Comments by "daze507" (@daze507) on "[Response] "I Wanted To Be A Wife" Girl Is Shocked That Her Man Vanished Without A Trace" video.

  1. Being rejected by a wman is a blessing... Because she would have been a complete PITA and a waste of time, resources and energy anyway. When they dump you, it becomes someone else's problem.
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  2. The only mystery here is why did you waste your time having that piece of garbage using you as an emotional tampon? Bro, escorts cost a bit sure but you don't have to deal with all that crap... And you get what you pay for.
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  3. No, it's when you "frequent" a lot of them, it becomes a recurring pattern and you understand exactly how they operate and function. I am 41yo, I can confirm every single thing he is talking about.
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  4.  @204rego  Let's be honest, which men has never been hurt at some point. Unless you have narcissistic personality disorder we all went through that stuff once or twice. These are the best lessons.
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  5. No clue what a Pokémon partner is but I fully trust you on that one.
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  6. And that's nothing bro, they are capable of far worse than that.
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  7.  @acrossARTS  You are right I admit but because the answer is complex. Let's say that men and wmen are on a different clock in life. So yes, as a 41yo man I admit that I still needed wman validation and attention until like 35yo, maybe not as much as them but yeah, did. Then, it started to change, I started to find validation in my accomplishments, career, money and status. Nowadays... Well nowadays I can fairly say without a trace of hesitation that I don't give a single damn about what a wman thinks about me, really zero. The thing is, wmen will need that all their life. Even when they are in their 30/40s and they tell you they don't need no man or that they are strong and independent, it's BS, I can tell you for a fact that they need that more than ever. That's the essential difference.
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  8.  @acrossARTS  And that's perfectly fine. The man I am today was not the man I was 10 years ago who in turn was not the man I was 20 years ago, my perspective on things and also on myself has changed drastically with time. We all have a different path in life and different experiences so that's why I won't tell you it's like this or like that, you will have to figure out everything by yourself and it's normal and trust me your perspectives will change too, big time, I can only speak from experience, the same way Taylor comments the Tiktok videos. I am watching this content for pure entertainment really, I am really not looking for validation because I am perfectly happy and in phase with who I am but maybe a few years ago that would have been different, I don't know this kind of content did not really exist or was still really niche. I am seeing a chick now but it's nothing serious, we just fck, she doesn't want anything else and I don't want either so it's perfectly fine, things are clear. She probably sees other dudes, in fact, she does but I don't mind, it's all about having a good time. I would have not done that before because I know I would have gotten attached very fast but not anymore, now I just don't care. Also one thing that you guys don't have is that I saw the dating scene change, when I was 20 and there was no smartphone or social medias, everything was different. That thing I think also helps to put things in perspective. Before a wman had access to her immediate surroundings, that means like a few dozen of men at best, now she has access to the entire world... The hell you want to compete with that? It's screwed up by definition.
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  9. Yeah that's what happens when you have no intention to commit. I went the other way, used to want a stable long term thing, now I just don't give a crap anymore "you're not happy, ok bye, close the door on your way out".
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  10. Course they can, just treat them like crap in other words, play the Chad.
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  11. I tried it once with a broad who wanted to monkey branch to me... It would have been only problem, not worth it so I did it, I wanted to know what it feels. I was a bit disappointed to be honest. However, having a chick bombarding you with PMs and visibly going into panic mode is an experience to be lived.
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  12.  @dstone777ds  Yeah, she was just sending message but I was not answering like I was dead.
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  13.  @dstone777ds  Yeah but that would have not been a great ghosting experience. Not that I gave much sht anyway...
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  14.  @204rego  Oh yeah, definitely. These guys still have to heal and recalibrate themselves, the red pill rage as it is commonly called. I don't think Taylor is one of them though, you don't feel the rage and frustration within him, he explains how it is based on his experiences. Was he hurt? Probably, but I am quite sure he is way over it now. In fact, if I am not wrong he is 37yo and that makes sense. At that age you really start seeing all that as a circus.
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  15. Simple answer: Respect your man, dont sht-test him like a child, be easygoing, be loyal and supportive, do not compete with him and don't be a complaining PITA. There, done.
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  16. Everything you do for yourself helps, it can be physical, mental, spiritual, professional, artistical. This is all self-improvement and cultivating the love of one-self. Once you reach a certain point, when it comes to wmen, you just don't give a fck if they like you or not.
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  17. Understandable but that pass. After a while you just understand them and don't give a crap anymore, no hate anymore, just indifference, it's liberating you'll see.
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  18. As it stands nowadays, no, there is no point in having a relationship as man nowadays. If you think like a wman does (aka what do I get from it) you will see that what you get is basically nothing. A wman will get your income, resource, time, attention and security and she's bored, and ahe will be bored, she can get a new dudes in like 2 minutes. If you want a family (wife, children) you'd rather get her very young and from a good family... but even there there's bo guarantee. There is a difference between men and wmen. We have no hypergammy, in other words we don't get in a relationship considering the other one's status, money and resources. We don't have that instinct to "get a better deal" also, we are not addicted to validation and attention as they are.
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