Comments by "" (@TellthetruthaboutChina) on "China Unvarnished" channel.

  1. I used to chase girls, but after being ignored and ghosted so many times, I realized that gaming is just more rewarding.
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  2. If he made 30,000 a month, they'd say he's ambitious; if he makes 3,000, they'd call him delusional.
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  3. Women complain about men being picky, but why is it okay for them to have unrealistic standards?
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  4. Men have finally realized the truth: being good to yourself is what really matters. Simps end up with nothing.
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  5. I feel like her begging for reconciliation is only about the money, not love. This kind of behavior is really disappointing.
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  6. He made the right decision. No man should have to bankrupt himself to get married. If she truly loved him, the bride price wouldn’t matter.
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  7. Wow, the moment the law changed, women immediately started asking for tall, handsome, and emotionally intelligent men. Hilarious!
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  8. She thinks her looks give her the right to spend other people’s money? This mindset is truly scary.
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  9. Let’s be honest, many men avoid beautiful women because they know they can’t afford their lifestyle.
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  10. Giving all your money to your wife is really foolish. Even for the sake of the family, you can't completely lose yourself.
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  11. Some older leftover women’s "confidence" is just because no one dares to criticize them. Men’s awakening is a backlash against this blind confidence.
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  12. If she wants expensive gifts on a blind date, she’s clearly not looking for love, just a sponsor.
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  13. The man is called "irresponsible" for not paying, but isn’t the woman even worse for bringing a freeloading squad?
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  14. Even though she has cancer, I don’t think she deserves to ask her kids to care for her. How can 16 years of abandonment be easily forgiven?
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  15. We don’t play games because we’re immature; we play because it’s the only time we feel in control of our lives.
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  16. I’ve seen too many men in their 50s and 60s regret getting married. It’s not that they couldn’t make it work, but they realize they gave up too much.
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  17. This just proves that some women don’t appreciate what they have until they lose it. Men deserve better than this.
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  18. Men work hard for years to save money, only to spend it all on bride prices. How long can this unequal system last?
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  19. Men aren’t ATMs. If a woman only cares about who’s paying, this relationship has no future.
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  20. It's not about betraying Chinese women; it's about finding a partner who values emotional connection over money.
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  21. She looked down on him when he was poor, and now that he's rich, she wants a share? Marriage shouldn’t work like this.
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  22. A 40-year-old woman unwilling to make compromises in marriage still expecting a dream romance? Come on, be realistic.
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  23. Flight attendants' high standards might be why so many remain single.
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  24. You say you don't want marriage, yet you envy young girls for being popular. Isn't that contradictory?
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  25. The "confessions" in the video feel like self-comfort to me. Many older women don’t realize their emotional neglect.
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  26. Many Chinese men say not to get married because they feel that modern marriage is 'unfair' to men. High bride prices, financial stress, and imbalanced family roles are making them hesitate about marriage.
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  27. Leftover women want to be understood, but have they ever considered the pressure men face? Building a life and starting a family is tough for men too.
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  28. A “sexless” marriage like this might be even more painful than being single.
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  29. Marriage is no longer a guarantee of love; it's a transaction. Especially in China, men have to give too much and receive too little in return. Rather than being trapped in an unhappy marriage, I'd rather live alone.
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  30. Marriage = lifetime debt, divorce = losing everything. Who would want to take that deal?
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  31. Men's youth is shorter, and the risks of marriage are higher. If the conditions aren't right, I'd rather stay single than compromise.
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  32. Some women over 40 have lost their sense of self-worth and always think they’re forever young.
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  33. Women ask men to cover wedding expenses, isn't it fair for men to ask for a premarital checkup
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  34. Older single women claim they are exceptional, but why do they keep getting eliminated in the marriage market?
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  35. I believe that there is no need to go to fancy restaurants on a first blind date. If a woman insists on going to such places, she's usually not sincere. Brothers, you need to be careful.
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  36. Our generation doesn't not want to get married, it's just that the cost of marriage and having kids is so high, even surviving is a problem.
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  37. This proves that hypergamy doesn’t work when there aren’t enough high-status men left to pick from
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  38. It’s ironic that many women complain about men being irresponsible with money, yet when they take over the finances, they often use it as a tool to belittle and control their husbands. Is this the equality we strive for?
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  39. If a woman cheats, the man should have the right to demand a paternity test without any backlash!
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  40. Foreign women marry Chinese men more to find 'the real self' rather than rely on materialism and money. This contrasts sharply with the materialism in the 'marriage market' of Chinese women.
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  41. Why is it that when a man does housework, he's a loser, but when a woman does it, she's a virtuous wife and mother?
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  42. I was actually in a similar situation, and it’s not just embarrassing, it’s infuriating. You think you're being polite, but in reality, you're just being scammed. The worst part is, you feel like an idiot afterward.
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  43. Men have the right to choose not to pay for a bunch of strangers. After all, this is a date, not a free meal event!
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  44. Older single women now blame men for not pursuing them, but they don’t reflect on why men stopped buying into it.
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  45. After marriage, a man's youth, energy, and money become a "sunk cost." When divorce happens, women take half of the assets, and men still have to pay child support. What’s in it for men?
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  46. The dowry is already high, and then to demand drinking foot water—it’s completely incomprehensible. Marriage is not about humiliating each other!
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  47. Matchmaking events today feel like competitions where men have to "win" over women by proving their worth. It’s exhausting, and it doesn’t build real connections. This just pushes more men away.
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  48. I think it’s a smart move that men are finally realizing spending money on nightclub girls is a waste. Why should we pay for someone who’s just there for our money and not genuine connection?
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  49. Streaming platforms should label which streamers use beauty filters – viewers have the right to know!
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  50. Never blindly follow a friend’s advice; they won’t live your life for you."
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  51. Sometimes I think I'd rather stay single forever than push myself to the brink for marriage.
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  52. Women want equality, but where is the equality when it comes to bride prices?
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  53. I’m tired of being the provider for someone who brings nothing to the table. If you want luxury, get a job, don’t expect men to foot the bill.
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  54. This woman is definitely a repeat offender, scamming more than one man. The law should investigate thoroughly!
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  55. Are we just supposed to be ‘stepping stones’ for women to climb up? Seems like love is a transaction now.
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  56. Rural banquet culture is all about saving face, but why is no one willing to be the first to break it?
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  57. If she keeps breaking up with good guys because of her friends’ advice, she’ll end up alone. Not every guy will stick around for drama.
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  58. HaoGe’s persistence and sincerity moved me deeply. True love is about pursuing courageously and having no regrets.
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  59. Ms. Li never knew how to appreciate. Now she realizes that Mr. Wang was the one she should rely on, but it’s already too late.
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  60. The sad part is, she’s so focused on her career and independence that she’s missed out on the opportunity to build a meaningful relationship.
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  61. A 1,000-person matchmaking event with no men attending—it’s not about looks, it’s about the harsh reality of relationships.
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  62. This man's behavior is the classic case of the "stupid rich guy" who doesn’t realize money can’t solve emotional problems.
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  63. Sometimes I even wonder if marriage is worth it when I’m burdened with such heavy financial pressure.
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  64. Everyone has a peak period. If women missed theirs, that’s their own responsibility.
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  65. Maybe it's time for women to stop blaming men for everything and start asking themselves why so many good guys are walking away. Could it be that modern dating expectations are just unrealistic?
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  66. Older women struggle to find jobs because younger people adapt to new tech more easily. Companies obviously choose them.
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  67. Bankruptcy isn’t the worst; the worst is how people start looking at you, like you’re the embodiment of failure.
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  68. Why is society so hard on middle-aged men? We provide for families, work hard, and yet as soon as we hit a certain age, we’re marginalized. When will society and companies treat us more fairly?
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  69. She should have made it clear earlier that she didn’t want a married life instead of dragging it out for two years.
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  70. Love is that simple—two people in love, no matter how far apart, will find their way together.
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  71. "Why do women see being single as a failure, but for men, it's often just freedom?
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  72. The bride price shouldn’t be a way for parents to make money. It’s a gesture of respect, not a business deal. If it feels like extortion, then it’s gone too far.
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  73. Often, when working for someone, they treat you well only when they need you; once you're no longer needed, they will dismiss you without hesitation.
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  74. After 30, we still have to work hard for money and endure discrimination from both society and family. Who understands a man’s pressure?
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  75. Even though she betrayed him, he’s also a irresponsible jerk.
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  76. If a woman only cares about a man’s money and not the man himself, she doesn’t deserve me spending money on her. What I can give you is my heart, not my wallet.
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  77. When women demand financial security from men, they should also ask themselves what they’re bringing to the table beyond looks.
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  78. She set a trap for him and expected him not to fall for it. That's just selfish.
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  79. If men started demanding a bride price too, would you still be willing to marry?"
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  80. If you want to keep your marriage strong, you can’t just focus on the gym. A healthy relationship requires time and effort, not just a perfect body.
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  81. If Huang Yan really wants to get married, she should lower her standards instead of staying on her high pedestal.
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  82. Tiffany and Cai Xiaohua's story made me believe that true love has nothing to do with age or appearance.
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  83. 16 years of lies and betrayal, and people still say ‘blood doesn't matter?’ Then what does matter in a family?
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  84. It's tough for men to start businesses in rural areas. We're always misled by these 'get-rich-quick schemes' and end up buried in debt.
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  85. Forget it, it's best for the man to let go. There's no need for him to hold onto memories of this woman anymore.
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  86. It’s sad, but true. Once you hit 30, you’re basically irrelevant in the modeling world. It’s a youth-based career and that’s the cold truth.
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  87. This kind of girl has no real feelings at all. Be careful when you meet her.
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  88. Women have the pressure to get married, but men have the pressure to buy a house. Whose pressure is bigger?
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  89. My wife is always on my back about gaming. Why doesn’t she understand that it’s just a hobby?
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  90. It’s frustrating when women expect us to pay for everything, whether it’s dinner, gifts, or even vacations. Why is it that a man’s worth is measured by his wallet? Shouldn’t a healthy relationship be about both partners contributing equally, whether financially or emotionally?
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  91. Why should we get married when most women want someone who has everything? It’s like being expected to buy a luxury car, but being offered a second-hand bicycle in return.
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  92. No matter how hard women work, many job positions still exclude them because of their ‘age’ and ‘marital status,’ something that’s unimaginable for men.
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  93. Is it possible that women who are still unmarried at 30 are being too focused on perfection? I believe marriage is about mutual compromise and acceptance. If you keep being picky, you might end up missing out on someone who’s willing to build a life with you. No one is perfect, so why wait for the so-called "perfect partner"?
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  94. Women say 'beware of fire, theft, and besties.' Should men start saying 'beware of wives' besties' too?
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  95. Why does everyone think it's a problem for men to have no friends at 30? We don’t need to rely on social connections like women do—being independent is what gives men confidence.
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  96. Nightlife girls use sweet words to capture men’s hearts, but that’s not real love.
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  97. I find it interesting when women say they want a man who is both capable and handsome. You’re 40+, and still looking for that? Maybe it’s time to redefine what ‘ideal’ really means.
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  98. I seriously doubt if this is a man's era; it feels like hard work can never catch up with life's pressure.
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  99. Men are responsible too; we shouldn’t always be drawn to fake beauty. We should value inner qualities more.
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  100. It is a touching and beautiful love story. It seems that there are still pure girls working in the city. I wish them happiness.
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  101. High bride prices turn marriage into a transaction. The groom refusing to be pressured shows he's got integrity.
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  102. Extreme measures won’t solve the problem, but should society offer more protection to the vulnerable?
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  103. She’s stunning, but she doesn’t get it. Men don’t care about beauty if you’re arrogant and picky.
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  104. Women always say men should be responsible. But what about her? She ignored her kids for 30 years, and now she suddenly remembers them because she's sick?
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  105. This must be a once-in-a-lifetime experience! The old man is so composed!
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  106. Marriage in modern society is becoming more complicated. The man is expected to pay a high bride price, yet even a simple health check is an issue. So, is it that our standards are too high, or their standards are too low?
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  107. It’s fine if modern women want equal rights, but they should also take equal responsibility. You can’t enjoy a man’s money and then refuse to take on the responsibility of marriage.
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  108. Sister-brother relationships sound nice, but in the end, it's just women trying to control everything. Can young men really handle that kind of pressure?
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  109. Many leftover women refuse to lower their standards, but the reality is, men have the advantage in the dating market. Can they really afford to wait?
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  110. When he gave his last ten yuan to the old man who picked up garbage, I was very moved and hoped that he could live a good life.
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  111. If she wins 500,000 yuan, will more people start treating relationships as an investment?
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  112. I just can’t understand how his ex-wife doesn’t want to care for the child but still demands to transfer custody to the father. As a mother, it’s not about being selfish and living your own life—it’s about thinking of the child’s well-being. If she truly loved the child, she would take responsibility as a mother, not push that burden onto the father through coercive actions.
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  113. He’s too young to even realize how much danger he was in.
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  114. I think women should focus more on their own growth rather than just relying on a man’s so-called ‘mature charm.’ Can such a relationship really last?
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  115. Marriage requires a house, a car, a dowry, a wedding… Can you really blame men for not wanting to get married?
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  116. Their demands only consider the man—what about the value they bring to the table?
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  117. They bought a house and lost their heart—too expensive a price.
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  118. The tricks women use are too many and too terrifying. Many of them I’m hearing for the first time.
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  119. Thanks to the author for the excellent video, it's very interesting, these girls are so demanding.
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  120. Perhaps we should ask ourselves whether the "tradition" behind the bride price is truly worth continuing, or if it has already become a social pathology.
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  121. If there is real affection, why not pursue a woman with whom you can mutually invest emotionally, instead of choosing someone who’s a “role” in a business transaction?
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  122. Whether it’s a cross-cultural marriage or ordinary life, love is the greatest power.
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  123. The job pressure in China is heavy, but going abroad may also bring significant challenges. Who can guarantee that you’ll find the right job abroad?
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  124. He's so creative! Selling skewers on a snowy mountain—genius or crazy?
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  125. The world of the rich is far more complicated than we think. No one can just waltz in.
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  126. I don’t oppose dating younger men, but are these younger guys really ready to take on family responsibilities? Or do some women just want a temporary thrill?
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  127. The boss's proposal to buy cars for the employees is clearly just an empty promise.
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  128. I agree, it's too much. It's a humiliation for men.
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  129. Is someone like Xiao Yu shaped by harsh realities, or has she never found the motivation to change her path?
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  130. I also think this woman has a point. Her name is on the property deed, and the house was built after she got married to her ex-husband, so she is quite pitiful in a way. It seems like the stepson wants to take the entire property for himself. However, it was a bit wrong of her to leave her husband for such a long time. This case is somewhat complicated.
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  131. I don’t know why, but after reading it, I still feel very sad. These were their own choices. Now that they're old, it’s too late to say anything; there’s no such thing as a magic pill for regret in this world.
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  132. Many women nowadays only want a 'balance' between career and life, but in reality, they don’t put as much effort into work as men. Why should companies hire them?
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  133. I’m touched… Who would’ve thought a fishing rod could save a life?
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  134. Age discrimination is a chronic issue in the tech industry. Until this problem is solved, female programmers will always be in a marginalized position.
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  135. Calling this “female empowerment” is laughable—it’s just a gold-digging game.
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  136. Quitting work to focus on family can be a choice, but it will cost women more opportunities.
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  137. Being an independent single man is a thousand times better than being a pathetic Simp.
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  138. This old man is so infuriating and so rude, poor girl.
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  139. Many rich second-generation guys are indeed controlled by their families, but women shouldn’t solely rely on their background. Love should be a mutual effort.
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  140. Projects like Weihai Yintan are not isolated cases. How many similar ghost cities are there in China? Something to ponder.
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  141. An older leftover woman, you're getting older, yet you're still setting high standards when choosing men. No wonder people see you as a parent. Do you really think you're still young? Do you still consider yourself a young girl?
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  142. Men are looking for wives, not beauty-filtered illusions. Reality matters more than virtual perfection.
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  143. Watching this video, I now realize how many unspoken rules there are in car dealerships.
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  144. Men are not obligated to ‘save’ older single women from their psychological struggles.
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  145. When the boy finally plucked up the courage to confess his love to the girl and they finally got together, I shed tears. Pure love without material things is truly the most beautiful.
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  146. This society has too strong a dependency mindset for women. Women should be independent, the bride price is theirs, not something to be handed to their parents!
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  147. The workplace is competitive. If older women can’t adapt to changes, shouldn’t they accept the possibility of being replaced?
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  148. Women today claim they want honest men, but can they really handle the full truth? I think they just want to hear the kind of 'honesty' that aligns with their expectations.
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  149. The dating market is too realistic nowadays; it's indeed hard for female delivery riders to find partners.
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  150. I get that aging is hard, but the reality is men also age and we don’t make a big deal out of it. Maybe it’s because women place too much value on appearance. Aging is natural—accept it and move on.
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  151. If you’re a man who values his future, you know these places aren’t worth it.
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  152. The video is very long, but I couldn't help but watch it to the end. It was truly moving; indeed, every inch of our land was paid for in blood. I hope for everlasting world peace and that there will never be war again.
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  153. I think high bride prices are just a disguised way of selling daughters. Do you agree?
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  154. By a certain age, many older women’s choices become fewer. They keep emphasizing "independence," but the truth is, no one wants to marry them.
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  155. Is it because Chinese men work too hard and are too grounded, making them seem less “romantic”?
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  156. Agreed, I hope humanity will never experience war again
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  157. I’ve seen many great men who avoid matchmaking because they don’t want to be seen as tools by women.
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  158. Honestly, many Chinese men have lost confidence in marriage. Choosing Russian women is not because they are beautiful, but because they are easier to feel comfortable with.
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  159. This video is such a tragedy! The confessions of older unmarried women reflect societal biases against women, but shouldn't men also reflect on their own responsibilities?
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  160. I admit you’re excellent, but is it really fair to require men to meet such high standards?
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  161. Many people think a beautiful woman deserves to be spoiled, but they don’t realize that her appearance hides her greed.
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  162. Honestly, many "leftover women" look wealthy, but still, no one wants to marry them.
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  163. The highest level of a gold digger: making a man work hard to raise another man’s children!
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  164. You're saying being single is great now, but when you're older, will you still not need the company of children?
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  165. Many women claim to be independent but still want a partner; they just don’t want to admit it.
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  166. Women wanted equality, now they’ve got it. No more easy handouts. Work for what you want, just like men have to.
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  167. This is not just a marriage issue, but two people having completely different understandings of "integrity.
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  168. Matchmaking agencies can’t work miracles. If women set impossible standards, they should be prepared for the consequences.
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  169. No wonder more and more men choose not to marry. There’s no sense of security in marriage anymore.
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  170. Modern women have such high standards that ordinary men don't even dare to approach them.
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  171. Modern women often think they can "choose" men, but when their standards are too high, they themselves become "leftover women."
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  172. No wonder more and more men refuse to get married—it’s basically just giving away free money.
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  173. A woman’s youth is limited—don’t waste it in nightclubs and then suddenly remember to find a stable man.
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  174. Why do men always fall for the lie that ‘beautiful women need saving’? In the end, they are the ones who get played!
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  175. Marriage is no longer a woman’s “safety box.” Now we men can also protect our assets from being easily infringed upon.
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  176. It's normal. Men like young girls. Older single women have too high requirements and they don't like many men.
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  177. When women demand financial security from men, they should also ask themselves what they’re bringing to the table beyond looks.
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  178. Some women think they can just sit back and expect a man to do everything. Newsflash: that’s not how it works.
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  179. It is a document for permanent residence in China, which means you have always been a local of Zhejiang, not a temporary outsider.
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  180. Driving for money is tough work, regardless of gender. Stop treating women like the weaker sex.
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  181. Gold-digging girls live off men, while mature women know how to build a life with them.
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  182. Women wanted equality, and now they’re facing the same financial struggles men have dealt with for years. Welcome to reality.
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  183. Prenuptial agreements only increase distrust between partners. Marriage is supposed to be based on love and trust, not constrained by legal terms and conditions.
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