Comments by "Jeremy" (@josiah5776) on "Ask An Older Man"
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If women's goal is to "be happy," it doesn't seem to be working judging from how many of them there are crying on social media about how unhappy they are. I won't even consider speaking to a Western woman, much less enter into a relationship with one. I left the West to live someplace more traditional. I live near a resort and see Western women running around sometimes when we go there. Most of them are seriously overweight, tatted, pierced, loud and arrogant ... especially the American women. American men accompanying them are mostly the same, except quiet and beaten down. I'm married to a fit, feminine, friendly Asian woman. The angry glares from Western women are hilarious. In the US, these rabid feminists wouldn't hesitate to walk up and berate us ... but here they have to keep their mouths shut, because it is a traditional culture and the authorities don't tolerate it.
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She complains about not wanting to be in a dysfunctional relationship, yet has no problem having s3x with that dysfunctional man to produce a child, then complains about the results of that bad decision. I am a single father with sole custody of my child. Been raising her completely alone since she was in diapers. The mother is a deadbeat who abandoned us and doesn't pay child support. Authorities will not enforce child support because she is a woman. So yes, I do it all alone too. I screwed up and chose a bad partner, but you won't find me online whining about it, except for right now in response to her whining.
I fought aggressively to get remote work so I could be with my child 24/7, even though it was a career limiting move. No outsourcing to daycare. I left the city and moved rural to cut my expenses. I don't go out to eat to save money. I do a lot of my own repairs and maintenance to save money. I don't go to starbucks every day for coffee, you guessed it, to save money. I buy generic brands instead of the popular stuff. I cook, clean, care for my child + work full time, do all the home repair/maintenance, and home school my child. Guess what, there are ZERO single parent programs available if you are a man, but I continue doing all this because it is the right thing to do. I signed up for it, so I do it. Meanwhile, I shut the 'f up and don't make tiktoks whining about how unfair and hard everything is. Yeah, that's right. The world is hard and unfair. You get used to that fast when you're a man. So ... boo-hoo-hoo ... wah-wah-wah ... make it work you strong, independent queen. You'll get no sympathy from me.
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I'm an expat living in the Philippines, married to a Filipina. I also had an Army career for 27-years and commanded 155 men in combat in Iraq. Brian is 100% spot on. He outlines all the reasons why I left the US. I also run into the "patriot" shamers, most of whom ironically have never served their country. Most of whom are also too cowardly or lazy to expand beyond their borders to where they are treated better. US citizens are taxed worldwide. Therefore they are still citizens no matter where they live. Google "Father, Coder, Soldier, Spy" and "The Patriot". They wave the flag of patriotism, but expect others to carry that flag into the fray.
I echo what men in the comments have said about the women to avoid here in the Philippines. I married a province girl and am very happy with her. You cannot turn a bar girl into a wife. Unfortunately, they are on the front line and the first ones expats run into if they aren't circumspect. Plus they are usually the first attention a Western man has gotten from a woman in years ... much less a woman who isn't obese and mean. Contrary to what the second guy said, you get noticed by Filipinas all the time. My wife runs interference a lot. It's nice living somewhere where you are the prize and the women know it. Yeah, Western feminists hate that and will try to shame you. Fortunately, I haven't seen a Western feminist in years 😆
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American women would rather serve 40 years for a man in a corner office, than create a family. They will willingly end their nation in exchange for immediate gratification.
There is a loose correlation between how important religion is to a culture and a higher fertility rate, but it doesn't tell the whole story. I'm not sure what the rest of it is. It's not all economic, as some of least wealthy nations have the highest fertility rates. It's not just women's equality either. The Philippines, where I live, has a higher equality index for women than the USA, yet the fertility rate here is above replacement, whereas the USA's isn't. However, there isn't Western feminism here in the Philippines. There is still culture and tradition + religion is very strong. There also aren't a ton of government subsidies for women, like in the West. The schools don't indoctrinate kids with feminist or liberal values. It seems to be a mix of all that, but then I'm looking a only one example. Could be different in other nations. I don't have an answer either, except maybe to glorify motherhood instead of being a 304. Cheating is shamed here in the Philippines, but motherhood is applauded, even single motherhood.
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