Comments by "" (@RataPerry) on "Elderly Wisdom" channel.

  1. ​ @WiseAdvice93  Well said, thank you.
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  2. ​ @GrandmaWisdomYT  Professional care, huh? I had a friend whose mother was in a nursing home. She visited her mom every chance she had, at least once a week. Her mom was not bathed, her hair was dirty, she was not moved from her bed, and sometimes she laid in her own waste; waiting for a member of the "professional staff" to come and attend to her needs. I"'ve also heard of similar situations from others as well.
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  3. ​ @riverduck3  I know I wouldn't last a day there. Even though I have compassion for them. My husband's aunt worked at a facility. She was fired bc she spent too much time with her individual charges; looking after their needs.
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  4. ​ @riverduck3  Used to be ppl looked after their parents in their home. That's the way it should be yet.
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  5. ​ @riverduck3  No, but maybe mom and/or dad could be moved to their location. I think it's selfish for the children NOT taking care of their parent/s. Parents raised the children to, at least 18 then it is the children's turn to care for their parents. Now, if the parent developes dementia or Alzheimers and reaches a point where they get combative and dangerous to the family , then maybe that's the time to place them in a special care facility. I believe elders that are able to stay in their own home or share a home with a child until the end are healthier and happier until that point.
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  6. ​ @gailwheeler470  You were more devoted to your parents then most.
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  7. ​ @norisks  Good for you.
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  8. ​ @mipileto871  There is a state licensing board that these facilities are required to register with. They can file a complaint and the board is to follow up. Get their mother out of that facility first.
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  9. ​ @leonceboudreauxwolf  Some day they will face GOD. Children are to respect their parents; take care of them when they are older.
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  10. ​ @leonceboudreauxwolf  Well said, thank you.
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  11. ​ @maryscott977  Yes, but what's the quality of care there?
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  12. ​ @CjbrkBrooks  Well said, thank you.
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  13. ​ @TheBuddhaWithin-s3d  Well said, thank you.
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  14. ​ @sandifriest1857  She probably is glad, too. Your a good daughter to your mother.
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  15. ​ @EmiliaCastillo-e4p  I love your culture that honors their mother and father.
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  16. ​ @krishansaxena2389  I love a culture that honors their parents and care for them until they pass.
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  17. ​ @WiseAdvice93  Very well said, thank you.
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  18. ​ @vintageprue8728  Well said, thank you.
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  19. ​ @catherinewindsor1654  Well said, thank you.
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  20. ​ @rafaelcesar9705  But I don't live there.
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  21. ​ @PaulaWilson-zf4ss  WOW, that is definitely the exception rather than the rule. I wish all nursing homes were like that.
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  22. ​ @catherinewindsor1654  Well said, thank you.
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  23. ​ @catherinewindsor1654  Well said, thank you.
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  24. ​ @AvisYvonneGrant  Yes, and I bet you pay handsomely for the grand manner in which you live, too. Most can not afford that kind of accommodations.
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  25. ​ @ghound-md5ey  True
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