Comments by "D. San" (@DSan-kl2yc) on "What Japanese Think of Herbivore Men | ASIAN BOSS" video.

joseefu joseefu that's what people mean by convenient. Women make dating tougher because they aren't willing to go halfway. And they act like their looking down on people for making the effort when they usually aren't willing to do it. And then complain if they don't get it. It's a very convenient system if judging. But it's a horribly flawed system and it's one where they get a really bad mindset of superiority. And it's flawed because they aren't actually judging or learning to look for traits or anything. Women learn the hard way and perhaps never or that learning leads them to lsbians because they don't want to understand a simple fact. Someone being congenial can be a phony or not a good person. Getting along and having fun is a part of it but you need to look beyond that. Never going after someone ... I swear when women are just starting out dating. When their young, and don't know better, they are actually more willing to crush on someone and make attempts to ask them out. And I'd on mean this in some oedo way but women become more timid with time or learn not to care. It's like an overwxgerate shot gun approach while constantly telling themselves that they don't care. You develop that mind set of not caring and just makes things harder. It's a slow and inefficient way. I forgot the name but eliminating all possibilities by trying them is duuuumb compared to a careful choice. It develops two bad mindsets. And it's all based on shyness.
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Burning most of them don't defend herbs though. They don't think they are the main factor but that's not defense. In fact they seem.to think of them as feminized and just gender flipped who would like the. And not consider liking or dating them. Older women? Again that would work if they were young and feminized boys but we're just talking about regular shy people with a lot of varies traits. Not feminine pretty boys. Who probably want to date people in their same age range, when they have more in common and have families ECT. I mean we don't know how much older but these aren't kids who need a parent either. I'm sure shy guys need to get out there but women need to learn how to look for good traits. As well as because it's not as big and they wouldn't be it in the streets there are a weird number of virgin women in Japan. Who can't get dates, and just stay in ect. And by weird I just mean oddly large. When you first hesr about this you'd think itd be mostly geek guys but it's actually encompasses a lot of people in Japan of both gender. I honestly think the biggest issue for the birth rate is the economy of education that the Japanese feel they have to take part in. College isn't free and middle class families spend more on tutors and a tutoring type school. Also housing is expensive. And Japanese doesn't develop it's country sides either. So they have space that is just not being used. These are things the government could easily do. As well as open immigration a bit. One of the girls.made a good point. After college, the working hours would make it hard. Though you could still do it from the office. If it was just getting someone. If a woman wants the dating experience, then it'll be hard.
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sync I call bullshit. No.man in that video said it. Take a poll and most men wouldn't say it. A very small subset of traditional wannabe masculine guys might and they are probably already married.ost guys don't care. Out a poll anywhere and I bet you that ll be the result. In any general area. The only problem is that women might not be used to taking the chance that a guy isn't interested. And women have to keep in mind that the important thing to keep in mind is that you want to get to know someone but just someone being willing to go on with you or sleep with you isn't the same. It depends on the person. What I mean is someone willing to sleep with a girl doesn't mean it's someone willing to be in a relationship or a good person. Gotta learn or see their values. Honestly getting to know a person before dating them a little would be best but not always feasible. For guys especially cause then someone might come in and ask them out whenever. That's how it feels like for a guy anyway.
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