you were lucky enough to have a father who would explain some basic stuff to you, you were essentially clueless. Then, you would forget the bull you've been taught or saw in the movies and learn and accept f n for what it is.
The good thing of being from our generation however, is that at least we were lucky to experience dating before social media, when 20yo chicks were interested in 20yo dudes and even the beautiful ones had a choice of like 20 dudes in her immediate social circle, not 200.000+ from their smartphones (which didn't exist yet by the way). It was a time where game and personality had a big impact on your success with w, now the only thing that has an impact is the size of your wallet and your height (for some obscure reason). I miss the 90s, early 2000s, with all the flirting involved, these were good times.
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@notacompleteidiot...1285 I understand that, although... Despite I am 6"3, I have no recognition of having been ever praised for my height when I was dating regularly back then, in fact I had mates way shorter than me who were pretty much successful at dating.
Now, last chick I had, about 3 years ago was all the time: You're so tall, such a giant, have you grown from last time I saw you and a lot of stupid sht like that, like an obsession. The one I had before, same thing to some extent. And actually it's not only height, all about superficial stuff, appearances, status, bragging in front of other chicks. There was a bit of that back then but not to that extent.
By the way Taylor is right when he says they don't give a single crap about your values, honesty and morals, it's like totally irrelevant, that kind of changed too.
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The thing I learnt on these very channels is that men of all sort of ages, experiences and situations are here.
I often argued with dudes here and it felt like we were not living in the same universe... Then I thought, how can it be, I am 41yo, travelled most of the freaking world, maybe the dude I was talking to was 20yo, barely ever touched a chick and never saw anything else than the asshole of the USA.
I mean, at 20yo I had nothing to do with who I am now, really zero, I would have called my old self crazy back then.
My point is, we all are in a different phase of maturity and knowledge in life. Many young dudes, especially nowadays (with Internet that we didn't have back then) still need that interaction. Of course, for us with our mindset of "let them drown in their own crap", it looks funny but eventually they will come to it too, it's just not their time yet.
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@acrossARTS You are right I admit but because the answer is complex.
Let's say that men and wmen are on a different clock in life. So yes, as a 41yo man I admit that I still needed wman validation and attention until like 35yo, maybe not as much as them but yeah, did. Then, it started to change, I started to find validation in my accomplishments, career, money and status. Nowadays... Well nowadays I can fairly say without a trace of hesitation that I don't give a single damn about what a wman thinks about me, really zero.
The thing is, wmen will need that all their life. Even when they are in their 30/40s and they tell you they don't need no man or that they are strong and independent, it's BS, I can tell you for a fact that they need that more than ever. That's the essential difference.
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@acrossARTS And that's perfectly fine. The man I am today was not the man I was 10 years ago who in turn was not the man I was 20 years ago, my perspective on things and also on myself has changed drastically with time. We all have a different path in life and different experiences so that's why I won't tell you it's like this or like that, you will have to figure out everything by yourself and it's normal and trust me your perspectives will change too, big time, I can only speak from experience, the same way Taylor comments the Tiktok videos.
I am watching this content for pure entertainment really, I am really not looking for validation because I am perfectly happy and in phase with who I am but maybe a few years ago that would have been different, I don't know this kind of content did not really exist or was still really niche. I am seeing a chick now but it's nothing serious, we just fck, she doesn't want anything else and I don't want either so it's perfectly fine, things are clear. She probably sees other dudes, in fact, she does but I don't mind, it's all about having a good time.
I would have not done that before because I know I would have gotten attached very fast but not anymore, now I just don't care.
Also one thing that you guys don't have is that I saw the dating scene change, when I was 20 and there was no smartphone or social medias, everything was different. That thing I think also helps to put things in perspective. Before a wman had access to her immediate surroundings, that means like a few dozen of men at best, now she has access to the entire world... The hell you want to compete with that? It's screwed up by definition.
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@zebare726 Yeah but their solution to what exactly? Take the first chick in this video, she has money, house etc. The dudes who are in her friendzone are essentially not attractive to her so why would she pick him, to give him pity s3x once and a while?
You guys, I don't understand what's happening, wmen do not need men anymore for resources in the West which means that the only thing that remains are tingles, and tingles are not found in your friendzone.
It's very simple, traditionalism is dead in the West, it's a fcking impass because we have screwed the rules of nature aka a man provides for a wman. Now wmen provide for themselves they don't give a fck about you.
In the countries around the globe where traditionalism works, men are still the provider, that's all.
You guys still think wmen whill want you for who you are here, that shit is over and done, at least until we revert things as they were before.
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Yeah but they don't want these guys because these guys are desperate. Personality I am 41yo, I make 6 figs in GBP, last girlfriend was 26yo... I am not serving any 40 something wman, even if attractive, a couple a smash at best but that's about it...
And I know for a fact that they are totally invisible to dudes with money, and status and guess what, it's exactly these dudes they want.
So essentially their only option is to give away their bodies to dudes they despise in exchange of money, resources and security and they would be winning?
And let's assume they still manage to get a young attractive dude with possibility money, what will they be? At best a momentary target practice.
And that would be winning?
I have loads of them in my company, I know for a fact half are on Xanax and in therapy, most are single, and they would be winning?
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@DMac-YTuber I am rather good looking and tall, won't say I am a Chad but I've never struggled to get chicks. Seven years ago I fell in love and decided to commit, so from bad boy who didn't five a f I became emotionally receptive, was buying gift, caring and all, and really meant what I was doing...
Two months. Two months to get the "you're not the same as before, I need my space", despite her always asking me to be nicer.
It's the only time in my life I've been disrespected and dumped, the only time I was acting good, was in love and wanted to build something.
Draw your own conclusions from that, I did, nice guy will never ever come back, that guy is gone.
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If she's over 25 and single she's wreked because she wouldn't be single otherwise, there's always a reason she's in that situation.
You're not gonna find a broad at 35 telling you "oh mister RetroCaptain I was so waiting for you all these time", well actually you could, but that's called love-bombing and it's a red flag telling you you're being manipulated.
So yeah, bottom line, you want an unwreked one, less that 25 of age, a couple of dudes before you at the very best and a stavle family. Otherwise, it's just for fun.
That may sounds extreme but, from my own experience, at 41 and having lived in four countries, it's really not. I had one sane wman in my life, one... And in fact it's the only one I am still in contact with.
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@nhvanonerz8244 Just give yourself time, you'll know it when you are ready. You can still date but with a different mindset, like if you were enjoying a temporary pleasure (which is actually what it really is nowadays), so that when she starts disrespecting/shit-testing you, you will get rid of her without any problem and when she dumps you you won't care a single bit.
The key is to always put yourself first and steer all your energies in your hobbies, passions and work, then wmen become accessory. It takes work to get to that minset because we are educated otherwise from childhood but once it's done, no going back. You see, wmen jave adapted with all that social media and simpish BS so that they could take advantage of it but we have not been able to do the same, most men are still suck in the 80s, that's why we are in that situation today.
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@SoulReaper317 Yeah yeah I agree but at this point, they should have understood that simping doesn't work as well still they are inexplicably doing it. I had an ex who was a social media influencer or whatever it's called, she received gifts, paypal transactions and I am talking about hundreds of British pounds, was driven by dudes from her house to mine and these dudes perfectly knew I was smashing her, I mean, you should have heards what she was saying about them, they were not even humans in her eyes.
Me, I was doing nothing at all, zero efforts and sure she used to complain but I was still the one running through her... But it will never change, in fact it will get worse before it maybe gets better, as long as they receive validation and attention on social media, serious dating is screwed.
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First reddit story, ultra controlling and untrusting behaviour, jealousy, lack of locus of control, anxiety, obvious projection, that's nice and big cluster-B personality disorders (NPD, BPD) makers. No way it's gonna get better, it's gonna get much much worse, no matter what you do, run away and do it fast.
And Taylor is right, what they want to check, it's exactly what they are doing because their mind is not capable of understanding that everyone is not like them.
The guy who could tell the truth form the lie, it's because he's been gaslighted big time. Same, that's evil manipulation tactics, the same kind of sh*t cults do to brainwash you. You get that gut feeling you get away no questions asked, for your own sake.
Last but not least, if she says "all my exes were abusive" or even only "my ex was abusive", you're the next abusive ex on the list, even if you're the nicest guy is the world, 100% guaranteed.
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As it stands nowadays, no, there is no point in having a relationship as man nowadays. If you think like a wman does (aka what do I get from it) you will see that what you get is basically nothing. A wman will get your income, resource, time, attention and security and she's bored, and ahe will be bored, she can get a new dudes in like 2 minutes.
If you want a family (wife, children) you'd rather get her very young and from a good family... but even there there's bo guarantee.
There is a difference between men and wmen. We have no hypergammy, in other words we don't get in a relationship considering the other one's status, money and resources.
We don't have that instinct to "get a better deal" also, we are not addicted to validation and attention as they are.
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mmm... We are always visual. Look and youth is what attract us then obviously, for a commitment, we want to have an easygoing, caring and loyal wman, obviously.
Wmen however, are always in fantasyland or utilityland, it's one or the others, in other words, it's "he makes me feel the tingles" or "he can provide for me". Basically, they categorise men.
In that first video, we see her talking about the first category of men but then, she switches on the second category, you see the clear demarcation.
We men don't categorise, we like oe we don't, period.
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Being perfect with them is actually very detrimental in 99.9% of the times, as at 43 years old I met one with whom it was not the case, one, over many.
Women nowadays are completely off the rail, for that reason, being perfect, which is a rational concept, means nothing to them.
Personally, I had far more chicks kissing my ass and crying for me because I was the opposite of perfect than the other way around, it's unfortunate, but it is what it is.
Damn I even had one who wanted to be slaped in the face on the regular.
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