Comments by "" (@umwha) on "Blue Sky is Cutting Dems' Last Ties to Reality" video.
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50:00 I hate to be that guy, but when you discuss women being unhappy in marriages, you really don’t give a moment thought to the validity of her feelings, or that she might be unhappy in the relationship for legitimate reasons and she might really have to leave. You see women’s dissatisfaction as a problem with their psychology that needs to be remedied, and is bound to contradict itself, according to simple rules. Sure generally you have a point about psychology, but it is a bit worrying that you both completely dismissed out of hand validity of women’s feelings. Not even considering that it is due to some mistreatment neglected by the man.
For instance, you said women will find their husband attractive again once he is having sex with other women. This frames women as motivated by jealousy and group think. But it is also true that men went in long-term relationship relationships consider themselves to have have gotten the girl and completely stopped, trying to appear attractive, get unfit, do not conceal their bodily functions anymore. Naturally, this slowly destroys their wife’s attraction to them. People, including men can also stop putting any effort into the sexual side of the relationship.
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