Comments by "Seven Proxies" (@sevenproxies4255) on "Don't Date a Japanese Girl If She is.." video.

I never understood the "immature = attractive" thing. Even from anime and hentai you could find female characters who were both mature and sexy at the same time. On a personal note I always found them more appealing than the immature "kawaii" female characters. They would just come across as annoying to me.
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You should've seen that coming. Maybe if the woman in her 40's already have kids from a previous marriage, then she might just be looking for something fun and temporary. But a single and childless woman without a husband... Yeah she's most likely looking to settle down. And at age 40 her biological clock isn't just ringing, it's screaming. So unless you are prepared to marry and settle down, then you shouldn't waste her or your own time and just call it quits early.
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@klaudinegarcia8932 Don't get me wrong: immature/dumb can certainly be cute. Like when kids or even dogs or cats do something silly and not too clever, it's endearing and heartwarming. But what I have a hard time relating to is how some Japanese seem to view "cute" as sexually arousing :S When I try to think of arousing things, then "cute" is nowhere near the first thing that spring to mind for me. In fact, it's more of a turn-off. And if an adult woman run around acting "cute" as a way to come across as sexually appealing it only has the complete opposite effect for me.
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@kristoffer8609 It's not that close to zero. There's IVF and other procedures that do allow women in their 40's to have children.
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@Trey5S5S Yeah I agree. It's also one of those things that kinda make you ashamed to tell normies that you watch anime sometimes. Like, how could you introduce anime to a friend with a straight face, who knows little about anime going into it, and one of the characters is supposed to be an adult woman with huge boobs, but she sounds like she's speaking like a 4-year old kid throughout? As someone familiar with Japanese animation, it's different because you know about the tropes and can casually dismiss the annoying ones in order to focus on the good parts of the show. But for someone who doesn't know much about anime it's going to be very off-putting to say the least.
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@klaudinegarcia8932 Sure, that's fair. It's not like everyone prefers to have a crush of theirs be completely invulnerable. Some vulnerability and inability is fine. Like, i'm not saying it's bad if the woman i'm dating can't open a jar and needs my help to do it. Men and women have natural biological differences which complement eachother as a couple. And it's always nice when you get to feel like you're being the one who's complementing your partner with something that they aren't as capable of doing themselves. It reaffirms the notion that you're bringing something to the table so to say, by virtue of being the opposite sex. But the childlike behaviour in the "kawaii" trope doesn't speak so much to adult male and female gender roles in the same regard. With childlike behaviour it brings up more paternal or maternal feelings instead. Which feels natural when you're dealing with a child. But strange and annoying when dealing with an adult who put on the mannerisms of a child.
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@Sup_D It's just creepy though. Gives me pedo-vibes.
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@ehtishamamin5601 So don't waste the 40 year old woman's time just because you have some creepy mommy fetish then. Is that so hard?
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