Comments by "Jeremy" (@josiah5776) on "Ask An Older Man" channel.

  1. I'm living in SE Asia with a wonderful woman and family. DEI was the final straw for me.
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  2. I couldn't care less about women struggling to turn off their masculine side . That's a THEM problem. It's not ME problem. It's not my problem to fix. Most of them don't even want to fix it. I simply chose a feminine woman with whom to have a relationship.
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  3. A recent study I conducted found that I won't even speak to an American woman, much less date one.
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  4. Check out the masters degree on her! ... said no man ever.
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  5. Reconfirming that I made the correct choice to leave the USA. Despite the recent election results, things are not improving for men. The right doesn't care about men's rights either. Vote with your feet, gentlemen.
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  6. Freedom usually resides in uncomfortable truths. That's why most people are enslaved.
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  7. If you want to lose all your money in a hurry, either play the stock market or get married in a Western country. Also, never underestimate the government's ability to completely F up any business you create.
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  8. Amen. I am a single father raising a child alone too ... 24/7. Wouldn't trade it for anything.
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  9. This ^^^ 100% accurate! Context ... aka environment... dictates their actions
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  10. 💯
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  11. I love how fast Andrew thinks on his feet. It would take me hours to craft some of those responses. 8 women, zero solutions. Feminism forced us! Hahaha ... right. No, you eagerly embraced it.
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  12. I am married to a province girl. Best woman ever!
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  13. Something about nurses. I put mine through school too, paying for it and busting my butt both in the home and helping her with her course work. Both bachelors and NP masters. I even wrote her entire thesis ... research and all. A few months after she got her masters, she started banging a guy who just got out of prison and moved out. I divorced her the following year. She seemed content to just stay separated, but I wanted to end it.
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  14. 💯
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  15. Exactly... except women don't ever save money. They just spend it all as it comes in.
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  16. It's true. A woman pursing me aggressively smells of desperation and turns me off. Good, bad, indifferent ... that's just the way it is. Also true that a man approaching a woman would be met with extreme nastiness, and possibly doxing later.
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  17. The way Andrew can think on his feet and generate counter arguments within seconds is very impressive. I love the blank stare every feminist and feminist ally gets on their faces whenever they are asked, What do men get out of this?
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  18. Whoever pays for it, owns it. Wow! What a concept!!!
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  19. If women's goal is to "be happy," it doesn't seem to be working judging from how many of them there are crying on social media about how unhappy they are. I won't even consider speaking to a Western woman, much less enter into a relationship with one. I left the West to live someplace more traditional. I live near a resort and see Western women running around sometimes when we go there. Most of them are seriously overweight, tatted, pierced, loud and arrogant ... especially the American women. American men accompanying them are mostly the same, except quiet and beaten down. I'm married to a fit, feminine, friendly Asian woman. The angry glares from Western women are hilarious. In the US, these rabid feminists wouldn't hesitate to walk up and berate us ... but here they have to keep their mouths shut, because it is a traditional culture and the authorities don't tolerate it.
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  20. Western women = high risk + low value I'm living in SE Asia with a wonderful woman and family. DEI was the final straw for me.
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  21. Modern women conflate bad boy with strong man ... and they cannot tell the difference between the two.
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  22. Gentlemen, you can rent a free spirit for much less. She sure complains a lot for someone who repeatedly says she is having a great time, with great dates, and great men.
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  23. Men stay single because they are not willing to face themselves. The don't want to face parts of themselves that have been denied, repressed, and not taking accountability for the way the show up in relationships. No, it's because y'all are a bunch of soul-sucking harpies who won't give us a moment's peace.
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  24. Protect women? Help women? I won't even talk to Western women anymore.
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  25. I don't like any Western women, but I have to say the Black gentlemen have it the worst in the USA ... from what I've seen.
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  26. Throwing more money at women to have children won't work. The government already throws tons of money at them, often for not having children. Perhaps look first at the women who end millions of their own unborn. Over 60 million to date. Perhaps look at the 75-90% of women who initiate divorces. Perhaps look at all women rejecting the bottom 80% (or greater) of men. It's not men doing it. Have women take accountability for all that first before we give them even more cash and prizes.
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  27. Society didn't "cheat" women with feminism. Women actively and aggressively fought for it.
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  28.  @midragga  I will be near the end of my life by then. I'd like to spend my remaining years someplace without a gender war or woke insanity.
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  29. Pay heed younger men out there. If I'd known this principle in my youth, I would have played my cards quite differently.
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  30. I have yet to know a woman who saves money. They just spend it all as it comes in ... whether it comes from a husband, boyfriend, daddy, government, or they earn it themselves. Check out student loan repayment stats between women versus men.
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  31. @LiberPater777  I think you only have half the picture of God. The watered-down Christian version. Check out Tozer's The Knowledge of the Holy and then go through the Old Testament a few times. Earth was never meant to be a paradise. It's a proving ground.
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  32. The look on Paul's face while these women talk is worth the price of admission. 🤣
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  33. You know what I know now? I know to stay the hell away from American women. Far, far, far away. The people complaining about "red pill" are the same ones who are angry because their scam on men has been exposed.
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  34. Her description of "red pill" is completely wrong. It's a recognition that marriage won't work in the West anymore. I have yet to see a single red piller push traditional marriage. That's the tradcons. In fact, RP strongly advises against marriage. RP also does not advocate forcing women into traditional roles. They recognize that it's impossible.
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  35. Narcissism enhances creativity? Hahaha! Complete bull$h1t. Narcissists have one view point and one only. Theirs and theirs only. They won't consider anything else. In my years of research on narcissism and psychopathy, one of the most common phrases I've heard from both of those is, I already know everything I need to know about that. Millions of failed businesses, families and relationships destroyed by narcissist bear this out statistically.
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  36. She complains about not wanting to be in a dysfunctional relationship, yet has no problem having s3x with that dysfunctional man to produce a child, then complains about the results of that bad decision. I am a single father with sole custody of my child. Been raising her completely alone since she was in diapers. The mother is a deadbeat who abandoned us and doesn't pay child support. Authorities will not enforce child support because she is a woman. So yes, I do it all alone too. I screwed up and chose a bad partner, but you won't find me online whining about it, except for right now in response to her whining. I fought aggressively to get remote work so I could be with my child 24/7, even though it was a career limiting move. No outsourcing to daycare. I left the city and moved rural to cut my expenses. I don't go out to eat to save money. I do a lot of my own repairs and maintenance to save money. I don't go to starbucks every day for coffee, you guessed it, to save money. I buy generic brands instead of the popular stuff. I cook, clean, care for my child + work full time, do all the home repair/maintenance, and home school my child. Guess what, there are ZERO single parent programs available if you are a man, but I continue doing all this because it is the right thing to do. I signed up for it, so I do it. Meanwhile, I shut the 'f up and don't make tiktoks whining about how unfair and hard everything is. Yeah, that's right. The world is hard and unfair. You get used to that fast when you're a man. So ... boo-hoo-hoo ... wah-wah-wah ... make it work you strong, independent queen. You'll get no sympathy from me.
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  37. If Western women want to make themselves desirable to men, then why do they go out of their way to be as undesirable as possible? It's either a lie, or delusion. She says, "I just want to do what I want to do." Sounds exactly like my 6-year-old.
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  38.  @shia8377  You have character. Nobody can take that away from you. I know that's of little comfort sometimes and no material help at all ... but still, you can hold your head high. I used to get a lot of unsolicited advice on parenting from others, until I started telling them, "I have more advice than I can possibly use in three lifetimes. What I really need is material help. Are you up for cleaning my house and doing my laundry tomorrow?" Shuts them up real fast.
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  39. How I Emasculated My Ex- Husband Look a the big smile on her face as she outlines the steps to emasculate a man. She's explaining how she destroyed her marriage, but her body language states she enjoyed it and feels justified. American women in a nutshell, encouraged and supported by (the absence of) American culture.
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  40. Strategic and manipulative have NOTHING in common, much less being the same thing. That woman is gaslighting.
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  41. I'm an expat living in the Philippines, married to a Filipina. I also had an Army career for 27-years and commanded 155 men in combat in Iraq. Brian is 100% spot on. He outlines all the reasons why I left the US. I also run into the "patriot" shamers, most of whom ironically have never served their country. Most of whom are also too cowardly or lazy to expand beyond their borders to where they are treated better. US citizens are taxed worldwide. Therefore they are still citizens no matter where they live. Google "Father, Coder, Soldier, Spy" and "The Patriot". They wave the flag of patriotism, but expect others to carry that flag into the fray. I echo what men in the comments have said about the women to avoid here in the Philippines. I married a province girl and am very happy with her. You cannot turn a bar girl into a wife. Unfortunately, they are on the front line and the first ones expats run into if they aren't circumspect. Plus they are usually the first attention a Western man has gotten from a woman in years ... much less a woman who isn't obese and mean. Contrary to what the second guy said, you get noticed by Filipinas all the time. My wife runs interference a lot. It's nice living somewhere where you are the prize and the women know it. Yeah, Western feminists hate that and will try to shame you. Fortunately, I haven't seen a Western feminist in years 😆
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  42. If women think that leadership isn't just provision, then why do so many of them leave men who lose jobs and cannot provide at that moment? They could still be great leaders. Make is make sense. A woman who refuses to let a man lead her will never be a wife. Stop trying to make her one.
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  43. If a woman on Instagram can be a "model," then a guy working at Walmart can be a "businessman." Oh wow, a woman lecturing men on accountability. How cute.
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  44. The woman usually gets way more than 50% after all is said and done. More like 75%. Bride price would make more sense if the families raised traditional women, instead of entitled 304s. Most men I know don't mind taking care of a woman. What the mind is being financially gutted an destroyed by a woman who provided little or nothing to the relationship.
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  45. She is close to 50 and sounds like a 16-year-old. Go to a football game? Go to a bonfire? Still in high school? If I get sick, nothing happens. Hah! Welcome to the world of almost every man.
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  46. The pervasive depth of feminist programming of American men shocks me. I am very much anti-feminist, but I find myself spouting off things that I don't even realize are feminist propaganda. I didn't realize the extent until I moved out of the USA and saw how people outside the feminist culture do not think the same way. Women and children first is just one of many examples.
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  47. What makes these women think men want their uterus? They couldn't give it to me for free. Men should start charging top dollar for their sperm. But then, that opens the up to child support liability from woke judges and juries. 90% of the women I've known use their children as pawns and tools. Millions of them have ended their unborn. Who really cares about the children? Usually the father.
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  48. It would be even more equal if all the men receiving alimony had cheated on their wives.
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  49. ​ @healthiswealth6237 Western Christianity is a non-biblical clown world show.
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  50. American women would rather serve 40 years for a man in a corner office, than create a family. They will willingly end their nation in exchange for immediate gratification. There is a loose correlation between how important religion is to a culture and a higher fertility rate, but it doesn't tell the whole story. I'm not sure what the rest of it is. It's not all economic, as some of least wealthy nations have the highest fertility rates. It's not just women's equality either. The Philippines, where I live, has a higher equality index for women than the USA, yet the fertility rate here is above replacement, whereas the USA's isn't. However, there isn't Western feminism here in the Philippines. There is still culture and tradition + religion is very strong. There also aren't a ton of government subsidies for women, like in the West. The schools don't indoctrinate kids with feminist or liberal values. It seems to be a mix of all that, but then I'm looking a only one example. Could be different in other nations. I don't have an answer either, except maybe to glorify motherhood instead of being a 304. Cheating is shamed here in the Philippines, but motherhood is applauded, even single motherhood.
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