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Comments by "Jeremy" (@josiah5776) on "How to RESIST becoming EMOTIONALLY ATTACHED: get a poker face" video.
If she's not around, don't think about her. Best piece of wisdom I have received in probably 5 years. I'm a mature man and still fall into this trap. It can really F up your day, or week if you start doing it.
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@marguskiis7711 I disagree. I don’t think it is stupid at all. Just because it may not work for you …
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@marguskiis7711 Not necessarily true. Balance is important, but hey, do whatever works for you.
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@LOUNGELIQ Simple truth 👍
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@PuertoRican-EL Truth.
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@marguskiis7711 You sound exactly like I did, many years ago. I don’t want to get married again and risk losing everything again when she wakes up one morning and decides she is “not happy” anymore… so works for me. Hope the same does not happen to you.
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@user-jg5xm8um8y I agree with what you say
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@level_ken5231 Very well said. It turns bad for the man when it becomes obsession.
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@yasserdaudo7364 Very well stated. Also, the perception is as powerful as the reality, to her anyway.
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@big6316 Sadly, what you say is correct. There are no guarantees.
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@big6316 I would say that sums it up pretty well. Nothing is ever perfect, but hey ... whatever works better for you is a win of some sort.
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@brettconnolly399 Excellent advice.
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@HelloImadamn I consciously shifted my thoughts to something else ... over and over and over again. It wasn't easy and it took a few days, but it worked.
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I would say it is NEVER good for a man to become emotionally invested. The moment you cannot walk away, you lose and will get played. Yeah, it sucks that a relationship with a woman is a power play, but that is pragmatic reality. If you are not in a position of power, you will be used. The person in the relationship who loves the most, gets the least.
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@psychacks Then I will be buying it for sure.
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