Comments by "D. San" (@DSan-kl2yc) on "HealthyGamerGG" channel.

True. I remember they basically gave out a weird standardized test to "help" with no teacher input. But it's possible it's not an education thing at all. A lot of it would be outside school. But I don't know the answer.
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My mom gave me a whole book about how you don't need friends. I was blown away. I don't think parents understand that. They'd rather you do well in school. That's important. Stuff outside friendship is important. Don't let friends ruin other stuff. But some people, even ones with friends, don't get it. Maybe cause they make friends easy or a lot or think of them as transitory. Edit: Like my mom has a best friend since college that she sometimes calls her sister. That's why her being so lifelong dismissive about friendships is odd to me.
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That's not uncommon. Most likely you're stressing yourself out, if you don't already, by default, find face to face stressful. Especially in groups. You can slow down in real life. You don't have to say anything. You can go back to a point sometimes, but don't have to. I think the first step is reducing stress by recognizing these things.
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That's what incels are. The internet use of it as a particular type of person is unfortunate. Just because some people in a forum are toxic. There's all these holes people can spiral down on the net. People with issues get told to blame it on certain other people. The word for a situation like poor turned into an insult even towards people it doesn't apply to.
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How about you share something with a friend you both like, or you know they like. Or that's funny. Or current news that might interest them. Just start small. It's not a crisis. If it's nothing worth talking about it, people will forget it.
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That's from overclocking your brain. You can walk away. Unless you're going in with no stamina. Then that's probably an issue. Like diet and sleep or a more serious thing. Also be sure to stay hydrated. Your brain is working, so it'll need food and water, and rest. It should get better overtime, at as you get comfortable with it or at get comfortable with the people you're talking to consistently Edit: most decent people won't call anyone lame, or a virgin in a degoratory way. Maybe some people who try for a rapport of dissing each other. But then it depends what they expect back. I've been friends with that kinda person and they just don't do it if they don't think you can handle it.
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If you met them in person, then you could just do an activity together. Board games, mall, restaurant, concerts. Or basketball or hanging out. If you only know them online. Then I've been in that situation. You might lose touch with them. You could stay in touch on chat, or do some other activity. Well gaming is only an issue if you think it gets in the way of something else. Then just naturally go do those other things. Give yourself time for those things. Like chatting, people understand you won't be online everyday. Most people, some won't honestly. Or they'll also move on to people that follow their lifestyle. But most will let you go in and out, or game on your schedule.
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Congrats
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