Comments by "daze507" (@daze507) on ""Dating Is SO Hard" 30+ Yr Old Single Mother Realises Her Getting A Boyfriend Is Hard" video.
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If you managed to keep that stage (I call it the love-bombing phase, when they say stuff like "where were you all this time, you're the man of my life, I'll never leave you" and buy you plenty of gifts) for one entire year you really did a good job... Especially nowadays where they get bored of you after about two weeks and pretty much immediately look for a brand new fantasy in their dude rooster that's inside their smartphones.
And yeah after that phase you'll meet the real her, usually it's not an improvement, especially if she hid her mental issues, that can be shocking when you are unaware, usually the first time you deal with it.
Something else to be aware too, the more intense this initial stage is, the more it will be the complete opposite, negatively speaking, when it's over. A healthy long term relationship does not starts like that, it starts slow. Do not take her words seriously in that phase, they are worth nothing and will change like wind.
Last but not least, when that happens, when you get knocked off your pedestal, don't take it personally and don't think it defines you as a man, you were her hero now she has another one, it's all cool, the same will happen to that dude, and the one after and after again until cat lady days.
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