Comments by "Shipoke (Dn Wybn)" (@inconnu4961) on "Better Bachelor"
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It sounds right, at first, but if i were to ask you: 4everscifi, who are you? You, like most of us would describe what you do. So we do label ourselves, society labels us. labels are a way to get a general picture of a thing that COULD have an infinite description. Every word we type is limiting in its own way. When we tell others what we/they should do or shouldnt do, as we ALL are going to do here(LOL) including that person who labels himself Joker( i bet his mother doesnt call him that). Sometimes using a label is necessary, but it will never be perfect. I appreciate the intent, ie to NOT get hung up on labels, but we try to put limits even when trying to take away limits! Most people dont subscribe to the 'higher power' and i think this is how we've gotten down this road like this. I still do, and thats my label.
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@ravanpee1325 I pretty well agree with you, but consider this. Much of the advice is to NOT date. 'Dont date guys, its not worth it'! So, how many ways is there to express this? In a world FILLED with negativity, honestly one of the last things we NEED is more negativity. We need as the famous cable news channel suggests: fair & balanced! Unfortunately a lot of channels and advice-givers spend so much time and energy on the negative, on the challenges. So when they do finally mention something positive, it is too short, under-emphasized, even glossed over to the point of not being impactful. They say, the last thing we see or hear often stays with us the longest, and when you hear that women are just 'demon-spawn' that is an unhealthy way travel through the day ( maybe YOUR ex was demon-spawn, but not all women are like that! LOL). We have a tendency to catastrophize bad news or difficult situations and this is unhealthy for men! Let us continue to be mostly positive, mostly constructive and mostly honest with each other as men!
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