Comments by "Rose S" (@roses6564) on "" video.

  1. Except there's a limit to the age difference.
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  2. Great episode. Women value a high quality relationship the most but they can afford to go long the least. 'Stop short' women figure it out eventually and then AHBL. There's a reason there are so many miserable married women many of whom eventually divorce - they experienced too many bio-social pressures to 'go short' and that's the way the cookie crumbles.
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  3. ​ @BigBeardedToad yes, there are. It's called highly compatible individuals who can become very close friends.
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  4. It isn't about search for perfection. It's about search for a good fit who can be your friend long term. Without this the M will suck guaranteed.
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  5. As a 'stoped very short' woman who married a poor fit, I can promise you there's no bigger H than when your 'stop short' woman figures out her mistake, let alone if she later meets someone who would have made so much sense. If you think that by tricking her early and catching her "fresh" will spare you of 'comparisons' a d her disillusionment for life, you are 1000 times more delulu than you accuse women to be. You need a good fit,that's all.
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  6. ​@Insight-music that applies to shoes and mcmansions. In relationships comparison is vital to understanding who is a good fit for you and who is likely to make your life miserable. It doesn't have to involve high body count. But comparison of the overall person is vital. Isn't it convenient for men to shove women into their first luke-warm offer so they'll never be able to compare while they can take their sweet time and go 'long'? You dont say. You're literally begging for a miserable wife who will eventually feel compelled to cheat at worst, or just divorce clean, at best.
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  7. ​ @noeljoel9330 A smart woman needs to meet the man who's just as smart as her or more. That can take a while and no, that doesn't have to involve S.
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  8. Yes. Rare.
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  9.  @Insight-music  Good. She needs the right fit since emotional/mental connection is vital for women.
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  10. ​ @edheldude You can't be in service to others if you're with the wrong person, a poor fit.
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  11. ​ @MrSeuchenratte Universe talking to you. Ignore the human chatter.
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  12. ​ @FedPut Both should go long minus the premarital frolicking.
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  13. Her going short will soon make her miserable unless she literally married her soulmate on the short (extremely unlikely).
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  14. Not true. humans are not replaceable shoes. You must meet the right person to have a fulfilling marriage. Those who believe in grabbing someone whoevers available and just 'make it work' deserve the marriages they end up getting.
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  15. Or settling for the first poor fit offer out of desperation to not become a leftover/spinster/cat lady etc. Old trick to get women to marry asap to put that uterus to max use. This is an old recipe for creating a mass of long term miserable married women who will eventually divorce the poor fit dude bc today they can.
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  16. ​ @Insight-music btw, I understand all too well.
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  17. ​ @elchucapablas That's called being g a shallow dim a#$, not 'hypergamy'. Nothing can change that with some , least of all going short. That backfires grandly. The public is so wooden in the head they don't even get what hypergamy is. Check the sociological definition. Women simply need to look up to their man. Period. If they don't, it will be trouble, short or long.
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  18. The metaphor was a stretch. Humans are not cities or shoes. When you meet someone right you know, long or short. When you wonder, they are not right, not just bc you're ready to 'settle down'. Most marriages sck because people are rationalizing themselves into sketchy unions with grass is not greener BS, just to get with the program. If you think of grass, that partner is not right for you. Period.
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  19. NAILED.
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  20. ​ yes if not interested in an actual relationship.
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  21. ​ @23DanielVincent  They aren't. This is just in men's delulu heads.
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  22. Sometimes you go check and they really actually are. Daymn.
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  23. ​ @glasair38sr No it isn't if what you've got is a terrible fit who makes your life miserable and lifeless.
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  24. ​ @noeljoel9330 Sounds like a dhum song.
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  25. More toxic positivity from the Systemic Squad. You can't feel grateful for something that works poorly. True gratitude is natural and spontaneous not enforced and moralized.
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  26. ​ @noeljoel9330 Love the One You're With , Teamwork is the DreamWork , what else do you have from the toxic positivity headquarter?
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  27. ​ @nicholasgrijalva It isn't. It's a ridiculous comment unless you are naturally mediocre. Non-mediocre people need compatible relationships.
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  28. ​ @articulateit-andgetwhatyouwant Then you be non-grandiose and non-entitled but don't try to parrot systemic stuff to deny other people's right to feel what you judge as 'grandiose and entitled.' In relationships every person is ultimately autonomous and subjective. They are the ultimate judge of what can and cannot work for them. You do you.
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  29. ​​ @MrSeuchenratte that you should not be satisfied with only good enough. Your person can be an objective 2 but the relationship should feel like a subjective 10 for both. When people say 'nobody's perfect' that's systemic conditioning don't buy it. No S, Sherlock.
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  30. Yeah, you don't. Why would she settle for the first awkward offer while the men take their sweet time to get it just right? Best thing you could do is to convince them to go long-ish enough for Nature to still allow a couple of kids and to promote a culture of abundant enough pre-marital relationships sans the seggs (informed chastity).
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  31. You don't because it's blatantly unfair unrealistic and self sabotaging. You don't want to marry a woman who eventually figures out she made a mistake because she went short. She needs to figure herself out and her needs in a relationship just as much as you do. Believe it or not that doesn't mean she would need to sleep with everyone she dates before she finds you, the one excellent for her. Let go of the female short / male long abusive double standard, it's not going to happen going forward.
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  32. ​ @LisaCulton Aren't they adorable when they think a woman should 'go short' with whatever poor fit schmuck comes her way first while they,the men, should take their sweet time going long? So how about a 27-30 yo virgin who goes long bc she wants to make the right choice? 0 BC . I have a hunch that wouldn't be good either.
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  33. How about an episode on relationships that go the good distance not necessarily the long distance? Miserable long-distance is a lifetime disaster and it is very likely in 'go short' scenarios. As a child of "I wish my parents were divorced!!",I am witnessing one right now as Im visiting. They should have been divorced long time ago but never stood a chance for such a wonderful outcome. They continued the miserable codependency and boy do they have a loooong marriage. Unless you're an incredibly lucky B with the go short scenario, only the go long can yield the good distance result for both men and women. There's no replacement for perspective.
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  34. Until you realize how wrong you married as you meet people who actually fit you.
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  35. ​ @joeyjojojrshabadoo7462 YT censors my stuff with a vengeance. I must be saying many things right.
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  36. Yes bc he doesn't want to succeed in the way you define success. Goodness of fit > marital transaction at any cost. There are few women who would truly fit Dr. OT.
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  37. ​ @joeyjojojrshabadoo7462 People attuned to themselves know when they found the right one, experience or not.
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  38. ​ @doubleffect7110 yeah they don't get that, do they.
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  39. A lie you've been told.
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