Comments by "clray123" (@clray123) on "ContraPoints" channel.

  1. I'd say the biggest error is viewing "getting a girlfriend" as some sort of grand achievement or life validation (and that perception is in fact something ingrained in society and worth mocking). Perhaps a more appropriate attitude would be to have the (oh so empowered) girlfriend get you - while you can work on improving all the points mentioned by Marcin for a generally more enjoyable life of your own - NOT to get laid or score points. And if you're so very desperate to get laid, there are other, simpler ways to accomplish that. If you're upset about having no companionship, perhaps you should get a pet or reach out to another lonely person instead. But most importantly, CHILL, and love thyself (which again, includes taking care of the bullet list).
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  2. BTW, the "skull shape" seems like some bizarre bs invention, but there are plenty of real statistics about women not being particularly inclined to dating short men... or how about bald short men? So you can have all the issues sorted out, but the mere fact that your height is not "manly enough" and your hair fell out early, something entirely beyond your control, will significantly lower your chances of getting a date. It's pretty much like a disability. The world is definitely not "fair" in that respect, but then so what?
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