Comments by "Whatever Whatever" (@whateverwhatever4026) on "Is Cheating Always Wrong? | Middle Ground" video.
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I don't even know where I'd stand here. I've never directly cheated on anyone. But have been the person someone else cheated with a few times. And likewise never been directly cheated on, only had partners go to other things while we were still talking, but not actually together, well after it was "officially over".
Its bad no matter what though. But so many people fail to see or acknowledge their own part of it. The cheater is wrong, inherently, but the other party usually isn't innocent either.
For example, one of the last people i was with was technically married, but A. He cheated on her so many times it wasn't even a thing anymore. And B. They should have never been together to begin with. I'm talking didn't even like each other, let alone love, but only together for financial reasons, and a child that has long since grown now and learned all the wrong lessons about how parents/partners don't actually need to care about each other thanks to them..
Too many people are just together for the sake of it. And there's a major issue. People are afraid, desperately afraid of loneliness. To the point they'll ruin their lives even more and everyone else around them, just to avoid feeling 4 seconds of being alone. That's what's worse. No one is perfect, everyone has flaws, stop trying make things work just because you're scared.
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