Comments by "Rune of Svalbard" (@vladimirofsvalbard9477) on "HealthyGamerGG"
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The opposite was true for me!
I spent a considerable amount of my young life as an introvert that was attempting to converse my plans more; push myself to be more social. The more I shared, the more it was patronized and/or shamed as silly, stupid, or impossible.
The moment I began to focus on myself and cut most of my family and friends out of my in-depth conversations; my life began to bloom.
Turned out that I was being manipulated my entire life by my NPD mom and energy sucking relatives that believe in working, suffering, and dying. I knew something was always wrong, but it's hard to put the pieces together when everybody pretends that YOU are the problem, when in fact you're the scapegoat. The people I spoke to were largely just looking for something 'good' or 'productive' to squash for amusement.
I met a wonderful woman, kept my best friend and father, and am in the process of cutting out everybody else that is a blood sucking vampire.
In my experience, most people you share your plans with either try to compare (the one-up you) OR they try to make your plan out to be silly because they are losers.
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