Comments by "D. San" (@DSan-kl2yc) on "Aba N Preach" channel.

  1. Can't say it hasn't happened to me.
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  2. It's insane that it doesn't protect the boy in this. IX is suppose to be gender neutral now.
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  3. Everyone wants to have a problem with everything but that girl will be fine. She'll probably get married between 28-34 and have like 2-3 kids.
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  4. they're just their for the cameras ect.
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  5.  Moe Green  The glasses one was cute(in the other group). But the one the dude chose was probably the best looking girl in that group. Kinda harsh. If they actually had time to get to know each other. To be honest the experiment was a fail cause people have time to talk longer on tinder and even go on a few dates. Not even the crappiest dating site or app was as shallow as this.
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  6. It's not even humiliating. Y'all way overreacting.
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  7. There's a quote about that. That the biggest problem with communication is the illusion that it's happened.
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  8. Rappers were always the wannabes.They are the heavy metal equivalent. They pretend to be something and and maybe achieve it. Look at early rappers, they were not the gangstas. They were the people looking at them. And the people rapping a fantasy about their street cred when they didn't really do anything that dangerous. There were exceptions, and I don't know enough to know if they myth started getting actual hard people involved but it was always like that. I remmeber having that thought a long time ago.
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  9. It takes a lot time to gather that data and we're in the pandemic. No one is immune. Even the flu people get we have immunities to. Lung damage was found in autopsies. And some young people do get it bad. That's proven. As well as the fact that they could spread it to other people who might get it more badly even if it isn't too bad for them. Jesus Christ. Americans.
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  10. She can blame dudes but she's terrible to women
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  11.  @ImtheONEnotthetwo  could be more than just a jaw. The kind of accident that destroys your jaw will probably hurt the rest of your body and potentially the brain.
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  12. I agree. Women act like the kind of guys that they make fun of.
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  13. BS on most of that. She's doing young people TikTok shit. I don't see any behavioral issues. She sounds like a tex Mex casual girl who is even a bit of a lady. Her attitude isn't aggressive either. It's not atypical of her area. She's really just still young.
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  14.  @softersideofc.c.5655  Well sometimes women and men do date bad people and we should listen to the advce of our family and friends.And sometimes those same people are too prejudice and biased.Hopefully it's both coming from caring about you. Take it in and see how true it is, and how much value that truth has.
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  15. You guys are projecting so much shit on this girl over one dude, in one date. As if everyone should like him or a list. I didn't like him. So I can understand if anyone else didn't. He's the type of person I wouldn't want a converstion with cause it doesn't seem genuine. Who wants a sales pitch or a performance in a conversation.
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  16.  @HomeVidEdd  There's nothing to indicate his life wasn't in a good trajectory until his dad died except her opinion that he was childish. She gave no examples of this. So yeah he does deserve praise. He got over his dad's death, losing his job, and getting dumped. It might not be something outside of what's expected ,but it's not easy, and it takes effort. He did well.
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  17. I think a black kid would rather be a knight or Prince slaying evil like in sleeping beauty, then Cinderella. But maybe not, I don't know. I love romance but just switching the kids roles doesn't make it a boys story.
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  18.  @JT-bt6jy  no they weren't. It's common enough knowledge that it's recommended to the public. The issue was small. And they would have seen the temporary plates. Completely unnecessary. And they're getting raked over the coals for it. One of them was fired. The department disowned their actions.
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  19. I liked her, like how she came off as a person. Like she had advice. I don't think she was being mean. I don't think people should be destroyed. She was helpful and honest.
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  20. Nah I think she's probably straight up a lesbian and the other is maybe bi.
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  21. That's not bad. It's like a consolation prize.
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  22. I liked his attitude. I think cause he knows he's not serious. Maybe you aren't looking for anything big but I think plenty of people aren't that casual for some rando to do it. Compare to the people who aren't serious and seek it out. Like he's not serious. If you wanted casual sex, it honestly wouldn't be that hard. So don't take it beyond that cause most people are looking for a relationship and wouldn't care. At least towards women as far as I know. The amount that care is probably .1 or .01 in either only virgins or rejecting virgins ect.
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  23. If that was suppose to be a date, these people did not go in open minded. They destroyed each other.
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  24. She probably had issues and felt it said something bad about her looks maybe. My friend, as a joke, asked this girl if she can hook me up with someone, and she said something about my looks ect. But this girl was fat as hell. My friend said he goes for big girls cause other girls have too much ego maybe( he said they were bougie). But it's like all girls are like that. Weight or not.
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  25. Omg I was about to comment the same. She seems to like the power she has over her.
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  26.  @muscledoggs566  maybe it was something you both chose at the time. Maybe it was what made sense. Alternatively I can see the counter argument that partner already support that person through that period ect. But I think there are circumstances where it makes sense. Like if you agree to put someone through school and they were going to do the same for you but then they divorce you or cheat in you ect. I think you still owe them that promise. Or for a short period of time as that stay home person is transitioning to living independently. You can't just throw someone out on the street if they aren't guilty of anything. We need to be reasonable instead of reactionary to extremes. But payments/alimony should also be reasonable, either for time, or amount. To meet the ends of the goal.
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  27. You can see his whole life how he would be different. Don't be ridiculous.
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  28. Then why get married. A prenup has it's uses beyond keeping money. If anything, keep money is one of its lower priority ones. Everyone is assuming that they'll be much wealthier than their spouse too.
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  29. ​ @ange6950  A deadbeat is just a poor person who can't afford something. If a guy can't pay, he should just have to take care of the kid for a bit. Women aren't arrested just because they have financial problems, they usually get help. Edit: I'll add that there are bad people regardless of gender, but like the drug war, locking people up is a bad solution that makes the situation worst. And there might be legitimate reasons. And like I said, partly it's silly that guys have to pay for the privilege. And while I do think some guys should be punished for being bad parents, women both chose that person, and that person did not have the right to decline or knew about it very well. And that is unfair. There are cultures that led women abandon their children, and come back into their lives without issue. And that was praised. But these people have no sympathy for the situation of people that might really have their lives in disorder. How is that unworthy of sympathy.
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  30.  @Carlinisalive  I have a theory that the dude thought he was a stalker or something. Or maybe it was just to let him know he could leave or she didn't tell the dude who he was.
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  31.  @dawnramsey9574  he doesn't sound like a narcissist cause he had no air of self importance. Talked about and acknowledged his bad points. He didn't seem to think he deserved it or anything.
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  32. Wow. Like cheating is all the explanation she needs
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  33. A loving parent is a wonderful thing. it's like some people don't understand that dads are loving parents too. And if the parents are together, and they're loving to both themselves and their child, then that's a damn good template for that child for a future relationship and a future child that they might have.
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  34. That's not how it works. They didn't fine her features that pretty.
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  35. What you're saying is obvious. But there's always people here that think people from other countries are wrong and don't know their lived experience. They literally told a Haitian that they know more about Haiti
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  36.  @xxcrisxx3693  you're not wrong. They're just bad people that don't care about hurting people much. They have excuses. The type that doesn't feel bad till after the fact. Or selfishly when it happens to them.
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  37.  @t_papi  that's not what's wrong. Are you being dumb on purpose. At the basic level it's willfully hurting his girl. Then lying to her. Then manipulating her. And this dude in particular does that at a huge level, to multiple women, simultaneously, while being fake as hell. Imagine stringing a long and staying with someone that abuses kids just to sleep with the mom or whatever. That's psychopathic. Whatever believes you have. They're unrelated to your beliefs on how to treat people. If you're beliefs are that it's okay to do this to everyone, then you're a shit person.
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  38.  @user-pd9ju5dk5s  a rape is not sexual relations. Crazy person
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  39. If she worked that hard, that still says something. She put the time in to get that paper.
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  40.  @ILoveTheGreyScale  whatever your point was, was lost in a diatribe as you went off on a tangent. Not everyone in university is rich. That's why student debt is a problem. So most aren't. You need to realize this weird bias you have. Americans seem to go to these extreme polarized positions.
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  41. So he won a pissing contest? And that's the point? Like I don't understand viewing things that way.
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  42. That's what I always think in these things even back in the reality show, and dating show days. They want to "win". Not even clout other than thinking themselves the "best" girl, in a pagent sort of way.
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  43. There's no incel movement dude. It's a situation. And even the stereotype is them hating on women. Which isn't true either. Some have crossover with like mgtow, and the colored pills, ect and have some bitterness. But even within that stereotype.of the forum ones, a lot just act hopeless and just admit or think that they're very ugly or unattractive/undesirable in general.
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  44. This is why some girls think y'all hate women. Nothing indicates bad intentions on her part. That's just something you made up. She picked the safest and nicest girl that he has the most chance with, that won't screw him over, and that he'd get along with.
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  45. that was always her definition.
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  46.  @junkmail1111  I don't know where she says kidnapped but she put it as just missing or dead. But if the hypothetical is "you know I was kidnapped, would you wait for me or remarry" and that's a very different question. It's more about holding and waiting for someone to be returned, if you knew they were kidnapped. It would be more about waiting. But that's not how it sounded to me. If someone doesn't know if their married, we're back to thinking someone is dead.
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  47. I think she's just acting tough. If it had been in private without the camera she would have bullshitted something else. But what really sucks is how little we can do about it, especially with morally bankrupt people that can't even feel shame or sorry for their actions. Once she said that, once she tanked her relationship just to be tough on camera, there's nothing that one can do or say.
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  48. He's married tho. And that marriage rate is wrong. And the physical danger is much less.
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  49. What does yelling at customer service have to do with it. Who was on the attack there. I think filming the whole interaction was wrong. Like why attack someone for showing frustration. The lack of sympathy is insane. You can't attack someone and then blame them for getting hurt and broke. You broke it. It's on you.
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  50. Maybe you're right since you are a girl, and there is a stereotype of even broken artists getting women. But that is a really dumb idea. It's a stereotypical idea. Most men aren't aggressive in the first place. It relies on an illusion, instead of the individual.
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  51. Bullshit. She literally had him in mind and picked someone that was in the same position as him. With matching interests. It's insane that so many comments don't see that. I've no idea why so many wanna paint her bad just cause she's gabby
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  52. Let me tell you a ton of people lose out of their 20s and don't have anything to show for it at the end. You didn't lose, you just worked on something else. You have something to show for it.
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  53. I think you are right but that just proves that they shouldn't be together.
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  54. Reminds me of a friend of mine who couldn't say no but complained so hard about this one dude asking her out. I get its hard to say no. Especially when young but that dude didn't deserve to be thought of that way and trashed cause of her social issue.
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  55. You can admire someone and not want to sleep with them. But you can admire someone and want to sleep with them. If someone has a talent, they can seem more attractive. If they carry themselves in a way you respect, it can enhance attraction ect.
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  56.  @JT-bt6jy  look at the video and the cop himself says that he understands that and it happens all the time. These cops reacted badly. Because they stopped being reasonable. If they had acted reasonably, and and asked reasonable questions, this wouldn't have happened. If police training wasn't so antagonistic, this wouldn't have happened. Look at a video of the difference between nordic police and the U.S
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  57. No it doesn't. Rogan had said dumb shit. He's himself said it. And he's done it during covid. The rich man survived. Donald trump did too, and he's not fit or healthy. Nor was Rogan ever in a life threatening scenario here. For anyone expecting him to not survive this. No one thought he was at deaths door. That was a strawman these guys made just now.
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  58.  @jp8649  I am all for empathy and caring about each other, and sometimes people's opinions let us see ourselves or an issue in a way we are just not capable of. But this is just wrong. When you do creative works, or have a public persona, you definitely need some distance from people. The work should talk for you. There should be a curtain between you. For one thing, no criticism should be delivered so harshly that you can't accept it, especially personal. And it's perfectly fine to dismiss it then. But these creators need to understand that you shouldn't take it too personally. And the way you should take the information should be how it affects your work. You should be one degree removed to be somewhat objective. That's the goal. It doesn't mean it's easy. But to some extent, she should contain how much she cares about it, to some extent she shouldn't care too much. That's part of her job. But what you're saying is someone who is taking it way too personal as a creative. And it's not all on her, it sounds like she's being harassed almost. And it's fine for her to take a break. That's part of not caring too much.
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  59. The way I see it is that asking for marriage is like asking someone out. If you get to a point and someone wants to marry and someone doesn't then, then it's like sleeping with someone that wants to date and someone that doesn't. Basically the two people don't want the same thing. And you shouldn't use someone. Not saying there's a specific timeframe. But if someone wants to and someone doesn't, then that's an incompatibility issue.
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  60. No she didn't. She picked out a nice girl for him that's probably the most similar in temperament and understanding of him as any of them would be.
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  61.  @LipSyncLover  Anyone "can be" something. "Sometimes", "can be", "Sometimes [...] a ploy". Sometimes they are not. Sometimes you don't have to be an artist. Sometimes you don't have to have an art related job or hobby. It isn't the hobby that crafted the person, or makes them compassionate or gentle ect.
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  62.  @VinceOfAllTrades  here's where that's wrong. If it's 9/10, then you have no reason to cheat. All this bullshit you're saying is bullshit. You aren't saving a relationship by being selfish. And if you're staying for someone for financial reasons than you're trash. Especially if you're cheating on them. Only point would be if you feel unsafe. Which isn't a reason to cheat because than you'd be doing something unsafe. That's when ghosting or calling the police after you sneak out is okay.
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  63.  @mac1bc  no see he's not even justifying it much. Maybe about his girlfriend but not the other 30. And even then he didn't seem to care what he did or said to her. that's why he's so odd. He doesn't even care enough to justify it to himself mentally
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  64. was that the girl that was "too much". I don't know.... I like that energy....
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  65. There's reasons
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  66. He's probably a psychopath. Low empathy but still capable of cold, calculated thinking. I don't mean it in the killer sense..some psychos never kill anyone. But they do need to be taught how to deal with people.
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  67. To be fair, that one girl chose the asian. She probably has a thing. And that thing worked for him. Dude didn't even have to do anything. Automatic win. In a way, he's lucky. I don't think he was disinterested. Some asians come off like that. I bet he's an immigrant or came here young. Probably didn't know what to say ect.
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  68. It shouldn't even be about statistics. We.shouldnt have to justified Father's anymore that we do moms. It's their day. Single moms get praised on . Mother's day just like married moms. Dating moms, foster moms, stepmoms, married moms, are all mom's. And they all get celebrated on Mother's day.
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  69.  @reebul8768  then just admit you were wrong. With wrong information. Change your mind. Own up to it. You're transplanting your culture and projecting it into others.
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  70. ​ @messyangel1169  How is that clear when she led him, talked to someone else that didn't think so, gestured that she wanted him, did whatever she had to to get him inside. No one gave either of them a test to see how drunk they were. We don't know how she was acting before or during. Nothing to indicate that one was more drunk than the other. You're creating sentiments that don't exist. How would he know when she's acting fine, how would he know when he's drunk.
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  71. There's other ones than tinder, and dating sites were first. What someone wrote was that Tinder is so big that just through sheer numbers, you can find someone looking for you.
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  72. Who hasn't hit something in frustration. Maybe not to this extent. I've worked retail and I've seen two women just break down crying. I know a nurse that did too, in front of me. I've almost felt the same by myself just being attacked by my manager, at home. How can people not sympathize unless you've had only wonderful jobs. I think the self harm aspect is unique maybe to his mental health issues but the rest can happen to anyone.
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  73. Look at the history of animation and in Japan and you can see that they just drew cartoons but with people(like popeye). Anime literally has cartoon eyes like disney and other early cartoons. But as time went on, the bodies got slightly more proportional. That's it. They look like cartoons. Like at osamu tezuka, look at art from the 40s-60s. Then look at 70s, 80s, 90s ect. And you can see the change. But you can also see where the cartoon eyes came from.
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  74. Nah she wants something and he doesn't want to give it. She should just move on. People have lost the frame.of reference for how dating was/is for people that want a relationship. Which was the standard. No matter how amazing the dude is, they don't want the same thing. She wants a pretty traditional relationship. But with their age difference, it probably won't work out anyway
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  75. Think they didn't mean that as a spiritual thing. But that she had an imaginary person, and wasn't allowing herself to just meet people
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  76. No man. Even whatever advocate doesn't sound more racist than actual racists, or even your average right wing media person
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  77. Literally the type of comment I see the most. But there's no basis of fact in that opinion. And no reason to doubt her intention based on the result. The interviews are short for the guys and I don't see the basis of saying he made good picks or what she wants yet. The guys just seem to unserious and with no info on them. We also don't know what she likes at all.
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  78. You guys are being so harsh just cause you identify or like that marine it seems. She scored as well as the marine guy. Enough for Mensa(according to a comment. Well I looked it up and she's one point off). And did it with something of a handicap. She's doing alright with a struggle. I don't think people in the military are dumb or anything. My bro went, and then got like a masters ect. Lots of smart jobs there(and people doing them).
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  79.  @dark3rthanshadows  Maria was also the one that brought EQ and other stuff. Some of you have selective memory or something.
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  80. That is bullshit. If she didn't like him then she didn't like him. I don't like him either, personality wise. She seemed to. But shedisagreed with his answer to a question. That is not an accessory. She doesn't like labels, while that deals with accessories, it's not about how it looks but what it says about the person.
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  81.  @relics2397  you shouldn't be thinking of it as your house. It's "The Show". And you're reading condescension into it. It's your house when it's done.
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  82. I didn't. But I'll look into it
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  83. Y'know similar to the bot story, when I was a kid I rejected like two girls cause I thought they were pranking me. I know it happens twice but I only remember one of them. This girl was with a group of her friends laughing and she came up to talk to me. And it just reminded me of middle school when girls did that right before a prank. I think she was serious cause she kinda tried one more time after that.
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  84. Sometimes failure is good. So they can move on.
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  85. Your understanding of systemic racism is not the one used in academics or understood to be the term..you made up your own definition and slapped the already existing term to it. No it has nothing to do with legality. And can happened from neglect and lack of oversight. Even if it's then caught and punished.
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  86. And that's factually not what systemic racism is. And never was. His entire premise is wrong.
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  87. My guess is that they aren't trying to find the dangerous part. But some small city or town and get lost. Maybe they don't look up where they're going. Or the area they're travelling through. It's like not wanting to go to New York. And instead heading to some other area.
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  88. she's alright and kinda pretty objectively. But her voice and attitude are grating. It's good that men become unattracted to her tho. It's a smart defense mechanism we have. Because someone like her would definitely look down on most guys, and use them. Her ugly personality radiates out. She should stop justifying herself and actually let herself heal
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  89.  @spiceyboogerspiceybooger6437  I don't know but it's prob something with southern propaganda from reconstruction or slavery. I know the iconography of it exists from very old times.
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  90. It's weird dude. Look back, remove yourself from it. It's a bit weird that someone in their 20s, that's a post college age, is diving into High School for dates. I have a friend that went through something similar. They broke up and have a kid so their still connected. Guess what happened, she was like 26-27 and dating an 18 year old. Who she probably met when he was 17. And I know someone who was like 32-33, and dating an 18 year old too(32 yo woman). It gets creepy, but also she has problems. She broke her marriage up for that. She's a mess to date. And this other girls family thinks she has it together and tell her to listen to this 30s woman who has a broken life. I was friends with her, but I felt bad for who she was dating and I told her so, and stopped talking to her. Why is she going to bring all the baggage she has to a child like that.
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  91. What?
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  92. Studying and passing tests isn't easy either though. A lot of people act like school isn't tough.
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  93.  @mybestnugget7514  he's not being promiscuous. He's being psychopathic to people. He's actively hurting people. Lying, manipulating, legitimately.gaslighting. If any man did a video on a woman that said this shit, no one would call her brave. Cause she wouldn't be. It's nuts.
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  94.  Kano  he's demeanor and strategy is very similar to psychopathic disorder. Murderers, the worst ones are know for it because it allows them to do these crimes without their visible outward demeanor showing because they have low empathy. Which is exactly what this guy shows. He shows the merest hint of humanity.
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  95.  @mybestnugget7514  most people cheat somewhat impulsively, or that justify it, or they feel bad about it afterwards These are all different types of personalities. And they might have different disorders. But are distinguished and different from the coldness and detachness of psychopathy. Just not like every murderer is a psychopath. most murders are impulsive or accidental. Some are sociopaths. Or they do it for a reason(like money or culture). But most aren't coldly chill about it.
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  96. I knew someone that married someone 14 years older. She was probably college age, and they lasted till death(his). I think it's tough. Your partner will age ahead of you, and you'll live with their decline more. I think how old the people are matters. You mentioned maturity. Personally I think intention matters. Someone who's just going to sleep with young people is a menace, who is using them, and might hurt theme emotionally, and affect their development. But I know my opinion isn't the most common one, right now people don't want to say mean things about sleeping around. And I think it's fine if the people who want to sleep around, do so with each other. But using young people as a source for easy lays just doesn't sit right with me. Especially if the person is uncaring about it. A 19 year old dating a 29 year old, and she wants marriage next year, and she wants a kid within 5 years, and that's what he wants too, that's different to me. She'll be fulfilling her desire that she probably wouldn't with someone her own age. Now we could question why she wants those things at that age but that's a hypothetical, and I just created a scenario where it would make sense for someone to seek someone older. And we can't assume that this hypothetical girl doesn't find an older guy attractive or that they don't get along, and have chemistry. That aside, I reiterate that it is hard. My friends saw their dad die of old age basically. He retired, and I can't say if his wife resented it, but I can say maybe he felt underappreciated. I also can't say that he felt that way because of his age, and that's not uncommon to dads(I think my dad feels the same way), and his kids loved him. And there's no indication his wife didn't love him either. But I don't recommend big age differences.
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  97. Why even do this at school. What about kids that don't have a mom. They could also just say what male role model in your life, like an uncle or grandad. But honestly they should either stop both, or just let the kids feel that pain. Pain isn't some evil thing. It tells us something. Maybe the children that feel that will become better fathers. Maybe they'll go to the mom and tell her and she'll make better choices going forward.
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  98.  @Lidia_shalimar  Doesn't that mean you weren't a strong person. You didn't support the timid person, or help them grow. So how many timid people did you date that you think that they all want what's worst for you? I just don't think that is connected to personality traits like shyness or nervousness. Like, a human being wanting what's good for you is unrelated to whether they struggle with something or not. A person might also be confident because they're a psychopath. And lots of other reasons aside. Self esteem isn't an indication of what kind of person they are at all. But what happens if they go through something bad that shatters that confidence. That kinda trait is way too fluid. Also Timid doesn't equal insecure either. I'm sure there are shy people that have a very secure relationship together. You kinda added that bit yourself. Guys don't view the timid and insecure as together because girls can be insecure regardless. Anyone can be insecure. The person I mentioned in my comment is someone who does a combat sport, isn't afraid of a street fight. Yet he was very insecure in his relationships and broke them off cause he thought a lot of girls cheated. And timidity is not a negative trait because it just isn't. It isn't a negative trait because it doesn't mean that they're a bad person. It doesn't exactly say anything about the type of person they are morally, or in trusthworthiness, or guilt-proneness, or their capacity to care. You're literally only talking about things like social situations. And bashfulness can be cute. For example, we/you/people might find it cute in children or animals. And guys can find anything a woman does attractive.
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  99. Even that dream was more modest. A little home somewhere.
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  100. And he knew she did and kept going.
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  101. as long as you like someone and they're good to you it's fine. It's wrong for women to think ugly=good too tho. And guys are the same. No guy, it's very rare, for guys to find each other's girlfriends pretty at the same time. It's like "oh really I'm surprised you're into her"
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  102. You're projecting a lot..I have military family too. But it's a service and a job. They've also done a lot of bad stuff. Done whatever the country or government wanted. Or corporations by proxy. When was the last defensive war? In the 1800s? Japan? Let people not like the military. It's not everyone cup of tea.
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  103.  @Jon-wn3nw  they didn't say they were either so I don't know. Maybe either way right now.
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  104.  @chrissosa3723  living in Mexico?
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  105. That's a flawed argument tho. Because it's not un-unnecessary(or it's not necessary not to). And when you deny someone the ability to do something, it does get into moral/ethical, right or wrong territory. Why are you denying them this thing. And what are discussing ethics here. I would actually say it's better to argue from a right or wrong perspective, and why it's wrong. Or from a self survival perspective, of the risk of him getting in trouble. But I don't know much about the situation and it wasn't clarified in this vid much beyond he contacted from young girls.
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  106. Omg I see so many comments where people read into it too much. And project this bitterness. You don't know her. She could just as well be sweet. She could just as well be normal, casual ect. Reading into a TikTok based on crap bitter people say is ridiculous
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  107.  @Chef_nO-shiRt  she has a nice body. Facial features.
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  108.  @reebul8768  his skin doesn't change color at all. He also had a Nazi character get killed by the chinese inspired assassin tao pai pai.
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  109. I honestly think he's just not good at talking.
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  110. In 1987 or whenever
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  111.  @messyangel1169  She seemed aware when she told someone else what her plans were. Why wasn't it clear to the girl she talked to then. Someone else made a good point, if she was somehow raped, then she was also the rapist here.
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  112. The biggest problem I see in the comment section and with Ben Shapiro is a lie/myth/misconception that systemic racism means"legal racism". When that was never it's definition, and was never meant to be. The term wasn't created to mean that. It means whatever norms are racist, whatever social practices. Illegal redlining, if it's the norm or what's expect is systemic. If it's normal to do it because of race then it's systemic. It has become the norm of the system in place and not tied to one individual. It's about common practices that are discriminatory. And it was mentioned as being subtle when the term was created. That's why it exists, to point out how that's more difficult to point to than a single racist individual. The idea that it's "legal racism" is an idea people have created to reject, or discredit it. Or a misconception based on misunderstanding the phrase.
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  113.  @blackmore4  It exists. But it's beneath Football, Basketball, Baseball. It competes with Soccer for 4th(last) place. Boxing and UFC might be bigger too. I'll say hockey is above Soccer, not by a whole lot(the world cup thing has been growing in popularity). Hockey is also known as more of a white person sport tho.
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  114. In my experience it's been racist that insist. But it does seem this new group is different from what I used to deal with.
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  115. The simps for that black girl last video. Now you know that she's not just average, not just ugly/less attractive, but dismissing guys who are average and more attractive than her. And she didn't care for the black guy.
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  116. There's nothing wrong with if you want a resort because you're paying for luxury at cheaper prices. But that's not exactly visiting a country when you stay there the whole time. It's not experiencing or even site seeing the city. So it's just two different experiences that can be combined. But aren't the same.
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  117. Welcome to the working world
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  118. Nah I'm not a fan of this at all. That guy seems a mess. What channel or whatever keeps putting these men and women together where the men seem like such bad options.
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  119. @Pretty Brown Eyes go to minute 12-14 and they talk about it. Whatever few guys aren't willing to, plenty are, and you might convince some who aren't.
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  120. Are you scared of him?
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  121. Is the right answer star trek?
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  122. Blue or green aren't usual hair colors for anyone. Even blond, the blond we'd see in anime is either bottled or bleached.
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  123. She sought his advice so the issue of whether he's good at it or not isn't relevant. I don't know about the name calling. I think he does have a bias. But there are some good things in the videos and this. Why does she look down at men who make less? Why doesn't she go for average guys? The things she brings to the table are things that would only benefit someone who doesn't make as much as her, or doesn't have that business knowledge. And I think you're assuming what he wanted. If he had a problem with her, then he did. But you have no way of knowing what he wanted.
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  124. Geez that guy was attacked until he broke.
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  125. He's not that young dude. That's like a roundabout way of saying he played her. People seem to forget most people are looking for serious relationships. It should be the casuals who make that clear(what they want). When did it get so inverted. He should have Noped out early. She should have known better. But his plausibly deniability thing for people who use others is ridiculous. The onus shouldn't be on them because that isn't the standard.
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  126. It seemed like it was a good match.
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  127. that sounds crazy
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  128.  @JT-bt6jy  I remember he said that he was looking for a well lit place to stop, and didn't speed up or anything.
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  129.  @JT-bt6jy  yeah. Or british. Or anywhere else that has far better policing because U.S police needs to improve, and I'm open to ideas. The cop himself said that wasn't an issue. He was used to it. Because cops know of it and understand it. The plate issue is resolved by the light of the station too. Essentially it doesn't exist because he had temp plates on the side. Any reasonable human being would have deescalated right there, or asked questions calmly. And even the department said he did it wrong because he peppersprayed him out of nowhere. They didn't talk to him, then didn't listen. they weren't suppose to act like that. That's why the dude got fired. Now you're saying the police department doesn't know its own rules.
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  130.  @Slayer8957  bullshit. If anything by your definition, he made the worst choice. Nothing she did, do we have any evidence that it's vindictive. This is such weird BS guessing. She got him a girl that would be good for him, and he has a chance of getting with, and staying with. She gave him the best chance possible. And he seemed to be happy with it.
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  131. That might be an overreaction. Not leaving a resort at all. A simple query says Cancun isn't that unsafe. There's a difference between going on some wild road. A bad part of a city. And just a public or major part of a city(like a center or commerical area).
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  132.  @user-pd9ju5dk5s  dumbass its an assault. As in violence. Violence that happened on a person. You Insane person
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  133. Yes I know two people who work in similar lines. And they tell me all the time the stress their in. Sometimes I hear it in their voice or text.
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  134. It's cause they think that their actions are more meaningful than they are.
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  135.  @narutokyuubi99  not only is he right. But the rate of marriage working after a divorce, 2 and 3rd. Increasing dramatically. By your 3rd marriage it's almost statistical assured. 2nd marriages also have a very high rate of being maintained.
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  136. So it didn't work out for that girl is what your saying.
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  137. I don't those "academics" study a real social science. Probably the psuedo sciences that have done no studies and haven't backed their ideas.
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  138. Technically it is. But I don't know if there is a word for that distinction that is important. Being alone vs hooking up. But people are also reading into it. She could have just as well meant she had a lot of false start relationships. Or she started getting close and stopped. Or went on 1-2 dates but stopped. It doesn't mean a woman slept with someone in any of those scenarios. And she would still have been trying to start a relationship. And it doesn't mean frequency too. Someone doing it once in two years or whatever.
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  139. That's how it should be. It's average people.
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  140.  @NotAnotherKuromi  I mean why would you watch people you disagree with. That could very well be hate watching. It's fine to watch people you like or partially agree with if they show that they are reasonable. Or the information is objective or factual. The real issue is how you interpret the information. How you judge it. You have to hate people, or learn what to hate. Question why you disagree ect. Sometimes you should seek out other people if they're explaining a topic you want to question or understand. Lots of people could say they watch leftwing or rightwing stuff and just become incensed because they fall on one side, and the other just pisses them off. They gotta reinterpret it. And even if it's a source on their side, it has to be one that can be judged as decent.
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  141. Ellen did not dodge that bullet. merely put a gap on the wound. She's not in trouble again for seemingly being a psychopath that pretends to be kind.
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  142. I'm not one to accuse people of having a problem with women but they kind of seem like they really do. Not that I care I've never heard of them before.
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  143. Guys do the cheat one all the time. If a girl looks loose or wild, lots of guys won't date her
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  144. There's nothing even wrong with it. Just a round about way of expressing what kind of vibes they give off. And like I said guys do the same. She looks like a bit h or high maintenance ect
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  145. That's not true. The term was never about legality. It has nothing to do with it. It was never meant to. That's a misunderstanding on your part.
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  146. I wanna laugh but the same happened to me.
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  147. The whole point is that they don't happen at the private level and the statistic prove that. The stats of Ben Shapiro proved that.
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  148. Prejudice based on race = racism. The means by which they reach it don't matter. It's the discrimination that does.
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  149. You actually have the terms backwards. Societal racism is what most of these people seem to think systemic racism is.
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  150.  @maiskk6326  Guy you are trying to be smart but you are just being stupid. It's a word with a dictionary meaning, created by academics, to explain this very specific thing.
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  151.  @arksan8221  It's a word with a definition. it's that simple. You thought it meant something it didn't. The term was brought into existence to mean this specific thing. What he thinks doesn't matter. It doesn't need legal support. The fact it has to be found out shows that it exists. You aren't vigilant for things that don't exist. Ben Shapiro is just wrong.
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  152.  @arksan8221  If he agrees that it exists then that's the end of the discussion. He agrees. The end. The definition is important because a lot of people are saying it doesn't exist due to misunderstanding it. I think we can all agree that inequality exists for lots of reasons. Even when it comes to class, Ben Shapiro would probably fight the means to combat that too.
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  153.  @maiskk6326  And you've shown you lack the ability to articulate.
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  154.  @maiskk6326  Should I repeat myself too. You're not adding anything worthwhile. My perception is the objective meaning of the word. Nothing to do with how I perceive the world at all.
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  155. Some people are incredibly selfish, self important, and think they deserve it. They're immoral dumbasses, but being dumb means they can't recognize it.
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  156.  @kennethcollier4660  it's literally her fault but you don't blame her. Like someone else said, it's an excuse. She could have said talked about it and just been roommates or found a roommate. Being a parasite off someone isn't an excuse to cheat.
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  157.  @victormartinez6974  it's all our business if people think that they can condone cheating.
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  158. Ben Shapiro literally said that black names are assumed to be poor, and that they are discriminated against. But that's not racism?
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  159. I wouldn't say most despite what you hear on the net.
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  160. Blacks in the U.S have a debatable level of mixture in them. And black isn't a race but an ethnic group. And so there's different categories for being a part of an ethnic group. For the most part it's just seeing yourself as that group and not being rejected. And some definitions are even looser. In this case there is a racial and genetic component to it. But they have those genetic ties. And depending where they grow up, the culture. What the U.S needs to do, in my opinion, is recognize some sort of unified identity. An american race. But it's so outside of how u.s Americans think of themselves that it's not even worth considering. So what do you think? That black mixed people are a race apart? What about their kids kid? What the next one is? What if it's a new race each time. Do you want mix to be in own race. Multiple based on the mixture? Do you really want to reject people? To the purpose of keeping black people pure or just for categorization purposes? But some of it is racism on the part of white people..that whole othering is why they don't see black people as part of their own race or ethnicity ect. And you know that. But let's say it's different a half white girl, calls herself white, would that be a victory? The truth is that other people maybe saw her as black and treated her as nonwhite.
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  161. Guy does she look like she's into that? Well the tallness probably. She could just as easily just be being careful with who she's dating that doesn't seem serious. Also who the hell is going to be that petty cause a girl says bro. I know a bit about that area to know it wouldn't matter. my guess is she wants a standard tex Mex type of guy from that area as a minimum(who's tall). And then like a standard more American white or black guy after that if they seem family oriented. I'm projecting as well based on what I know of Hispanics including some that live in Texas. I swear the default in these comment sections now are like stuck up Instagram models, like the 1-10% of Instagram models that are doing anything for money and are fake af. Not every woman is like that.
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  162. They're just casually trying to rewrite history and reality.
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  163. Ghost was always better
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  164. I disagree. I liked her style. Probably caused they showed us how she took leadership in the beginning, and close ups ect.
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  165. And on Mother's day, let's celebrate Father's.
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  166. It's actually some really(really really)good points in this video. But don't explain it to your girl(or guy) as STFU. But like everything else he said.
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  167. I think she actually chose a good girl for him. A nice girl. She didn't screw him over or anything.
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  168.  @mybestnugget7514  you must be a psycho too then..viewing things from the same insane viewpoint.
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  169. Trump wasn't the lesser of two evils. Republicans are further right than Democrats. To the extreme. It's just also bad.
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  170. Instead of hating it, women should embrace that a partner that is a bit outside of the circumstances(of whatever is affecting you), can help you calm down, or give you perspective, ect. But sometimes people just need space, food, sleep. I can also imagine women saying that they just want to share or talk about it. And that's fine, just remember to take a tone that isn't too serious or emotional about it if you are just sharing a story. Cause if not, people will approach it in a problem solving mind frame.
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  171. Good point. I've seen people get cancelled for saying much less from old tweets. That's a grown, mature age. I'm not for bringing up old stuff and cancelling people but she's hypocritical. I don't think she should be anything but she should have egg on her face. And they need to let it go. And everyone should be embarrassed dealing with her over this.
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  172. It's not and/or. Kids needs structure and guidance. The worst is either or both extremes. Extreme strict with no guidance on what kids don't wanna do. Or extreme looseness but you don't guide them into doing what they don't want. That's just neglect either way.
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  173.  @crimsonite1524  People should bypass this altogether by looking for good people. Valuing goodness is better than all this crap. "Those of virtue may speak well, but not all good speakers have virtue. A benevolent man has bravery, but not all brave men are benevolent" The problem with seeking traits is that they have no context. And the trait isn't usually that necessary, or we're awful judges of others. In the same way a scared man can be brave. And we misjudge what constitutes the trait. An asshole that is confident hardly matters. Hell a person not being confident is a reality we all have at some point. But judging a person by that is ridiculous. ‘Well Peter, if you’re going to be a hero be a real hero. Don’t be a Hollywood phony. Don’t go yelling and screaming and pretending you’re a tough guy and doing all that Hollywood crap. Be a real hero. Be strong enough to be gentle and be trustworthy and accountable and compassionate’. As well we shouldn't forget to see gentleness and compassion as strength. And personally I hate the kind of girl that wants a dad. Or to be taken care of selfishly. People should find people that care about them(the other person). The real problem comes with appreciation. Or settling with people that don't care about you. If someone cares about you, appreciation(like them more) for it. And you should care about them. That is both a feeling and action. That's looking out for them. That's worrying about them. I've see a lot of guys with selfish girls. And I also saw a guy that had been hurt so much that he didn't understand when a girl actually cared about him. He just thought she was like the rest and accused her of sleeping behind his back for a dumb reason.
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  174. What a ridiculous strawman. No one was salivating hoping someone dies. And you forget that Rogan is also a Major media personality who has downplayed covid, during a health crisis that is global in scale. He essentially told his audience that they don't need the vaccine at one point. While Jimmy Kimble hosts a freaking comedy late night show.
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  175.  @whoyoucallinpinhead1507  it was never said. And by who. We needed to reach a certain level that we didn't because of anti vaxxers, and to a lesser extent, vaccine hesitancy, and downplaying it like how Rogan did.
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  176. That's not what I see. People didn't have a stake in it till that evidence came out at all. They usually say that people should wait for evidence. And unintentionally, that's what happened.
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  177. It depends in what category. But expecting to be a 10 is a bit too much. No one should think that highly of themselves. And it doesn't really matter if they like you a lot. I don't need a woman to think I'm the most attractive person ever.
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  178. No surprise
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  179. That people watch that Trainwreck. Like the overweight show, or the hoarders show.
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  180. I couldn't even watch the full video. I don't get how people watch that show. That guy bothers me so much.
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  181.  @solidsnake5644  I'm not against people catching cheaters. And having proof.
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  182.  @legslipsandlashes9831  this is a problem with people think that being psychopathetic is being strong. Accountability would be taking responsibility for her actions. Responsibility would have been her owning her mistake, explaining it, and apologizing it. You're confusing grandstanding with accountability. Responsibility is fully owning something, and doing the appropriate thing. It's knowing what you're responsibilities are. It's admitting what you owe someone. What your duties are to someone.
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  183. I legit don't know who any of these people are.
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  184. why would you want a trophy wife in the first place. And no one is jealous. Just because they masturbate to her doesn't mean that they're jealous. Guys masturbate to so much. Porn women are just the women that allow themselves to be seen. If anything women that guys can't see are the ones that have something special. Like that's a nice logic attempt but it comes from the person married to a porn star. Not from the outside observer.
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  185. Equity... Shouldn't that be for the poor(er or disadvantaged)? Adele is the rich person here(She's in the upper position). Tho I think if someone cheats, regardless of gender, they shouldn't get anything. That's not about equity but fairness. Instead you're defending a millionaire due to her gender?
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  186.  @sandraevans7029  well she is really looking down on her dad. And maybe her mom said some stuff. The other thing is that she seems to be having relationship problems. Maybe she stayed in a relationship she should have quit for too long. That's a shame. But she's jumping to a really bad conclusion instead of trying to figure out how to find someone that actually wants a family. She would have been under 27. I think she said 23-26. A lot of people don't want kids that age if her bf was the same age. But you can find people that are willing. It depends on their culture ect. And how they feel about you too.
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  187. I think he does and he just doesn't think. And no one is introducing a different view
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  188.  @cecez7742  they are still different people and racist can still apply to different ethnicities. The japanese and Koreans still view themselves as different people and will tell you general genetic differences between themselves. U.K and Russia had different immigration patterns into the general genepool. A better argument would be to say that they're nationalities and can be of any race but we know people mean the previous general population that was native there.
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  189. Ha I had a similar thought to that Gucci movie trailer. How are Italians looking at that. A bunch of Americans doing English accents.
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  190. that self hating asian.
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  191.  @edk487  I never got that either
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  192. That's a dumb idea because you can be thankful for what your dad did. But he is a father. He doesn't become a mother or anything. He did whatever he did as a father. And the same goes for Mother's. A mom that taught someone martial arts did that as a mother. A mom did that. So celebrate her role as a mom. You can be thankful all year round. But that's not what a holiday is about. It's about a big recognition of what that parent did, either the mother or the father, as a parent. Not how well they adhered to a role.
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  193. There is a real problem. Guys are not doing well..but they're talking around it and not about the issue. Though there's been some change. 15 years ago this community college had a women's center and no male equivalent. Then like 5-10 years ago they got a men's center for black men exclusively. But now it's becoming more for all men. Guys(boys really) problems have been overlooked, and media spent 2-3 decades! Portraying them as dumb, intelligence as bad. While media was portraying women as inherently better (morally but in generally, and at everything) since at least the 80s. One of the earliest examples was the chimpettrs episode in Alvin and the chipmunks. Or Marge and Lisa Simpson ect. The sitcom dad in general. This isn't just about women having jobs now. Or being in school. A lot of young boys have overlooked problems, and have a media telling them to be dumb. But there has been some improvement. Nowhere near enough. But kids now are lucky things aren't as bad for them. But there's still not a whole lot of good examples in kids media of important things.
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  194. ha even lazy is negotiable
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  195. When that asian girl mentioned liking big his for "protection", it's like they're picking out weapons. And she's like the smallest. You'd figure she's the one who'd be okay with the shorter guy. Also I think abba and preach are wrong. I think some girls would go for that short dude. They're kinda over exaggerating that. Dude is still fit and not ugly. Even if he's disadvantaged. I know a dude shorter than me that has to turn girls down and breaks up with them.
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  196. You guys say you're defending her but listen to what you've said, that she's an amateur that isn't very funny and has amateurish material. Only thing you actually defended is her bragging about her wealth. Plus she's not just starting out. I think it's fair to expect someone on tv to already be at a professional level. And she's had, I think you guys said, 8 years to polish herself. I mean she does not have to be a comedian. She's a show host right. She's had 8 years to be on camera and get comfortable being a host. But what you're saying is she has zero skill at it. You've insulted her pretty bad yourself. And I don't even care about this one way or another.
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  197. Just be Careful your preference doesn't come from a racist place. If you work on that, you'll probably see the preference diminish. Like it's also okay to question why you're into something and it can change. When I was a kid and into my 20s, who I could see myself with kept expanding. Because I saw different sides to people. Or just a really attractive woman. Or I questioned why and realized there wasn't a good reason. And I started reconnecting with my culture, after letting some family issues go.
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  198. Well if someone wants to, they could try it. Maybe they'll catch a new fad. And move to something else after the fad is done with. Maybe they'll be a short fad. Also modeling for different things. Like for guy stuff, girls can be shorter and thicker than for runway modeling.
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  199. Let me add something in a separate comment(I know some people get angry about that). But whatever stat you guys looked up about age difference couples goes against the stats I'm aware about where they say the higher the age difference, the more likely that they'll divorce or the relationship won't work. In fact the closer in age the couple is, the better the chances of them staying together. And the golden number seems to be around 3 years in age difference. Anything beyond that has a higher chance of breaking down. It's possible, it's just a smaller percentage of the couples staying together.
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  200. @T123 so I feel friends nowadays don't want to get involved in each other's dating. No even consider setting friends up or want to. Or even want to join their circles. It's much more compartmentalize as you age. In fact one guy blocked me on FB cause I tried to begin to talk to one of his friends I was interested in. And this is years after I told him she was cute and he should ask her out and he said he never would and never did. Asking a friend of a friend is such a landmine I find. And no one is thinking of helping each other. I almost lost another friend for a similar thing except this was an ex of his that he was adamant he didn't want. This guy talked it out but he did not give permission so to speak. It would have been a lost of a friendship(and I learned she didn't like me) I don't have a problem with online dating though. My point is just that there's risks with everything. Work, friends, ect. None of it is pleasant from my experience.
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  201. She's not even pretty. Her sister is kinda pretty. That guy could do better. He probably didn't think so tho do to his self image. And that's a shame. Like, I think if we got a Bi guy to decide who is attractive between the two, he wouldn't pick that girl
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  202. I've never met or even heard of someone expecting or wanting those things
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  203. Honestly though women don't want that. They don't want randoms on the internet. They wanna meet people in real life. Especially this kinda girl. She's not the same but there's a certain Hispanicness I understand
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  204. Wow. Call me naive but it's really sad how far these girls go. Like you're probably pretty enough. Like at 15, imagining doing that. I wish it wasn't like that.
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  205. I never thought someone should pester anyone. But it depends what persistent means. Some guys want a shot as in a conversation. And they're just trying to get a girl to give them that. To some extent, pass that, some guys are like a deal that they're trying to make. Like the salesperson at malls, selling whatever like cable. It's not all the same people. Let me tell you I've never talked bad about women taking their shot. This woman told me she wanted to be friends, so I gave her my info. Then she kept trying to date me and I turned her down. I understand. Eventually she kept trying and I didn't even turn her down, I just didn't answer and she didn say anything. I was going to answer but I didn't know how after turning her down before a bunch of times. Basically this time she wanted to do something that was supposedly a friend thing but sounded too much like a date. Like I don't hate her. I understand. I'll always understand someone taking their shot. Because that is how you eventually find someone. So is persistence asking multiple times(over a short introductory period, or over a long time?) Trying to start a conversation? Tho if someone says no, I think people should also move on. If the girl is interested later, she should say something. I also think it's okay to ask again over a long period. After you've gotten to know each other and you basically fall for the other person a second time, after knowing them and them knowing you. But then you know for sure to never do that again.
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  206. They seem like a cute couple.
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  207. Does she think that all her mom did was provide resources? No love? No understanding? No help doing things? There are thing my dad did that my mom struggles to even understand she could have helped with. This isn't about numbers or whatever. This is about whether you'll chose someone who is willing to love a child. And that person too. Some guys don't seem to think about how they might have a kid. The activity might create a kid. You're choosing to be with someone and potentially make a child. Are you willing to care or love the result.
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  208. I can't speak on issues of race in Arab countries because I don't know about them. but the people you defend and the people you dislike aren't the same people. Plenty of Muslims here are good people. And they came from somewhere. This are the people that shouldn't be swept up with the bad. As well it's the idea of generalizations and racism you dislike
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  209.  @kjjunior7918  no but it's a cartoon and they can create fantasy. So they can have any hair color without it coming from a bottle. Though since it's usually from manga, most hair colors are just black or not, sometimes a kinda brunette. Anime tends to use more colors.
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  210.  @RandomBlackGamer  not to mention, often times in shounen, it's a fantasy alternate earth anyway. With none of our nationalities.
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  211.  @kjjunior7918  what would you gain or lose if they were or weren't? Does it hurt your racist sensibilities if these people don't care about you?
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  212.  @kjjunior7918  in my response and I saw one or two others, we explain that the only thing white you could argue just comes from cartoon drawings. Cartoon drawings that aren't realistic like of animals. And these cartoon eyes have stayed with this cartooning medium through it's changes. You can see it better in older art if you go look at old manga from around tezuka's era and up. The fact that a lot, a majority of these stories take place in Japan, where people acknowledge they were born, objectively shows that they are Japanese. Now if you're trying to say japanese people are white, then you're discussing something totally different.
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  213.  @kjjunior7918  she had black eyes. Now you're lying. Japanese people see blond hair from coloring. It's a cartoon. It could even be from a fantasy world. It's insane how desperate you are for these people to make this about you.
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  214.  @kjjunior7918  well then I figured you were a weird white racist. What are they teaching you kiwis cause you're saying some dumb stuff about anime/manga, and insulting a whole culture of people. I don't think you can understand the feelings of people born outside of what would be considered white people.
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  215.  @bernard7057  I don't admit that because it's not true for me. It doesn't even take place in our world. His eyes are closed, he kinda looked foxish early on. And then sakura goes around with Pink hair, and kakashi has silver.
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  216.  @dvb8637  why do you have a problem with them not being white is the issue?
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  217. Wait a minute tho. If women can approach, men should be able too. I agree a guy shouldn't try his luck or be inconsiderate to am extent. But women and society have to be considerate too in that this how people meet. Not with persistence, but trying to talk. I think women put the time and day and place in some paradigm that is very artificial and the opposite of beneficial. Meeting someone at a local store is probably better than a club.
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  218. Think about other people man.
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  219.  @AMAZIAH  it might thanks to people not helping out. But it has gotten worst. It started worst than the flu. And it isn't going by seasons. And it's gotten worst. Your kids need you, and everyone else to do what they can.
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  220. It might if it's the average and then just poor people would be hurt by it. And they already divorce at higher rates. Alternatively it's be ridiculously expensive and would happen more often but the men couldn't pay it.
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  221.  @HabibAbdellatifi  I misread the way the question was posed. I meant that there are situations where a flat rate would make it worst.
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  222. You never have to be shallow
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  223. I used to see some fine women at walmart. Worked there 7 hours a day, 4 days a week
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  224. Any guy thinking about the junk of people in a bathroom is kinda gay, or a straight up weirdo. Just go pee.
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  225.  @MrOwens67  that's not a reason to reject it. It'll affect people beyond her. And it'll take like 3 months or less to adjust.
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  226.  @imbloodbath9908  literally compared to slavery some of them. Some of the conditions for their immigrants is beyond appalling
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  227. He said he was born in Canada in the video dude. And how the hell would she know where he's from. And how would that not still be an insult. You can be an immigrant and have Citizenship. Racism existing is just inconvenient to your ideas of "whiny, race victims" being right about some things. Well racism is probably inconvenient for them too.
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  228. That show is trolling. Like even arranged marriages don't have to be this uneven and awful.
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  229.  @blazedsamurai9684  I literally considered that job and looked into it, and have a uncle who did decades on it. This is unacceptable. This isn't how cops should be. I've always had an interest in it. Which is how I came to know about the peelian principles two decades ago.
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  230.  @blazedsamurai9684  and gotten killed cause they cops could see even less as jumpy as they were. He did the smart thing.
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  231.  @blazedsamurai9684  they can ask simple questions. It isn't unreasonable at all.
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  232.  @blazedsamurai9684  no because his speed didn't change. And he pulled over. If they thought he was fleeing they'd have called it in. You have the right to do this.
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  233.  @blazedsamurai9684  you're actually dumb..you didn't even do a basic search Safety Being stopped at night, particularly along a dark stretch of road, can heighten the tension for a motorist and an officer. Officers do not object to drivers proceeding to the nearest well-lit area. Simply acknowledge the officer by turning on your flashers and drive at a reduced speed. https://www.northkingstown.org/361/What-Should-I-Do-if-Stopped-by-a-Police- If you believe that a real officer is trying to stop you but you do not want to stop in a dark area, again slow down, pull to the right and activate your hazards. You can continue to drive until you reach the next well lit area. https://www.austintexas.gov/faq/what-actions-take-when-stopped-police-officer You can find page after page of this informational easily
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  234.  @blazedsamurai9684  you're being ignorant. Especially to the humanity of others. I see people made the argument and explained this better than me. And you still refuse to see it. It's not that cops are subhuman, it's that they treat others as subhuman instead as equal citizens. Or that they hold themselves in higher regard. Did these cops treat that man how they would like to be treated? Because then anyone who treated them like crap would be well in their right to do so. You aren't defending the police, you're defending their right to be awful, and their ability to be incompetent, and to treat people badly.
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  235. Every comment I saw was BS. Of assuming the girl is bad based on nothing. Despite her picking a nice girl that he was happy with and shares a lot with based on her(ex) knowing him.
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  236.  @Damesanglante  Is he violent when he's angry? Cause if not then so what. Emotion isn't a problem. Not to mention, you might be confusing upset and frustrated with anger. All you have to tell your friend is exactly what you wrote: "if you ask a question that might hurt your self-esteem, be ready."
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  237. Hah
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  238.  @pathetic2399  you can't judge that. And they are in similar places with similar interests. That's the best chance to have. Both Asian I think too.
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  239. BS. 99.9% of stereotypes are racist BS. But the irony is that Dave Chappelle didn't do anything like that. They're angry because he said something about female body parts essentially. And some people confused the lesbian story and thought he beat someone up for being trans. And also because Dave himself accidentally agreed with the worst feminists everyone hates, the radfems. Cause he does I guess but he can't know enough about them if he wants to make that connection. Just because he happens to agree with them on one thing. And he sees it from a black pov of how'd he'd feel but most women don't care about trans women being in women's spaces. that's nothing offensive. Dave Chappelle just came to his conclusion independently based on his experience as a black man. But he doesn't have influence in that space. And he's shown he could be fluid. And that he doesn't want harm or even cruelty to them. His opinion is harmless precisely because it's detached from anything. Because he's tolerate, and advocates for tolerance.
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  240. There's a huge spectrum of weirdos. Including just shy people ect.
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  241. @Desmond Alohan I couldn't think of a reason where that would make sense to me
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  242.  @noushs8004  only tall guys?
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  243. @Desmond Alohan But I don't get why you'd find someone's face less attractive from height, or any other feminine feature that isn't even your height. I know there's an inverse preference for the different genders. But it's also a little dumb. Because people seem to think even an equal height is bad. Like what's wrong with someone looking you in the eyes. Not to imply taller is bad either, just that even close to equal is bad. Tho there's suppose to be this thing where people end up with someone close in height anyway. So the difference shouldn't be drastic. I forgot the name of it. Also I saw a comment about a different topic mention that without C-sections, two big people wouldn't be able to produce a child that could fit through a woman's cavity. So maybe that's a factor.
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  244. @Desmond Alohan that's exactly why I made the connection with faces, and any other feature that one would find attractive. Because what is the connection with height as such a determining criteria. Because this part of the topic of attraction isn't it. I'm not doing anything to you. This is the topic. You decided to engage in it. I'm not sure why you copped such a bitch attitude.
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  245. What's the name, might be interesting to see
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  246. It is confusing, but they wouldn't need consent laws if they're having sex with other underage kids(not talking about children).
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  247. I've never tried them but I've heard people say that. And I think people using it like that are just wrong. Even tinder or OkCupid said it abetter to focus it down to four people. I think people need to be on mission. And not trying to meet everyone.
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  248. This almost gets into the legal age of maturity(outside of consent, and it's weird those two are divorced). The whole legal age is being viewed backwards, and there's too much expectation on it then. It's not when you are fully developed, or mature or whatever. But you do need a cutoff date of when you can be free to do as you please, where you aren't considered a child that has to do as your parents say, and are expected to enter society ect.
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  249. Psychopathic dating tips. If it's real it is amazing how cold and manipulative he's been.
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  250. I disagree about only judging looks. It makes sense for both the guys and girls to think about it from the perspective of who'd they like to date, and who they wouldn't like, ect. That's all part of attraction to. That's why would people say specifically "physical" attraction when only talking about only looks. We have to make biased judgements before we know people.
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  251. It's not a bad idea. It doesn't have to be a lot. Like one foot lower will probably do it. They're essentially using men's equipment.
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  252.  @IanWrigleyNZ  BS. I could literally say the same thing about your comment because my points are bouncing off yours. If all you wanted added to this discussion is people agreeing with you in a circle jerk, than you'd have a point. Well you wouldn't because you'd still be wrong about my comment. You just glossed over things.
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  253.  @aaronhernandez9053  I didn't say nobody said unless there's another comment by me I'm not seeing. I said no one thought. And the context was in media. Which is what the video was discussing. And I haven't read every comment but even in this thread there is a single person saying he hoped rogan would succumed. But you'd have to ask that person if he thought rogan was dying or if he's just hurling an insult. Acting like one person is the majority opinion is insane. Joe Rogan was not hospitalized for Covid, his condition never deteriorated that badly. No news reported it that way. No news reported it as wishing he'd died. What abba and preach did was conflate two different things together. The sentiment towards preventable covid cases from the anti vaxxers clogging up hospitals, leading to people being turned away and dying from other conditions(or having to travel much further). And somehow conflating that with Joe Rogan being sick and the reaction to him, when he was never hospitalized. They created the illusion or lie that people were hoping he'd die. And that's dishonest. I agree that people should not be turned way from anything. But those facetious remarks come from a sentiment of frustration. What abba and preach did here is so incredibly disingenuous. That's why I called it a strawman. They left out the context, purposefully took it literally. Maybe its from a concern with that growing sentiment materializing. And I can agree with speaking out against that. But they did it wrong because they essentially lied or did a bad faith argument.
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  254. this is the example we should be looking to. Where our ideals should be at
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  255. Nah she just happens not to wear bras or didn't that day and she's a virgin. It's probably two unrelated things. It's the other woman that made a deal about her not having a bra.
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  256. He sold his car to help with the bills. He lost his dad, and apologized to her. It doesn't sound like he was messed up for ten years. She was okay till he got fat after he lost his dad. She said it was only problem the last 2-3 years and he had a job till he lost it. So he wasn't "F'ed up" for ten years.
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  257.  @Whatsup_Abroad  it's an issue for sure. But that's from the depression. And part of that is because most men wanted the marriage to work, and having less support. The act of divorce itself won't physically kill or hurt them. But feelings are involved. I do sympathize with that. And there is some interrelation. But part of that is dealing with emotions along with some other issues. So we can deal with that issue(suicide and depression) itself instead of a potential life event. This is like avoiding getting sacked by staying unemployed. I kid(and it's not equivalent) but bad things might happen that can lead to suicide anyway.
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  258. Edit: the group ranking was half right. Black girl and white guy had equal so she still should be 3/4th. Second dance Asian guy is in the same place. And first asian guy is at the top. Really gives hope that you can get a PhD or whatever. In the other hand maybe she worked hard at it. She had a dummy brain and still did it. So I looked it up and an IQ of 100 is average, and upto 120. Of course a real IQ test I think is more strict than that.
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  259.  @mr.tudinoenglishteacher5727  that would be like giving a test to someone in a foreign language and calling them stupid for not getting it.
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  260. I was in a lunch room a girl said this to this black kid, and she was right! I was super shocked.
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  261. Bad people. Remember that there's a difference between someone being interested, and someone caring.
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  262. There's truth to the insurance thing. But you also need to realize that marriage is a fusion. This person is now your family. You and this person are now in each other's family. You are both family now ect. So you can't just pretend as if you can keep everything separate cause otherwise why are you even getting married. Now a way to evenly split up is different. And I don't think someone should support another person unless they sacrificed a job for you, or there was a plan where you'd support each other in turn. But you can't solely lay out the terms either. You have to negotiate together. What are acceptable terms for both. It shouldn't be "you get thrown out and I get everything". Maybe anything before marriage might make sense. But your home became her home too so it just can't be everything. The fusion is part of the point. Maybe that you can buy out her portion or just co own it. Or sell it and split it. Unless it's like a family home that will go down to the kids ect
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  263. It depends what each word means. Independent is only a step to dependable, or it's about competency. It isn't like a value to covet, it's a short or long term goal. No one is strong all the time. And what will you use that strength on. Again it's a goal, not a value. You gain strength for a need or reason, and then you use it to achieve something for yourself and others.
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  264.  @jethrodark2372  did he is a 7. I remember on a different video people were saying how no woman wants to be or give a 7 ect. 7 is above average. I wouldn't even say 7 in terms of looks alone. He's 5-6. if you care about money, if he's actually a good person, if he actually does charity, if he's actually interested in a real long term relationship, he might be above a 6.
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  265.  @herenow4550  you have half a point. There are bad people. The rest is sweeping jumps to conclusion that are unproven. There are no reason people cat call that I've ever heard. And most men don't do that. I don't think anyone is taught to be an object. And harshness shows men to be hard. I think the problem is that women have a bias and a fear. Perhaps due to rude guys or perhaps due to prejudice before any of that happens. Or maybe because they have so many options. Or aren't looking, or are unsympathetic. Or maybe all of the above.
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  266.  @artorhen  the whole problem is this prejudice where you aren't judging people individually. Imagine someone said they don't feel comfortable because black people commit crimes. Most to the point of all men aren't deranged stalkers anymore than women. Most men don't catcall. Not all catcalling is whatever this projection you guys have made is. Some of it is just people discussing loudly enough to be heard. Some of it is actually a pick up line. But few people do it. Only person I ever met that catcalled was my uncle. I get it might seem more for a woman who lives it but it's important to think out of all the people one passes, how few actually do it. And none of that has to do with someone actually trying to get to know someone. So I feel we've gone away on a tangent. This was about someone striking a conversation for the lesbian. And Aba actually getting someone's number.
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  267. I truly don't understand the mental gymnastics of trying to make a trophy wife some sort of good thing. But they should know that they don't have to be trophy wives to be gold diggers, mistresses, or have sugar daddies. Regular wives can also marry up too.
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  268. I wouldn't ask for it either
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  269. That kiss was too far.
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  270. White shirt is being cruel, and blue shirt is being pathetic
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  271. I don't think he's that great. He talks so much that he seems like a conman. He doesn't sound like he's serious at all.
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  272. Reminds me of a saying: " when a man leaves his home, he has 8,000(infinite) enemies"
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  273. I'd say most people have a problem with teens dating people in their 30s, or even upper to mid 20s. And only have less of a problem with it if the person is 18-19, and it's someone in their early to mid 20s
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  274. Everyone admits that no one is perfect. But mr.perfect definitely exists right?
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