Hearted Youtube comments on Jonathan Noble Esquire (@jcnlaw) channel.

  1. If you can get to 50 without being married … why spoil a perfect record?
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  2. ​ @jcnlaw  I dunno man, if it was like, dark alley in dangerous neighborhood or drug den, I'd still probably care. 🤣
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  3. Sound advice ! 64 now divorced 16 years ago , still haven't recovered 😮
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  4. Avoid relationships with modern day women but if you do want to be with someone make sure she pursues you and take your time getting legally married.
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  5. I’m 75 & I couldn’t agree with you more. Something I’ve observed in life, is that many people don’t know how to entertain themselves. Get a hobby, find an interest. Either one of these will provide the opportunity to meet other interesting people. The intellectual pursuit stimulates the brain and provides hours of pleasurable activity. What you perceive as loneliness is perhaps your brain spinning its wheels without gaining any traction. Find something to do.
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  6. Don’t want to be his nurse or his maid! Thank you!
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  7. A couple of strats in the background...so you know he speaks the truth.
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  8. He's 100% correct. Never fall in "love" with someone who is dependent on you for their inner security and happiness. Recipe for disaster later on.
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  9. The moral of the story, no date = no divorce. Thanks champ!
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  10. Once you give her a child... you give her control over your finances... Think wisely....
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  11. I see a lot of men trying to keep the woman happy. I WAS one of them. Women seem to never be happy and it's a constant rollercoaster and I get sick on rollercoasters so I got off of it. Listen to John guys!
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  12. I thank the YouTube algorithm for recommending me this legend. You are 100% right. Thanks Jonathan!
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  13. marriage is for kids if you cant have a family there is no reason for marriage
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  14. I like how he keeps these videos short and efficient. Wish more YouTubers did this.
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  15.  NoMoMozzarella  Hi, I would never give advice on an issue I have not lived or gone through. I have 3 kid's all in their late 20s and I have been married 2 times. I am single now for 4 years and loving my new life. Good luck out there. Hope this clarifies my advice.
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  16. lawyer at the end of the day....
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  17. I am 55, never married, no kids, zero debt, own my house and will never let go of my happy, single life of freedom.
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  18. Fantastic video My five-year relationship ended a month ago. The decision to part ways with the love of my life is something that truly consumes me. Though it's all in vain, I've tried everything to get him back, and I can't fathom my life with anyone else. Even though I've made every effort to quit thinking about him, I can't help but miss him and can't stop thinking about him. Why I am stating this here is beyond me.
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  19. Turning 50 in January, never married, no kids…. And the way the world had become very happy about this. I don’t nock marriage, BUT…. Think 90% get married under wrong preconceived ideas.
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  20. I had a boyfriend in his 50’s that didn’t want to marry me. He just wanted to live together. I said no. Everyone should decide what the best course of action is for their happiness.
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  21. I got lucky. I drank the kool aid about supporting your wife in all things. Put her through college. She started making ridiculous money and had the affair etc. so I don’t have to pay alimony because she made more. Caught her hiding some small assets so I got to keep the house which skyrocketed 5 times what I paid for it in equity. And the kids child support was negligible. I know other guys sleeping on their moms couch at 55/60 paying mortgages and alimony for ex wives who’s live in lovers now have their feet up on their couch watching their tvs. Barely making enough to cover has to get to work.
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  22. I was married to a narcissist attracted to my money. I ended up losing 70% in my divorce. Getting married is easily the biggest mistake I have ever made in my life. Thank you Jonathan for all the information you provide. You are saving a whole generation of young men from ruining their life.
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  23. Family Court is a Multibillion dollar industry. Everyone making money off the working man. Don’t play into that game.
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  24. Well… I am 55 years old and got married for the first and last time at age 50. I was a bachelor most of my life and sincerely appreciate the so called “ball and chain.” Had I known marriage was this good, I would’ve gotten married 20 years ago. 😊
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  25. I've never understood restaurant dates... if I really like a guy, my stomach is in knots and food is the last thing on my mind. Also, putting a price on dates is so retro. Women who insist to be 'spent on' are not quality. You can do better!
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  26. You forgot to warn people about those states where cohabitation creates a presumption of marriage. 'Gubbmint' can just come in and decide FOR YOU that you're already married, even without any ceremony or license.
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  27. As a 27-year-old who's been in a relationship for 5 years out of which I've been married for 2 years, this man is golden. It sucks to see this new generation growing up whose only concept of romantic relationships is dating apps and transactional relationships. It's like they are so terrified of the idea that real romantic love exists that they try to artificially create it by these stupid rules from influencers, egotistic men and women give them the worst advice. There's only one rule: be genuinely interested in the other person.
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  28. "Marriage is an institution. Have you ever been in an institution?"
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  29. 1:30 This right here is the absolute truth. If a woman truly likes you, she will throw all of the "rules" she has set up for herself and move heaven and Earth to be with you. I've seen this plenty in my own life and in my female friends.
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  30. I married at 36 and lost her to cancer 26 years later. Before dying she told me to never remarry. Though I had never said it to her I knew a long time ago that I wouldn't.
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  31. This man is literally going to save people hundreds of thousands of dollars throughout the course of their lifetime equipped with this knowledge. I feel like Thanos with all 6 Infinity Stones.
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  32. “Be careful out there” best advice
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  33. Living single is honestly so much better than THEY want you to believe. Spending my winter in the sun. No debt. No BS. No drama.
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  34. Complaining about patriarchy yet receive state and federal aid through divorce/family court is crazy work.
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  35. He is OG
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  36. Hey I don't think divorce lawyers are in need of clients right now
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  37. Can't lose a dime if you don't get married. The solution is that simple! Jonathan, I tried to get divorced, but the court told me I had to get married first!
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  38. I'm 55, been married twice. I have been single for over 22 years and my life has never been better. I will never get married again.
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  39. Men need to learn these lessons on their own. No amount of warning or scolding is going to help a man who is blinded by lust.
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  40. Liked. You see this in women’s dating profiles too btw. They’re literally telegraphing how unhappy, entitled, and irrational they are. “Entertain me”, “I need someone to make me happy”, etc. Run.
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  41. It's hilarious that I just spotted an Instagram short from some woman saying not to go out with guys that want to do coffee because it means they have "coffee money", that is exactly who you don't want in your life
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  42. Nice video, I'm still struggling with the end of my 7-year relationship. My significant other, who I considered to be the love of my life, left me a month ago, and I can't seem to shake the constant thoughts of her. Despite my efforts to bring her back into my life, nothing has worked, and I feel frustrated and hopeless. I've tried to move on, but my heart still longs for her, and I don't see myself with anyone else. I apologize for sharing this here, but I just can't seem to stop missing her.
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  43. Having good boundaries weeds out dark triad people. They will discard you for another sucker that will enable their toxic behaviors. Self respect is literally a filter to keep bad behavior at arm’s length
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  44. Exactly. You don't have to marry them.
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  45. Never get married — never sign that completely biased contract.
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  46. Remarkably simple and practical advice. We're so inundated with bad ideas and wrong expectations for relationships, plus all sorts of women-hating drivel from "manosphere" corners of the internet. It's refreshing to just be told that if she's into you, she'll stick around even if you just hang out in the backyard and drink orange juice.
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  47. Its his fault for trying to pair off with someone whilst still married. Whatever your opinion on the fairness of divorce laws, the least you can do is honor your vows. If you can't, don't marry.
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  48. Great advice as always Jonathan. Unfortunately we have a simp epidemic in this country. American men are too thirsty. Just look at the success of OF.
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  49. Let me tell you, after my 20+year marriage ended I cannot fathom going into another relationship because having this amount of freedom and HAPPINESS is unbelievable. A woman will not make you happy - that comes from within. Travel, work out, treat yourself to the things you want, call your own shots in life. Be your own boss and for Pete's sake DON'T get married.
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  50. Married briefly twice. Supported two husbands. Haven’t even been for coffee with a guy in 19 years. (I always wonder why ,I’m average) Will never ever marry again. Will never live with a man again. I’d like some male friends (I have two now) who live nearby. All my life I loved being an introvert and being alone. Now I have more confidence and am less shy would like some more friendships to do things. I do everything alone. But it is what it is and I’ve been blessed to inherit enough money to buy a house and care for myself as I age. What we don’t have in one area of our lives we often receive in another. I’m very grateful.
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