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  1. Its another catch 22 scenario. They want to marry a man with a high stakes career, and lots of money. Then they say they are unhappy because he works 60, 80, or more hours per week, and leave. Of course, they would also be unhappy if you are magically able to work less hours and still make that amount of money, or if you can work from home, because they dont actually like sharing a space with a man full-time. And they would also be unhappy if they had a guy with a regular nine to five who makes a regular amount of money. There literally is no winning this game. No matter what scenario, they will always be unhappy. And then leave. I think thats a difference between people. Some people just accept that life's a beach and suck it up and other people cant accept reality and always keep looking for greener grass.
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  2.  @Hana-gm8bc  You need to go and buy a dictionary and then look up that word that you used, because you are using it wrong.
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  3. Same here. I always knew since I was a kid myself that I wanted to be a dad some day. I realized some time ago that that was not an unconditional want that I would sacrifice anything for. Its conditional on the term that I need to be able to trust the person Im having those children with. And you cant trust any of the "fairer half" of mankind. They arent legally, ethically, or morally accountable for their actions, they do not behave rationally. I cant raise a child in a hostage situation. So until the law changes and enables me to hold someone accountable, its pretty much off the table.
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  4.  @journeytrials  Baby dont hurt me. Dont hurt me. No more.
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  5. The branches arent bending down as much as they used to neither
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  6. She'd still leave if he did quit, it was just a final attempt to humiliate him
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  7. Im sure hes crying his eyes out, just bawling, drying his cheeks and blowing his nose with hundred dollar bills. Poor guy.
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  8.  @goombah226  Well, he found out now.
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  9. I think a lot of dudes that are insanely handsome and insanely rich like mr Brady are quite bluepilled because they dont have as much experience as the average guy does with being treated like dirt by half the human population. This may be one of the single digit negative interactions he has had in his life. He may genuinely believe that he did anything wrong.
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  10. Doesnt strike me as the type of guy who enjoys sleeping around. Some dudes even though they have options, really want to have a good, proper relationship. It looks like he found out the hard way that that aint happening much anymore, and all the money and good looks in the world cant stop chicks from being crazy. They can only do that themselves.
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  11. At least poker is partially skill based. Id equate it to playing blackjack and saying hit me on 17
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  12. Marriage causes divorce.
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  13. If you werent doing enough, she wouldnt have been with you in the first place. Its all lies. Dont listen to what they say.
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  14. Putting your family first is good. Your aging parents. Your siblings. Your kids. Of course you work to take care of them. Putting the wife first, however. Disaster. Even with family, you need to have your priorities straight. You need your career to put food on the table. You cant take care of anyone if you cant take care of yourself.
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  15. ​ @alexisc7565  I think youre misinterpreting the comment. The point ( I think) is that a good dad is a good dad because of the things he does, not because of what he says. A good dad doesnt need to say he loves you, you know he does, because of his actions. It doesnt need to be said. When my dad was away for work when I was a kid, of course I missed him. But I always knew he would come back and that he was making sacrifices, traveling, working hard, to put food on the table and a roof over our heads. Leaving your husband who is working hard on his career because he isnt spending enough time with the kids, thats the kind of "coddling" the comment is referring to. Kids gotta learn that life is a lot of hard work.
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  16. shiny object syndrome
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  17. What do you mean you dont have an answer? Youre either not doing it because you dont want to or youre not doing it because you cant find a woman who wants to do it with you. Its not that complicated. "I dont wanna" is a perfectly valid answer, and if anyone tries to give you shit about it, you can show em this video. Or just ignore it. Who cares? Its your life, your decisions.
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  18. He didnt push the emotional rollercoaster up and down hard enough
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  19. Being alone and being lonely arent the same thing
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  20.  @alexisc7565  Football skills translate pretty directly into dollar bills, so that counteracts your statement completely
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  21.  @alexmanojlovic768  true, there also needs to be laws that punish people for cheating.
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  22. @alexisc7565  Old debunked narrative, men are not more likely to cheat. For both sides it's slightly above 50% who will cheat if given the opportunity. Also, I don't really care about other men getting consequences for their actions, I say that's a good thing. What I am concerned with is that I know I don't cheat and I need to be able to put consequences on someone who cheats on me, instead of me being punished for it in the divorce court. Hope you understand that this is a very reasonable position.
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  23.  @Conservative_carnivore  Not all of them, some people do marry a normal person, and those are usually the same people who end up leaving hollywood for unspecified shady reasons. I think theres a lot of weird shit going on there that we dont even know about yet.
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  24.  @Kevin-qj7fp  love hurts. lot of songs about that. you cant get away from that. its a part of the human condition.
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  25. Subjective meaning, however
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  26. Im considering doing the same, just get a regular job, work as little as possible, and stop trying to make enough money to succeed just so some chick can take it from me after six years and 2,4 children
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  27. I think youre giving the ladies too much leeway here. If you are bored in a relationship, that isnt because your partner is boring, its because you are. You cant demand someone else entertain you and be exciting, thats a bad way to be in a relationship. If youre bored, get a hobby. If someone is bad in bed, thats an opportunity to teach that person to do things exactly the way you like them. I dont see any problems here that cant be overcome with a bit of initiative from the person that is experiencing the problem, instead of blaming the other person in the relationship.
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  28.  @Potatoe-npc  Pretty much every woman in hollywood is "passed around" dude, thats the only way for them to get into hollywood in the first place.
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  29.  @manifest2203  What the hell is wrong with you? The dude is worth 8 figures and you call him a deadbeat? The female brain truly has an amazing capacity for self-delusion. You can make yourself say and believe literally anything with no regard for how ridiculous it is.
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  30. You can be knee deep in poon and still feel lonely
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  31.  @JimiJames528  I can mansplain what "boring" means in this context. Sure, he was an all star athlete, and insanely handsome and rich and tall, with infinite amount of social clout, access to the highest circles of society, everything a girl can dream of. but he didn't make her laugh enough, or cheat on her, or cause other unnecessary drama in their lives, so he was boring. He didn't keep the emotional rollercoaster going up and down and up and down. Chicks are addicted to feelings.
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  32. Ski wax for his big shiny bald head
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  33. The issue is, that people arent honest about this. So, people who think they dont want to spend their entire life with one person, get together with someone who does, and then lie about it in their marriage vows. My take, if you dont want to be monogamous. Then dont get married. And be honest with your (potential) partner(s) about it. I sincerely do want to spend the rest of my life with one woman, but I keep running into ones who string me along and waste my time and then leave after they had some fun using my body. Its not great.
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  34. Honestly, I think people put up with way too much crap from their families during the holidays. Sure, you have to go visit your in laws. But if they start arguing, or insult you, or do shit that annoys you, I say speak up about it and dont be afraid to leave or ask someone to get the frick outta your house. This year my dad got drunk and started talking shit about something, I dont even remember, so I asked him to stop a few times and then when he didnt, I left. Saw him again yesterday on new years and we're back to normal. Dont treat people like fragile little snowflakes, speak your mind and act on it.
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  35. costa rica isnt that expensive
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  36.  @tamrix  And when youve got money and looks, they want more money. And you have to be funnier. More outgoing. More charming. More sociable. And you need to spend more money. Buy a more expensive car. New furniture. Redo the kitchen. Then buy a bigger house and do it all over again. More more more. And if you dont comply, they kick you out of your own house that you bought and furnished to their taste. Its all a trap.
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  37. Take the job. If she doesnt want to come along, then she doesnt come along.
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  38. its overrated anyway
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  39. Doesnt look like a dude who reads magazines to me. And I dont mean that in a bad way. Im sure he can read.
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  40. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, cant get fooled again.
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  41. Until they crash and find out that that world view, too, was a lie, and that all those women were being nice to them because they wanted to gain something material or financial from it. Nothing is free except the sunrise.
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  42. They want robot butlers with fat wallets and fully functional anatomy
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  43. I think it is sad. Sleeping around is an attainable lifestyle if you have money but nothing in the world can ensure a good marriage these days.
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  44. Egotistical people.
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  45. Clearly this example shows that even if you are the best man in the world, you still wont win
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  46. Therapy works for women because they like talking about being miserable. Its cathartic for them. Most men just become more miserable if they are forced to talk about their problems. In my experience, instead of therapy, a healthy diet, enough sleep, good exercise, and possibly some meditation, are much more therapeutic for men, than sitting in a room drinking tea and talking about problems.
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  47. Typical woman behaviour if you askme
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  48. Being that desirable probably means he hasnt had the endless amount of negative interactions that the average guy experiences on a daily basis. Like, I can imagine, most women are actually nice to him.
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  49.  @fahey6797  like women decide who gets into sports broadcasting?
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  50. I watched my own mother spend twenty years of her life trying to destroy my dad after the divorce. Honestly, I think I got lucky because I got to grow up without any illusions about what women are like. I was redpilled before the internet was big, when we had dial-up. Probably saved me a bunch of trouble already
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  51.  @ibubezi7685  Yeah talk about living rent free in someones head. Still. That is an incredibly hurtful, vindictive move.
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  52. Its a classic, if I travel a lot for work, (IT consultant) the complaint is that I dont have enough time for the relationship. If I have a gig where I can work from home for a few months on a remote project, the complaint is that im home too much. You cant win. Its a catch 22. They dont want you gone, but they dont want you around either. Mostly they just want sex, money, and social clout, and unfortunately those things usually come attached to a dude.
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  53.  @GalyeArt  Not enough prison gang neck tattoos for you?
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  54. Posing an ultimatum like that is nearly sure to end a relationship either way. The only way it can end well is if the man just flat out ignores it and she doesnt follow up on it. But thats a slim chance.
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  55. @JohnGrigg-gz9gm  dated a Filipina. they have TikTok over there too. You can't run from this problem anymore. It's global.
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  56. I think the captain save-a-304s are going extinct pretty quickly in this climate.
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  57. Isnt that something he can decide for himself? If he wants to focus on his career over some broad, thats fine. Its not her decision either. If it was such a problem, why'd she marry him in the first place? He already had the career before. This is obviously just a cheap manipulation tactic from the lady involved. She wanted out and, like all women, cannot take accountibility for her own decisions and say "I decide I want to leave you" because that would make her look bad, and virtue signaling is one of the main priorities in every womans life. Everything always has to be a mans fault. She could fart and it'd still be a man's fault. Ive personally had a woman somehow make it my fault when she yawned. You cant rationally engage with such people or believe anything they say.
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  58. missing the point a bit
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  59. If he stayed home she still wouldve left lol
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  60. Men just need to step up
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  61. He just needed to step up /s
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  62. For most average people, losing half of what they have would just reduce their debt by 50%
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  63. What career? She was a pretty girl who stood around and had pictures taken. Please. Also, you dont get to marry a man with a career and then complain about his career. Want a guy without a career? Marry one.
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  64. Honestly, im happy for those people, even if it makes me sad. At least someone still has that. Of course, its temporary, and things arent going to end well for nearly anyone. But at least some kids are still having a decent childhood with a stable family. Im glad I get to spend christmas with my family and friends, and often by new years im so exhausted from socializing that i want to be alone.
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  65.  @lkcheat  Yikes, what a terrible take. Lets go through that. First of all, you dont get to marry a man who has a career and then tell him what his priorities should be. A career man is a career man, his career is the number one thing in his life, or maybe number two, after taking care of his parents and siblings, direct family. You, the wife, will never be priority number one. Neither will your kids. The career has priority over you and the children, because that career is what keeps food on the table for you and the kids. If you dont need no man because you can make your own money, and you want to be priority number one, then dont get married, have kids some other way, and hire a butler. Then you can be priority number one. Secondly, you dont get to decide when his career is about to fizzle out. What are you, a fortune teller? The only way to find that out is if he tries. Not letting him enjoy the golden years of his career is incredibly vindictive, and honestly, if you can do that to a man, i dont think you ever loved him. Third. W dont do red pill? Im pretty sure there is this thing called "4B" thats gaining in popularity that is pretty much exactly that. Also, you arent a hive mind, as far as i know, so who are you to tell other people what they can or can not do? Maybe YOU dont do it. Obviously, because youre married. But stick to talking about yourself and not for other people. Fourth. Do men not have long relationships because they are red pilled, or do they become red pilled because they dont have long relationships because chicks keep sabotaging relationships, cheating, doing crazy stuff, leaving for dumb reasons, stealing money, lying, etc etc? You need to establish a causality here. Correlation does not equal causation. Fifth. If men are not the prize. Why did you marry one? And why does anyone need to catch up to anything? Why are you again telling other people how to live their life? Focus on your own marriage. Sounds like you could put in some more effort and positivity. Im sure your husband would appreciate it. Sixth. Im sure the football complains less.
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  66.  @dayveda3736  I gotta admit. Im not gay. But. If he asked. Id have a hard time saying no. That is a very goodlooking man. And Id never have to work again.
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  67. If you have to ask, the answer is yes, shes already cheating
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  68. Honestly, cold soup isnt that bad. Neither is cold coffee or cold pizza. Of course, its better hot, but its not bad cold.
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  69. Have you considered he may actually enjoy what he does?
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  70.  @elizabeth3280  are you mental? Just because you have enough money, doesn't mean a man has to quit his job to sit around at home. Maybe you don't understand this, but most men who have a career, do their work for more than just getting paid. It's a matter of principle, and trying to do something meaningful. I know guys who are in their 70s, retired, who still take jobs just to help people or do something important that other people can't. What is wrong with you lol
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  71. They dont even know why, themselves. You probably know better why they do the things they do, than they do. They just act on pure instinct and random emotional impulses.
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  72. @elizabeth3280  ah yes, a man doing his job is "feeding his ego". Please do us all a favor and stay single for the rest of your life. No man deserves to be in such miserable company.
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  73. ​ @MourningDove-bn4dk  A trend? My dude, cougars have been a well known thing at least since the 80s, and it has been happening for all of human history. Of course older people are attracted to younger people. The preferred age range is just different between the sexes. Men prefer younger meaning 18 to lets say, 28, whereas from the female perspective, men are most attractive between the ages of lets say 30 to 40. These are just rough numbers, every survey gives a different result, but the one thing thats consistent is that for both sexes, there is a preferred age range and that preference doesnt change much as people age. So naturally, after age 40, wmn will prefer men who are younger than they are themselves.
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  74. i look at it like this, its a good thing she didnt waste more of your time
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  75. How can you ruin what is already ruined
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  76. Its honestly ridiculous to marry someone who has a career and then expect him to give it up, for you. I have been called arrogant by some people in the past, but i wouldnt be able to say something like that without blushing.
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  77.  @Hana-gm8bc  Yeah yeah, rich woman gets bored of her rich husband and bangs the pool boy. Story as old as time. Do you really believe she is happy now, though? I will spoil something for you. A little secret in life. Women will never be happy. The smart ones understand that and deal with it without ruining their life over it.
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  78. @alexisc7565  Depends on the divorce laws wherever you live. If settlements and alimony are not on the table. I triple fkin guarantee you that having a lot of money will guarantee a lasting marriage.
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  79. @alexisc7565  desirability, compatibility and relationships skills are wayyyy less important in a relationship than money. Stop coping.
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  80. Just remember, they are single for a good reason
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  81. In this case its because he dedicated his entire life to one sport, and when that falls away, there is nothing. Dude probably doesnt have much in terms of hobbies.
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  82. Obviously, its not an interview is it? So its just something the author made up. But I dont think its implausible. I mean, most dudes feel lonely after a divorce. Even if they are getting laid, you can get laid and still feel lonely without the intimate emotional connection you built up with someone over many years.
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  83. As if its a race who can get back into a new relationship the fastest? If I ever got divorced (I wont because im probably not gonna get married in this legal system) but if I did, I wouldnt want to get back in for a looong time, possibly never. In my experience what bothers men the most is the curtains falling, the realization that it wasnt real, it was a stage play, and the woman they married was a world class actress. And their kids suffering mentally and also financially because of what you mentioned, the drop in income. And of course, having to move out of your own house and live in your car or with friends and family until you get back on your feet. I do agree with you divorce is ultimately a bad deal for women. Unfortunately they dont care about math and logic, nor are they very good at it, so that wont stop them.
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  84.  @Calibrex_Gaming  What a ridiculous thing to say. Pretty sure he had that career before she married him. There is clearly one person who ruined that marriage.
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  85. You dont get to marry a career man who works a lot and then complain that he isnt home enough. If you want a guy who is home a lot, marry one that doesnt have an extremely succesful career. Because those two things, are mutually exclusive. There are only 24 hours in a day. Pick one of the two.
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  86.  @HaleyStark.  I dont think you understand. Men who have a good career, usually aren't just doing it for the money. They do it because they have a very strong drive to do it. It's a tough world out there with a lot of competition, and you don't get to be on top of anything if you aren't extremely capable and extremely driven. Now, if you marry someone who has that drive, you can't later turn around and say, you have to give this up. That's not just unfair to that person, it's unfair to yourself. You need to accept, that you made that decision, and if you regret that decision, that is your problem, and not the other person. You cannot put a demand on someone else that they have to change who they were when you married. You don't have the right.
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  87.  @HaleyStark.  Also lol of you think the Ju Jitsu coach boy toy gives a truck about those kids
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  88. How self centered do you need to be, to marry someone who has an established career, and then demand that he stops, for you? Honestly, Id have a hard time stopping myself from smacking someone in the face if I was told something like that.
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  89. If a woman does not have problems in her life, she will manufacture some. You can set your clock on that.
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