Comments by "Trinh Nguyen" (@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj) on "China Unvarnished" channel.

  1. Yup, and that is how it should be. You are supposed to build a future together.
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  2. Exactly!
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  3.  @tchris8561 Sadly, most women in China and some other countries are like this too, which is why many men choose to stay single.
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  4. I am dating a broke guy and love him for him. We will both work hard to build a future together. Why does it always need to be about money only and why does it always have to be the man that provides? That is such old school thinking that needs to change.
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  5.  @baiqi44 I agree and I hate it when people blame EVERYTHING on the culture which is not the case at all. These people are just greedy! Nothing in Chinese culture says you demand more money at the wedding or milk as much money from the groom and his family at all.
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  6. That is actually not true. I see men who are lonely long for connection more than women do overall. But it still depends on the person.
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  7. A woman’s character is tested when she is poor and man’s character is tested when he is rich.
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  8.  @JoeCebu  Yup, and it is their self entitled attitude that is disgusting and a big turn off.
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  9. That was so funny but yet so true.
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  10. I agree but sadly it is most not some. I am glad my parents raised me well so I don’t care about materialistic things like luxury bags and designer clothing. In fact, I find most of them very ugly and so expensive. I don’t get the appeal with them at all.
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  11. I agree and I hate when people say happy wife happy life which is BS! You both need to be happy in order to have a happy life.
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  12. I agree and I am glad men are waking up to this nonsense. Some women are delusional that it is not funny!
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  13. Having kids and getting married doesn’t guarantee that you will not be lonely in old age.
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  14. Well if they helped build the wealth then I think they deserve it. However, if they have zero and just took from the guy after divorcing then that is not admirable at all.
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  15. I agree and as a woman myself, I was always taught to support and help my man in anyway that I cannot just take and take from him. It is just wrong and why do these women think they are entitled to everything the guy has just because they marry them?
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  16.  @ArifWiwitan That used to be true but not anymore as women can provide for themselves these days.
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  17. Exactly and they will never find a good man with that attitude.
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  18. That explains why those ancient kings had so many wives and so many kids.
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  19.  @smcdonald9991 Yes, that is true. But if you wanted to find employment at any old job then they are less picky. It is more for high ranking jobs.
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  20. There are many who are regardless of gender but they just don’t want to admit it. I think deep down most people long for a partner to accompany them.
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  21. Those women deserve to be alone.
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  22.  @John-c4r1o I agree and people go on and on about a woman sacrificing a lot but completely dismiss the sacrifices of a man.
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  23. Not really as I see many older women who are extremely happy being single.
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  24.  @hopefromtokyo3783 No, some Thai women are terrible too.
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  25.  @TheTrueBobDole I don’t get the appeal with birds’ nest stuff at all. It is extremely expensive and gross to me.
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  26. I agree and that old school mentality that men must pay for everything is so outdated.
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  27.  @Addission17 She sounded desperate which is sad.
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  28.  @PsyrenXY I agree and in this case, it is more of the betrayal that is sick. The kids are innocent and it is like raising step and adopted kids.
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  29. To be fair, we need money to live but to ask for money like this is so shameful. A loving husband is priceless.
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  30.  @baloo212 I don’t agree and age shouldn’t be a factor if you really love each other.
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  31. Exactly and he should have asked that. Both men and women need to contribute to the marriage.
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  32. I agree and many women are so self entitled that is disturbing.
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  33. Gosh, that was so funny!😂😂
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  34.  @furyberserk That is new because traditionally no one ever said that.
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  35.  @setha360 No one ever said any engagement ring had to be thousands of dollars. My friend did not even get an engagement ring and she did not care at all. She just had a plain gold wedding band and she was happy. It is the thought that counts not the materialistic means.
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  36. I agree and my parents taught me that as a woman from the beginning so I know how it is. Many women are too arrogant!
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  37.  @davidmiller6765  yup, it is KARMA!
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  38. Exactly and there is nothing wrong with being single.
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  39.  @lyhthegreat I can understand that but would a man marry a woman that has a lot of debt too? People are still stuck in the old school mentality that the men have to carry the financial burden which should not be valid anymore.
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  40. I agree and if it becomes all just money and materialism then it is no longer love.
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  41.  @noniboo1521 Not really as my parents were conditional. They expected this and that from me but loved my brothers more unconditionally as they are boys. No, marriage has more benefits for women in my opinion. If they divorced, men need to pay alimony and child support. Men have a lot to lose if the marriage does not work out. That is why men are more careful about marriage now due to the gold diggers.
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  42.  @HaitianHallow Yes and many traditional societies still think the man must be the provider.
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  43.  @leadingauctions8440 I agree and being straight forward and honest is always best. It is much better than pretending and then showing your true colors later.
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  44. You know the old saying, men like beauty and women like wealth.
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  45. Exactly and hope he marries a good person who loves him and his family.
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  46.  @kokoyaro Not all men go for sex only. They desire companionship just like women or anyone.
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  47. It is sad that many women still have the traditional mindset that the guy needs to pay for everything.
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  48. I agree and making the guy pay always is very old school thinking.
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  49. Some people need to marry or they won’t survive. For some marriages are there lifetime meal tickets if they don’t divorce.
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  50. Everyone has been saying, where have all of the good women gone?
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  51. Yup and if it is all about money then no relationship would last.
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  52. Yup, the lyrics and his singing were perfect.
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  53.  @smcdonald9991 Yes, that is where it is sad.
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  54.  @noniboo1521 Most women these days do none of that. Some of my so called sister in laws do none of it.
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  55. That sounds like me except I do want to have a job so I can help my man out financially too.
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  56. It is karma.
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  57. They are the golden girls.
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  58. I wonder how true that is. The restaurant owners don’t care as long as someone is paying.
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  59.  @LYW-su3ol That is old school thinking that needs to go. We had that in Vietnamese culture too but stopped it a very long time ago as it was ridiculous. If you must keep it, just have a little amount to keep the tradition.
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  60. No, there are some young men that like older women and are serious about them. It just depends on your luck regardless of your age or whatever. But in these cases, it doesn’t seem that way.
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  61. I agree and my man said he is lucky to have me as well since I love him for him.
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  62. You know the wedding vows, in richness and in poverty and in sickness and in health. You need to be with your man and woman through thick and thin. Sadly, those vows are easier said than done for many people.
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  63.  @LeandroSFx Yea, he does and lyrics are perfect!
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  64. I agree and that is why I find it sad. Being compatible, loving, connecting, etc. is way more important and priceless. The money and materialistic stuff should be secondary.
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  65.  @kokoyaro Not all but isn’t 5ex one of the things in any romantic relationship? It is normal but I am sure many long for support and companionship just like anyone.
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  66. Yup and he deserves better!
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  67. Exactly which is why they are still single.
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  68. Ok, that is hilarious!😂
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  69. I agree and that is not love but a relationship of convenience and benefits. Relationships and marriages like that can never be truly happy. You need to give and take not just take and take only. That is such a bad relationship.
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  70. I agree but these women just want a free meal ticket.
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  71. Exactly! Even if they were young or whatever, look at their attitude. Who can stand that?
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  72.  @kenlau457 If they have money they can adopt or use surrogates.
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  73. I think all guys would leave. Who would want to be with anyone like that?
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  74. That is not true as I know many single women who are happy. But yes, some need a man to survive.
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  75.  @j.p.5716 That is such old school thinking. It is no wonder people are in the mess they are.
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  76. I was single I until my late 30s but it was not because I had high expectations and standards like these shallow women do. It was because I had other priorities in life. Romantic love is only a part of your life and not your entire life. It is dependent on fate too.
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  77.  @chithiennguyen1371 Not true as Vietnamese women would go after anyone with money.
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  78. I agree and my man is a nice guy, handsome and all. But he is not rich or tall. I don’t need him to be either.
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  79. There is more to life than marriage and romantic love.
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  80. I agree and had a Chinese friend like that. No one was able to stand her since she was a spoiled brat.
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  81.  @Lopezflies888 He is lying because it has nothing to do with culture. Which culture says you have to argue all the time? None! It is just him and his issues. I hate it when people blame it all on culture when culture has nothing to do with it.
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  82. Just say you are going to the bathroom, pay your share and then leave.
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  83. I wonder the same thing and maybe she is lying to make herself look good.
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  84.  @SBGNatureandCoffeeChannel Excuse me? I am American born and raised and I teach English too so you had better be careful who you are talking to! You need to learn not only English, but proper manners too FOB!
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  85. They sound like freeloaders.
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  86. They are leftover men.
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  87. Sorry, but that was hilarious 😂
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  88. So true!
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  89.  @fabiourbano6404 I would not want to be with a guy like you then. I am glad my man did not mind my age.
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  90.  @TJ2000-d8g Thanks and yes, I had great parents and I have all brothers so I see it from a man’s perspective better than most people do. People go on and on blaming either the man or woman only when things go wrong but they forget to realize that it takes 2 to tango. However, in some cases, one is more at fault than the other. But I must say that women tend to get it easier than men at times too. People sadly fail to realize that. I constantly hear people preach about the women wanting this and that, but what about the men? They always say happy wife happy life which I don’t agree with. It should be happy couple happy life. You both need to be happy. Sorry that it did not work out for you and your wife but at least you are friends with her now. Many exes are extremely bitter towards each other after their divorce. I love the response of HK actress Carina Lau when they asked her if she gave her husband who is also an actor a lot of tolerance and leeway. But she responded “ He tolerates me as well. People forget that in a marriage, your partners have flaws but so do you. You both need to tolerate each other.” She is so right and doesn’t fail to acknowledge her flaws and all too. That is why she and her husband have been together for 35 years now and are still blissful.
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  91.  @quincy189 Not really as they go for the money more than anything.
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  92.  @kokoyaro It is sad that you view men so negatively. It is true that men have a stronger sex drive than women do, but to say that men don’t yearn for companionship,love and all that is not true. Men need it just like anyone else.
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  93. I agree!
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  94. I agree as a woman. Why can’t women make their own money?
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  95. You are lucky and that is how I am with my man too. You be with a person you love and want to get to know, not go after their wallet and bank account.
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  96. Gold diggers are disgusting! I am glad my parents did not raise me like that. It is no wonder some of my brothers decided to be single as many women are too selfish.
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  97.  @Shootingfoul I never believed that as a woman at all. I find that so stupid!
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  98. Very true! It is hard to find a loyal woman who will stick with you through thick and thin.
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  99. I agree and women should help make money too.
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  100. I agree and you can marry but will it last is another story. One of my friends married at 25 and is now divorced after 15 years of marriage with 2 kids.
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  101. That sounds like one of my sister in law’s. She only cares about making herself look good and neglects her kids.
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  102. I think all men want good women not gold diggers. Who would want a gold digger?
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  103. Why can’t the women spend on their men too? Let’s be fair here!
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  104.  @exvex5108  Yes, that was how some of my brothers are so they decided to stay single. They are scared of women like these gold diggers.
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  105. Not all men are like that but yes, some are like that. There are good and bad men just like there are good and bad women.
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  106. Not all women are the same but these women are like that.
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  107. I agree and I feel it is more challenging for the men, especially when they expect the man to be the breadwinner.
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  108. I agree! This is ridiculous!
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  109.  @orinnoco2919 I agree and that needs to change!
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  110. What a rude thing to say!
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  111. It definitely depends on your luck because my second brother is very successful and never had a wife. He married late to an average looking woman who was already divorced with a kid. Of course my family was highly against it so he eloped. She basically is now sitting back and enjoying the fruits of his hard labor. She refuses to contribute financially even if she has money which is totally messed up. I am now older and my man is way younger than me, so I help him as much as I can. It is important to always be supportive of each other and to help each other out in every way possible. If there is not a balance then there will be big issues down the line. My man is not successful yet but I promised to be with him through it all. That is a true partner and not someone who is with anyone just to reap benefits. What if anyone experienced financial difficulties? Would you just leave them? There is saying which is so true. A man’s true character is tested when he is rich and a woman’s character is tested when she is poor.
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  112. No, they think the zodiac stuff is taken seriously by many Chinese.
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  113.  @starwalk3r Yup, you always have a choice.
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  114. Exactly and my late parents were extremely strict with me to make sure I did not turn out like this.
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  115.  @bunbohue369 I agree and this dude’s story just doesn’t add up,but he yells at others for not believing him. Go figure!
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  116. Very well said! If anyone married or entered a relationship just for money and materialistic benefits, then it will not be everlasting. That is why love and having genuine feelings and connections are always important for a lifelong relationship and marriage.
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  117. I agree and it is not just the amount, the purpose behind it. A marriage that is based on money and materialism will never be happy or everlasting. All guys need to steer clear of women and their greedy families.
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  118.  @leof. Exactly and true love is priceless. The materialistic stuff comes and goes fast.
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  119.  @botmoderator3405 Exactly and very well said! But sadly many women place such high value on themselves like the men owe them something. I am a woman myself but I am different from most of the unrealistic and demanding women since I had a good mom that taught me well.
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  120. I am a woman and agree with you, but if any guy is lucky to find a good woman, then you should cherish each other.
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  121. I wonder where divorced and widowed women and men fit into these categories? I dated 1-2 widowers with kids. They were older than me and are nice men. But they left me without a word.
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  122. That goes for men too.
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  123. Very well said and this should not only apply to Chinese women but all women. You need to love, understand and grow together and not just base it all on materialistic stuff. True love and connections are priceless and no amount of money can buy that. Of course money is needed to live but it shouldn’t be the only or most important thing. You need to be their partner and be with them through thick and thin, not just use them for benefits and stuff. A marriage with no love is very cold and calculating which is not going to last or become blissful.
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  124. Yup and some of my brothers who are still single have chosen that path.
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  125.  @Brandanmayhew You don’t need to be Chinese to know that. But the message they are sending across is pretty true.
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  126.  @ActiveAussie2024 True to some extent. It depends on your luck.
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  127. That was one of the many reasons why my parents rarely allowed me to wear make up.
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  128. Not all men want kids believe it or not which is why the worldwide birth rate is so low now. Plus, if you can afford it ,there are many other ways to have kids. There was this one single Chinese guy who was wealthy had triplets through a surrogate. He just had to have his kids even without a woman.
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  129. That is how I am too. I had a wonderful mom that taught me very well.
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  130. Exactly and marriage is not everything as we can see with the high numbers of divorces.
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  131.  @semibiotic It doesn’t matter the age of the bride, but this whole dowry BS needs to go.
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  132. Yes, unrealistic expectations are a big no no for women and men too.
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  133. I agree and what he did is a good way to test women to see their true colors.
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  134. I had a feeling that the economy would decline fast just like how fast it grew. The bigger they come the harder they fall.
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  135. I was single until my late 30s because romantic stuff was never a priority for me. I had school and other things to focus on. There is more to life than romantic love.
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  136. Yup and women should make their own money so they will not need to look for a man with money.
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  137. I watch TV series a lot so it is great to see real footage of how life was for people during the Qing Dynasty.
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  138. I agree and that shows how greedy she is. She claims to already have money but yet still wants more. That is why women should make their own money so they can look for love and not just for money only.
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  139.  @Ric_Roar  Exactly!
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  140.  @Chucky-w It is better to be alone rather than with these bad women anyways.
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  141.  @j.p.5716 What a load of BS! That is why many men are waking up and not putting up with the nonsense and selfishness of many women like these women. You see where this old school thinking has led to? This new school thinking is what will make things better! I am a woman myself but always help out my man. I have all brothers and 3 of them are married and 2 of them are more modern and help my brothers out financially like how it should be. The other one who is divorced and left over with a kid and act like these women, so that brother is suffering now. This video and Chinese women and their unrealistic expectations are proof of the old school mentality NOT working and needs to change!
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  142.  @user-yb6tk1ru6x It is not about being worth it or not. It is just wrong to take family and friends along when you are on a date. It should be just you and him. The woman should also offer to pay at least her share instead of having the guy pay for it all.
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  143.  @حجيمحمد-ط2م Yup, or just a simple snack and a stroll in the park is enough.
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  144. Yup, but sadly many women and some men as well just take and take what they can.
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  145.  @4evertrue830 Not always true but generally can be. Look at the president of France. His wife is 24 years older and he really loves her and married her. She was married with kids too not just older. If you are truly in love then you just are.
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  146.  @TheDragonofRevelation It depends on the situation.
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  147.  @krockettz3231 Good point!
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  148. So true! It is all over the world.
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  149. Why? They can make their own living.
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  150. You are hilarious and clever! I would have only given them a $1 dollar bill.
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  151. It depends on your luck too. My sister in law had my nephew at 43 naturally and he is perfectly healthy. My brother was 53 too.
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  152.  @VashtheStampede-l5h Good points and this is a reality show so it is scripted. They made it seem a bit too unrealistic. However, it was to test out these girls but they all failed.
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  153. I would never be with anyone like that.
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  154. It is because they are mostly an only child.
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  155. Yup, that is why many of my brothers chose to remain single.
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  156.  @geebee8989 I agree and yet they STILL want equality.
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  157.  @gryla5290 I agree and I don’t know why many think he is delusional or just wants to play only. It is ok to have dreams that are realistic and that we work towards them together.
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  158.  @gryla5290 I totally agree and there was nothing wrong with what he said at all.
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  159. Yup, I find him smart and that is a good way to test a woman’s true personality and character.
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  160. Not everyone wants to get married and have kids. My aunt married at 43 and has no kids. She is happy with my uncle.
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  161. Man or woman, you have to pay your share.
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  162.  @Benz2533 My cousin married at 35 and has 2 kids now. She is happily married too.
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  163. This happened to my brother except his wife is from Vietnam and he went against my family’s wishes and married her. His life is not so happy now. It is sad when you marry the wrong person.
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  164. You underestimate older women as some can have a high sex drive too.
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  165. I agree and these days women need to help provide as well, not just put all of the burden onto the men. That is just not fair and such old school thinking. These days you need 2 incomes to have a happy family.
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  166. Yup and never marry only money, looks or any superficial reasons. Those kinds of marriages never last nor are they blissful.
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  167. That is BS in my family. All they do is come and ask for my dad’s permission to marry me at the engagement ceremony. We don’t do the dowry stuff at all.
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  168.  @fialee8  Exactly!
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  169. I agree and cheating is very bad for both genders but worse for the women in the sense that they get pregnant and lie about who the father is. I think that may be one of the many reasons why men tend to take cheating harder than men generally do.
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  170.  @grgrgrgrgrgrgrgrgrgrgr2592 Exactly! I am a woman myself but these women make me sick.
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  171.  @edheldude That is not true!
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  172.  @edheldude  That is not necessarily true at all. You have such a bad view of women. I agree that some women are like that but not all. Women should be more independent and not just rely on the man for financial support. Not all men love romantically and just go after beauty and lust too.
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  173. A woman’s character is tested when she is poor. This truly shows how selfish and greedy they are. He dodged a bullet. He sounds like my kind of guy as I love to travel the world and work with him to build a life together. I find it sad when women look for men with money just to leech off of them. I am so glad my parents taught me way better than that. They told me to make my own money so I can look for true love instead of money. You should be with your man though thick and thin not wait until he has something and go after him when becomes well established. These women are truly greedy and selfish.
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  174. My man is 23 years younger than me. He chased me and not the other way around.
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  175. True friendships are harder to find as you get older because people become more competitive and practical to the point that they lose all of the innocence of a true friendship. It is sad for these guys because they are on only child with no siblings. In my family, even if we did not friends, we have each other since we have a lot of siblings. I don’t think you need that many close friends but only about 1-2 close friends is enough. Having too many becomes excessive and superficial. It is better to have one close friend than many untrue friends. It is so sad that money is becoming so important that it breaks bonds like that. I feel bad for the guy who was betrayed by his cousin.
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  176.  @4evertrue830 That is not true as many foreign women are greedy and they are marrying for convenience and benefits, they are even more demanding than the typical women. That is what happens when you don’t marry for love.
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  177. Not really as many women in China are like this right now. They just worship money but that is it.
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  178. I admit that he was a bit too extreme but that is how you test someone’s true character. A woman’s character is tested when she is poor and a man’s character is tested when he is rich. He is testing the women’s characters and they all failed.
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  179.  @SBGNatureandCoffeeChannel I agree and it is no wonder so many women are single. They have unrealistic standards and expectations that I bet they themselves can’t even meet, but yet dare to demand this and that from the guys.
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  180. I agree and some have zero shame.
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  181. Many are like that but luckily I am not like that and careless about those ugly and expensive bags. But I am a rare one.
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  182. Wow, what an evil thing to say!
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  183. Not all guys want kids and if you can afford it, technological help is always available if you can afford it. Plus, younger age doesn’t guarantee children or healthy children too. My uncle married in his 20s but was naturally infertile. My brother was in his 50s and his wife was 43 when they had my nephew who is healthy too. My mom had my youngest brother at 42 and he is healthy and is the tallest one in my family. It is more than age and not always the woman’s fault as the man can be the one with fertility problems.
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  184. Exactly! These self entitled women are finally realizing that men will not give them free meal tickets anymore.
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  185.  @cheetavontiebolt9971 Yup, my aunt is 70 and still looks great. She married at 22 and still married to this day to my uncle with 5 kids and 10 grandchildren.
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  186. Very well said! A relationship that is based on money will never be blissful or happy.
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  187. Yup and I always offer to pay. It is not right to make the guy pay all the time.
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  188. That is old school thinking. If a woman can make her own money then she would less likely need to look for a man with money.
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  189. It depends if the guy wants kids or not. Plus, if you are wealthy then there are several options for having kids as long as you can afford it.
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  190.  @kgjung2310  It depends as my man chose me. I am in my 40s and never married but luckily look younger than my age. My man is young and attractive too so it’s not like he is desperate. He looks like a Kpop idol. Maybe I am an exception. My man is only 22 and I was worried about the children issue due to my age. He straight out said he doesn’t care about having kids. But I don’t know if he will change his mind or not. Plus, having kids is more than age. My uncle married at 20 and he was the one who was naturally infertile. Therefore, he could not have kids so just adopted. In several cases, it is the man who has fertility issues not the woman.
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  191.  @whatever5575 No, I think she does. I am 45 and my man is 22. He doesn’t mind my age and I don’t mind his. We get along very well.
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  192.  @fabiourbano6404 You are missing a fact too. Some women may be younger but are used up, while some are older but are not. I can tell you that in my case, I dated briefly only once before my ex dumped me and I met my current man. My ex was a widowed man in his late 40s with 2 kids. I was in my late 30s when I met him. I was older but not used up at all. I have known many women younger than me who are extremely used up if you know what I mean. I am now with my current boyfriend who is in his early 20s and I am in my mid 40s. He doesn’t mind my age and knows I am not used up in spite of my older age. The same thing would apply to cars. A car may be older and have lesser mileage than a newer car with a lot more mileage because it has been driven a lot. But the older car has hardly been driven so has way more mileage.
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  193.  @fabiourbano6404 You are missing another point too. A woman can be younger but be all used up versus a woman who is older but not used up. It is just like a car, you can have a newer car with lesser mileage versus an older car with more mileage left on it because it has not been driven a lot.
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  194.  @peterwilliams1074  I agree but yet everyone thinks only women are vulnerable. Sorry, but men can be as well but in different ways.
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  195. What a rude thing to say! If you love anyone, does their age matter as long as you are both adults? The president of France is 24 years younger than his wife. He really loves her and they are happy.
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  196.  @BritishEcho My second brother had his only son at 53 and they are doing great. My nephew is calm and can play by himself and is easy to take care of. My grandma lived until 100 so we kind of have the longevity gene.
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  197. ⁠ @BobbyLoo-jr8ys There are more than you think, but yes that is why my man doesn’t want kids. He said it is too expensive. His parents only had him and did not dare to have another child because it was too expensive.
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  198. Wow, very well said!
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  199. I agree and marrying for money and materialistic means only is a recipe for disaster.
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  200. I find it sad and messed up that a woman who works keeps the money to herself. Where is the logic there? If you get married, then you should become partners and shoulder everything together. I don’t get why the man has to shoulder all of the finances. That is such old school thinking that needs to go!
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  201.  @catfoodmillionaire7838 There are good and bad people/women in all countries. It just depends on your luck.
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  202. There is nothing wrong with dreaming as long as it is realistic and that you work towards achieving your dreams.
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  203. The same goes for men since we all get old.
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  204. I agree and I am one of the few women who find most designer bags extremely ugly but yet so expensive. I don’t know what women see in them?
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  205. This is a reality show so it can be fake.
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  206. That is not always true. My man is way younger than me but he is in control. My parents taught me to never control my man.
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  207. It depends as my man is way younger than me. I dated only once before him and my ex who was older ghosted me.
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  208.  @manrightchea Trust goes both ways. But if a guy asks for a paternity test then it shows the trust is no longer there. What is the point of the couple staying together?
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  209. Exactly!
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  210.  @moonlightpaw5868  It is true that you need more than love but love is one of the most important factors of any relationship or marriage because everything else builds on it.
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  211.  @kfor47 No, he is testing them to see if people will love him for him, not for what material wealth he has. I find it clever of him.
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  212.  @smti1985 True but to even consider it shows the man is suspicious and doesn’t trust his wife. If you can see yourself in your kids then there is no need for any DNA tests. But it is all down to a matter of trust.
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  213. People fail to think about whether the marriage will be happy and everlasting if it is just based on money and materialism. If they divorced, then it will be another big disaster to deal with.
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  214. It is to some extent but it is great to have true friends in life. Friends are the dessert of life.
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  215.  @thousandyears4586 Thanks and I was wondering what the title was.
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  216. Exactly and any marriage that has no love and is based on money only can never last or be blissful.
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  217.  @ninjainnameonly-6902  Exactly and like I said, if they helped build the wealth.
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  218.  @leof.  Yes and like I have said, IF they helped to build the wealth.
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  219.  @chloeleung1581 No, but if you want to be with your man through thick and then then you run with him! There is a saying which is “ a man who has to carry a ton has a wife who carries 500 pounds”. Basically, it is saying that a woman needs to shoulder the burden with their man.
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  220. Many women in China these days are greedy gold diggers so it is not really wrong.
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  221. What you said is true but I can say I am not like that. My man is poor but I love him for him not for what he has or not. But my man is young and handsome and I never needed him to be rich. I think women should work too instead of just relying on the man and pressuring him to make all the money. It is true that a guy would usually take a poor woman but a woman usually would not take a poor man. I have a friend that has nothing but she married a guy with something. I was total imagine if the genders were switched, she definitely would not have married him.
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  222. It depends as not all men want kids and you can be young and infertile too. Plus, with so many other options to have kids if you can afford it, some don’t worry about it as much.
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  223.  @MawangHujan-fl2zn Look at the president of France who is attractive, young and successful but he fell for a woman who was married with kids and 25 years older. It just depends on the individual.
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  224. It depends as you can see the President of France married a married woman with kids 24 years older than him. If you fall in love then you do. But she helps him a lot too and doesn’t just take from him like these women do.
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  225. Yup, what goes around comes around.
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  226.  @MrFreeman0179 Not everyone wants kids.
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  227.  @MrFreeman0179 But you mentioned fertility which is implying that. It is much more than age when it comes to fertility! My uncle was in his 20s when he married and he had fertility issues.
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  228.  @albertglai I agree which is why any marriage based on money and materialism would never be everlasting and blissful.
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  229.  @paulcohen6727 That is so true and in tradition societies, that is not acceptable. Many men don’t like it when women make more than they do.
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  230.  @nigellei8591 Yes, those kinds of marriages can never be healthy. You want a spouse to love and cherish not serve you.
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  231.  @azngentlmn I agree and he wanted to find a good women that would be with him through thick and thin not just go after his money and to reap benefits from him.
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  232. I agree!
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  233. I agree and women should help shoulder the burden too. It is such old school thinking that the men need to be the providers. I think that is one of main the reasons why they are in the mess they are in.
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  234. These women should just stay single as no men are this stupid!
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  235.  @totoys1573 That is why many men don’t want to marry these women.
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  236. I am Vietnamese American and glad I don’t share your hatred mentality. It is sad! My maternal grandmother is Chinese descendant so I can’t really hate China because I would be hating a part of myself.
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  237. People just think about marriage, but don’t they think about the aftermath? Things like everlasting, happiness, and everything else besides the materialistic BS. You can marry and divorce which is worse than just being labeled as a leftover. My cousin married at 27 and divorced less than 2 years later with one son. If these women want good men then they need to be good women too. These women need to understand that having a good man is way better than a rich man. That divorced woman made a mistake and has to live with regrets.
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  238. It is because of the opposite zodiac signs. They believe in that stuff. A monkey and tiger are enemies in the zodiac. It is BS because my sister in law’s parents are opposite signs of an ox and a goat and they have been happily married for ones 62 years now.
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  239.  @ChinaUnvarnished I agree and maybe they should remain single.
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  240.  @John-c4r1o I take out of the rubbish as a woman. Men cook and clean too so nothing should be exclusive to men or women only.
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  241. Depends on your luck. I found my man at 42 and he was 20. No, he is not a farmer.
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  242. That is totally stupid and unacceptable.
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  243. I agree and not just money, but they refuse to take care of their man too. No wonder many guys are turning away.
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  244.  @drcggj Even if it was, you need to know your limits.
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  245. There are people who no longer care about friends after they marry and have kids. I had a friend like that. She valued friendships until after she had her own family as she repeated over and over again.
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  246.  @chithiennguyen1371 Not all Vietnamese girls are nice. Many of them are gold diggers too. I think if they see a guy is rich, they would go for them regardless of ethnicity.
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  247.  @chithiennguyen1371 Not all Vietnamese women are nice. Many are gold diggers too.
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  248. That is a rude thing to say.
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  249. Not really as it depends on the person.
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  250. They don’t have a heart too.
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  251.  @ArifWiwitan In more modern societies, men and women understand that both need to work in order to make ends meet. It is in more traditional societies where they expect the man to be the provider which I hope changes.
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  252. Exactly and I have seen those marriages, they are doomed from the beginning.
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  253. I agree and these people are unbelievable.
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  254.  @NaNa-kj2gw The wedding rings don’t need to cost a fortune and are no where near as expensive as any of these bride prices in most cases. The most expensive wedding rings that I ever saw were around $10,000 which is a lot lower than any of these ridiculous bride prices.
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  255.  @lovetobe6118 Yup and that is how I am. The simple things are what make us happy not the materialistic things.
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  256.  @ianrichardson3228 It is not the age, but the personality of the people.
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  257.  @ianrichardson3228 I am in my 40s but I am not demanding.
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  258. It depends on the person because I think many crave a partner even if they don’t want friends. They want someone to share their life with and get lonely even though most say they don’t need a partner.
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  259.  @gryla5290 Exactly! My man and I have dreams of traveling the world when we work and save up. Nothing wrong with that at all.
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  260. This groom is so clever and his song is perfect! All grooms should use this song to defend themselves. What is the deal with this dowry stuff? It is so old fashioned and outdated. Women should feel lucky to find a guy who is willing to marry them but yet they act like this. Who do they think they are? The women and their families need to make their own money instead of milking the groom and his family like this. Luckily, all of this stuff stopped in my family a long time ago. All guys and their families need to steer clear of women like this. A marriage that is based on money and materialistic stuff will never be everlasting or blissful at all. My family’s only requirement is that my husband and I love each other and build our lives together. What is up with these bride prices? So ridiculous!
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  261. There is nothing wrong with staying single regardless of gender, but I find it more beneficial for Chinese men since the women are so greedy. Marriage and kids is not everything. Marriage is one thing but is it everlasting and blissful is another thing.
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  262. @airthrowDBTGood point and maybe that is what his mom said to do to test a woman’s true character.
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  263. That is so true! It is better to have 1-2 close and true friends rather than a whole bunch of bad friends.
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  264. I agree and those who are money oriented can never be a good person.
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  265.  @manifest2203 The same goes for women too. They make their men ATMs and slaves. It goes both ways.
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  266.  @helahola It depends on the person.
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  267. I actually had men over 50 and even in their 20s want to date me. I am in my 40s too, but they realize my good qualities since I am not a gold digger.
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  268. Good points! I think it is fake but sends a good message.
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  269.  @franke9448  That is so true!
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  270. I don’t really agree because it is fine to have dreams as long as they are realistic. Just because he was in debt now means that he will be in debt later on and can’t fulfill his dreams. Life is unpredictable. These women were bad for mocking him for having a dream.
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  271.  @SodiumSyndicate I don’t think so because he just said he dreams of traveling the world. There is nothing wrong with that and that is achievable. My man and I are both poor now but we have that dream and will work towards it.
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  272. I feel bad for you and as a woman myself, I hate women like that too. I am glad my parents raised me well so I am nothing like that. True love is priceless and all of those materialistic things become so excess. I also don’t wear makeup so my man does not need to worry about that. I like to buy things myself.
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