Comments by "Rose S" (@roses6564) on ""I don't want to WASTE MY TIME": responding to female timelines" video.

  1. "How did she spend her twenties?" Blame the clubbies? Check. Blame the career-nuts? Absolutely. Check. What about the late bloomers who simply did not meet/receive any realistic offer for a viable relationship early enough? Low-balling does not count. Some high quality women are shy introverts and were never social, party goers, large group dwellers, skilled boy hunter types? Virgins in their mid 20's (used to call them spinsters), on their path between home and school and virtually nowhere else no viable offer showed up in time. No decent woman accepts significant low balling. That's axiom. With time, they figure things out, but time is costly to women. So blame these late-bloomers too? Of course. Go ahead. Why wasn't she more outgoing, why didn't she solve her own teen angst, or low-self esteem or FOO-derived issues, or whatever, why didn't she make herself sparkly for the right guy, why didn't she make him magically appear? (A bit like why isn't that 19 yo boy earning that 6 figure income yet?). Why didn't she figure out she was, in fact, a 7-8 as confirmed later, when she thought and acted as if she was a 1 in her late teens/early 20's? Why did she take so long to figure things out? You can blame someone for the outcome as well as ANY processes that led to her facing you single in her late 20's, early 30's. Then what do you do? Apply superficial market and ego logic and scoff, or you get yourself together, ask the right questions and assess with your own brains and needs? Measure her up and down, left and right, and make an independent judgement. Do you still want this person for YOU, based on what you have observed and verified, despite market logic and all the blaming rationalizations? Or Not? If not, get off the pot. If yes, breaking not-fake news : she IS in a hurry because she still wants that offspring. She's crazy like that. Otherwise, keep chasing that 19 yo gorgeous, wise, sweet virgin unicorn with ethereal rosy in her cheeks who has it all figured out as she prays you will propose yesterday because she can't wait to serve you in a wife role, having bought her own knee pads already! Small Print: Your kidneys had better leak so much alpha in your urine that your GFR indicates Stage 4 CKD. Now onto REALITY. This Grand Lady expects both men and women to pay attention, grow, and adapt, as part of the maturation process. Women are more vulnerable to the exigencies of time than men, period. Any man who blames women for this discrepancy among the sexes is virtually insane and spells nothing but grief and disaster over the long term. This is why many quality women who were unfortunate enough to take a while to bloom, eventually head straight to the sperm bank and place an order: blond, blue eyed, 6'+ (National Socialist will do), 130+ IQ, wrote a symphony, found the cure for marriage. You guys take Amex? Thanks. '
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  2.  @tivasthegamer9817  God is in the details. Women in their 20's may "choose" career over a relationship/marriage in their 20's, but never over THE relationship, meaning one where they are actually in love with the guy (admire, respect, feeling genuine affection for that person). There's no woman under the sun who meets a man she falls in love with in her 20's, then turns down his proposal because she needs to "prioritize her career." Are you, gentlemen, for real? Career for a woman buys her time to increase her odds of finding a man she actually connects with and feels something for, as opposed to the first man who "finds it in his heart" to throw a marriage offer her way. Both men and women need the right to choose and feel at peace with the choice. Whatever Darwinistic cluster-F comes out of this, it's Nature's call. All men know the "career priority" thing is a lie and the way they beat this dead horse to further death is disingenuous to say the least. She doesn't mean it. What she means is that she prefers her career over YOU. Not over marriage. She simply doesn't feel it for you. You want the one who does. Never Ever Ever go for a woman who wants "marriage and family." Only go for a woman who wants YOU. One and only YOU. What many men don't exactly appreciate is that women no longer face the harsh conditions where men could be choosers but they could not; where they needed to accept the first marriage offer in their early 20's, no matter how luke-warm she felt about the man, or even distaste - all so they won't be left out of the draconian social structure of marital prison. "A marriage in every woman's life by 25 max!" The Charlotte - Mr. Collins situation in P&P is one of the most depressing moments in literature. Art imitates life, life imitates art - no matter, but all Mr. Collinses out there want a lot more of that. You don't say. Who cares if it's an adequate match? Who cares if she sincerely loves him? Just be married. He gets his warm hole and the "family man" higher status, she shuts up, never complains and says thank you for the food and shelter (It just so happens that Charlotte liked food and not being humiliated as a loser spinster). Gentleman, that ship has sailed. No male gnashing of the teeth is going to bring back that ship unless you nuke everything and start clean. It's an option. For now, instead of just showing up with food and a pulse, men may want to consider the unthinkable: making themselves desirable to women in a holistic way, much like women were trained to make themselves desirable to men for millennia, to attract the best they could. The delusional, angry, ill-willed males and females who won't hear of such can just take themselves out of the gene pool. That too is fine. REALITY: The male population has been experiencing a loss of power due to high-tech and feminism and it doesn't feel food. This is understandable. Some of us, women, do empathize and sympathize with the gentlemen out there because we're "feely" like that. Welcome to the historical club. Let's cry together. Were you guys crying for us when, for centuries, we had to marry whatever male absurdity was thrown our way just to have something to eat and escape public opprobrium? Do you sincerely think Anna Karenina should have been perfectly OK married to that Paragon of Boring and Lame just because he was feeding her and giving her a house? You can moralize over the Kareninas of this world until you go blue in the face. That stuff will continue to happen as long as decent value women are forced to marry Boring and Lame by virtue of reproductive deadlines.
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  3. So don't be stupid. Right?
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