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eh my grandma was pretty awful but i have to admit they were married for over 50 years. funny what surviving ww2 will do to people.
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the way to do this is to say "lets just be friends" first when its not working out and then never talk to them again. dont be an orbiter. let them hit the wall. dont block them. they'll come back in a few years to hit you up and then you can say "we're just friends" or "i dont date women over 30". revenge is a dish best served very very cold.
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true. small notation: you can also theoretically be attracted to each other but one or the other or both are in a committed relationship and you both have principles. its rare but i have met a few women like that in my life and im happy to know them. about the "being too good for them", yeah duh, we all know what most women these days are like.
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@ilostthreeaccountstoyoutub1434 yeah i should clarify they went through it as children and this was in the netherlands which the germans occupied for 5 years. there was a hunger winter in 44-45, during which about half my family that hadnt already been deported to germany to work in the factories starved, so the women here also saw life could be tough and didnt do that kinda stuff. women who went through that, didnt cheat on their husbands, i'll tell you that. they were happy to have a roof over their head, wood in the fireplace, food in their belly, and healthy children. i have some pictures that were taken just after, with my granddad and all his siblings in a soup kitchen, getting decent food for the first time in 6 months, after eating leather belts and shoe soles and tulip bulbs for a whole winter. the ones in the USA that got to stay at home probably didnt have that bad of an experience, especially if their husbands survived the war.
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yup, just happened to me as well. was talking to a girl for about a month, every morning id get texts saying good morning with hearts etc. i actually felt some hope but i was taking it slow because i wanted to make sure she wasnt just a hollywood class actress. i learned my lesson over the past decade or so, if they cant wait a few weeks for 🍆 you cant trust them. of course this week i find out she'd been doing the same with another guy behind my back so i sent her some choice words in my best german and all she could say was 😅. dodged a real chameleon there. thank me lucky stars. wouldve probably married her if she kept the act for long enough, silly me. best part is she said i was playing her and cheating on her when all we were doing for a month was message each other and i wasnt even talking to other women because she seemed to be the only decent one interested in me. ah well, her loss, she will still be alone at 35 if she keeps this up and i'll just buy a girl from russia with love or whatever.
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@kamartaj3010 how long ago was this and how is it working out for her? i always love these stories. my personal experience: guy gets friendzoneded, proceeds to learn a trade, starts a career, makes a lot of money and buys a house. girl dates guys 5-10 years older than her, gets used up and now lives in a small apartment with a crappy job, looks unhappy and alone in all her social media. i have to admit, besides getting friendzoned a couple times, i also friendzoned a couple girls when i was in my late teens. i was dealing with childhood trauma and personality issues, didnt have any money and i didnt feel like i was worth having a relationship with. i regret it a bit sometimes but i know it wouldnt have worked out anyway antd i didnt want to take advantage of nice girls, so i think it was the right call to push them away. i was very angry at the world back then. wouldnt want to do that to anyone. ah, to be 17 again.
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some are pleasant, the problem is theyre all married.
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sigma male grindset
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dude just go asian or buy a girl from ukraine or russia lol, as long as you have a roof over your head, heating and food on the table they'll sign up for it. make sure to get em preggers before marriage and youre set.
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idk maybe its the women you go after because usually the ones i shoot my shot with that say, no thanks, go out of their way to ignore me afterward.
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yes if either one of you is off the market, and you both respect that, you can do it even if there is physical attraction. but it takes 2 mature adults to do that.
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@DB-sy6xc surely you understand, that if you lie to a man, and he knows youre lying, that hurts more than just saying "im not interested"? we've all been rejected hundreds of times, we will shrug it off if youre not mean about it. do you know how many times ive been lied to, led on, and eventually ghosted by women that couldve just said no? it cost me months if not years of my life, during which i didnt pursue any other women because i have principles. as for "people have done stuff to me", you know theres a 3 digit phone number you can call for that, right?
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its not bad to put a woman on a pedestal, if youre already standing on the pedestal. just give them a hand up. problem is, a lot of them seem to enjoy being down in the dirt.
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i mean, you can take it slow and just see if they show any interest in you. just dont help them move heavy stuff to their new apartment and dont do long phone calls.
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probably because those guys werent the playas and smooth talking bad boys they dated before
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@erikstorm8935 hanging out with succesful guys i can get behind, but whenever im at a party or whatever with what these days passes for hot women (big booty, dressed like sloots, hair dyed blonde) and they start twerking or bending over and shaking their ass in front of me with their boyfriends in the same room im like nah im good.
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probably rendering
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@Ghost101 if they have a relationship for more than a couple years i just mentally refer to them as married, theyre off the market, the guy just doesnt want to sign a contract that doesnt benefit them and good women are okay with that because they understand the legal nightmare that it is.
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eh im not bad looking and i actually know a couple decent women in long term relationships that wouldnt cheat with me if i tried, and i have met a lot more 304s that arent capable of more than casual fun time which im not interested in. its pretty much black and white but it aint all black.
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@mrdre3628 even if i was famous (im already hot and rich, just no desire for social status in this society) they would still know just from talking to me for 5 minutes that i wouldnt want a woman that is willing to leave their long term relationship for me. i wasnt born yesterday. so i can just be friendly with them and maybe flirt a little bit. its innocent fun and we both like it. let her go back home to her boyfriend and give him a good shag for me.
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@kylel7158 id be happy just to meet a woman who sees her value as equal to my own, but so far all ive met is women who think theyre so much better than me, that they turn me down, or women that think im so much better than them that they turn me down, and its impossible to convince any of them.
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@kylel7158 im open to dating but women arent even interested in dating anymore, literally wont even let me pay for dinner when they can chase after the playboys with blue checkmarks. saves me a lot of money, i will be able to buy a house this year, no mortgage, and im not even 30 yet. in one of the most expensive countries in europe. its amazing what 10 years without touching a woman can do for a young man. thinking about importing a russian mail order bride, in my country they have to be married at least 5 years to get a passport and in that time i'll be able to have a couple kids, dont even mind losing the house and my savings after that, just want to fulfill my biological imperative and pass on my genes. i hope i'll be able to be in the kids lives but even if not, its better than nothing. and eastern european women have significantly lower divorce rates, for the natives here its around 70%. living for myself is quite boring imo so if i cant have children i might as well jump off a bridge, ive seen enough of this f'ed up society.
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@mikechevreaux7607 well i have a house built in 1909, has been in my family since the 60s, most of the stuff in it that i inherited is from that time period, and i collect antiques from 1890s-1900s. so as far as im concerned im living in 1952 and if a woman wants to join me there and raise my kids properly theyre welcome 😁
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i mean, unless you want to have kids and give them a stable loving home, then youre f'ed
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@MetaLord395 you didnt say that in your comment tho?
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i do know a couple of them which are in happy long term relationships that i actually like being around just for their personality. its not impossible. funny thing is i often catch them looking at me with this smile on their face but i know they wouldnt cheat on their guy, and they know i wouldnt do that with them. its strange but its nice to be appreciated from a distance. gives me a bit of hope.
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staying single and not having kids is also a death trap, might as well jump off a bridge if you just give up on having a future
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and hows she doing?
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depends, if you treat it like "i have to show my value to this woman" then yes. if you treat it like "i want to know what she's like to avoid sticking my D in crazy" then no. then its on them to show they can be a good woman and wait a month or a few months before having bedroom fun with you. without sleeping with other guys. if they know you are friends with other women, they'll talk to those and if they give you a positive review, you can get somewhere. its not all black and white. is it worth the effort and the time? maybe not. but some guys really want to have kids. im one.
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