Comments by "LancesArmorStriking" (@LancesArmorStriking) on "Hiring Dr. K to Deal with Entitled Parents" video.

@juliee593 I think this may have gotten worse after the Industrial Revolution., Even if there were plenty of teen parents (which there probably were, since life expectancy then was ~60), I think they were raised by the entire village or tribe. And, children and teenagers were put to work on the farm immediately, so "parenting" was mostly "go play as long as you have done the day's labor" Great sense of early independence and capbility since you mostly went off to play with the town's kids together, less mental issues So I think that every child then had the wisdom of the entire group, not just 2 people like today. And the parents can;t just brush off 5 other trusted adults telling them that they're wrong, there is a system of "checks and balances" there The longer it goes on (families isolated from frequent contact with many elders), the worse each family can become. Like evolving from generation to generation, insulated from outside correction
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@lucky0161s Speaking from experience (still processing many regrets of not doing what I most wanted)- yes, resentment is likely to appear. And it is worse. I envy my classmates who snuck out, and lived their dreams
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@liteviews4493 Not everyone has the will to change their ways- it that is how they were raised, then they will likely follow the only example they ever had. You could say "it's their responsibility to change", and that is very true, but that's also no different from saying "just try harder". They need to acknowledge that there is a problem first, then start fixing it- with proper help and supportive people. If they are too stubborn to admit any fault... then I'm sorry.
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