Comments by "Jeremy" (@josiah5776) on "Better Bachelor"
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I was falsely accused by a woman some years ago. No evidence, no witnesses, just her word. She disappeared afterwards, but I was held for another 2 years despite her being gone. I paid over $250,000 in legal fees and I had not been convicted of anything. I had to sell my house to pay for it. I was forced to wear an ankle monitor for 2 years, paying $50 a week for that privilege. I spent 8 hours ever day plugged into the wall an unable to move around. I was not allowed to charge it while sleeping at night and the authorities monitored to ensure that I did not do that. I was vilified in the media, could not find anyplace to live and my mugshot was all over the place ... all without having been found guilty of anything. I was lucky to keep my job.
My friends and family turned their backs on me, assuming I was guilty. The judge was in full collusion with the DA and gave them continual extensions to try to find something for which to imprison me. They found nothing, but did talk to many of my friends and family telling them lies, saying I had been convicted of a number of similar crimes, when the worst I had was a speeding ticket. Yes, the authorities are permitted to lie, even fabricate, without any accountability. Big surprise. The charges were finally dropped after 2 years. I cut off everyone who did not support me during that time, especially family, and moved to another state. I won't even talk to a woman again.
This all happened in a conservative county, where the DA's one and only goal was a high conviction rate. Where liberal DAs let a lot of criminals go, conservative ones imprison a lot of innocent men.
UPDATE: I love how all the "experts" who never went though something like this chime in with stuff like:
- You need to sue her
- Sue the judge
- I wouldn't have put up with this
- That's not how it works, etc.
What's next? They wouldn't have arrested you if you didn't do it?
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I moved from the USA to what Americans consider a "3rd world country." The food here is far more healthy than in the USA. Even the fast foods and junk foods have far less sugar, preservatives, and bad oils. Most of the food is sourced locally ... eggs, chicken, beef, vegetables, fruit and fish. There are farmers markets and wet markets everywhere. (The West loudly decries wet markets, but they are far less dangerous than the processed crap in any US grocery store.) My testosterone is higher here, my weight is lower, and I don't have to closely watch whatever I eat. Healthcare here is a fraction of what it costs in the USA, including dental. Pharma is very affordable too ... sometimes below 10% of US costs. Women are traditional. Even the most "liberated" women here are horrified at the thought of ending their unborn children. Most are slim, fit and feminine. The only obese women you see are American women in the resort areas. I've never heard the words "patriarchy," "misogyny," or "toxic masculinity."
All this garbage in the US is deliberate and calculated.
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This has been going on in the tech world in some way for decades already. When I was in grad school for computer science back in the 90s, all I was able to get with a 4.0 GPA was a $1000 scholarship. However, they were giving women $15000 fellowships with a 2.0 GPA. Yes, they even waived the 3.0 minimum requirement for graduate school, but only for women.
Why isn't there an outrage over the under-representation of women in HVAC, firefighting, roofing, sanitation, plumbing, linemen, forestry, military combat arms and more?
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My ex owes me 6 years of back child support. The cops do nothing. The judge laughs. The lawyers won't take my case. Don't bother saying what you would do, or that you would never tolerate this, unless you've been through the same and have a real solution instead of bloviating.
A friend of mine has sole custody of his four children. His ex abducted them, crossed state lines, and joined a cult that starved, beat and SAed the children. Police and judges in three states did nothing. FBI did nothing. He rescued one child himself. Another child, a boy, escaped a year later in Las Vegas with a ton of evidence about the abuse, fraud and theft the cult was committing. What did Las Vegas police do? They threatened the father with abuse charges if he didn't fly down and pick up his son. When asked if what they were going to do about the cult and abuse of children, the cops said, "That's not our problem."
Fast forward a few years and the boy who escaped, now a 20-year--old man, searched diligently and found his siblings ... again in Las Vegas. He and is father flew down and confronted the ex. She threw the boy from a moving vehicle, lacerating his arm. Cops arrived and took her into custody. So, finally some justice, right? Wrong. After the father and boy flew back home, they released her without charges. They the told the boy it was his fault for flying to Vegas and "causing trouble." They told the father if he had wanted his kids back, he should have done something years ago ... which he did do, ironically even in Las Vegas. The woman was give a pass ... again. Cops do nothing. Judges do nothing. FBI does nothing. Women get away with everything and anything.
However, six cops showed up a this guy's home a few years back and, without explaining anything, threw him face down to the ground ... gashing his forehead and dislocating his shoulder. They went to the wrong address investigating a domestic dispute. Why the excessive force? Well, because it was a woman making the call and every man was guilty, even the wrong one at the wrong address.
Oh ... this woman also owes him years of back child support.
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Ā @weaponsman2057Ā Tell me about it. Years back, my ex would withhold my son from me during court ordered visitation, demanding more money. The cops would do nothing, claiming it was a civil matter. However, if I dropped him off just 5 minutes late on those rare occasions I actually got visitation, it was a criminal matter and they threatened me with arrest. Taking it to court was useless and a waste of money. All the judge did was have her promise not to do it again. Of course, she did it again with the full confidence that she would get away with it. She was right. She raised my son to be a weak, soft, simp, f'nist ally who hates my guts. My story is just one of many, and it is the reality behind the "where are all the fathers" BS the media and government push.
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This is just typical female game playing. The average man will run away, and the Chads will game the gamer. When the smoke clears after age 30, she will complain about being alone and blame men.
I'm on the far side of 50 and have participated in numerous rodeos. Most of what I have learned came through painful mistakes, as there were not guys like Joker around to warn and educate my generation of men. Below are some red flags that I have identified over time. They are tailored to me, but hopefully some of the younger men out there can take something of value from them:
Here are the filters I used for deciding whether to end a casual relationship, or move to a more serious one. Please note these are my criteria and one size does not fit all. Just examples.
- Love-bombing. Intense flattery and attention, with a push to rush intimacy very fast. Usually the manipulative set to a later abusive spike.
- Drama, defined for me as negative attention for something not my fault. Example: Venting about a bad day at work is cool. Blaming me for it is not.
- Extreme extraversion or constant high energy. Nothing wrong with that, it's just not for me.
- Frequent criticism. "I'm only trying to help you" has been the battle cry of every toxic partner I've ever had.
- Pity plays. Trying to get things from you by making you feel sorry for them.
- Manipulation of any kind (pity play is one of these). These are sometimes hard to spot, because they masquerade as legitimate things. However, if you often find yourself feeling uncomfortable about things which you do for or tolerate from her, it is probably manipulation.
- Double binds; A subtle, but nasty, way of manipulating you by giving you two choices, both of which are unattainable. This is highly advanced manipulation. If you experience it, run immediately, run fast, and run far.
- Actions don't match their words. Also lying.
- Future faking. Constantly promising things that are very desirable to you, but never materialize.
- Vastly different spiritual and/or political world views. Tried it many times. Don't fool yourself into assuming tolerance and love will overcome it. It will explode one day.
- Problems from toxic family members for whom they will not set boundaries.
- Getting angry or emotional if you don't respond to texts or calls immediately.
- Demanding to know where you are and what you are doing all the time.
- Expecting to be inseparably joined at the hip with you in all things. Some people like this and that is fine for them. I am not one of them.
- Going silent or disappearing a lot and then expecting to pick up where you left off; I am all for having our own space, but this would be days or weeks at a time; A short, "Hi, hope you're well. I've been really busy" is not difficult to do.
- Only contacting you when they need something.
The following are not bad occasionally, but red flags if they are the norm, especially early in a relationship:
- Constant need of help (often financial, but can be other).
- Constant "advice" to you about what you should do, how you should look, what you should wear, how you should act, etc.
- Every day is a crisis of some sort (financial, emotional, career, etc.)
- Needing lots of attention all the time.
- Getting their feelings hurt a lot from everything you do.
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I was falsely accused and held for 2 years before charges were dropped. It was solely on her word. Zero evidence. Zero proof. It took two years out of my life and destroyed my finances. Nothing. NOTHING was done to hold her accountable for her lies. I wasn't even given the option of suing because she was still considered the "victim." I won't get near a Western woman again, even as a casual friend. I don't speak to them. I don't interact with them. I certainly don't want any of them in my life. Ignoring them is exactly what I do.
Last month, a 16-year-old girl told the 18-year-old son of a friend of mine, "If you don't beat up this guy, I will tell the police you intimately assaulted me." He fortunately took screen shots of her blackmailing texts, but the police still gave him problems. He lives in a small, conservative town. This problems is rampant across our entire culture.
Yeah, not all women are like that, but ALL women have the power to do that to a man and the man can do nothing to defend against it except to stay away from women entirely. Done.
I love how they blame it on pr0n, when THEY (women) are the ones creating the pr0n. Wouldn't possibly have anything to do with 95% of Western women being complete, insufferable b1tc4es, would it? They are smarter, because they graduate college at higher rates, in fields like gender studies, business, art history, etc.? Seriously? Seems pretty stupid to go into mega-debt for a soft skill that earns nothing.
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Bud Light, even a caveman can drink it.
Even kids cartoons now portray the animal father as stupid, incompetent, barely sentient playthings for the kids ... while the mom animal is strong, problem-solving, hard working and competent.
Good thing AI is keeping all the electric lines up, all the 18-wheelers driving goods to stores, all the trash collected, all the fires fought, all the construction done, and fighting all the wars in place of all these "stupid" men.
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And yet judges routinely give custody to the mothers.
I lost my son to the whims of a judge in the family court system who declared that, as an active duty soldier, I could not be a father (but apparently single women on active duty are qualified to be mothers). His mother raised my son to be a radical f'nist ally who hates my guts because I am male, white and old. Three things I can do nothing about, unless I want to go the LGHDTV route, which I most certainly do not. I did time as a step-parent too. All I can say is, never attempt to raise another man's children. The mother still calls all the shots and you are nothing but a life support system for a wallet. Third time is the charm however and I was able to raise my daughter as a single father with zero involvement from her mother, who abandoned us both when my daughter was a baby. Having learned from experience, I wasted no time getting a divorce with sole custody and then having the mother's parental rights terminated shortly thereafter. Both were surprisingly easy to do, when the mother does not show up to court ... a luxury only extended towards women. You can rest assured a man will be hunted down. A mother can abandon her child at will and not face consequences, either legal or financial. I am fine with that, because it also meant she was out of our lives.
My daughter is strong and independent, without being an f'nist beyotch. She doesn't hate men, but won't give losers the time of day. She is more interested in pursuing trades than college. She believes in God, rather than government. I home schooled her to keep her away from the progressive public schools. She is a little spoiled, but not at all entitled. She has a good grasp on finances, cause and effect, work ethic and that nobody owes you anything. Though much younger, she is light years ahead of my son in virtually every area. My former step-kids are all basket cases too, except for one for whom the father was able to get sole custody and raised well. Also, I did not date or expose my daughter to any women in a close relationship with me ... so I think that is a load of garbage that they are still trying to pin it on positive female role models. How do you account for all the basket case kids who had step-fathers? I disagree that single fathers have an easier time finding partners than single mothers. My experience has been exactly the opposite. Of courses, I wasn't looking for one, so that might account for it.
I believe women have snowed us all for centuries about being the more caring, more loving and more nurturing. All a big smoke screen that has now been exposed by f'nism. A lot of women seem to have no problem even deleting their own children. The legal system and culture today have made it so that a mother can override anything the father tries to impart to the children. This is why children with no mother do better.
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"Don't waste my time!" Says the woman who wasted scores of men's time, money, effort and labor for over a decade. Arrogance, entitlement and delusion, all wrapped up in one package. How efficient. Rest assured madam, I will not waste your time. I won't even give you a second glance. Neither will any other man, if he is smart.
She demands an essay from the average man, but you know damn well she would instantly drop the drawers if Chad came calling.
Never, never, NEVER raise another man's children. You will just be used and then discarded, or at best only disrespected. I speak from experience.
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"Consequence culture", where only the man suffers consequences. The false accuser's name is kept confidential, while the falsely accused man's name is immediately spread all over the media and internet. When the accuser is discovered to have lied and the charges are false, she cannot be charged with perjury, false police statements, or any crime, nor can she be sued because she is still considered the victim. Even when the charges are dismissed. The finances the man lost defending himself will not be restored. His name will not be cleared. No apology will be made. Websites will still list him as a criminal, often extorting money to have his name and picture removed. Places will not rent to him. Employers will not hire him. He may not be able to purchase a firearm. Records will not be expunged, "in case" the authorities wish to re-open the case. I have experienced all these personally.
This is the reason men will not date or marry. It has nothing to do with fear of commitment, and everything to do with fear of imprisonment and financial ruin, due to the lack of character in many people today.
There was a very good principle in the Bible, where a false accuser was required to serve the full sentence for the crime they falsely accused someone of committing. That would fix things pretty fast.
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I live in the Philippines. Women here are a lot more resilient than in the USA. Water outage? No problem, they wash in a bucket. Electric outage? No problem, they do something outdoors or figure out ventilation for the house. No money for school? No problem, the get multiple jobs. For the most part, they also partner with men, don't delete their children, don't expect continuous luxury or people doing things for them. Yes, they have gender roles, where men are simply expected to do some things. But guess what, women are expected to do other things. There is no arguing. No posturing. No guilting. That's just the way it is. American women (and Western women in general) are some of the most spoiled and pampered vabies on the planet, yet complain the most.
Philippines is not really picking up feminism. At least not to the extent of the US and at least not on the island where I live. Even the most "liberated" Filipina is horrified at the thought of deleting her child. Even the most "liberated" women are not overtly nasty towards men or make themselves look unattractive. Even the most "liberated" women don't spew nasty rhetoric. I've never heard the word "patriarchy" here. Could it all swing towards Western femnism? Maybe ... but religion and traditional family values are still very strong here. Divorce is still illegal. No free cash and prizes for women for destroying families ... partly because nobody can fund it for them. Time will tell.
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Ā @clownshow5901Ā My experience here has been the opposite. It was in the USA that my rights were trampled. In the USA, I was falsely accused by a woman and jailed (charges later dismissed).
In the USA, I was scapegoated and my career destroyed to protect the son of a powerful political family who had killed a soldier in friendly fire.
In the USA, I had my child taken away from me and alienated, but was forced to pay child support for 13 years.
In the USA, I was called a misogynist, racist and piece of garbage in both the schools and work place because I am a straight, white man.
In the USA, I lost my job because I refused to stand up in a public meeting and confess my inherent oppression and racism towards others because of the color of my skin.
In the USA, I was forced to pay $750 of property taxes monthly or lose the house I owned.
In the USA, I could only get a $1000 a year scholarship with perfect grades, while women around me got $14,000 fellowships for holding a C average ... and was then told I am privileged.
In the USA, I paid 300% more for housing, 250% more for food, 3,333% more (not a typo) for prescription medication, 300% more for airline travel, and 300$ more when dining out.
None of these things have ever happened to me in the Philippines. Not even close.
I've been treated better here as a straight, white man than in my home country. Foreigners do not run into problems here unless they are the type who likes to make problems. There are some of those and they do have a difficult time of it.
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Ā @clownshow5901Ā My experience here has been the opposite. It was in the USA that my rights were trampled. In the USA, I was falsely accused by a woman and jailed (charges later dismissed).
In the USA, I was scapegoated and my career destroyed to protect the son of a powerful political family who had killed a soldier in friendly fire.
In the USA, I had my child take away from me and alienated, but was forced to pay child support for 13 years.
In the USA, I was called a misogynist, racist and piece of garbage in both the schools and work place because I am a straight, white man.
In the USA, I lost my job because I refused to stand up in a public meeting and confess my inherent oppression and racism towards others because of the color of my skin.
In the USA, I was forced to pay $750 of property taxes monthly or lose the house I owned.
In the USA, I could only get a $1000 a year scholarship with perfect grades, while women around me got $14,000 fellowships for holding a C average.
In the USA, I paid 300% more for housing, 250% more for food, 3,333% more (not a typo) for prescription medication, 300% more for airline travel, and 300$ more when dining out.
A USA big tech company blocked me multiple times from even posting this.
None of these things have ever happened to me in the Philippines. Not even close.
I've been treated better here as a straight, white man than in my home country. Foreigners do not run into problems here unless they are the type who likes to make problems. There are some of those and they do have a difficult time of it.
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Ā @clownshow5901Ā My experience here has been the opposite. It was in the USA that my rights were trampled. In the USA, I was falsely accused by a woman and jailed (charges later dismissed).
In the USA, I was scapegoated and my career destroyed to protect the son of a powerful political family who had killed a soldier in friendly fire.
In the USA, I had my child take away from me and alienated, but was forced to pay child support for 13 years.
In the USA, I was called a misogynist, racist and piece of garbage in both the schools and work place because I am a straight, white man.
In the USA, I lost my job because I refused to stand up in a public meeting and confess my inherent oppression and racism towards others because of the color of my skin.
In the USA, I was forced to pay $750 of property taxes monthly or lose the house I owned.
In the USA, I could only get a $1000 a year scholarship with perfect grades, while women around me got $14,000 fellowships for holding a C average.
In the USA, I paid 300% more for housing, 250% more for food, 3,333% more (not a typo) for prescription medication, 300% more for airline travel, and 300$ more when dining out.
A USA big tech company blocked me multiple times from even posting this.
None of these things have ever happened to me in the Philippines. Not even close.
I've been treated better here as a straight, white man than in my home country. Foreigners do not run into problems here unless they are the type who likes to make problems. There are some of those and they do have a difficult time of it.
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@clownshow5901
My experience here has been the opposite. It was in the USA that my rights were trampled. In the USA, I was falsely accused by a woman and jailed (charges later dismissed).
In the USA, I was scapegoated and my career destroyed to protect the son of a powerful political family who had killed a soldier in friendly fire.
In the USA, I had my child take away from me and alienated, but was forced to pay child support for 13 years.
In the USA, I was called a misogynist, racist and piece of garbage in both the schools and work place because I am a straight, white man.
In the USA, I lost my job because I refused to stand up in a public meeting and confess my inherent oppression and racism towards others because of the color of my skin.
In the USA, I was forced to pay $750 of property taxes monthly or lose the house I owned.
In the USA, I could only get a $1000 a year scholarship with perfect grades, while women around me got $14,000 fellowships for holding a C average.
In the USA, I paid 300% more for housing, 250% more for food, 3,333% more (not a typo) for prescription medication, 300% more for airline travel, and 300$ more when dining out.
A USA big tech company blocked me multiple times from even posting this.
None of these things have ever happened to me in the Philippines. Not even close.
I've been treated better here as a straight, white man than in my home country. Foreigners do not run into problems here unless they are the type who likes to make problems. There are some of those and they do have a difficult time of it.
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Ā @censoredeveryday3320Ā Well, my short list was Philippines, Thailand, Cambodia, Vietnam, Singapore and Malaysia. If you want something more luxurious, Korea or Japan, but they seemed to have a lot of the culture I wanted to escape. The former ones all have pros and cons and it is more a case of what works best for you personally. Thailand is the cheapest, Philippines has very Western friendly visas and the people speak English, Vietnam is very inexpensive, but the culture is closed to Westerners. Singapore and Malaysia are more expensive, but offer great business benefits. You may also find a country I did not mention that is a great fit for you. Please note that in all cases you will give up some stuff that the USA offers.
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What men want is "not a beyotch." Western women as a group display collective narcissistic traits. These include projection, deflection, pity play, no accountability, DARVO, guilting, shaming, triangulation and gaslighting. It is quite prevalent. Wesgtern society created it by giving its women unlimited power in the culture, corporations, media, government and legal system, with little or no responsibility for their actions. You received the power ladies, and you've handled it very poorly. All you've done with it is push society to the brink of the abyss.
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Where are the men of courage? Three generations of radical f'nists have bred them out of our society. Now live with it. Also, as a man you run the risk of being sued or imprisoned just for helping. I will protect my own kid (who will not go to public schools). The rest of you are on your own. Just giving you what you've been ranting for the past 6 decades.
Sounds like perhaps we should concentrate on teaching the teachers about basic security instead of concentrating on all the woke stuff.
Why didn't a squad of female cops rush in and take care of the situation in the school? Was there even a female cop in the force outside?
The difference between Fifty Shades of Gray and a two-part episode of Criminal Minds is how attractive the guy is.
I'm 60 and I've rejected probably 4-5 women over the last 2 years. I'm simply not interested, at all. None of them had anything I found attractive or wanted in my life. They were just used up from chasing bad boys, partying and who knows what else. Now they just wanted someone stable to provide security and a comfortable life. No thanks. They were not here for my struggles, so I don't want them in my successes.
Here's another perhaps unintended side-effect. Through being alone, I discovered that I am a better parent, cook, house keeper, seamstress, decorator, educator and financial steward than ANY women with whom I've had a relationship. So, what does a woman have that would make her a potential partner? Bedroom fun? Please. I'm 60 and that stuff is fleeting anyway.
The Average Woman = "I'm not like that" (as she happily collects 75% of a man's assets in the divorce and takes away his children)
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@Lyba š¦ Thank you. No offense taken on any of this. She stays with me 24/7. No outside care. Sometimes time with cousins or her half-sister, but supervised. That might be overkill, but like you said, a s3x assault can never be undone.
I talk very directly with her about people and dangers, particularly the manipulation and entrapment tactics used. My ex (her mother) gave me a detailed personal education on a lot of that + I did research on psychopaths, narcissists, aggressive personality disorders after that. She has a far better grasp of it all than I would have thought from a 5-year-old. She will point out things like, "He's just pretending to be nice because he wants something" or "We should wait longer to see if she will do what she says."
I have not yet covered the tactic about threatening to hurt other family members, but I certainly will now. Thank you for that. I will also check out Family Time. I have several I'm using, but always on the lookout for something better. She is learning tech at an amazing rate. I'm a software engineer, so I'm not the typical clueless parent ... but I still need to manage it very carefully. It is a world full of untrustworthy people at best, ranging all the way down to full blown predators without conscience.
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"Men must man up and get married." I did. In a non-Western nation where divorce is not legal. Enjoy your cats and wine all you strong, independent Western women. If Josh Hawley and other US lawmakers were doing what THEY were supposed to be doing and preventing a massively misandrist legal system, then perhaps US men would be doing what they "should" be doing. Our leaders (government, legal, media, academia, corporations, and religion) cut the legs out from under men and then condemn them for not standing up.
The US, and most of the West, is a corrupt, immoral cesspool ... supported and encouraged by the libs, f'nists and their soyboy allies. They are the majority and they will continue to drag the West farther down the toilet. Leave the West, men.
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Chain smoking truck driver named Big Joe. š¤£š¤£š¤£ You never fail to crack me up Joker. You should do stand up. Oh, and you can order a "bonus hole" online.
What's making it so difficult? You have nothing men want anymore. When you did have what men wanted, you gave it away freely to men who were not worth it.
Say what you want about being alone, it is still far better than being with the toxic people who permeate this world today. It would be interesting to see the studies about health effects of loneliness versus toxic people in your life.
The "cry yourself to sleep" and "have fun alone" comments are so typical of the delusional, f'nist mass narcissism today. They believe they are the best thing on this planet and that men cannot live without them and their cooch. In reality, they have become so nasty and unpleasant, so entitled and demanding, so overweight to the edge of morbid obesity, and such a financial risk ... that they are not even on men's top 10 desired list. So stop pontificating about how lonely and dejected men are without you. Most of us are not. We are actually doing quite well. You've shouted, "I don't need no man" for decades now. We listened. You got what you wanted. Not go do your strong, empowered and independent thing without ranting about men all the time. Unless, of course, "I don't need no man" really means "I want to dominate a man." You don't like being dominated, and rightfully so. What makes you think we would like to be dominated?
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This "relational" way of dealing with things isn't just destroying journalism, it is also destroying the corporate world. I left corporate tech last year after over 25 years as a software engineer. I watched an increasing number of female tech managers and directors destroy companies by:
- Failing to call out corrupt and incompetent contractors, because it might negatively affect the team, enabling those contractors to continue cashing in for destroying systems
- Buying whatever tech is recommended by the most charming, pretty-boy salesman without listening to in-house people's recommendations
- Prioritizing everyone on the team feeling good about things rather than producing results
- Hiring people based on their "synergy with the team" rather than competence or abilities
- Promising things to make people feel good, but then never delivering on those promises
However, they did not hesitate to immediately marginalize and then sack a person for bringing up issues about these incompetent contractors, bad tech, non-performing team members or broken promises. In their eyes, that was the cardinal sin of blocking everyone on the team from getting along. They never directly confronted the person, just passive-aggressively worked behind the scenes (usually through female HR departments) to marginalize and quietly dismiss them. Look up Price's Law. Those are the people bailing out on these places.
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I love their definition of "high achieving." A guy with a worthless graduate degree in sociology, or some other weak subject, is "high achieving." However, a tradesman with no college, pulling down six figures, is not "high achieving."
Joker, you are 100% on target with your "two alphas" statement. If I wanted to get my cojones busted every evening, I'd go to the sports bar and throw down. I don't want to come home to or share a bed with that. Even my one fling with an alpha woman was very unsatisfying, both the companionship and the bedroom. Vilify me and squawk all you want, but I'm still not interested. I'm perfectly fine being alone, rather than being with a woman like that ... and you won't see me making dozens of TikToks and videos lamenting it.
I agree that every woman has the right to have her standards. Now shut up and quit posting on TikTok that you cannot find a man who meets those standards. That is reality. Either adjust your standards or be alone. I, and legions of other men, do not care which path you choose. Trying to force men to "man up" and meet your ethereal standards is delusional. It would be like every man demanding the right to have young, submissive, super-model, n--pho. That won't happen either, but you don't see legions of men online whining about why they don't have that.
"Women will take the time to heal themselves" ... by posting millions of shrill, whiny, entitled Tiktok videos. Come back and talk to me about how bad you have it when any young man can get free vacations in Dubai and Tahiti by shaking his tail on Tiktok or Instagram. Boo-hoo-hoo.
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Aside from you deserving it because you are a man (yes, that was sarcasm), YouTube, Amazon and a host of others come up with esoteric and draconian rules to make sure they never pay out very much to you. They let a few succeed, exclusively within their ideological framework, to make it look like the system isn't rigged, and then demonetize or severely throttle everyone else to keep the majority of the $$ for themselves. I played this game with Amazon years back, building up an affiliate network. Just as it became profitable, they shut me down for a "copyright violation," but would not specify how and where I did so. My affiliate status, which I had worked a long time to build up, was completely cancelled and I had to start from scratch again. I did not do affiliate work again. Didn't want to connect my income and livelihood to something that fickle and biased.
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"We like our male heroes to be challenged and not simply heroic." Meanwhile, back in the real world, you men make sure you keep working yourselves to the grave to keep the taxes flowing in for all the entitlements, keep the electricity on, keep the water flowing, keep the toilets unstopped, keep the trucks and trains rolling to supply stores with all the useless garbage we consume using the entitlement money you paid into the government, keep plowing the snow, keep fighting the fires, keep writing the software, keep the websites and social media up 24/7, keep building and flying the planes that take instagram models to their Chads in Dubai and Bali, keep pumping the oil that fuels those planes, fuels the cars and even fuels the power plants that charge your green electric cars. Oh yeah, go die in our wars too. C'mon men. Know your place.
I haven't watched any of the tripe that Hollywood produces in over a decade.
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