Comments by "RCGWho" (@RCGWho) on "Amir Odom" channel.

  1. The problem is that this is trendy. It is a social contagion. It's an offshoot of the therapy trend. People used to work things out or just deal. So far, this has demonstrated nothing in the first 10 to 15 minutes. You and the first woman haven't spelled out any specifics. Just ranting about why your justified and not explaining what you're justifying. Parents can't fix it if you tell them they can't contact you. She's contradicting herself. "You can't contact me, but also you must fix this."
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  2. 12:22 Still not one specific. Just vague victimhood. 17:00 Nothing specific. Just whining. 20:26 Nothing 25:00 Still. Except now you're complaining about the size of your bedroom. Dude, I slept in a walk in closet for several years. Heres the thing. You will be bad parents and/or face the same NC behavior. It's called a bitter root judgment when you pridefully hold onto your unforgiveness and believe you will be an amazing perfect parent. Your pride will be your downfall. And you will teach your children bitterness and unforgiveness and the practice of NC. 27:00 Speaking about how he will be the superior parent. In theory. 29:00 Yes, every generation is presented with the opportunity to stop or continue generational curses, but as humans there will always be unfinished business and blind spots. 31:00 People make humorous videos about stereotypical German moms or asian tiger moms or hispanic moms. A lot of it is all the same. Moms are emotional, bossy, fearful, and a lot of fear manifests in anger unless they are full of faith and prayer and keep their stuff inside. 37:55 "This is the first generation trying to heal from all the traumas...." Actually, healing comes from forgiveness not unforgiveness. I miss my boomer grandparents. They NEVER whined and complained about any personal emotional slights. Never said anything about their trauma from their parents. They weren't walking TMI about everything and calling everything abuse and trauma. It was probably extreme, but so much less self-absorbed. NC is passive-aggressive retaliation. 40:00 Yeah, dude, the parents are having to deal with the rejection/punishment. You want the therapist to hate on them too? An entire viseo and no solid info other than "We had a human mom" or "we had a mean mom". Pity us. If you have an extreme case where yoyr oarent is a pdf file, lewd, coninuing to yell and cuss and insult, fine, take a break. Maybe permanently in extreme cases. But garden variety problems should be negotiated, forgiven, worked through. Cutting someone off should be a last resort.
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  3. Because so many people decide in their youth they want something and change their minds.
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  4. Jesus commands everyone to forgive as a condition of you being forgiven.
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  5. 1"But realize this, that in the last days difficult times will come. 2For people will be lovers of self, lovers of money, boastful, arrogant, slanderers, disobedient to parents, ungrateful, unholy,  3unloving, irreconcilable, (unforgiving, implacable, not able to be pleased) malicious gossips, without self-control, brutal,  haters of good,  4treacherous, reckless, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God,  5holding to a form of godliness although they have denied its power; avoid such people as these." 2 Timothy 3
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