Comments by "Kate Ashby" (@kateashby3066) on "Harmony Montgomery's Mom Asks to Declare Daughter Dead" video.

Her hair is totally fine and she wears clothes that her daughter liked (pink, hearts, Minnie Mouse, etc…). Get over it.
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Drug addiction is a mental illness and most addicts self-medicate with substances to manage the traumatic effects (which tend to be permanent) from their abusive childhoods- hence why it’s a cycle. She gave her best and got back on her feet. What she didn’t do was actively abusive Harmony.
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So you h@te the mother more than the government who gave this child to a hard criminal and “H” add ict? 🙄
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Not her mother. I realize she relapsed after she had her but she took decent care of her before her life spiraled, and that’s not cheap. Kid had a cute wardrobe, prescription glasses and a home. It was dad and Kayla that used her for money.
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@wmdkitty she was in a different court that day and the courts didn’t bother to reschedule. Y’all make a ton of assumptions 🤦🏻‍♀️
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@denabeebe1888 not true.
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She wears it in honor of her de@d child- grow up.
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@Lollyk13 Ever wonder why a group of friends can do drugs or alcohol together but only one gets hooked and their life spirals out of control and everyone else lives a normal life? That one person is likely battling a mental illness and drugs are the only thing that makes them feel normal and sane. Most mental illnesses are the result of childhood trauma (usually from abuse). So if sweet harmony didn’t die, she almost certainly would have become a heroin addict herself when she was old enough to experiment (her siblings are likely already doomed to this lifestyle). You still wanna judge drug addiction as if it’s a moral failure? You think abused kids just move on and become normal? Thats not how the human brain works. Abuse MUTATES the human brain FOREVER. That’s why we develop panic disorders, bipolar disorder, personality disorders, etc…Speaking from personal experience here (you can say that I am Harmony all grown up- because my father was just like Adam M and I developed borderline personality disorder and a drug addiction to go with it). That does not mean we shouldn’t find a way to heal and recover and get better but getting clean is like learning how to breath water and not oxygen and it takes an INCREDIBLE amount of pain to get us to the point where we are willing to try to do that, because it’s really scary letting go of your ONLY coping mechanism. Y’all seem to think it’s just willpower- but when your brain is wired all wrong, that’s not how it works. Let’s please try to find SOME compassion for the addicts that fight to survive and then get well. By the way, Adam’s dad just ended his own life. That guy is probably why Adam is a raging narcissist. Like I said- the cycle doesn’t stop till we actively stop it (like crystal was trying to do). 😢
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⁠Ever wonder why a group of friends can use substances together but only one gets h00ked and their life spirals out of control and everyone else lives a normal life? That one person is likely battling a mental ill ness and substances are the only thing that makes them feel normal and safe. Most mental ill nesses are the result of childhood tra- uma (usually from a6use). So if sweet harmony didn’t D I E, she almost certainly would have become a hardcore add- ict herself when she was old enough to experiment (her siblings are likely already doomed to this lifestyle). You still wanna judge add- iction as if it’s a moral failure? You think a6used kids just move on and become normal? Thats not how the human brain works. A6use MUTATES the human brain FOREVER. That’s why we develop panic disorders, bipolar disorder, personality disorders, etc…Speaking from personal experience here (you can say that I am Harmony all grown up- because my father was just like Adam M and I developed borderline personality disorder and an add- iction to go with it). That does not mean we shouldn’t find a way to heal and recover and get better but getting clean is like learning how to breath water and not oxygen and it takes an INCREDIBLE amount of pain to get us to the point where we are willing to try to do that, because it’s really scary letting go of your ONLY coping mechanism. Y’all seem to think it’s just willpower- but when your brain is wired all wrong, that’s not how it works. Let’s please try to find SOME compassion for the add- icts that fight to survive and then get well. By the way, Adam’s dad just ended his own life. That guy is probably why Adam is a raging narcissist. Like I said- the cycle doesn’t stop till we actively stop it (like crystal was trying to do). 😢 (sorry about the weird text but YouTube censors and blocks so many posts now if they use certain words 🙄)
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@Lollyk13 ⁠Ever wonder why a group of friends can use substances together but only one gets hooked and their life spirals out of control and everyone else lives a normal life? That one person is likely battling a mental illness and substances are the only thing that makes them feel normal and safe. Most mental illnesses are the result of childhood trauma (usually from abuse). So if sweet harmony didn’t D I E, she almost certainly would have become a hardcore addict herself when she was old enough to experiment (her siblings are likely already doomed to this lifestyle). You still wanna judge drug addiction as if it’s a moral failure? You think abused kids just move on and become normal? Thats not how the human brain works. Abuse MUTATES the human brain FOREVER. That’s why we develop panic disorders, bipolar disorder, personality disorders, etc…Speaking from personal experience here (you can say that I am Harmony all grown up- because my father was just like Adam M and I developed borderline personality disorder and a drug addiction to go with it). That does not mean we shouldn’t find a way to heal and recover and get better but getting clean is like learning how to breath water and not oxygen and it takes an INCREDIBLE amount of pain to get us to the point where we are willing to try to do that, because it’s really scary letting go of your ONLY coping mechanism. Y’all seem to think it’s just willpower- but when your brain is wired all wrong, that’s not how it works. Let’s please try to find SOME compassion for the addicts that fight to survive and then get well. By the way, Adam’s dad just ended his own life. That guy is probably why Adam is a raging narcissist. Like I said- the cycle doesn’t stop till we actively stop it (like crystal was trying to do). 😢
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@Lollyk13 ⁠Ever wonder why a group of friends can use substances together but only one gets hooked and their life spirals out of control and everyone else lives a normal life? That one person is likely battling a mental illness and substances are the only thing that makes them feel normal and safe. Most mental illnesses are the result of childhood trauma (usually from abuse). So if sweet harmony didn’t D I E, she almost certainly would have become a hardcore addict herself when she was old enough to experiment (her siblings are likely already doomed to this lifestyle). You still wanna judge drug addiction as if it’s a moral failure? You think abused kids just move on and become normal? Thats not how the human brain works. Abuse MUTATES the human brain FOREVER. That’s why we develop panic disorders, bipolar disorder, personality disorders, etc…Speaking from personal experience here (you can say that I am Harmony all grown up- because my father was just like Adam M and I developed borderline personality disorder and a drug addiction to go with it). That does not mean we shouldn’t find a way to heal and recover and get better but getting clean is like learning how to breath water and not oxygen and it takes an INCREDIBLE amount of pain to get us to the point where we are willing to try to do that, because it’s really scary letting go of your ONLY coping mechanism. Y’all seem to think it’s just willpower- but when your brain is wired all wrong, that’s not how it works. Let’s please try to find SOME compassion for the addicts that fight to survive and then get well. By the way, Adam’s dad just ended his own life. That guy is probably why Adam is a raging narcissist. Like I said- the cycle doesn’t stop till we actively stop it (like crystal was trying to do). 😢
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Just cause you temporarily lose custody doesn’t mean it’s ok for the government to put your child in danger to the point where they d i e. She’s STILL her parent.
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⁠for all those judging Cristal- Ever wonder why a group of friends can use substances together but only one gets hooked and their life spirals out of control and everyone else lives a normal life? That one person is likely battling a mental illness and substances are the only thing that makes them feel normal and safe. Most mental illnesses are the result of childhood trauma (usually from abuse). So if sweet harmony didn’t D I E, she almost certainly would have become a hardcore addict herself when she was old enough to experiment (her siblings are likely already doomed to this lifestyle). You still wanna judge drug addiction as if it’s a moral failure? You think abused kids just move on and become normal? Thats not how the human brain works. Abuse MUTATES the human brain FOREVER. That’s why we develop panic disorders, bipolar disorder, personality disorders, etc…Speaking from personal experience here (you can say that I am Harmony all grown up- because my father was just like Adam M and I developed borderline personality disorder and a drug addiction to go with it). That does not mean we shouldn’t find a way to heal and recover and get better but getting clean is like learning how to breath water and not oxygen and it takes an INCREDIBLE amount of pain to get us to the point where we are willing to try to do that, because it’s really scary letting go of your ONLY coping mechanism. Y’all seem to think it’s just willpower- but when your brain is wired all wrong, that’s not how it works. Let’s please try to find SOME compassion for the addicts that fight to survive and then get well. By the way, Adam’s dad just ended his own life. That guy is probably why Adam is a raging narcissist. Like I said- the cycle doesn’t stop till we actively stop it (like crystal was trying to do). 😢
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@NesDogg nope he’s just a malignant narcissists and they are control freaks. They all have their own way of controlling others and this is clearly his way. He can’t do anything else so this is all he’s got. But more so!… narcissists can’t handle shame. It cripples them. So he is also doing it because he’s a pu$$. Which is pathetic indeed.
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What? Yeah that’s not what happened. She begged CPS and other officials to investigate and they told her to kick rocks. She had to constantly hound the MAYOR before they finally looked into it to shut her up. Next time educate yourself before commenting.
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