Comments by "Rose S" (@roses6564) on "RESPECT means DIFFERENT things to MEN and WOMEN, or: where have all the real men gone?" video.

  1. That's not the kind of respect he's talking about. Listening to her tell you what she wants has little to do with respect. It has to do with care, love and give/take.
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  2.  @willek1335  People just don't get it, do they. Egalitarianism messing with their brain.
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  3. Women want to be loved first, respected - only in ways that women are respected for: grace, chastity, femininity, intuition, etc. Subconsciously no woman cares about how highly a man thinks of her brains and analytical prowess.
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  4. I don't think you get it bc you got stuck in semantics. By "respected "you seem to mean "loved, cared for, appreciated." He meant respect in a sense of someone looking up to you in a way that might even make him feel intimidated. It's poison when a man respects a woman like this. He does have a point - and I am a woman too. Agree with him 100%. To be in a relationship with a man who thinks you're "all that" in areas traditionally invoking respect (intelligence, insight, analytical mind, decision making gumption, etc) is, in fact, devastating. He will defer to you and this feels absolutely terrible to a feminine woman at heart. You're better off with a man who'd say "don't you worry that pretty little head of yours." As long as it's legitimate, a man's loving "condescension" is better than a man's intimidated respect. Trust me, you don't want to feel like Margaret Thatcher, least of all in the bedroom. Nobody wants to screw MT, and those who do, you don't want them. Really, nobody should.
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  5. The real estate.
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  6. You're in Utopia. They do. And what's interesting is that the power dynamic does not have to exclude love and acceptance.
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  7. You can appreciate, not respect. The latter is inherently a bottom-up emotion. He's right.
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  8. Yes. This is it.
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  9. Even if this as egregious as you make it sound, your aesthetic sticklerism is weird. The content more than makes up for any aesthetic roughness.
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  10. Your comprehension sucks badly.
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