Comments by "Richard Jones" (@EE12CSVT) on "Legion Of Men" channel.

  1. It's just as well I've never been a nice guy. When I used to bother with women, back in the 90s, I had a lot of choice of very beautiful, fit women who treated me well, and I wasn't an A-hole to them, nor did I pedestalise them. Something changed after 2000. Professionally, I have to be dominant, assertive, have charisma and confidence, know how to charm significantly important people. That carries over well to my relationship with men. The sad thing is that women see that professional charm, intelligence and competence - which works extremely well in the high-level relationship building I've done - as an indication they can use me as they think it means I'll be her simp and that I have no boundaries, and that she can play games. The end result is that I've walked away from every woman I've met since 2007, so when you meet countless women who all behave that way, you lose all interest. In the 90s, that assertiveness, charm, competence, and Intelligence had women hanging around me and treating me extremely well, and they got treated well in return because they earned it. Ive lost count of the women who've admitted to me they love the bad boys in 'trackie bottoms' and expensive Nikes. They're a dead loss.
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  2. Yes, but women aren't watching videos such as that. If you look at the comments on it, you'll see that it's pretty much all men writing the same comments as on here. And yes, I agree that women don't give me any reason to care about them one bit. I'm just indifferent to it, while I watch other men walk straight into the meatgrinder and get manipulated to shreds.
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  3. Silence, 304
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  4.  @MMA-CLIPS2  I can pretty much guarantee that in the UK you'd be married. Sure, you'd be completely under her thumb, but you'd be married.
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  5. Same happened to me from 6 years ago when I started losing weight and then getting jacked. I've been around here a long time so women will have seen the fat me and barely speak, then the thinner then the jacked me. I'm suddenly not invisible, and they start to be much 'friendlier' and approach me, even if married. The fat husbands of some of them I know now look nervously at me while their wife now gives me a sly smile. It brought out other women in my area that it turns out were always here but obviously I wasn't aware of as they were as invisible to me as I to them, because it's only now they come into my orbit. Most of them married as well.
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  6. Yes, because women know they can use those men with ease because of their naïvety. I used to know several but grew tired of them, especially when they were urging me to simp. They couldn't understand why I'd need basic requirements in women like integrity and sincerity. They didn't care.
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  7. ​ @aldaoroman That's what happened to me. I saw that a woman waa starting to engage in damaging behaviour, potentially putting third parties at risk, so I had to tell her to stop. All hell broke loose. I then found out that I was called all the buzzwords about being aboosive, controlling etc etc. I then pieced together what had happened in her marriage and what the husband had to do. Sure enough, he was also called all the buzzwords. Rule 1 of relationships: a woman must get her way all the time, every time Rule 2, all women are single. It's just your turn.
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  8. Aside from some elderly relatives, of the couples I've know well, I can only think of five where the woman let the man lead the relationship and without complaint. Two of those were mine back in the 1990s. All other women I've met assumed she would be in charge, or that she was expecting to have supposedly equal leadership parallel to mine. The same is true of all the couples I've seen apart from three. Those three women are happy. I met a Welsh passport bro a couple of years ago, a retired gentleman who went to Thailand some years ago, met a gorgeous woman out there, married, and had a daughter with her. She's as the Asian lady in this video.
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  9. Same in the UK. It changed hugely 1998 with the Spice Girls and the ladette culture. I remember a male colleague talking about it with a female colleague, mid 20s, who had gone down that route, sadly. There were other women who hadn't, and they were great to be with. But the 304 thing with young women has been around since the early 90s if not earlier. We had a magazine here called "More" ("Smart girls get more") in the early 90s onwards which was all about promiscuity, being a boss babe, and so on. It destroyed women. It used to be so nice going to bars and meeting women.
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  10. Same. I found that people's insincerity went into overdrive from 2020 onwards and more and more are quite willing to stab you in the back and trample on you to get a small advantage in life.
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  11.  @JohnQPublic345  Unvaxxed here as well, and campaigned in the streets and outside vaxx clinics
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  12. When I'm regularly around women in their late teens/early 20s, I get attention from them but it's very clear they're looking for a sugar daddy and I seem to be an option for that. No thanks.
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  13. The amount of DMs I had during lockdown went through the roof, and they were the late night ones as well
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  14. @djocharablaikan8601  The worst bit is that most of the few people I know who didn't fall for it and generally don't fall for whatever the MSM tells them are identical to the normies when they socialise, then revert to being like me when they're alone with me. I have just the one face. I don't change what values I present depending on who I'm around.
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  15. He's doing well if he's got a full time permanent job of any description, given the scale of redundancies feeding through and freeze in recruitment
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  16. Yep, they either explode like the Tsar Bomba or they have a monumental sulk, or they just look at you like you've kicked them in the guts. Just because you politely but firmly showed her you have boundaries, or told her she has to stop doing something that is going to harm her, you, and third parties. Then all the words start, aboose, controlling.
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  17. ​ @chesster423 It makes me laugh when I hear Bo wax lyrical about seeing men in cities being self employed through having a camcorder and filming videos for YouTube, and that men need to strive for self employment through looking into a camera to hopefully earn 6 figures. If men would strive for that, society would collapse. Society depends on average men doing average jobs. We've had a lot of flooding here recently. The council workmen have been out in all weathers, in the dark, digging out drains and unblocking culverts. They also have decades of experience knowing where the water is cascading from, which culvert to clear first, and so on. Obviously they're failures because they're not self employed sat behind a desk.
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  18. I'm 52. There are a few couples in their 70s who are happy and the wife follows her husband's lead and knows to give him peace. Under 70, I can only think of two couples where she hasn't crushed or emasculated him, that she Must Win Everything in the relationship At All Costs, or he has to ask her permission to spend his own money as primary earner, or go off and enjoy his hobby, or buy something for his hobby without fear of worrying about a negative reaction from the wife. In other words, two men who have retained their masculine frame. Two. The men who aren't married or aren't in an LTR are much more likely to be masculine and somewhat dominant among men than married/LTR men. Women test men at the beginning for his likelihood to allow her to control, use, or emasculate. No likelihood of CUE, no dates. Masculinity is only tolerated in 6ft 6in Chad Thunderstroke or immensely rich sugar daddies. Ordinary Joes who are similarly masculine and hold their frame are rejected and often called names.
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  19. ​ @justsomeguy2943 Oh no, they get upset that you don't care, because it means she's not got good enough technique to retain you as an orbiter. If she finds out you don't care, it's a big ego bruise that can only be healed by recruiting a new orbiter to give her more free narcissistic supply.
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  20. By the looks of it, I've been doing all of this for the past few years, except for jourmalling. I do much of that in my head anyway. Thanks for suggesting that men do all of this and putting a programme together.
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  21. Boredom. They've got to have that emotions from you. They want a guy they can fight with. Why do you think they go after Mr Bad Boy.
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  22. If I told anyone why I don't date, I'd get arrested as a terrorist and thrown in jail
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  23. That guy is one of the luckiest men in the world. It's such a contrast to what I see around me.
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  24. I don't know about you, but I find women in their late teens/early 20s to be far more agreeable and nice to be around than the older ones.
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  25. As far as dating goes, what they want are naïve simps they know they can provoke into anger to argue with, and a guy they know they can potentially break. So you have to either be that guy or pretend to be.
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  26. Average men aren't worthless. My paternal grandfather was a quarryman here in the countryside in the UK in the 1920s and 30s, with a pickaxe and a shovel. He and my grandmother were dirt poor on their smallholding. They raised 6 children. They loved each other until he died of old age. My late father was a forester and later a warehouseman. As a forester, he planted trees on vast swathes of land. You can still see his work as you drive through the country. He was a good man who was loved. But he didn't earn much. The feeling I get is that a lot of male content producers whip hard working men because no matter how hard they work, it's never enough for those men. Obviously my paternal ancestors were failures because they didn't earn a million quid a year and weren't shredded, nor did they have a side hustle. My grandfather was a simple man who lived with nature.
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  27. @kevinkihn9852  She makes money selling dating courses to lonely men
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  28. Correct. For many years it's either be a doormat or stay on your own, and the vast majority of men who date are a doormat.
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  29. I've heard much the same from another woman around our age.
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  30. It's only since 2019 I read the technicalities and the language, but I've noticed all this since my teens, over 35 years ago. It's not just 'many' but the vast majority of people, male and female. It's why I don't socialise, am a loner for the most part, and don't date. Because I'm not prepared to lie to them that I haven't spotted they're wearing a mask. Invariably, they all realise I've seen through them because I'm not interacting with them in the "correct" manner, thus I get called weird. Just because I'm not prepared to interact with that false self. I'm fine with the people who don't wear this mask, but my god, they're exceptionally rare.
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  31. 3:10 Only beta men get treated like crap in a marriage? 🤣 Tell that to Tom Brady.
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  32. ​ @allseeingotto2912 Up until 55 or so..
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  33. I used to be very fat, then got very thin to 145lb or so, and now I'm jacked with broad shoulders at 190lb just from working out and eating well. It just takes time.
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  34. ​ @Eye_of_Horus When I figure out I've got a child in front of me, I talk to her like she's 12, because that's what she is. Oh boy, they don't like it. They want to be treated as an adult, but they're incapable of it. After all these decades I still haven't figure out a way to happily deal with these children. You can only have a healthy relationship if both are adults, so you can both take each other seriously. The last woman I met who I could take seriously was 24 years ago.
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  35. Correct. Men learn very quickly to not disrespect me or they'll get dumped out of my life. I've only had to do that with one of them who refused to listen. When I'm in a new situation, I make it clear in how interact with people how I expect them to treat me, and I'll do the same with them. It works. I have to do this because of my professional background where if I didn't, I'd get walked over. Women, though, still try to treat me like they assume I have no boundaries even though they see what everyone else sees. They do it because every other man has bent to her will, right? They discover very early on that I don't tolerate her behaving badly. They don't hang around and modify their behaviour, though. They go crying off and look for a simp with no backbone. People in the groups I'm in know I have a reputation that nobody talks to me like that, and they don't. Women I attract on a 'romantic' level think they still can, and discover they can't.
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  36. And if she's married and is persistent about getting to know other men, always on his case, it's over. And if that guy doesn't take her up, she'll try other men until she finds one who will. It isn't the who she's cheating with, it's that she's actively looking and won't stop until she achieves it.
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  37. ​ @omar-uu8qo Nope. Once you understand narcissistic personality disorder and Cluster B in general in depth, you begin to see where people sit on the spectrum. And for women it means the abandonment of humility as a baseline.
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  38. Sure, getting in shape gets you more attention, but you're still expected to simp and pedestalise. It's what I see the huge Chads do before they then decide to date a 2 or a 3 because she's not fat and not a SM. Until 6 years ago I was very fat and very overweight from eating crap and doing no exercise. I then slimmed down to 145lb or so, had a 6 pack in my late 40s, then bulked up slowly and I reckon I've gained 40lb in muscle in around 5 years. I've a V taper, big back and shoulders, flat stomach still, and dress well. I appear to be stronger than 98% of men older than 30 in my gym, by a margin. I've elite cardio. I dress well. It means I get a lot of attention. From men and women. A pity I'm not gay or bi else I'd be doing something with the fit gay men in their 20s who try to pick me up. But I don't date, because I don't simp and women discover they can't control or use me. Most of the attention I get is from younger married women. If I had no morals and I lived in a city... Dating is dead unless you simp and you either are naïve or pretend to be.
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  39. They've been like this since the late 1990s. They were a relative rarity then, but in the years since it's dramatically worsened. I don't tolerate these women, which is why I'm single. This is all there is to meet. Sure, I could lie and manipulate like the bad boys do, but I'd have to overcome my nausea to do that. It's only now that it's coming to people's attention.
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  40.  @BM_100  Noooo, men are interested in introverted women, just not the extremely introverted ones we can't get a word out of
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  41. You honestly believe that? The more successful you get, the more it exposes you to users. It doesn't magic decent women out of thin air. Why should successful men tie themselves down to one of those when they can do what Leonardo di Caprio does. That's the smart way to do it.
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  42. ​ @OriginalTodzilla I agree with you. I'm 51, and after hitting the gym over the past 4 years I'm in great physical shape, I dress well, I'm well groomed, I'm an experienced public speaker, I've done PR marketing event work to build relationships with authors, publishers, politicians, so that sort of people interaction is easy. I used to get lots of women in the 90s, but that was when they were actually decent human beings who didn't play games. It's bren 24 years since I last met one i could take seriously. Bo is very blue pilled in this video. He seems to think there are plenty of decent women out there to meet. Women come on to me, they even ask me out, but the games and manipulation are there from the start.
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  43.  @SargentNittro  True, but she still wants a Chad to settle down. He still probably won't.
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  44. There are three I talk to on a semi regular basis, and they're nice people. Other than that, I only have short, civil, polite conversations and don't get into knowing them and vice versa. Because of the narcissism, the insincere personality, the games the vast majority play. I give them as much energy and attention as I need without it looking rude that I ignore and that they can't use any energy I give them. Which they all attempt to do if I do give them more energy.
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  45. It's not just that they don't want you to succeed, it's that they don't like more talented people, so will do anything they can to prevent promotion because it shows them up in a bad light. Hence why incompetents get promoted above the bright, because the bright, ambitious, talented employees represent a threat to management on different levels, and those people are best kept out of harm's way where they can't change the comfortable status quo. I've witnessed it so many times over the decades.
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  46. A lot of men are getting red pilled without the Internet, just through their personal experiences of women. It's what I did around 2000/2001.
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  47.  @likearollingstone007  Mentally, they're 12
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  48. That's what I did from July 2019 and I haven't looked back
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  49. I'm 52, never married, don't date, though I meet plenty of women IRL. I'm well respected in my field by my peers who are authors, academics, researchers, and so on. I'm an experienced public speaker, I get asked to deputise for our CEO at drinks events and awards ceremonies to build relationships with other attendees who are in our sector. I get instant respect from pretty much every man I meet. I'm dominant. Women see all this. They learn very quickly that they can't control, use, or emasculate, and that's when they lose interest. I'm also not femimine and dont talk to them as women do with tbat Ohmigod emosh - women get obsessed with femimine 'men' like that. From being around women all the time, I realise that dating is completely pointless unless by a miracle I met a woman who was turned on by masculinity and didn't expect to CUE me.
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  50. It's not just corporates who take the piss and treat staff like sh1t, SMEs do too. All forms of manipulation by desperate staff trying to avoid the place going under. I filed an additional time slip for extra work they gave me to do, and it caused a stink. I was expected to work for free. Sure, they paid, but they didn't make that same mistake twice. After that they just didn't bother doing other tasks in the company and let it slide rather than pay someone to do it.
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