Comments by "Rose S" (@roses6564) on "There is no need to understand: the problem is the problem" video.

  1. People don't try to "understand," they try to rationalize - usually due to low optionality or a poor marital choice already made which now they feel they must make work.
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  2. People often lose lifetimes.
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  3.  @juans9515  People rationalize a lot to make the unworkable work. They waste an entire life on poor quality marriages. This is the default. At some level, we know what is changeable and what is not.
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