Comments by "D. San" (@DSan-kl2yc) on "Better Bachelor" channel.

  1. I did the same search. The last quarter has titles like " how women get screwed in divorce", " what women can do about divorce inequality"
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  2. That wouldn't be a problem if the ideals for the U.S weren't so bad and one sided. But I agree. Rom coms are awful not because of the romance, but because of the kind of people involved.
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  3.  @timothyn4699  In the bible, there was a woman that was going to be stoned for adultery. I'm not saying in civilized society we should. But it should definitely be her fault that the divorced happened. She should be punished for it somehow, humanely/financially ect.
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  4. I read an article about guilt proneness. It's an interesting difference that we usually don't make. Some people feel guilty before doing something and don't do it. Guilt is usually just feeling it afterwards
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  5. Like does she imagine telling her kids its alright to lie and fool someone. It's alright to do mean things to people. She really disgusts me.
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  6. No he's still a jerk. She's just nasty and shallow, even pathetic, disgusting ect. But he isn't moral or ethical or kind. Take that attitude and apply it to another scenario, belittling people that want to hang out with you. And he's gross too. Both are crap.
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  7. I think some guys are scared of waking up with no willy
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  8. It's not a role. It's a cultural value that exists regardless of other things. It's like believing in right and wrong.
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  9. I felt the same. It made me a bit quesy. kinda bothered/angry.
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  10. I know that case. Very messed up. No idea why that woman did such a thing. But the man is still a good person.
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  11. To be fair, I knew a girl that did mercy ships for two non-consecutive years. But people should tell women that's not a good way to do it. Someone should say that the discipline to not do that will help them for when they're in a relationship.
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  12. That matches what she said in the video, by the 4-5th day, she was getting 1 match a day
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  13. It effects all of us. So it's not about feeling sorry
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  14. You act like he wasn't using them and being immoral too. It isn't that simple. Human beings aren't pure instinct. So whatever natural state there is, is filtered and muddled through various layers. This means that there is a spectrum to it. What you're doing is basically what women do when they date jerks, blame all men, and become lesbians about it. Instead of just trying to avoid the worst of it.
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  15.  @wj00312  We have to trust people, that's why it hurts so much when they betray us. Best you can do is not assume someone's character is something that they haven't shown you it is.
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  16. There are women that feel moral disgust to cheating though.
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  17.  Jennifer Boehm  No one would suggest you date someone like that tho. But be careful with words like insincere or demands sex, even egotistical. With insincere and egotistical, make sure you aren't looking for those when they aren't there. And demanding for sex isn't just asking and looking for intimacy. Guys are the most surprised when women date awful people.
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  18.  @backwardsman8887  That happens. But what happens as well is that some women date someone who earns about the same or less than them. My mom earns less than my dad, my dad is a bombastic, wannabe leader kinda guy ect. But my sisters both married semi down. One less so, and she doesn't like working as much as he does. They sort of run the household. Women have certain characteristics. But there is variation. There's x factors like personalities, values ect.
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  19. Could be automatic. Some of these cameras are like that.
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  20. Cutting off your arm and calling it winning is ridiculous. It's detrimental to the human race
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  21. I think it's based on housewives. Even so, the rate should diminish over time. And if they weren't housewives then they shouldn't get anything like. Except maybe if someone ruined the marriage, then maybe they should keep half or the main things that belonged jointly, or 2/3rds.
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  22.  Emad Ahmed  I think that's BS. Men go for so much more variety. While looking only at their own characteristics and not women's material possessions. Women might go for a fat guy, if he's rich ect. Sometimes the physical characteristic of being tall does out do the rest. Look at how varied porn is. Women have maybe 1-2 ideal body types. And one of those is very niche. The rest is a medium amount of muscular. Guys tend to make more down to earth choices of who they deserve and what they can get. There are men that like all variety of women without it being considered niche except extreme obesity. Basically 80% of men are after 80% of women. And only 20% are considered so ugly that they couldn't find someone. And that's just flipping that saying. But stats prove it. Women reproduce at twice the rate as all men. Meaning Twice as many women reproduce than men. Another way to put is that the bar is much lower for them. Guys are not holding onto some high(impossible) standard of only the most beautiful women or anything. There was also an article about synthetic spouses ect. They created a modeling to see what it would take for a woman to marry a guy. And the guy basically had to make over twice as much as her or some other crazy crap. Plus the famous only 6 foot guys thing some girls have. I'm not saying all women but this is the type of girl we're talking about. And there are girls that prefer good guys, or someone that they have something in common with, or some traditional guy. Or rough dudes who are still good dudes ect.
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  23. Like people are saying, sex would only improve for awhile while you learn what the other person likes. She probably gets annoyed at the idea it isn't an exciting one night stand or something.
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  24. I'm glad these comments aren't giving him a pass.
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  25. that's a stretch. To what goal, and by whom, and if so why bring people in. Those are different issues.
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  26. She needs a psychologist. I doubt jesus can help her. Why would you want danger in a relationship?
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  27. It depends on the cut.
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  28. That's bad but maybe you saved someone's life. I think the lesson is to call the police yourself, and talk to the girlfriend about reporting her. Or leave them to it because they've expressed their choice. But someone could just as well have thanked you.
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  29. Probably the most best romance in a u.s movie is the side plot of Jack and Jill. It sounds like a joke but it's at least down to earth.
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  30.  @meme5546  I understand what your saying, and that's a good point if you come at it from that perspective. My point is that it's something men value in general. You can say it's a cultural value among men. I would say regardless of women, and growing up, I did not assume women did not have this. And a woman could have this value. It is the value of self sacrifice. Of having either the power or the will to intercede. "As a Person, Not doing something when you have the knowledge and righteousness to do it is the same as not having any courage" To me it's about knowing what is good and righteous. And hoping(resolving) that I would act right if the situation presented itself. It isn't about the woman, but the righteous and moral act itself.
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  31. A woman that doesn't want you to help with her child isn't good either. Basically she's put a barrier and turns the relationship into just a casual thing.
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  32. Aggressive eye contact? It's probably women are prejudice towards masked men.
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  33. That sounds like a psycho
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  34. Wow. If he did that's amazing. She's even worst. She has a stereotype in her head instead.
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  35. I wouldn't laugh. It's sad. It shows he's emotionally lonely. An object is an object. It might serve a purpose. And I always thought women would do this first
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  36. disgusting. But I wouldn't be surprised if it's blown out of proportion. The media loves salacious niche crap like this.
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  37. I feel bad for her.
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  38. That's called being crazy. Like the eiffel tower woman that married it.
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  39. That's like saying defund the military and pretending it's still not twice as much as most other countries. It wouldn't change anything about the states strength And more money for social services for women
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  40. Independent or Dependent aren't traits people want. Dependable is a good trait. A good person in general. I guess independent in the sense that they can support themselves before you're together. But not as a personality trait.
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  41. Some people love a fight. She wants her Yass moment on camera.
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  42. wow that was painful when 10 left. I also agree, he swiped away some girls I thought were cute, like 2. this slightly chubby/thic white girl, this cute asian. And he swiped whichever way on some less attractive girls. And swiping to keep that chubby blue haired girl was like... why. He almost has a henry cavil smile.
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  43. Plus size models beg to differ
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  44. The fact she thinks these guys are mediocre is the problem. Yeah hot girls and skinny girls get hot guys. Almost all men date down, even in terms of looks(usually fitness). It's these "mediocre" guys that are dating down for obese women.
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  45. She could have just taken like an acting class, and gotten into media for cars. Y'know a commentator ect on some sports network.
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  46. But that's clearly wrong in women because it can be unrealistic. So it's quite possible your standard might also be unrealistic
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  47. It's almost a fairy tale. An old fashioned one where with a bad ending and a lesson.
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  48. It isn't even good advice if a mom meets a man that is willing to date her. Each one of these is bad: 1. Like a childless person doesn't know how to deal with a kid and you don't give him the chance to learn? Or maybe he's stepping off to see what you consider appropriate. 2. Punish him for trying to be helpful or anything other than a cheerleader. 3. is this even a stereotype for men? that men are cryptic and women have to read between the lines? Also why not admit that you made a mistake. A relationship doesn't have to be worth it just because you like your child. Anyway what this means is that they were in a relationship where the guy wasn't serious, and they got hurt. I understand it. But I also doubt the guy was cryptic about it. Maybe vague, maybe hot/cold when he wanted to sleep with her or something. But those by themselves are signs he's not into you. 4. She admits she can be fooled. It doesn't matter if you realize you were conned after you've been conned. You aren't smart for that. The fact she thinks romantic gestures are a sign of a mask just goes to show she's been played a lot by a particular type of person. She just wrote the whole thing off precisely because she can't differentiate between good and bad. 5. is actually okay and honest. It makes sense that a parent would, and should, put the child first (upto a point, other people still matter, and your relationship still matters). 6. THAT WAS ALWAYS THE PROBLEM. She should be looking for a dad. She should have been looking for one before she had a child. Someone with either the qualities or intentions. She overly emphasizes how much they don't need him. And how much they don't want him in the family. But they're a package deal? Things don't just happen. People make things happen with their intentions. There is no situation where the people involved will just be a family. It's a choice. And it's a choice both will make. And the best way is to filter out the people that don't want that choice in the first place. So you're looking in the right place, among the right group. 7. this one is half right. It is a standard level of dignity to not be a bootycall ect. But I can imagine she's been all those things. But she's also, maybe by accident, telling women to leave relationships over very basic things. People all fight over stupid shit, friction is normal in any relationship, evne friendships and family. And balance is another word for routine. It can be a synonym for comfort in this case as well. But comfort isn't always right or good. From this advice, a woman might through a guy that either throws off her routine, or she has to change it. To a guy that she wasn't expecting, and that lack of expectation in her future plans might be enough to throw him out. 8. people's bodies are temples only to themselves. And we have physical proof that she does put out. And she mentions falling for guys earlier. And even said she chooses to be a notch in some assholes belt. I don't believe in the weak man/strong man thing. But they certainly want someone submissive to a cruel degree. They want you to know you are being used (which is still putting out). 9. I agree that the kids aren't baggage. Her baggage is baggage. Look what she said about assholes, and using people. She has baggage. She's been through crap relationships. The child is innocent, he's a result of it, he's a result of her life. And her life has definitely has bad choices when it comes to dating. This article is just self centered. It's not dating advice for women. It's just wanking them off to make them feel good.
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  49. Everyone I know that's married hasn't been divorced.
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  50.  @backwardsman8887  But it's not a gun. As much as it hurts. It's an investment in a relationship, and a family. And I'm not saying people have to do it. But there are ways to minimize risks.
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